ツ Forever Alone Crew ツ Part IV A new Hope

[U29rm4]

First of all I applaud you for making it to 29 under that circumstance. I know I won't last much longer. I don't do anything for my depression ..I just live day to day srs. Some things can make me feel better like music or being with a friend but I go right back to the same state right after its over. Been this way for years and years

Fcuk that sucks for you bro. Yeah dunno how I made it to this age with no girlfriends. Music used to help me a lot but now I find I can't even concentrate on that. I've put a lot of effort into dating the last couple of months but I never hear back from the girl after the first date or I'm told I'm a nice guy who they would like to be friends with. I know I need to keep practicing with all dating but it's hard when you feel depressed and you can't see things improving. Are you finding that girls are flaking on you a lot or just not showing interest?

[BetaThanU]

You attitude is unfortunate, not to say shytty... Pick up his nice invitations. You will make new experiences, broaden your horizon and likely have a fun time, maybe even get a bit more chilled and social with women in general - and on top of that perhaps one day even recommended to a single female friend of that couple. The opportunities are limitless. Don't hinder and sabotage yourself and your possibilities, by refusing such very friendly invitations and by thinking negatively of those considerate, sharing and cordial people.

How did you get green

[2RDEYE]

i prob wont have my first gf until im 30 or some chit. i dont even have a career figured out. so its pretty fair for me not to have a gf cuz im a useless no-life kunt atm. i've come to terms with it

[MeFromG]

How did you get green

Not by you.

[Briisk]

Theres this girl I think is cute in my arch studio class. This class meets twice a week for 4 hours, so thats a lot of time. Since this class is so long, instead of rushing for a number, I should try and slowly build attraction by talking to her and eventually asking to go grab food before/during class. Apparently she broke up with her bf a couple months ago (ugly dude, friends told me it was a weird relationship), and I feel like I should try and initiate. Problem is, everyone speaks spanish to each other when theyre together and I cant join in. Basically got to go talk to her when she is alone.

The thing that is stopping me is that she is constantly talking/getting hit on by guys (friends also told me all those guys are friendzoned, besides maybe one guy that she actually goes and talks to so I feel like they might have a thing building). I feel like if I fuk it up it will be pretty awkward for the rest of the semester. I've said a few words to her but havent asked for her name, although I know it already.

Dont want it to be awkward if I mess it up and that other guy that might be in her scope is screwing with my mind.

Ok its like this man. Since you havent talked to her pull her to the side after class, try the jajaja joke, then try to talk about the class, then be like "Hey I gotta run, but it was good talking to you and Id like to continue the convo another time. How about Coffee or lunch sometime?"

She will know exactly what your goal is at that point.

Update:

We dont have class today since it was canceled but I went up to the room anyways to see if she was there, and bang bang she was there working, alone.

I'm thinking to myself perfect time to introduce myself. So without thinking much at all about what to say, I go up and ask what is due for next class. Blah blah blah we talk for about 5-10 minutes, and the convo flows smoothly, she even made effort to ask me some questions and continue the convo (maybe a sign, maybe not, whatever, its just conversation). Made her laugh a couple times, and all went well. In the end I asked her name and told her mine and I left.

Didn't do the jajaja joke because I forgot, but I def will at some point. Just happy I actually introduced myself to her, and within a couple more classes (2-3) I plan on asking her out.

edit: Oh yeah, and my lip quivered once or twice, hopefully she didnt see.. pretty sure that is a symptom of oneitis. **** me.

[realbored94]

i prob wont have my first gf until im 30 or some chit. i dont even have a career figured out. so its pretty fair for me not to have a gf cuz im a useless no-life kunt atm. i've come to terms with it

I know these feels all too well. I was working a dead end job going to community college and I thought of myself as a fukkin loser and its no wonder I didnt get girls. Now im at Uni and I feel as if I have a lot more potential, keep your head up bro.

[KayronF]

Fcuk that sucks for you bro. Yeah dunno how I made it to this age with no girlfriends. Music used to help me a lot but now I find I can't even concentrate on that. I've put a lot of effort into dating the last couple of months but I never hear back from the girl after the first date or I'm told I'm a nice guy who they would like to be friends with. I know I need to keep practicing with all dating but it's hard when you feel depressed and you can't see things improving. Are you finding that girls are flaking on you a lot or just not showing interest?

They show interest initially and then they lose it and say "lets just be friends". Either that or if I try to get a girls number its usually they have a boyfriend already.

[KayronF]

I know these feels all too well. I was working a dead end job going to community college and I thought of myself as a fukkin loser and its no wonder I didnt get girls. Now im at Uni and I feel as if I have a lot more potential, keep your head up bro.

That feel when dropped out of community college cause I couldn't focus

[Jack101]

So I approached the girl that approached me today, she waved at me as I was walking towards her hnnggg. She's so hot, but she talks to literally all the guys in my gym srs. Atleast I'm getting practice talking to a hot girl face to face though.

[joshewwah]

So I approached the girl that approached me today, she waved at me as I was walking towards her hnnggg. She's so hot, but she talks to literally all the guys in my gym srs. Atleast I'm getting practice talking to a hot girl face to face though.

Thats a good opportunity to practise. You'll be ready for other girls soon enough even if this one doesn't want you

[2RDEYE]

i think i talk too much srs. i approached a girl at work yesterday in the lunch room, sat next to her, and was like so hows everything going? and then when she started to talk i kept talking over her and after her lolol. not on purpose though. gotta work on that. i like talking, but i think i gotta get used to not talking too much.

i went to the smoke hut with my coworkers during break to chill and it was hilarious. whenever someone tried to talk, i was about to talk too. so its just like a pause, and then "go ahead", then pause, then "go ahead"

[U29rm4]

They show interest initially and then they lose it and say "lets just be friends". Either that or if I try to get a girls number its usually they have a boyfriend already.

Yeah I'm in the same boat and I ain't getting any younger lol.

[GETB1GORDIETRYN]

I rarely post in this free lol. But feels...Will be a 25 yr old virgin October 11th, smh.

At 1st I was depressed, because there are days where I feel pretty good and others where I feel ill NEVER make it. However after pep talking myself, I've come to terms that getting out of this FA socially awkward zone won't be easy. In order for me to make it I really gotta put myself out there. As other aspects in life, nothing comes easy. With this realization, I feel better, now comes tackling the actual problem.

id recommend a hooker not even joking.

[HockeyBacon18]

In on new thread with my FA brahs.

For new brahs or those who dont remember me

20 years old, never had a real gf.
Non virgin



Basically my story summed up in tl;dr form is i was a fat fuk in high school and therefore had no confidence with women and didnt gain experience so i lost 50lbs so i can now do the drunk hookup thing, but have absolutely no experience in terms of dating or such

[wooosh3]

i just got paid guys

should i go to the strip club tomorrow by myself or just stay home tomorrow brahs ?

[joshewwah]

i just got paid guys

should i go to the strip club tomorrow by myself or just stay home tomorrow brahs ?

spend it on a hooker


not srs

[Legend1617]

i just got paid guys

should i go to the strip club tomorrow by myself or just stay home tomorrow brahs ?

lol this goes through my head every time. Hmmmmm should I pay for an escort?should I buy some some nice clothes and shoes so I look better when I go out? I keep telling myself I am saving for school. I have a little over 3k saved could get me a decent hooker I would think if I went down that route.

[KayronF]

Yeah I'm in the same boat and I ain't getting any younger lol.

Can't believe 26 is what I'm turning next and I'm still a virgin.

[damlurker550]

What kind of experience was it and how did you end up doing it?

I meant to post about it once I've analyzed the situation so here goes..

As most of you would have guessed (me being a 30year old virgin and all) it was with a escort.

however it was kinda not like a escort too.. let me explain..

Me and another miscer took a 2 week vacation to Thailand. He was taking girls back to the hotel several times but me I just didn't feel like it.
Eventually he ended up going to a BJ bar which is specialized in doing BJs.. I thought whatever and bought a BJ.. worst experience ever (btw wasn't my first BJ I had gotten one from a stripper about 7years ago).
It was very mechanical and almost robotic.. girl had nice boobs but didn't even let me touch them or take her top off.. after about 20mins it actually started to hurt and I said it was enough.. My dink actually hurt for a couple of days after that..

Later on we started going to this one specific go go bar several times.. To those unaware a gogo bar is like a strip club but the girls will try to go back with u for sex. We ended up talking to a couple of girls and this particular girl was with me for two days.. Didn't take any of them back tho.. On the third day my friend decides to take one home and the other one wants to come back with me but I was kinda sick and said no.. The club was near closing time and that girl said she was done and she's like to come back anyways (without any prior pay) with her friend.

So we ended up going back to our hotel. I wasn't even sure she wanted to actually have sex (since i hadn't paid her) I thought she was accompanying her friend and then leave. But she ended up coming to my room. My friend said she liked me enough to take any amount of money I'd give (usually they will negotiate a fee upfront and you have to pay them first)..

I felt comfortable with her since I had hung out with her for a couple of days and she seemed nice.

So we ended up having sex but I had no idea wtf I was doing. Had to go to 7eleven in the middle of it to get a condom lol (thankfully there are 7elevens all over the place in Thailand). But I didnt feel anything. condom was too big too. I couldn't stay hard for it to stay on either.. Only position that worked was her on top .. Even then she was so tight my dink hurt (I later found out she was 20 even though I thought at the time she was 29 lol u can never say for sure with Thai girls).

Overall had sex for like 5 mins each night with her on top before I lost my erection.. also recieved about 30mins of BJ/HJ each night.. Still didn't cum.
oh yeah almost forgot fingered her for a good 20mins and she seemed to get off on that.. my fingers got tired tho lmao!

Anyways she was nice. I paid her the usual and she ended up coming back with me 2 more days. On those days she stayed over night and in the morning. basically GFE/10.. But i never finished in any of those days. She even added me on Fb and bought me food when we hung out(weird as fuk for a bar girl.. was half expecting some BS story on how she needed money for her sick mum or something to come but it never came.. she never asked for any money other than what i gave her.)

I guess she is just new at this lmao


Well now I'm kinda no longer a virgin but not sure if I'm heterosexual or asexual. I can still fap to porn (normal porn.. nothing weird . i fap to solo vids of girls teasing/fapping most of the time). But with a real life flesh and blood girl I just don't feel anything.
Oh and I've never actually liked a girl in my entire life anyways. A lot of you FAs have had crushes and oneitises despite being virgins. For me that has never happened.

So yeah not sure whats wrong with me lol.. probably some srs psychological chit which I have no time or motivation to get fixed.. On one hand its kind of freeing.. I know i don't need girls and have nothing to gain from trying to convince a girl to have sex. I'd rather drink a tasty cappuccino while watching youtube than have sex tbh lol

ps. When I had sex with the girl i was on 2 weeks no fap + on cialis..

[jetpotion]

Continued from

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...18753&page=301


Creating the fourth chapter for the eternal struggle of the forever aloner.

"I guess the question many may ask themselves upon coming into this thread is "what does forever alone mean?" and "am I forever alone?". Ultimately only you can decide that, however here are afew common characteristics and habits of being 'forever alone'

+Still virgin well into 20s'
+Few friends, sometimes no friends
+Spend alot of free time alone
+Engage in single person hobbies rather than group activites
+Rarely receive texts or ******** messages
+Spent little of adult life, if any, with a romantic partner
+Tend to avoid crowds, busy places, go shopping either very early or very late
+See friday/saturday nights as any other night of the week as you don't really go out"

I am going in the right direction BUT I STILL GOT REJECTED IN THE END because she wasnt intrested. And no it wasnt because I was a nice guy. Read my post to see my updates from FA to a start in the right direction

[jetpotion]

In on new thread with my FA brahs.

For new brahs or those who dont remember me

20 years old, never had a real gf.
Non virgin



Basically my story summed up in tl;dr form is i was a fat fuk in high school and therefore had no confidence with women and didnt gain experience so i lost 50lbs so i can now do the drunk hookup thing, but have absolutely no experience in terms of dating or such

Dude sthu. Stop thinking dating is experience.... when you talk to the girl you want to be close with her. In a way a girlfriend is nothing more a super close friend that you can do whatever with

[realbored94]

Does anyone else have this problem of looking pissed off all of the time? I look in the mirror and I look mad, I've been told this by other people too. Do I have to make a conscious effort to change my expression? I think girls might find me unapproachable for this reason.

[DaFucc]

About a month ago I wrote a letter to this charity that helps people get plastic surgery and today I got a response. They told me that they wanted to see pictures of me but I am suicidal and can't even look myself in the mirror. I don't know what to do because on one hand I want to get the plastic surgery but on the other hand I am very hideous and might end up killing myself if I take a picture of myself. What do I do ?

[BigTimePlayer]

About a month ago I wrote a letter to this charity that helps people get plastic surgery and today I got a response. They told me that they wanted to see pictures of me but I am suicidal and can't even look myself in the mirror. I don't know what to do because on one hand I want to get the plastic surgery but on the other hand I am very hideous and might end up killing myself if I take a picture of myself. What do I do ?

Why don't you go to a doctor for help if you're feeling suicidal.

[anonymous]

innnnnn in FA thread.

[DaFucc]

Why don't you go to a doctor for help if you're feeling suicidal.

because it's not going to help me all theyre going to do is to tell me that I need to think positive. I don't need that I need a body transplant. I hate everything about me. My legs my arms my face eyes hair nose neck chest arms back and just everything. I want to be in a different body I really do.

[triglyceride]

OG innn

http://groups.bodybuilding.com/forever_alone

[richardgere]

Well now I'm kinda no longer a virgin but not sure if I'm heterosexual or asexual. I can still fap to porn (normal porn.. nothing weird . i fap to solo vids of girls teasing/fapping most of the time). But with a real life flesh and blood girl I just don't feel anything.

Maybe the situation would be different with a normal girl with longer time mutual interest and no condom.
I didn't finish either on my first 7 times with a condom and thought sex was meh but when you get rid of condom and get really comfortable/relaxed with a girl sex turned out to be much better. Anxiety/condom can really ruin the experience.

[damlurker550]

Maybe the situation would be different with a normal girl with longer time mutual interest and no condom.
I didn't finish either on my first 7 times with a condom and thought sex was meh but when you get rid of condom and get really comfortable/relaxed with a girl sex turned out to be much better. Anxiety/condom can really ruin the experience.

yeah i thought that too.. the anxiety part.. but after that first night I was pretty comfortable around her srs.
she was kinda inexperienced as fuk as well. Actually she was quite shy when she was alone and not with the other girls from the club :3

plus my virgin dink hurts whenever its out of its foreskin lmao.. only time it didnt hurt was when she was sucking on it.. gently.. lol
ayy looks like fapping 2x per day for the last 4yrs (didn't fap till i was 26) hasn't toughened it up enough.. fml
brb 100 cock pushups a day

nah srsly brahs i need to find out why my dink hurts

[4evera1one]

Fuking awesome i just got passively rejected by a bitch. Why girls dont go and reject you right away if THEY ARENT ****ING interested.