Want to ask the OV35 members here a serious question, all joking aside keep it real.

[bodyhard]

I notice that when any of the members here claims a woman/girl comes on to him, most chime in with sarcastic comments as if the OP is lying, exaggerating or is full of himself.

I am seriously seriously curios, do women/girls never come on to you and that is why you would think that any man OV35 starting a thread would be either lying or exaggerating?

I go out a lot and while I don't get hit on at every turn, I do get hit on quite often. And most of the time is from younger woman - this is as serious as I can get, whether you believe me or not I honestly don't care.

Older woman rarely ever hit on me or make eye contact with me and ironically online older women always tell me they would if they were to see me IRL but that makes me wonder if older women are more aggressive online then they are IRL.

So seriously, answer me this question without being sarcastic or trying to be funny, don't you guys get hit on by woman/girls? I find that very very hard to believe.

[Fishman15]

I notice that when any of the members here claims a woman/girl comes on to him, most chime in with sarcastic comments as if the OP is lying, exaggerating or is full of himself.

Is this about me?

[kimm4]

I'm a female so I won't answer, but I'm wondering?

Do you wear your wedding ring? It might not make a difference in today's world, but who knows.

I wonder if these younger female's are serious/mature and like older men, or immature looking for the perfect sugar daddy?

[bodyhard]

Is this about me?

No not at all, not even close.

But since you came into the thread, answer the question.

[Fishman15]

No not at all, not even close.

But since you came into the thread, answer the question.

I'm just saying I'm agreeing. Would like to take a poll and find out just how many folks on here believed that the deli girl was a figure of my imagination? Just sayin...

[bodyhard]

I'm a female so I won't answer, but I'm wondering?

Do you wear your wedding ring? It might not make a difference in today's world, but who knows.

I wonder if these younger female's are serious/mature and like older men, or immature looking for the perfect sugar daddy?

Sadly my wedding ring was crushed in the gym I took it off, Patty put it away (said she was going to put it in place so she would know where it is at) and she has not found it ever since

But even when I used to wear it, this was like 5 years ago, I still got hit on by younger woman.

And Kim even when I worked in Wall Street and used to go out with my boss to some really classy places in the city, older woman would approach him, but not me. The younger women would hit on me and he used to ask me "What the hell is it about you that young woman gravitate towards you"

I never told him (well because he was the VP of the company and married) but I always wondered why older sophisticated woman would gravitate towards him and not the younger woman, and yes he would cheat, I would not.

[kimm4]

Sadly my wedding ring was crushed in the gym I took it off, Patty put it away (said she was going to put it in place so she would know where it is at) and she has not found it ever since

But even when I used to wear it, this was like 5 years ago, I still got hit on by younger woman.

And Kim even when I worked in Wall Street and used to go out with my boss to some really classy places in the city, older woman would approach him, but not me. The younger women would hit on me and he used to ask me "What the hell is it about you that young woman gravitate towards you"

I never told him (well because he was the VP of the company and married) but I always wondered why older sophisticated woman would gravitate towards him and not the younger woman, and yes he would cheat, I would not.

It's possible that the women who hit on you are simply attracted to older men. As a female even when I was younger, I was always more attracted to older men. Just my personal preference.

[bodyhard]

I'm just saying I'm agreeing. Would like to take a poll and find out just how many folks on here believed that the deli girl was a figure of my imagination? Just sayin...

I believe you, I mean if a man lies about getting hit on and is making sh!t up, he has some serious issues as he is only lying to himself.

[bodyhard]

It's possible that the women who hit on you are simply attracted to older men. As a female even when I was younger, I was always more attracted to older men. Just my personal preference.

Kim that is fine and I am not complaining, you and I have had this conversation before, I am just curious (as I have told you in the past) why is it that older woman don't.

But that is another discussion, I am trying to get feedback from the men on here if they do get hit on by woman at all.

Or is it that some of you wont say it/admit it because you are married and out of respect to your wife you keep that personal?

[Brackneyc]

I don't know if I do (get hit on or not) or not. I don't look for it, and frankly, I doubt it happens. I guess if it happened so much that it became an interference in my life, maybe I'd get tired of it. As it stands now, not an issue for me.

I made a sarcastic remark about it in your other thread because the solution seems easy to me. Ignore them. This is what I do (mostly) when DB idiots hit on my wife while I am standing within earshot. She is a grown woman, and can handle it. If it gets to the point of where it gets creepy, there is an alternative.


There is flirting, then there is just being a fcking hoe. If you ignore them, and they keep coming at you, you now know my feelings about them.

[bodyhard]

I don't know if I do (get hit on or not) or not. I don't look for it, and frankly, I doubt it happens. I guess if it happened so much that it became an interference in my life, maybe I'd get tired of it. As it stands now, not an issue for me.

I made a sarcastic remark about it in your other thread because the solution seems easy to me. Ignore them. This is what I do (mostly) when DB idiots hit on my wife while I am standing within earshot. She is a grown woman, and can handle it. If it gets to the point of where it gets creepy, there is an alternative.


There is flirting, then there is just being a fcking hoe. If you ignore them, and they keep coming at you, you now know my feelings about them.

But how can you NOT know a woman is hitting on you?

[DuracellBunny]

If somebody is in shape and confident, they will get hit on. The frequency of being hit on will vary with all the usual factors.

The reason that people get crap on here for it is that the need to announce to anonymous strangers that they (an anonymous stranger) were hit on by another anonymous stranger tends to come across like a high school virgin trying to convince his friends he's a superstud.

[ArchAngel'73]

Well, I'm single and no worries about a wife.

I don't get hit on a lot but when I do its usually the younger women.
They seem to be either
A) Braver
or
B) Stupider
than older women.

I go for "B".

[Cass40]

Can I comment even if I'm not a man? I actually always had younger guys hitting on me too. I think (although can't say for sure) it's because I'm so tiny, and I have no hips. I look like a little boy, and older men prefer women that look like women and not kids.

I personally would not be hitting on any guy but I would make my own choices. Like for instance in a club I'd look around and if I saw someone I liked, I would just go stand in front of them and smile.
I know immediately by their body language if they like me or not. If they like me, I'll let them pretend they are initiating the conversation.

I don't know why younger women hit on you. You always say that you're not attracted to older women, and women usually sense who is attracted to them.

It's a two way street. Young women hit on you because you're attracted to them and they sense it. Don't ever think we don't know who likes us and who don't.

[Brackneyc]

But how can you NOT know a woman is hitting on you?

IDK man. Maybe I just assumed they were/are being nice. I have never had a woman say things like, "Hey, I want to do this and that to/with you." In my world, I would likely need it to be telegraphed that blatantly, because I grew up a fat kid, beginning since about 2nd grade, and that sht only happened to the other guys. Us little fat kids did not get hit on too often.

If it is happening, I guess I am just too focused on other stuff to notice. Or I'm an idiot. I suspect it simply isn't happening. But, there is a good chance that I'm...an...id....

[Brackneyc]

Can I comment even if I'm not a man? I actually always had younger guys hitting on me too. I think (although can't say for sure) it's because I'm so tiny, and I have no hips. I look like a little boy, and older men prefer women that look like women and not kids.

I personally would not be hitting on any guy but I would make my own choices. Like for instance in a club I'd look around and if I saw someone I liked, I would just go stand in front of them and smile.
I know immediately by their body language if they like me or not. If they like me, I'll let them pretend they are initiating the conversation.

I don't know why younger women hit on you. You always say that you're not attracted to older women, and women usually sense who is attracted to them.

It's a two way street. Young women hit on you because you're attracted to them and they sense it. Don't ever think we don't know who likes us and who don't.

Back in my earlier days, if you stood in front of me and had a pulse, I probably liked you.

[kimm4]

I have to share this because it's so stupid and ridiculous. I was hit on a couple months ago at a local convenient store. I came out of the store and there was a guy leaning against my car. He got right to the chase and flat out asked me if I was interested in going back to his place to f***? Now I haven't been hit on in years and from what I can remember, I don't recall anyone ever being that bold.

I busted out laughing while looking around for cameras because I seriously thought I was being punked.

[paolo59]

I have to share this because it's so stupid and ridiculous. I was hit on a couple months ago at a local convenient store. I came out of the store and there was a guy leaning against my car. He got right to the chase and flat out asked me if I was interested in going back to his place to f***? Now I haven't been hit on in years and from what I can remember, I don't recall anyone ever being that bold.

I busted out laughing while looking around for cameras because I seriously thought I was being punked.

LOL That's pretty blatant! How did he take you 'busting out laughing?' Ha ha!

[Cass40]

I have to share this because it's so stupid and ridiculous. I was hit on a couple months ago at a local convenient store. I came out of the store and there was a guy leaning against my car. He got right to the chase and flat out asked me if I was interested in going back to his place to f***? Now I haven't been hit on in years and from what I can remember, I don't recall anyone ever being that bold.

I busted out laughing while looking around for cameras because I seriously thought I was being punked.

OMG

I think that happened to me once in a train a long time ago. I was on my way to meet my friend.

I told my friend when I saw her that, hey, guess what? I could've gotten laid in the train!
She was like: I'm glad you didn't.

[bodyhard]

If somebody is in shape and confident, they will get hit on. The frequency of being hit on will vary with all the usual factors.

The reason that people get crap on here for it is that the need to announce to anonymous strangers that they (an anonymous stranger) were hit on by another anonymous stranger tends to come across like a high school virgin trying to convince his friends he's a superstud.

With me its different, posting on here I mean. While everyone on here I might not know, I have made some good friends on here (even though I have not spoken to them on the phone or met them) and I pretty much post about a lot of my life (getting hit on would be one of them)

Also I have met members here and to me it would be silly to post about bullSh!t then meet people and they would say "Jesus that guy is nothing like he says he is"

Well, I'm single and no worries about a wife.

I don't get hit on a lot but when I do its usually the younger women.
They seem to be either
A) Braver
or
B) Stupider
than older women.

I go for "B".

Why?

Can I comment even if I'm not a man? I actually always had younger guys hitting on me too. I think (although can't say for sure) it's because I'm so tiny, and I have no hips. I look like a little boy, and older men prefer women that look like women and not kids.

I personally would not be hitting on any guy but I would make my own choices. Like for instance in a club I'd look around and if I saw someone I liked, I would just go stand in front of them and smile.
I know immediately by their body language if they like me or not. If they like me, I'll let them pretend they are initiating the conversation.

I don't know why younger women hit on you. You always say that you're not attracted to older women, and women usually sense who is attracted to them.

It's a two way street. Young women hit on you because you're attracted to them and they sense it. Don't ever think we don't know who likes us and who don't.

Good point Cass, but I do find older woman attractive physically, I just don't have anything in common with them because I find them boring.

IDK man. Maybe I just assumed they were/are being nice. I have never had a woman say things like, "Hey, I want to do this and that to/with you." In my world, I would likely need it to be telegraphed that blatantly, because I grew up a fat kid, beginning since about 2nd grade, and that sht only happened to the other guys. Us little fat kids did not get hit on too often.

If it is happening, I guess I am just too focused on other stuff to notice. Or I'm an idiot. I suspect it simply isn't happening. But, there is a good chance that I'm...an...id....

Unless you are butt ugly I am sure it has happen more than you think and either you are just being modest or you really are clueless

I have to share this because it's so stupid and ridiculous. I was hit on a couple months ago at a local convenient store. I came out of the store and there was a guy leaning against my car. He got right to the chase and flat out asked me if I was interested in going back to his place to f***? Now I haven't been hit on in years and from what I can remember, I don't recall anyone ever being that bold.

I busted out laughing while looking around for cameras because I seriously thought I was being punked.

Damn that is some flat out sh!t right there.

[induced_drag]

....do women/girls never come on to you and that is why you would think that any man OV35 starting a thread would be either lying or exaggerating?..

I will tell you this. I did not get a lot of personal attention when I had let myself go for about 10 years. I would get some at times, but it was more a whole package thing. My car used to draw a lot of attention. (back when I drove more exotic and expensive stuff). Dropping into places for lunch in a helo draws a good amount of attention. When women saw money, it got attention (sad but true).

But things have been very different the past few years. I get quite a bit more attention. Sometimes it is over the top and I am flattered but it is almost embarassing. I have gotten phone numbers from waitresses at restaurants (when I was not asking). I have had younger girls (25ish) try to set me up with their friends. Say I went out to grab a few beers with some friends at a local sports bar. I even had a girl try to pick me up at the dmv waiting to renew my license recently. (sadly I was so oblivious that I did not even figure out she was trying to ask me out). I was really trying to answer her questions about nice places to go eat. She finally asked me (when they called her number) "Look, would you like to go out sometime". I know this sounds stupid, but it does happen and I am really surprised at how forward women seem to be.

I take it as a compliment. It does feel really good. I know it is tied to the physique. It happens a lot less in winter time. There are some women though that really are turned on by a good physique. There are equally as many who are put off. I know some women (my wife included) are not into the muscled look. To them it represents vanity and too much self involvement. My wife really does not prefer the new "me" over the older one.

So no, I dont have a hard time believing at all guys in good shape get hit on. Look around, most men 35 and older let themselves go to crap. I think if I were single, it might be tough to just find someone who is not distracted by looks only. (if you were looking for a lasting relationship). I like that I can still wear clothes and bled in at times. It is not always a good thing being defined by one's physique.

[Brackneyc]

Unless you are butt ugly I am sure it has happen more than you think and either you are just being modest or you really are clueless



.

Well, I am a little ugly in my defense. Maybe a bit modest, but mostly, I just don't think it is happening. I do a lot of compliments on my car, so there is that.

[anonymous]

"Good point Cass, but I do find older woman attractive physically, I just don't have anything in common with them because I find them boring. "

Just curious: Why do you find older women boring?

[bodyhard]

Well, I am a little ugly in my defense. Maybe a bit modest, but mostly, I just don't think it is happening. I do a lot of compliments on my car, so there is that.

LOL Modesty at is best! Props.

Just curious: Why do you find older women boring?

My mentality is very immature, some conversations older folks engage in bores the crap out of me. It is why many of my friends are younger, I just have more in common with them.

I find silly things entertaining and real life stuff like politics, daily occurrences, etc etc boring.

This place sometimes has some deep conversation threads and I read them and I be like "Holy f'cking Chris this sh!t is boring" and yet you can see how deep the members get on the subject.

I also have a thuggish thing about me and like women who can be my partner in crime if you know what I mean older women are just to "educated" for me.

Please don't get me wrong I am not knocking older women, it is just me and my immature ways.

[Smelly bull]

I get "hit" on, but I ignore it. "worse" situation was when I was hit on by my wife's best friend. I honestly thought she was being nice..lol. That ended that friendship quickly..

[pharmamarketer]

I get hit on, I just think it's a fuking joke to make threads about it. Act like you have been to the rodeo before.

[anonymous]

LOL Modesty at is best! Props.



My mentality is very immature, some conversations older folks engage in bores the crap out of me. It is why many of my friends are younger, I just have more in common with them.

I find silly things entertaining and real life stuff like politics, daily occurrences, etc etc boring.

This place sometimes has some deep conversation threads and I read them and I be like "Holy f'cking Chris this sh!t is boring" and yet you can see how deep the members get on the subject.

I also have a thuggish thing about me and like women who can be my partner in crime if you know what I mean older women are just to "educated" for me.

Please don't get me wrong I am not knocking older women, it is just me and my immature ways.

No, I totally get that.....good you have that awareness.

[bodyhard]

I get "hit" on, but I ignore it. "worse" situation was when I was hit on by my wife's best friend. I honestly thought she was being nice..lol. That ended that friendship quickly..

This happen with me and my two older brothers Ric and Nelson. With Ric it was his wife and they divorced over it, with Nelson it was just his girlfriend and he wanted to fight me me

I get hit on, I just think it's a fuking joke to make threads about it. Act like you have been to the rodeo before.

At least you are keeping it real.

[bodyhard]

No, I totally get that.....good you have that awareness.

Kool, I hate to think older women think I am dissing them in anyway, ohhh wait are you an older woman?

[Cass40]

Please don't get me wrong I am not knocking older women, it is just me and my immature ways.

Ahem.. ..older women can also be very immature or do you not know me????