First of all I'm trying to word this in a way where it doesn't sound like I'm desperate for a girl because I am not by any means. But my question is am I setting myself up for failure if I want to improve myself to get the kind of girl I want. For example the same way you lift in order to get your dream body is the same reason I improve myself to get my "dream girlfriend" And I'm not talking about a superficial girl I'm talking about improving myself to get a with a girl who is attractive and who has a good personality. I hope this makes sense on paper as much as it does in my head. Also if im approaching this with the wrong mindset tell me and I'll change it
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11-20-2015, 02:33 PM #1
Is it bad to improve yourself for a girl
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11-20-2015, 02:51 PM #10
Everything you do to "improve yourself" is a subconscious effort to attract the opposite sex
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=169615213
SrsWe don't negotiate with feminists.
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11-20-2015, 03:05 PM #14
If he is improving himself to get girls he is still improving himself for his own selfish reasons. Being with a girl feels good and rewarding and so he improves himself so that he can feel that way. Humans only care about themselves and anything they do is because they can gain something out of it.
btw OP : "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."
Understand and apply this to improving yourself
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11-20-2015, 03:14 PM #17
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So correct me if I'm wrong but the reason we do things is not to have sex but to make us feel good about ourselves and we're just using sex to fill an emptiness we have inside of us. And what your saying is if you want that emptiness inside of us to be fulfilled we must repeadly do things that improve who we are so we can eventually feel good about ourselves without the need for sex?
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11-20-2015, 03:20 PM #21
Wanting to reproduce (have sex) is instinctual and this instinct will use your brain in every possible way to make you get your dink wet.
You will think of things like self improvement because of it. When you do what your instinct tells you it feels rewarding and good. When you go against it you feel bad (for example when you saw a girl you wanted to approach and have sex with but couldn't do it because of fear... then it left you feeling miserable)
What I meant by the quote is that habit is the most powerful tool in self improvement.
Good luck
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