Misc, wife told me she feels nothing when 'kissing' and sexual

[Itstimetorise]

Cliffs, so we don't derail the thread again:

1. We both love each other, a lot. We are fiercely loyal, there is like 0 chance of cheating at all.
2. She says she doesn't feel anything when we kiss the past year, or do anything sexual, even me giving oral, she literally feels nothing.
3. She thinks she's asexual, and finds sexual things disgusting apparently.
4. She's currently from home and i only get to call her once a week at most, as she really won't call me more often than that. I initiate calling most of the time before she's back with me in a few weeks for another year.
5. I am NOT 5"0. I just put in a random height to stop the e-statters and height elitism. I am 5"10.5/11, and she (5"3) thinks i'm short, but that isn't an issue at all, don't bring it up!
6. If i were trolling, for God sake, i would have found something better to troll with.

[badbl00d]

So what are you asking OP?

[Kelvandros]

Has she changed any medications (Birth control methods, anti-depressants, etc)? There are a lot of things that can kill sexual desire.

[CagedLion012]

I got sum bad newz

[TatItUp]

maybe now you understand why some people say to wait until you know who you're getting as a person.


at 21, I was still changing a lot.




on a more serious note, how can someone who's married to you all of a sudden feel nothing. You know, there are nerves and ****. Something doesn't sit right, and you know she is a female.....

good luck

[Griggz]

[sdshakal]

Where is she? Why won't she call you? Seems like she doesn't really love you as much as you think anymore.

[hermanmunster2]

[Demgaainz]

If you really are just 21 then leave her asap

[Itstimetorise]

She's never been sexual with anyone or at any point even privately. No medication issue, this is life long

[Itstimetorise]

Where is she? Why won't she call you? Seems like she doesn't really love you as much as you think anymore.

She does call me but isn't a phone person if you get me? So she really limits it. I look like a beta ******* always asking until i gave up.

But i think like a lot of people just arent phone people

[notmultitasker]

How many times are you going to post this troll thread and allow people to waist their time? You got all the answers on yesterdays thread. Negged.

[Itstimetorise]

If you really are just 21 then leave her asap

Can't brah. She's the 'one'.

1. Never slooted around, loyal, can trust her fully, 10/10 beauty, does love me and is dedicated.

This depresses me

[Brawndo89]

I am 5"10.5/11, and she (5"3) thinks i'm short, but that isn't an issue at all, don't bring it up

Manlets. When will they learn?

[Itstimetorise]

How many times are you going to post this troll thread and allow people to waist their time? You got all the answers on yesterdays thread. Negged.

Half of my thread was about the height stat and trolling.

[misheru]

What responses do you want form us OP?

We can't do anything about it. I'm going to be blunt. Your "marriage" sounds like nothing.

What marriage is there when you have to one-sidedly initiate all contact, always you have to call, you have to check up and make the effort?

What marriage is there when you cannot have compatible sex? Sex is very important in a relationship.

What marriage is there when your wife can't communicate to you why she does or does not feel a certain way?

What marriage is there when you have to ask the bodybuilding.com forum for advice because you can't understand WTF is going on?

You need to have a VERY serious talk with your wife about your relationship; her saying "I do love you rlly!" doesn't fix the obvious problems in the relationship.

Don't be like my father, a 60 year old man who complains to me every other day about how my mother treats him like chit nad won't even tlak to him outside of "have you paid the rent?". It didn't happen in one day either, it started out like you and your wife: brb I don't feel anything for you. brb I love you but I don't want to have sex with you. brb I love you but I can't tell you my honest thoughts on things.


If I were you OP I'd expect things to drastically change or I'd be divorcing sooner than later. You're still too young to be trying to fix a nonexistent relationship.



EDIT: "loyal, can trust her fully, 10/10 beauty, does love me and is dedicated."

Are you fuking retarded or are you delusional? No she's not "the one", because if she was you wouldn't be on an online forum asking about why your wife doesn't like to kiss you. That's not "the one" OP.

She's obviously not someone you can trust full when she can't talk to you about her feelings fully wihtout BS; its obvious she doesn't trust you, why should you trust her? and its obvious she isn't very dedicated to a relationship where you two practically have no pleasurable sex at 21 years old.

If everything is super then what the fuk are you asking?

[supercrunch]

shes ready to annihilate multiple penises brah

[Kelvandros]

Sounds like she needs to see a therapist

[motilynn]

OP, this is getting a little ridic. Plenty of people gave you the answers if it was legitimate and I refuse to believe anyone is this stupid. I agree with Notmultitasker. Your wasting everyone's time pretending to listen to what they have to say and then continue asking the same questions.

She's not attracted to you. Accept it and either move on or find a way to fix it between you two.

[momoneynoprblms]

Age 21: has wife

Big mistake OP what a loser you just sold your prime years to some stuck up skankwhoresloot that thinks youre worthless. Should have gotten married at 30 when you were established, to a prime 19 yo babe who is obsessed with you and will love you unconditionally for all of your years. Big mistake OP.

[B.L.A.C.K]

21 wife



Sounds like you married a cardboard cutout

[Dormbrah]

lets see if shes still asexual after tyrone and jamal run a train on her.

on a srs note she may need to seek profesional help. ive never heard a story like this ever before

[badbl00d]

She's never been sexual with anyone or at any point even privately. No medication issue, this is life long

Look as a husband...it will hurt, but I would divorce her. There have been times in my marriage where we were going through chit, and the desire for sex just wasn't there. My wife isn't a big phone person either, but that doesn't limit the amount of times we talk, it just limits the amount of time we spend talking. As you grow older, you will begin to resent her. The time you wasted, the times you should have been loved/deserved to be loved, and weren't. This is about you OP, how do you want to be treated? Can you live the rest of your life anxious because you're anticipating attention you're not going to receive?

She's not a sexual person, you probably should have been more aware of this prior to moving forward, but now you're here, and you have to ask yourself what you want, need in terms of a relationship.

Otherwise your theory of "no chance of cheating" goes right out the window. You will be the epitome of a loveless, sexless marriage, and you will bang the first sl00t who makes you feel the way you want.

Edit: I noticed you said she's the one...how can someone be the one when they're not completing the loop? How can someone be the one with no passion or intimacy? It just doesn't exist.

[Itstimetorise]

OP, this is getting a little ridic. Plenty of people gave you the answers if it was legitimate and I refuse to believe anyone is this stupid. I agree with Notmultitasker. Your wasting everyone's time pretending to listen to what they have to say and then continue asking the same questions.

She's not attracted to you. Accept it and either move on or find a way to fix it between you two.

I truly appreciate your input, and part of me feels this too, but i really need to say that some girls are just asexual. She has never done anything sexual in her life, ever, not even to herself, she is that chaste.

[JKLOL]

I'd do more cute shiet w/o being a beater twat.
Gotta find a way to get the magic back.
Might need counseling or some shiet.

I hope you haven't been together too long, but it's not looking good.

[Itstimetorise]

Age 21: has wife

Big mistake OP what a loser you just sold your prime years to some stuck up skankwhoresloot that thinks youre worthless. Should have gotten married at 30 when you were established, to a prime 19 yo babe who is obsessed with you and will love you unconditionally for all of your years. Big mistake OP.

Misc,

I don't care about banging tens of sloots, that stuff is empty as hell to me, serious

I just want one loyal wife man, who is the right person, and loves me and vice versa so we can build our life as early as possible.

The earlier the marriage imho the better, less baggage they come with, less relationships, etc

[hermanmunster2]

Age 21: has wife

Big mistake OP what a loser you just sold your prime years to some stuck up skankwhoresloot that thinks youre worthless. Should have gotten married at 30 when you were established, to a prime 19 yo babe who is obsessed with you and will love you unconditionally for all of your years. Big mistake OP.

Worst thing that ever happened to me: getting married at 21
Best thing that ever happened to me: getting divorced at 22

Don't bd ****hot OP

[Itstimetorise]

INB4 she wants to 'find herself'.

LOL, aware brah, but i don't think this is an issue here.

She has never pleased herself, ever. I am really starting to think she's asexual. Never kissed a guy before me either

[digistp]

Sounds like you lost your value to her

[Itstimetorise]

Look as a husband...it will hurt, but I would divorce her. There have been times in my marriage where we were going through chit, and the desire for sex just wasn't there. My wife isn't a big phone person either, but that doesn't limit the amount of times we talk, it just limits the amount of time we spend talking. As you grow older, you will begin to resent her. The time you wasted, the times you should have been loved/deserved to be loved, and weren't. This is about you OP, how do you want to be treated? Can you live the rest of your life anxious because you're anticipating attention you're not going to receive?

She's not a sexual person, you probably should have been more aware of this prior to moving forward, but now you're here, and you have to ask yourself what you want, need in terms of a relationship.

Otherwise your theory of "no chance of cheating" goes right out the window. You will be the epitome of a loveless, sexless marriage, and you will bang the first sl00t who makes you feel the way you want.

Edit: I noticed you said she's the one...how can someone be the one when they're not completing the loop? How can someone be the one with no passion or intimacy? It just doesn't exist.

thx brah, will surely take in this advice.