RH Chat 27: Almost every hand you shake has had my penis in it!

[Legend1617]

That'd be some pretty long distance/pointless stalking, lol.

true I actually wanted to be with a girl from Doncaster once. I was daydreaming about saving up and moving there lol. I was dumb af then though.


If I remember happys pic correctly she kind of reminded me of the dirty blonde chick with special powers off Babylon A.D with vin diesel. I like her/admire her + I can relate with seizures. Feels good to drive one sense of freedom I never felt until a year ago.

[happywithit]

Kayak.com is a site where you can book cheap flights/hotels.. lol.

Ah gotcha. Get them on misleading advertising laws.
But yes. You would like this part of the world. Popular with tourists.

I like her/admire her + I can relate with seizures. Feels good to drive one sense of freedom I never felt until a year ago.

Is the film about seizures, or do you mean me?
If you mean me, I'm really glad that I help you. I absolutely hate seeing you (well more like reading) feel down, because I can completely relate, and it does take me back to a devastating time in my life that I think few people (even family, no matter how hard they try) can ever understand. But sometimes I feel very hopeless when I try to say the right thing. So if that was about me, then I'm really glad I am helping to a certain degree.
If it's the film that's about seizures....... I just gotta see it, because I just don't beleef anyone can do seizures like a pro.

[Legend1617]

Ah gotcha. Get them on misleading advertising laws.
But yes. You would like this part of the world. Popular with tourists.


Is the film about seizures, or do you mean me?
If you mean me, I'm really glad that I help you. I absolutely hate seeing you (well more like reading) feel down, because I can completely relate, and it does take me back to a devastating time in my life that I think few people (even family, no matter how hard they try) can ever understand. But sometimes I feel very hopeless when I try to say the right thing. So if that was about me, then I'm really glad I am helping to a certain degree.
If it's the film that's about seizures....... I just gotta see it, because I just don't beleef anyone can do seizures like a pro.

You not the film. You remind me of the girl off that movie. Babylon A.D is an action movie not a movie about seizures haha. One of the reasons I continue to push myself is because of what you have accomplished and overcame with your condition. You have a kid to which is awesome! I read a lot of stories that are inspiring but for some reason even though I do not know every detail like a book you stick out. I am glad your doing better!


The girl off Babylon.




I remember seeing a side pic of you sitting down in a plane or something. Beautiful though no doubt

[IronCharles]

Didn't happy have a profile pic at one point? I remember her being...what's the polar opposite of ugly again? Oh yeah, gorgeous. Someone worth getting out of bed and having a cup of (insert hot beverage of choice here) for.

I may have seen a photo or two. I can confirm!

[Megalomaniacal]

Happy Back to the Future Day

Saw a reunion video of MJ Fox and Chris Lloyd.....that Parkinson's really sucks. Just him trying to put on self lacing shoes was almost a catastrophe


Hope everyone is staying fit

[AceRok]

3rd day of eating clean on a high protein/less carbs. I feel positive that I can build momentum and get into a good rhythm to hit my physique goals

[FU3L]

3rd day of eating clean on a high protein/less carbs. I feel positive that I can build momentum and get into a good rhythm to hit my physique goals

I *almost* feel bad for reading this while drinking rum and eating pizza.

almost..

[happywithit]

I *almost* feel bad for reading this while drinking rum and eating pizza.

almost..

Mmmm. I am reading this as I stuff my face with a full English breakfast in a cafe.

The man opposite is making me feel better though as he has a deep and meaningful conversation and then a good joke with. ...



someone who isn't there. :/

[Mr Beer]

Went out for Korean BBQ last night and ate unfeasible quantities of meat washed down with way too much soju. My guts and head were sad today.

[happywithit]

Mr Beer...
would it be right to assume there was an explosive mess?

[AdamL00001]

So yesterday I had to bail out my buddy that got stuck in Indianapolis when his girl's car got broken into and stole his return bus ticket (as well as his tablet and her old cell phone which was visibly sitting in her seat). Not that I mind, but the theft happened on Sunday and it took him a full three days and some beating around the bush to finally ask for help getting home.

There's two lessons to take from this: 1) I won't try to use Western Union online, as they denied my debit card for no reason, and their password reset system doesn't actually work. "Here's a new password that'll expire in 30 minutes that we sent to your e-mail address." 50 minutes later, I get the e-mail. By that time I remembered my old password. 2) shop for groceries to avoid comfort food decisions after a mildly irritating day. I ate a full McDonald's meal for the first time in a while since I started my new meal plan 7 weeks ago. Proooooobably should've just eaten some tuna or something, but man was it delicious. Still on track to look half-decent by my 30th birthday in two months.

[Megalomaniacal]

Went out for Korean BBQ last night and ate unfeasible quantities of meat washed down with way too much soju. My guts and head were sad today.

we had a bunch of Koreans get arrested yesterday for operating a happy ending massage parlor chain

their head and guts were sad too I bet

[IH8RICE]

we had a bunch of Koreans get arrested yesterday for operating a happy ending massage parlor chain

their head and guts were sad too I bet

lol'd

[happywithit]

I won't try to use Western Union online, as they denied my debit card for no reason, and their password reset system doesn't actually work. "Here's a new password that'll expire in 30 minutes that we sent to your e-mail address." 50 minutes later, I get the e-mail. By that time I remembered my old password.

I feel your pain. I think they just take the piss and mark you as 'LOSER' on the system, because all too often when I get a reset email then remember my old password and punch it in, I get a response which is pretty much saying
'Nu-uh-uh. Now you have to think up a new password, and this time.......

It has to have two digits, an uppercase and lowercase letter and a symbol in there.......

Try and remember that one if you can Dumb azz.'
Which of course I never do.

[happywithit]

Oh wow, it's amazing what you can and can't cope with when you are split up from your child's other parent.

Ex getting married, yeah fine, happy to see you leave, good riddance.
Parents Evening, Sooo hard.

Teachers tells us our son (whom I work very hard with) is exceeding in school followed by lots of compliments. Ex takes the credit by telling her how he and his step mum have taught him everything he knows. Absolutely no acknowledgement of my efforts at all.

My god I was boiling as he chatted about how his wife is the most amazing mother our son could wish for how she has taught our son everything he knows.
Got another 2 of these this year. He missed all of the previous until I told him he had to step up to the mark, that all the other dads want to hear about their kids.
I didn't expect parents evening to be so hard. I'm so gutted
But I'm so pleased my son is doing amazing. that takes the edge off.

[AJ7123]

Oh wow, it's amazing what you can and can't cope with when you are split up from your child's other parent.

Ex getting married, yeah fine, happy to see you leave, good riddance.
Parents Evening, Sooo hard.

Teachers tells us our son (whom I work very hard with) is exceeding in school followed by lots of compliments. Ex takes the credit by telling her how he and his step mum have taught him everything he knows. Absolutely no acknowledgement of my efforts at all.

My god I was boiling as he chatted about how his wife is the most amazing mother our son could wish for how she has taught our son everything he knows.
Got another 2 of these this year. He missed all of the previous until I told him he had to step up to the mark, that all the other dads want to hear about their kids.
I didn't expect parents evening to be so hard. I'm so gutted
But I'm so pleased my son is doing amazing. that takes the edge off.

This is exactly why I'm terrified of divorce. Seems like torture to have to share your kids w another woman.

I don't care if I have to wait until I'm 40 to get married I just never wanna get divorced or my kids to have step parents.

[bitty_bish]

Oh wow, it's amazing what you can and can't cope with when you are split up from your child's other parent.

I'm not sure who I'm annoyed with more, your baby's Daddy for being so insensitive, or you for not sticking up for yourself.

Srsly, tho.

[FU3L]

Oh wow, it's amazing what you can and can't cope with when you are split up from your child's other parent.

Ex getting married, yeah fine, happy to see you leave, good riddance.
Parents Evening, Sooo hard.

Teachers tells us our son (whom I work very hard with) is exceeding in school followed by lots of compliments. Ex takes the credit by telling her how he and his step mum have taught him everything he knows. Absolutely no acknowledgement of my efforts at all.

My god I was boiling as he chatted about how his wife is the most amazing mother our son could wish for how she has taught our son everything he knows.
Got another 2 of these this year. He missed all of the previous until I told him he had to step up to the mark, that all the other dads want to hear about their kids.
I didn't expect parents evening to be so hard. I'm so gutted
But I'm so pleased my son is doing amazing. that takes the edge off.

That's when you politely take him aside after the meeting and tell him he's a fukwad for acting like he's the only one parenting your child. Don't let him discredit you like that, especially in front of your kid's teacher!

[happywithit]

This is exactly why I'm terrified of divorce. Seems like torture to have to share your kids w another woman.

I don't care if I have to wait until I'm 40 to get married I just never wanna get divorced or my kids to have step parents.

I'm not sure who I'm annoyed with more, your baby's Daddy for being so insensitive, or you for not sticking up for yourself.

Srsly, tho.

That's when you politely take him aside after the meeting and tell him he's a fukwad for acting like he's the only one parenting your child. Don't let him discredit you like that, especially in front of your kid's teacher!

OMG I'm so angry with myself. I just sat in disbelief.
The teacher kept checking on me as I was welling up.
I was seriously welling up in there.
'Oh well MY son is doing well because his mummy.... my wife does all this and that and this with him.'
He spoke about his wife constantly through the whole meeting.
Wasn't about his fukking wife. Was about our son!
At least he is doing well and is really happy.

And AJ, I'm the youngest mum with a child in that class. The rest are mid to late forties....... and married.

[happywithit]

I sent this...
'Hi, I just wanted to say, I'm really glad you are happy and understandably proud of your wife and I too am pleased she challenges (son) the way you say she does, but let's not focus our time (when we get so little) and attention on her when the meeting is about (son). We all help (son) and lets not make his achievements about our efforts. He is the one who has put the effort and determination in and it is wrong for any of us to take the credit. This is down to him and his positive attitude and it is he who deserves our proud words.
If you want to discuss how your wife does things I will gladly listen, but lets discuss it at appropriate times outside parent-teacher meetings. I would also prefer you not to refer to her as his mummy when this isn't the case. Thanks.'

This whole thing has really got to me more than I ever expected.

I doubt I will get a positive response but I just hope he gets it.

[TheJizzler]

Don't worry

If he was some emotionally-withdrawn husk when he was with you, and now he's obsequiously sucking up to newwife like that, she'll probably wind up losing interest, splitting and taking half his stuff. At the very least, she'll put him on no-sex and make him sleep in another room for the rest of his life



Next time feel free to call him out on it, don't be above doing it in front of the teacher. Maybe ask him why supermom didn't encourage Dad to go to a single parent teacher night, or how she fits so much learning into one night per week?

[Mr Beer]

Mr Beer...
would it be right to assume there was an explosive mess?

LOL, not really, just pain. These days my mouth is used to chilli but for some reason my arse never toughened up the same way.

[Mr Beer]

I didn't expect parents evening to be so hard. I'm so gutted

I don't know how vindictive your ex- is, but is it possible he was pissed off about you making him step up to his responsibilities, so he decided to talk up wonder woman to get back at you?

[Megalomaniacal]

What I am still confused about is why you both felt the need to sit in the parent teacher meeting. One of you could easily have done it and reported back to the other. Instead of putting yourselves in an awkward situation like that.

[happywithit]

I don't know how vindictive your ex- is, but is it possible he was pissed off about you making him step up to his responsibilities, so he decided to talk up wonder woman to get back at you?

Yes very possible. That is why my message is so cautious.

What I am still confused about is why you both felt the need to sit in the parent teacher meeting. One of you could easily have done it and reported back to the other. Instead of putting yourselves in an awkward situation like that.

Because he didn't show any interest for a year and he has constantly gloated about what an amazing dad he is but his actions don't show this. I think if he is going to brag to me infront of his son about how wonderful he is then he has to show this or later on our son will question this. If he says he is a supportive dad then he has to be a supportive dad. It is just egotistical talk otherwise and doesn't benefit anyone but himself.

At the end of the day there is a record book that parents have to fill in nightly showing the work we have done with our children. He and his wife don't fill it in because he refuses to take the homework with him.

Perhaps facing the teachers hearing how well our boy has done and knowing he and his wife aren't recording their help in the book he might have had a need to prove themselves in a completely inappropriate way.
Meh. I've told him nicely what I think and feel better for it now.
It will sort itself out I'm sure.

[Megalomaniacal]

Yes very possible. That is why my message is so cautious.



Because he didn't show any interest for a year and he has constantly gloated about what an amazing dad he is but his actions don't show this. I think if he is going to brag to me infront of his son about how wonderful he is then he has to show this or later on our son will question this. If he says he is a supportive dad then he has to be a supportive dad. It is just egotistical talk otherwise and doesn't benefit anyone but himself.

At the end of the day there is a record book that parents have to fill in nightly showing the work we have done with our children. He and his wife don't fill it in because he refuses to take the homework with him.

Perhaps facing the teachers hearing how well our boy has done and knowing he and his wife aren't recording their help in the book he might have had a need to prove themselves in a completely inappropriate way.
Meh. I've told him nicely what I think and feel better for it now.
It will sort itself out I'm sure.

No it won't sort itself out. You are giving him too much credit and worrying too much about what your ex thinks/does. As far as you're concerned, he shouldn't exist, as long as he doesn't abuse or neglect your son, that's all that matters. Don't count on, expect, or hope for any additional effort on his end. You aren't a team anymore so you need to stand up and take the victories (and defeats) for yourself.
I'd bet my paycheck that the smear campaign with his new girl was most certainly on purpose and done with intent and malice. Don't put yourself in any more situations like that where you are set up for drama or awkwardness.



just my .02

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Blimey Happy, god knows what was going through his mind. I totally agree with you about how he shouldn't refer to his wife as your son's mummy. That's completely taking the piss. My son's stepmother came to me and asked if he could call her mum. I said no, point blank. The only exception was if he was talking about her to her own kids, "mum wants you" or something. I thought she had a bloody cheek to even ask. Fuk right off.

I'm tense because I ran someone over yesterday, that was a first. Idiot bloke was jogging with headphones on and just ran into the road - looking in the opposite direction. He really had no idea I was there until I knocked him over, despite the screeching of brakes, billowing smoke and stench of burning rubber pervading the air. Luckily I had almost stopped by then. He got up and brushed himself off, told me not to worry and he was fine, and just carried on jogging. He was fine, yeah. I was having palpitations.

[happywithit]

Blimey Happy, god knows what was going through his mind. I totally agree with you about how he shouldn't refer to his wife as your son's mummy. That's completely taking the piss. My son's stepmother came to me and asked if he could call her mum. I said no, point blank. The only exception was if he was talking about her to her own kids, "mum wants you" or something. I thought she had a bloody cheek to even ask. Fuk right off.

I'm tense because I ran someone over yesterday, that was a first. Idiot bloke was jogging with headphones on and just ran into the road - looking in the opposite direction. He really had no idea I was there until I knocked him over, despite the screeching of brakes, billowing smoke and stench of burning rubber pervading the air. Luckily I had almost stopped by then. He got up and brushed himself off, told me not to worry and he was fine, and just carried on jogging. He was fine, yeah. I was having palpitations.

Bloody hell.
Watch him take down your number plate then you're getting sued for back pains in the future.
That would scare the crap out of me.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

I hit him at about 3mph max and stopped within a foot. I was on my way to the hospital so I offered to take him but he said no. He was clearly fine, he had jogged another 100 yards before I drove past him.

[cphunter70]

This is exactly why I'm terrified of divorce. Seems like torture to have to share your kids w another woman.

I don't care if I have to wait until I'm 40 to get married I just never wanna get divorced or my kids to have step parents.

That's why you remind him gently with a knife til death do us part