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    Experience with a single mom?

    I'm just looking for advice/stories of anyone dating a single mom. Broke up with my gf not long ago, not really looking for a relationship but there is this one girl I've admired who I've been friends with for awhile now and she is a single mom to a kid around 4-5. I've been around both of them and the kid can be a terror sometimes, she says it's because the kid is trying to impress me. I'm not sure if it's due to not having a dad around but in small doses he's fine. Granted I don't have much experience in hanging with kids.


    Went as a big group to an amusement park and he just kept staring at me before finally his mom told me had had something to ask me. He asked if he could get on my shoulders and walk him and it kinda hit me in the feels.

    The mom used to be a big party animal when she was 15-19 then got preg after a one night stand. Now 24. Went back to school, will graduate in the spring and be a nurse, has a really good gig looking after a couple rich elderly ladies and makes good money doing it. She has admitted to having a crush on me but her schedule between work and school and the kid is obviously time consuming.

    Stories/advice on how to proceed with a single mom will be repped
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    After dating one, will never do again. She got prego from a ONS brah, that should tell you enough about her decision making capability.

    Scratch yes I would again, but would be extremely weary, they would have to have a great job, child from either marriage or very srs relationship and have there life very well together.
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    You'll never be priority, and eventually you'll be in a relationship with 2 people once you start interacting with her kid. I wouldn't do it again.
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    -Kid will always come first

    -Hard to schedule time together/dates due to kid and work schedule

    -Possible crazy/deadbeat dad in the picture

    -If you're actually going to be pursuing a relationship with her you are essentially going to be the father figure in the kids life, depending on the situation with baby daddy
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    Married one.

    Ask me anything.

    2 kids are hers, knocked her up after a year living together. have beautiful baby boy now who is 9 months old.

    Love her kids, love my kid, love her.

    Don't get tied up in the Misc's view of single women. A lot of them are dumb but a lot of no kid women are dumb as well.
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    Originally Posted by nedrudrelyt01 View Post
    Married one.

    Ask me anything.

    2 kids are hers, knocked her up after a year living together. have beautiful baby boy now who is 9 months old.

    Love her kids, love my kid, love her.

    Don't get tied up in the Misc's view of single women. A lot of them are dumb but a lot of no kid women are dumb as well.
    Couple ?'s:

    Was it hard getting used to the kid and them getting used to you?

    In your experience was the single mom more loyal for whatever reason?
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    Originally Posted by Jaydawg08 View Post
    Couple ?'s:

    Was it hard getting used to the kid and them getting used to you?

    In your experience was the single mom more loyal for whatever reason?
    I have always loved kids so no it was pretty natural. I had no kids at all so it was a bit of an adjustment for me mentally. ( are you sure this is what you want, are the kids worth it, should i just cut bait now)

    Yes, extremely loyal, she would never leave me because Im too good for her srs.

    Be warry of this though: She MAY try to talk to you like she talks to her kid. She may talk to you like a parent. This was kind of new to me and struck me very hard. "who the fukk is this bish trying to tell me to pick up my damn clothes, do the dishes, clean the house, don't go out we have to go to the grocery store". We have almost broken up a couple times because of her trying to control me like a kid.

    They tend to be VERY family oriented and homebodies because of the kids. as a very independent guy i had to battle that for a little while.

    Be wary when you fall in love with the kids. if you do you are in for a tough ****ing breakup.
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    Originally Posted by nedrudrelyt01 View Post
    I have always loved kids so no it was pretty natural. I had no kids at all so it was a bit of an adjustment for me mentally. ( are you sure this is what you want, are the kids worth it, should i just cut bait now)

    Yes, extremely loyal, she would never leave me because Im too good for her srs.

    Be warry of this though: She MAY try to talk to you like she talks to her kid. She may talk to you like a parent. This was kind of new to me and struck me very hard. "who the fukk is this bish trying to tell me to pick up my damn clothes, do the dishes, clean the house, don't go out we have to go to the grocery store". We have almost broken up a couple times because of her trying to control me like a kid.

    They tend to be VERY family oriented and homebodies because of the kids. as a very independent guy i had to battle that for a little while.

    Be wary when you fall in love with the kids. if you do you are in for a tough ****ing breakup.
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    Originally Posted by Jaydawg08 View Post
    Will rep you later. on recharge
    thanks brah any other questions?
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    coming from a son of a single mom who remarried


    takes a real alpha to raise another man's kid, certainly not easy to raise but i bet hes happy as fuk with where im at now
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    Originally Posted by nedrudrelyt01 View Post
    thanks brah any other questions?
    How did your friends and family react to you dating her? Not that it mattered later since you married her, but initially did they say it was a mistake or anything like that.
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    Originally Posted by Jaydawg08 View Post
    How did your friends and family react to you dating her? Not that it mattered later since you married her, but initially did they say it was a mistake or anything like that.
    Nope not at all.

    My dad just had some advice which was: If you guys go the distance just remember they are HER kids, you will NEVER feel the way you do about her kids as you do about your own. And thats alright, but be aware that they will act differently and you wont have the same connection.

    The whole "i'm not paying for some other guys kids" is ****ing silly srs. Just be sure of the following:

    She has a good job (mine makes same as me)
    Ex is cool and they dont have any drama whatsoever
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    My second girlfriend was single mom, knew her from way back. She's an absolute mess, I dodged a major bullet choosing to break up with her.

    Never thought I would willingly break up with a girl, but it was worth it. Would not advise dating single moms/10.
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    If you've already been around her kid and you start to date it could get/feel serious really fast but it sounds like you are aware of that.

    Is the dad in the picture at all? Does her family help her out with the kid?
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    Originally Posted by nedrudrelyt01 View Post
    Be wary when you fall in love with the kids. if you do you are in for a tough ****ing breakup.
    This - a large part of the relationship will be how well you get along with the kid.

    You'll have to make an effort and if they don't like you it often means a red flag for mom.
    Chances are if the real dads not around they'll bond to you pretty fast - the younger the easier the process.

    But if things go south with mom, you'll have to leave the kid behind too.

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    Smash and run.

    Usually a lot of baggage like crazy ex boyfriends and retarded kids screaming and crying all the time.

    Just don't become attached.
    And watch out for getting her preggo... she might trick you into it.
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    Its gross to me, especially if I have to physically see the kid in person myself or the thought of actually raising the kid.. (lmao)

    dating situation wouldnt be genuine cuz the kid would ruin things as well.

    sex buddy only is how I look at it.

    I feel bad because some girls just get unlucky and get pregnant and they arent really bad or trashy ppl. Just got horny one night and things happened
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    [This is my story. It's not to label all single moms, but it does reflect how I see most of them]

    Was in the military and lost my V card to this sloot that was in the same branch. She spent most of training with one guy. The minute he graduated they tried to LDR. Clearly that didn't work for a 19 year old female surrounded by dudes. She cheated and they moved on.

    We graduate and we get stationed together. At the time I didn't know she went on a phucking spree with like every dude in my class. Her count, she told me was like 19 lol most in high school. Anyways, I was a virgin and lost my v card to her and got sprung. She ended up getting pregnant and started dating this other guy that graduated shortly after us. They ended up getting married and having a kid. He found out she banged me, a black dude, and cheated on her lol. They divorced and we started seeing each other again.

    To end this story, I was blind and still sprung. I then found out she was talking to like four other guys at the time and when I called her out, she defaulted to that "I'm a single mom and I'm trying to find a guy right for my kid". She ended up marrying her supervisor.

    She was a huge sloot that had insecurities. In her older 20s she was constantly trying to get guys to chase her like when she was 19.

    Now she's still married, but severly phucked in the head. She had another kid with the dude, but the meds she was taking screwed up her body or something. So glad I avoided that train wreck.

    I've gone out with single moms before, but they came off way too desperate. Willing to do or say anything just to get a guy to stick around.

    Here's the thing, once a single mother gets her confidence up, she tries to resort back to her old ways when she was single with no kids. They will cheat if they get a chance and will use that kid as an excuse.
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    had single mom fwb

    I was staying in a 3 bedroom house. Not a mansion or anything but a lot bigger than her place.

    She was saying chit like "wow you live in this whole place by yourself" looking at my spare bedrooms and chit.

    had to cut her off before she got too many ideas.
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    Thread is five years old lmao

    In for updates from op on what happened.
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    There's nothing wrong with dating single mom's, at my age that's all there is.

    The problem you will want to avoid is if the kid is completely out of control.

    The last one I dated, her 8yr old never had a dad in his life and completely ran over his mom. Ie: name calling and hitting if he didnt get his way.

    It got to the point where i couldnt have my kid around hers due to behavior and eventually ended the relationship.

    Kinda funny thing i noticed is that women who cant control their dogs, cant control their kids either. SRS
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    Nah I'd rather die tbh.

    OP definitely wifed up a single mom and uses the misc as an escape mechanism to get away from her and the tyrant kid.
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    There are some okay single moms out there; however there are definitely things to consider.

    One of the single moms I dated briefly had a lot of serious drama with her baby daddy and also her recent ex boyfriend. Additionally, she did not have time for me and would regularly take days to respond to texts which is unacceptable to me. She also seemed very jaded towards men in general and had trust issues. Also, at the time I was not ready to be someone's father and when the kid is young like hers was (5) you do basically become a step father. All of these things made me not want to enter into an actual relationship with her.
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    Originally Posted by Jaydawg08 View Post
    I'm just looking for advice/stories of anyone dating a single mom. Broke up with my gf not long ago, not really looking for a relationship but there is this one girl I've admired who I've been friends with for awhile now and she is a single mom to a kid around 4-5. I've been around both of them and the kid can be a terror sometimes, she says it's because the kid is trying to impress me. I'm not sure if it's due to not having a dad around but in small doses he's fine. Granted I don't have much experience in hanging with kids.


    Went as a big group to an amusement park and he just kept staring at me before finally his mom told me had had something to ask me. He asked if he could get on my shoulders and walk him and it kinda hit me in the feels.

    The mom used to be a big party animal when she was 15-19 then got preg after a one night stand. Now 24. Went back to school, will graduate in the spring and be a nurse, has a really good gig looking after a couple rich elderly ladies and makes good money doing it. She has admitted to having a crush on me but her schedule between work and school and the kid is obviously time consuming.

    Stories/advice on how to proceed with a single mom will be repped
    Pretty much all I’ve dated. It’s not as bad as you think. They usually are very trustworthy too. A single mom will always cook and go out of her way for you and usually the kids will love you for life. I work all day and most fathers these days don’t do crap for their kids. It’s not bad teaching them stuff or going to play putt putt or sonnethibg. Just think of the positives you can get
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