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    Single guys in their 30s, what is your dating life like?

    Is it harder compared to your 20s? Easier?


    How did your fitness/career help or hinder your dating at all?
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    Not 30 but if i continue this trend of gym/financial pathway, it is going to get easier... I can just already tell.
    I keep pushing because I think I'm untouchable. But I'll learn the hard way because I'm only a popcorn fart away from a 30 day ban.
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    35 here.

    Infinitely better.

    For some strange reason, if you're 25-29 and contact 18-19-20 year old girls, you're creepy and weird, but if you're 30+ they are all drawn to you.

    Older women take you seriously and nix the B.S.

    Its easier to acquire cooter straight away without any of the incessant dating gimmicks, dinners, ruses and the like due to your experience.
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    Not a guy but over 30.
    Far better than my twenties.
    I don't have problems, I have situations.
    Situations, you can get out of!

    We all know the grass is green. We just don’t consider what’s been left in the middle of it.

    There will always be imperfections. There will always be a big splodge of brown chit creating disarray in that beautiful emerald sea of grass.
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    im married but i have a friend that slays more and better women now than when he was making more money and looked younger in his 20s.. i don't know if you heard of "Bounce" in Manhattan. Benny Silman owns it.. but he slayed one of the waitresses there.. his slays are getting better and better.. he is a 5'10 well dressed colombian guy...
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    I only dated for a brief time period in my 30s. My wife and I split up for about 8 weeks, so I dated a bit then to help keep my mind off the split up. I found it pretty easy. When I'd go to concerts with friends, I'd have multiple women give me their numbers so we could get together some time. I joined a few dating sites. I'd get about 3-8 emails a day on them from women (ranging from 3s to 8s). I had women in my office that caught word I was going through a divorce and they would talk to some people in my department and try to setup something where we could all get a drink after work and they could try to get to know me better. All the dates went well and they would always want to go back on second dates.

    In my 20s, it seemed like I had to do a lot more work to get dates or keep their interest. I think it's mostly because I aged pretty well and a lot of people my age let themselves go.

    I have the same body type in my 30s as I did in my 20s. Not jacked by any means, but a good defined chest/back/arms/legs that most females around my age tend to like. I work in IT. So career isn't too exciting, but pays pretty well. I don't know if that played a role in my short, but successful dating life.
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    Seems like women see me more as a target to settle down with. That's not necessarily a bad thing but the stakes are higher so you can really hurt someone if you are not on the same page lol.

    Seems like I can date 21 to 35 with no social repercussions.

    Some women still play games but you really are in a position where you don't have to tolerate it unless you're in a scarcity mentality.
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    Originally Posted by sword_ View Post
    Seems like women see me more as a target to settle down with. That's not necessarily a bad thing but the stakes are higher so you can really hurt someone if you are not on the same page lol.

    Seems like I can date 21 to 35 with no social repercussions.

    Some women still play games but you really are in a position where you don't have to tolerate it unless you're in a scarcity mentality.
    this.

    There are two girls who want to settle down w me, and then a 3rd who I like a lot but she won't let it get srs because I have a son. Kind of annoying but I get it. she's 28. at the same time, I have all the free time in the world so my dadness wouldn't interfere... and the other ones don't mind it... I wish I liked them more, but I guess we tend to like what we can't have.

    Tinder makes random fux simple tho, if that's what you really want to kno
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    More confidence and more secure with yourself. Big advantage at this age if you look good. Lots of people my age are overweight.
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    Its easy mode. Just lots of baggage to consider. Also with plenty of options, it makes settling very tough.
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    Originally Posted by ragingcrayon View Post
    this.

    There are two girls who want to settle down w me, and then a 3rd who I like a lot but she won't let it get srs because I have a son. Kind of annoying but I get it. she's 28. at the same time, I have all the free time in the world so my dadness wouldn't interfere... and the other ones don't mind it... I wish I liked them more, but I guess we tend to like what we can't have.

    Tinder makes random fux simple tho, if that's what you really want to kno
    lol what's your age range on Tinder

    Yeah man I just started a job that is going to give me six figure income. Bet girls will be attacking me now :-/
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    lol what's your age range on Tinder

    Yeah man I just started a job that is going to give me six figure income. Bet girls will be attacking me now :-/
    Brah just show them your rep.
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    Originally Posted by FitnessBlue View Post
    Its easy mode. Just lots of baggage to consider. Also with plenty of options, it makes settling very tough.
    Yeah this, all of this...

    Just keep lifting! If you make it into your mid-30s and stay in great shape and do decently financially, it gets exponentially easier with age.
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    lol what's your age range on Tinder

    Yeah man I just started a job that is going to give me six figure income. Bet girls will be attacking me now :-/
    21-29

    Sometimes I'll do 18-20 or 29-35 to see what's hood... but typically I like me a 25 y/o
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    Dating life in the 30's is easy mode.

    If I go to a decent sized city, I can get 10 numbers in a single day. Right now I'm in a college town (waiting to go overseas again) and I don't fit the frat-boy, skinny, flat brimmed hat, drug dealer look so I don't get as much play. In fact, I've been passed over by women for dudes who are like 3/10's but they have that "I live on a couch and don't give a fck" thing going so I guess that's cool.

    The good thing about being in your 30's is that you basically have your choice of 18-40+ in terms of dating so it's finally a point where you get to pick what you want instead of being relegated to an "option" instead of a viable person to date. Plus, when you're in your 30's, assuming you haven't just worked the entire time since you were 18, you have more interesting life experiences to share and women are drawn to that. You can attract the boring ones who think you're interesting as well as the interesting ones who are also looking for something interesting. It's a good thing.

    The only downside is if you want to date women your own age, chances are they have 5 kids and more baggage than an airline.
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    do you guys in your 30s know when you wanna have kids, or are you just gonna let it happen? Id want kids before i hit 40, but don't want to risk waiting too long
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    do you guys in your 30s know when you wanna have kids, or are you just gonna let it happen? Id want kids before i hit 40, but don't want to risk waiting too long
    Been there already.
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    Hard to believe i posted in this thread when i was 28.

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    Originally Posted by voltio8836 View Post
    Is it harder compared to your 20s? Easier?


    How did your fitness/career help or hinder your dating at all?
    Male value generally hits its peak in your mid to late 30s. On average, it's when you'll have the most amount of muscle mass, wealth, maturity, responsibility, leadership skills, confidence, competence, and masculine features (jawline, shoulder width, etc) while at the same time retaining your youth. And most of the factors will not stop growing for many decades after.

    Women, on the other hand, who are primarily sought after for looks, motherly qualities, and purity, peak around 22-24 and go into decline quickly afterwards, going into panic mode around 30 and the point of no return at about 35-37.

    Dating gets easier as you grow up men. Don't get married before your 30s and don't date older women. Despite what you may think at the time, you're getting screwed out of your own potential longterm.

    Ladies....well if you're on the misc chances are you're in the post peak categories I've mentioned, which is prob why you're trying to get into shape and seek male attention online in the first place. Oh whale.

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    im 27 and i cant fukin wait until i hit my 30's.

    dating has gotten much easier as ive gotten older. i think its really my perspective and my peers looking like chit
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    Originally Posted by Anbessa View Post
    Male value generally hits its peak in your mid to late 30s. On average, it's when you'll have the most amount of muscle mass, wealth, maturity, responsibility, leadership skills, confidence, competence, and masculine features (jawline, shoulder width, etc) while at the same time retaining your youth. And most of the factors will not stop growing for many decades after.

    Women, on the other hand, who are primarily sought after for looks, motherly qualities, and purity, peak around 22-24 and go into decline quickly afterwards, going into panic mode around 30 and the point of no return at about 35-37.

    Dating gets easier as you grow up men. Don't get married before your 30s and don't date older women. Despite what you may think at the time, you're getting screwed out of your own potential longterm.

    Ladies....well if you're on the misc chances are you're in the post peak categories I've mentioned, which is prob why you're trying to get into shape and seek male attention online in the first place. Oh whale.

    inb4 accused of misogyny and generalizing lolol
    tfw mid 30s and have none of that
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    Mid 30โ€™s - Better looking, more confident and less self conscious, established career/skills, finances in order. What do you think?

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    Started my 30's. I wouldn't say it's easier or more difficult for me. Maybe a bit easier but only because I cleaned up my act the last few years and it's opening more doors for me, so nothing related to age.

    One thing I will say is from my experience the dating pool is relatively just as awful, but the women are awful for a different reason. In my 20s they were all stupid and immature, in my 30s a lot of women are on their biological clock so they're... well, still stupid and immature.
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    Originally Posted by DolphinPilot View Post
    Started my 30's. I wouldn't say it's easier or more difficult for me. Maybe a bit easier but only because I cleaned up my act the last few years and it's opening more doors for me, so nothing related to age.

    One thing I will say is from my experience the dating pool is relatively just as awful, but the women are awful for a different reason. In my 20s they were all stupid and immature, in my 30s a lot of women are on their biological clock so they're... well, still stupid and immature.
    I didnโ€™t really date during my 20โ€™s, but I did go on a date with a 21y/o when I was 30 and later knew some 22 y/oโ€™s and impossible - they are too immature.

    Thatโ€™s why I donโ€™t get how the older dude on the other thread has anything at all in common with a 19yo. You can see the type of tedious immature chit he has to deal with. Then again he seems pretty immature himself.
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    Originally Posted by Luc1fer View Post
    I didnโ€™t really date during my 20โ€™s, but I did go on a date with a 21y/o when I was 30 and later knew some 22 y/oโ€™s and impossible - they are too immature.

    Thatโ€™s why I donโ€™t get how the older dude on the other thread has anything at all in common with a 19yo. You can see the type of tedious immature chit he has to deal with. Then again he seems pretty immature himself.
    I recently had to cut things off with some 23 year old (yeah I was surprised too) because she just wasn't mature enough for something serious. Really fking pretty girl, might have been LTR material except for the fact she was a fan of double standards that only benefited her. Of course she wasn't the only one but they almost always aren't wise enough to know wtf to do in a relationship. Don't know proper etiquette.

    Women I've met in my 30s all seem to be in a rush to land a guy even if she and I have very little in common and have mismatched personalities. They don't seem too comfortable with themselves, which I think is immature in itself.
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