Tfw oneitis just told me she only wanted to be friends. Still going strong in F/a crew. Depression and suicidal thoughts are back in full swing
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09-28-2015, 07:01 AM #61
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09-28-2015, 07:36 AM #62
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09-28-2015, 10:09 AM #63
lol wot we actually made it to another thread
at my new job, the society is basically the same chit as all the other jobs i've had. everyone talks about their gfs, wives, or ex-gf or ex-wives. like this buddy i made he's always tlaking about his gf, he's like oh man yeah all i did during my weekend was fuk my gf yea, and then he's like "yea my gf made this for me(dinner)" everyday.
its lik OK WE GET IT MOTHER F*CKER. U HAVE A VERY GENUINE AND GOOD GIRLFRIEND GO FUK URSELF. but i keep that to myself since he's nice to me and chit and just be like," yeah dude she's the best. "Last edited by 2RDEYE; 09-28-2015 at 10:35 AM.
There is only one Hell: the one we live in now.
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09-28-2015, 10:50 AM #64
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09-28-2015, 10:57 AM #65
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09-28-2015, 10:58 AM #66
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09-28-2015, 10:59 AM #67
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09-28-2015, 10:59 AM #68
yeah pretty much. its like "yeah my gf and i blah blah blah" and im like "really? damn dude u have such a sweet gf" in my mind im like "F*CK YOU MAN"
nah not sure lol. he invited me over to his house, but i didn't want to risk seeing his gf if she existsThere is only one Hell: the one we live in now.
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09-28-2015, 11:10 AM #69
You attitude is unfortunate, not to say shytty... Pick up his nice invitations. You will make new experiences, broaden your horizon and likely have a fun time, maybe even get a bit more chilled and social with women in general - and on top of that perhaps one day even recommended to a single female friend of that couple. The opportunities are limitless. Don't hinder and sabotage yourself and your possibilities, by refusing such very friendly invitations and by thinking negatively of those considerate, sharing and cordial people.
~~~ Children of seeds:
https://youtu.be/T112cNgGiGY
~~~ Adopt, don't shop:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9pJpMJ0IxE&t=29s
~~~ Countries for winners and losers:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbpY-2nOYRI&t=3s
~~~ Say no to porn and prostitution:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRJ_QfP2mhU
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09-28-2015, 12:42 PM #70
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09-28-2015, 01:06 PM #71
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09-28-2015, 01:19 PM #72
Last edited by Solomonlike; 09-28-2015 at 01:39 PM.
"Don't be afraid of being different. Be afraid of being the same as everyone else."
“Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, but you can’t make more time. When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you’ll never get back.”
Ecclesiastes 9:11 - True wisdom
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09-28-2015, 04:54 PM #73
Well i wouldnt say my attitude is ****ty. You're misunderstanding. I don't think negatively of him just because he has a gf and talks about her. Im just like fuuuuuuck i wish i had a GF too. I have nothing against him.
I think i have the best attitude out there in this cynical world because i can easily go up to anyone and make friends with them, which i do 100% of the time. Im always showing this positive upbeat and friendly persona, which seems to be rare according to a lot of people i meet. Im always the friendly life of the party everywhere i go. A ****ty attitude would just be some guy who goes to work just to work and try not to be friends with others. Those serious hostile aggressive ****s. Ive only been in this company for a week but already made good acquantainces with everyone. But ur right i should have accepted the invitation. I was overthinking.
It was more like i didnt want to invade his private/personal life, i kind of forced it on him.Last edited by 2RDEYE; 09-28-2015 at 05:07 PM.
There is only one Hell: the one we live in now.
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09-28-2015, 05:12 PM #74
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09-28-2015, 10:19 PM #75
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09-28-2015, 10:21 PM #76
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09-29-2015, 04:44 AM #77
Family is great to have and friendship is great to have, but I want to know what a relationship is like. I've never really had a chance to experience it because there was always some reason it never happened and it happens over and over and over. I'm reaching a point where I'm starting to accept the fact that I was mean't to be alone. Obviously people could never agree but I'm the one living this life and gone through the experiences. I'm just tired man, I'm giving up on it.
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09-29-2015, 04:51 AM #78
Aspire to other things. I'm 24 and never had a relationship either. I suppose at this stage I would like one, but I don't think I 'need' one. I'm busy pursuing my career. Even though I don't really believe misc's idea of 'work on yourself and the girl will come' I do think you need to become a better version of yourself. At the same time, you should plant seeds regarding relationships.
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09-29-2015, 05:11 AM #79
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09-29-2015, 05:16 AM #80
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09-29-2015, 05:16 AM #81
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09-29-2015, 05:24 AM #82
I'm FA, but some of you guys on here are a bit over the top. Again, I'm not going regurgitate the idea that if you become a better version of yourself, girls will come. I don't believe its true, you need to work for it, just like everything else. However, you really need to work out why you feel this way and fix it. It won't be easy, but only then will you be able to get out there and possibly get into a relationship. Make positive changes, stop worrying about girls for now and do other things. Set some goals and then reassess and work out what you have to do to get to the point where you can get into a relationship.
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09-29-2015, 05:45 AM #83
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09-29-2015, 06:05 AM #84
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09-29-2015, 06:05 AM #85
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09-29-2015, 06:44 AM #86
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09-29-2015, 07:10 AM #87
Know those feels. I've slipped back into depression the last couple of days. The fact I just turned 29 and never had a girlfriend is turning into an obsession. I feel there must be something wrong with me. What do you do for your depression that helps take the edge off? I've been trying meditating and exercising but it's not helping me anymore. Also the antidepressant I'm on does not seem to be taking the edge of things anymore.
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09-29-2015, 07:24 AM #88
First of all I applaud you for making it to 29 under that circumstance. I know I won't last much longer. I don't do anything for my depression ..I just live day to day srs. Some things can make me feel better like music or being with a friend but I go right back to the same state right after its over. Been this way for years and years
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09-29-2015, 07:28 AM #89
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