I have had great success...
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...with women in my life and I thought, you know, i should really help someone out.
Heres what I propose. I am willing to take on a project here in the misc. One FA that thinks they really need help, a hitch, if i may. There are no guarantees and you will have to try new things that you never thought you would before, but if it works...you will no longer be a FA.
What I need from you guys if you would like to participate:
Age:
How long you have been FA:
Why you think you need help:
so uhhh, lets see if i just have great luck or if i actually know wtf I'm doing.
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06-14-2015, 08:32 PM #1
To all the FA miscers in here. (98% of you).... (positive thread)(srs)(no troll)
You have my word as a Schoobs.
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06-14-2015, 08:46 PM #7
social anxiety is difficult, professional help might be better but immerse yourself in social settings, breathe, and realize that nothing bad will happen if you step out of your comfort zone. The easiest way i have found of doing this is to go to a different town about an hour away and go to a bar or something. First weekend, just walk in and don't really talk to anyone, just stay for an hour or so, enjoy a drink, see how people interact and then leave. Second weekend I would do the same thing but try to have smalltalk with the bartender or waiter (male). Next weekend, try a female. The weekend after try a random bro...again smalltalk, you're not trying to take bro home...ayy,unless you're into that.
After you see a pattern that NOTHING bad can happen from talking to people you will NEVER see again....might as well just do it.You have my word as a Schoobs.
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06-14-2015, 09:21 PM #25
- Join Date: May 2013
- Location: North Carolina, Yemen
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06-14-2015, 09:31 PM #26
4 years at least. all of hs and now community college. My grades and my future were slipping, so I decided to go NC w/ everyone and focus on school work only. While I've fixed 1 part of my life and am going to transfer to a top uni in the state (tons of sloots), my social life is nonexistent. Sometimes I feel motivated as hell and confident and other times like today I feel hopeless and with despair.
I overthink everything.
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- Join Date: May 2013
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