Tinder Thread Part VIII: The Revival.

[coleworld]

I just added a new main pic. Went through hundreds of holiday pics to find the absolute best lighting, best angle face pic. Then made some minor photoshop touch ups. Now I'm matching like a male model troll account and get opened by chicks telling me how gorgeous I am.

Turns out Tinder is all about the face.

brb white knighting ugly chicks and whales with my blue steel pic to increase their ego's and further decrease beta's chances

photoshop? dats cheating mane .

do you guys actively text girls you match with that you like? Gets tedious
N dat feeling hbb texting you good morning

[coleworld]

I've barely even swiped...my location is set in manhattan...

and all my matches haven't logged in ranging from 4 days to a month....... ? no matter how I change the ages/range

check your pm man, pm ur profile

[tikeshe]

Actively seeking out GF material since I´m tired of ****ing random sluts. Am I doing it wrong?

Edit: does anyone even have a successful GF-story from Tinder?

Depends what you look for. I'd say any chick above 7+ on tinder isn't worth the effort. Will likely be more trouble than its worth if you ever date.

[imasadknicksfan]

check your pm man, pm ur profile

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[michael_xyz]

These bots are getting better.

They now all seem to have bios along the lines of "Tattoo fanatic. Beard enthusiast. Gym lover. Cake connoisseur." They're all along the same lines as well; "X fanatic, Y lover, Z enthusiast, XX pursuer".

[Defiled]

Yea the bots are getting pretty good, some will even make decent responses before posting the link to a scam site.

Another thing I've been doing recently is looking at the girls profiles, often times they will list their twitter or insta profile. Often times they use the same username on snapchat, add them, send a good pic. That trick has got me laid more times than trying to talk to them on Tinder.

[imasadknicksfan]

lmao. tinder plus is $40 a month? who in the world would pay that?

[michael_xyz]

Actively seeking out GF material since I´m tired of ****ing random sluts. Am I doing it wrong?

Edit: does anyone even have a successful GF-story from Tinder?

It's all possible.

I know some will think "only sloots are on it" but there will be some decent guys (like some of us here) who are on it too so it's not inconceivable.

I'm kinda with you on that. Managed to match with one chick (who only got Tinder that day and removed it the same day) who was into lifting and seemed cool. Good first date. But, she's a bit flaky and far too busy so I don't see anything developing.

[jasonjb]

i only match with girls that are 18-19 years old cant get anyone my age, what do?

[Shakes14]

Potential beta question

Speaking to a HBB on tinder and was away off some place with sh*t internet signal and whatnot which I dropped as a massive hint. She was like ohh just text me or whatsapp me if that's easier (not sure how it would be but yeah, she knew). So we've been whatsapping and then she just sort of stopped replying, I'm not sure if I'm being an idiot or not as I thought my last message was something that could easily be replied to but maybe not. I know she's read it as whatsapp now makes it abundantly clear when someone has read your message (that feel). I'd suggested meeting up for a drink this week when we're both free and she warmed to the idea, but I dunno if she's just not replying for a reason or I'm overthinking it. What sort of thing can I say to her as it's not like we're in a relationship and I can send her a gay text like "good morning my little ray of sunshine ".

Anyway yeah, I'm at a loss so someone pls respond

[-Gin-]

i only match with girls that are 18-19 years old cant get anyone my age, what do?

Why're you complaining? LOL!

Potential beta question

Speaking to a HBB on tinder and was away off some place with sh*t internet signal and whatnot which I dropped as a massive hint. She was like ohh just text me or whatsapp me if that's easier (not sure how it would be but yeah, she knew). So we've been whatsapping and then she just sort of stopped replying, I'm not sure if I'm being an idiot or not as I thought my last message was something that could easily be replied to but maybe not. I know she's read it as whatsapp now makes it abundantly clear when someone has read your message (that feel). I'd suggested meeting up for a drink this week when we're both free and she warmed to the idea, but I dunno if she's just not replying for a reason or I'm overthinking it. What sort of thing can I say to her as it's not like we're in a relationship and I can send her a gay text like "good morning my little ray of sunshine ".

Anyway yeah, I'm at a loss so someone pls respond

I’d just carry on with another topic of convo as if nothing happened. If she responds / back to normal texting, push again for idea of drink, etc.

[Shakes14]

Why're you complaining? LOL!


I’d just carry on with another topic of convo as if nothing happened. If she responds / back to normal texting, push again for idea of drink, etc.

What's your opinion on just asking if she's free on X day? Bit weird? I don't generally try and take a tinder girl on a date, I just meet them when I'm already out and do whatever, but this girl is actually interesting and good looking.

[-Gin-]

What's your opinion on just asking if she's free on X day? Bit weird? I don't generally try and take a tinder girl on a date, I just meet them when I'm already out and do whatever, but this girl is actually interesting and good looking.

I say go for it. You've got nothing to lose.

[michael_xyz]

Nothing to lose, really.

I doubt there's gonna be much you can do if she doesn't like you. So, worth a shot contacting her again and going from there.

[Shakes14]

I say go for it. You've got nothing to lose.

You're right. I feel like I'm overthinking this because I'm on a 2 year no gf streak and this girl seems far too interesting to just f*ck it all up with. I'll message her tonight, thanks mate. Can't rep atm!

[-Gin-]

You're right. I feel like I'm overthinking this because I'm on a 2 year no gf streak and this girl seems far too interesting to just f*ck it all up with. I'll message her tonight, thanks mate. Can't rep atm!

Best of luck, bro! I'm also on a 2 year no-gf streak (I think to the day, actually… ). And I’m also on a similar boat...so yeah, while we're on the topic of beta feels...



Cliffs:
- Hung out with girl Fri and Sat. Both nights just coffee/tea and chit-chat
- Ended both nights with hug...didn't feel comfortable pushing further as very little/no physical escalation (and she's quite shy)
- Texted lots rest of Saturday night and continued ‘til Sunday afternoon, but I haven't responded to her last text ‘cos the convo was kinda boring/felt forced
- Not looking to just be a late-night tea drinking partner, but not sure if it's too late to turn things a bit more physical/sexual now...
- Thoughts/advice appreciated. At the moment, I’m just waiting to see if she'll initiate text or not...wouldn't mind seeing her tomorrow 'cos I have the day off, but I also don't want to always be the one pushing for dates or I'll come off needy

[michael_xyz]

You're right. I feel like I'm overthinking this because I'm on a 2 year no gf streak and this girl seems far too interesting to just f*ck it all up with. I'll message her tonight, thanks mate. Can't rep atm!

Equally, don't just focus on one girl because that's a good way to become and look needy.

Best of luck, bro! I'm also on a 2 year no-gf streak (I think to the day, actually… ). And I’m also on a similar boat...so yeah, while we're on the topic of beta feels...



Cliffs:
- Hung out with girl Fri and Sat. Both nights just coffee/tea and chit-chat
- Ended both nights with hug...didn't feel comfortable pushing further as very little/no physical escalation (and she's quite shy)
- Texted lots rest of Saturday night and continued ‘til Sunday afternoon, but I haven't responded to her last text ‘cos the convo was kinda boring/felt forced
- Not looking to just be a late-night tea drinking partner, but not sure if it's too late to turn things a bit more physical/sexual now...
- Thoughts/advice appreciated. At the moment, I’m just waiting to see if she'll initiate text or not...wouldn't mind seeing her tomorrow 'cos I have the day off, but I also don't want to always be the one pushing for dates or I'll come off needy

If she's bothered to see you twice then I think it's fine to push date idea. Most girls will expect the guy to make plans, doesn't mean they're not into you or anything.

Also, YOLO and go for a kiss or something? Again, nothing to lose.

[mnbvcxz987]

Depends what you look for. I'd say any chick above 7+ on tinder isn't worth the effort. Will likely be more trouble than its worth if you ever date.

Definitely going for 7+. We´ll see, let the hunt commence!

[Shakes14]

Equally, don't just focus on one girl because that's a good way to become and look needy.

Funny you should say that, I have another tinder girl's number who wants to see me this coming weekend but holy sh*t she texts like a 2 year old "hahahaha omg I bet you cant drink as much as me!!" - genuinely says things like this. I'd happily fuk her but I'm not wanting to date her and spend my hard earned money on her which I'm pretty sure she's wanting, lol.

-Gin- I'd agree with the nothing to lose sentiment, if you go for a kiss and she's not keen then hey, you'll move on and forget about it soon enough.

[mnbvcxz987]

It's all possible.

I know some will think "only sloots are on it" but there will be some decent guys (like some of us here) who are on it too so it's not inconceivable.

I'm kinda with you on that. Managed to match with one chick (who only got Tinder that day and removed it the same day) who was into lifting and seemed cool. Good first date. But, she's a bit flaky and far too busy so I don't see anything developing.

Met with one who I thought might be worthy, but she ditched me after a couple of meets. Still don´t know why. Well well, my/your situation could be a lot worse.

[-Gin-]

If she's bothered to see you twice then I think it's fine to push date idea. Most girls will expect the guy to make plans, doesn't mean they're not into you or anything.

Also, YOLO and go for a kiss or something? Again, nothing to lose.

That’s what I’m hoping. Like I said, she was fine with texting, etc ‘til I stopped. I also joked about the idea of not seeing her again while we were out Saturday and she lol’d, but obviously didn’t want that to happen.

And very true. I find it easy to give people ideas, but I can’t seem to ever follow the same ideas myself lol

Funny you should say that, I have another tinder girl's number who wants to see me this coming weekend but holy sh*t she texts like a 2 year old "hahahaha omg I bet you cant drink as much as me!!" - genuinely says things like this. I'd happily fuk her but I'm not wanting to date her and spend my hard earned money on her which I'm pretty sure she's wanting, lol.

-Gin- I'd agree with the nothing to lose sentiment, if you go for a kiss and she's not keen then hey, you'll move on and forget about it soon enough.

I’ll give it a go depending on how the next time we meet up plays out. Thanks

It just feels weird ‘cos all my other dates went fine / at least resulted in making out by the end of the night...but this one’s tough to read (which makes her that much more interesting and makes me want to get her…lol)

[gmelchor]

brahs let me aware you on the new GOAT hit or miss line





from the second chick



reps for sending this w/responses

[tikeshe]

That’s what I’m hoping. Like I said, she was fine with texting, etc ‘til I stopped. I also joked about the idea of not seeing her again while we were out Saturday and she lol’d, but obviously didn’t want that to happen.

And very true. I find it easy to give people ideas, but I can’t seem to ever follow the same ideas myself lol


I’ll give it a go depending on how the next time we meet up plays out. Thanks

It just feels weird ‘cos all my other dates went fine / at least resulted in making out by the end of the night...but this one’s tough to read (which makes her that much more interesting and makes me want to get her…lol)

Don't wait til end to kiss. Just look in eyes, smile and kiss. If youre stood up, face her, hug, still hold, kiss. Don't make it a big thing. Kiss then continue as before. Don't bring it up. Kiss her again later on.

[Stryfe14]

Most recent catch, she's the girl on the right.

[Ravishing_Rick]

tried some black jesus line son my dtf account


didnt work at all , too fuking long

[gmelchor]

tried some black jesus line son my dtf account


didnt work at all , too fuking long

how many matches you get on DTF account? i was using my AVI as my main pic for a while but switched it to something more tame. will report back

[-Gin-]

Don't wait til end to kiss. Just look in eyes, smile and kiss. If youre stood up, face her, hug, still hold, kiss. Don't make it a big thing. Kiss then continue as before. Don't bring it up. Kiss her again later on.

Agreed. I'm way over thinking this lmao. Appreciate input, bro. I'll flick her a text later on tonight and see what she's doing tomorrow...or maybe wait 'til Friday. See how I'm feeling

[tikeshe]

Agreed. I'm way over thinking this lmao. Appreciate input, bro. I'll flick her a text later on tonight and see what she's doing tomorrow...or maybe wait 'til Friday. See how I'm feeling

Good luck bro. They find you hot enough to see you. Its pretty much like being in a club, but with some prior wooing.

Been using the spoon line. Worked 100% on all that replied to first message. Going drinking with one chick. We all know what that will lead to.

[otterakl]

Bros, thoughts on my pics? See below in order:

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[Stryfe14]

A fellow STL brah? I think your pics look fine man...i'd probably take out 6'2 from your bio, just because its obvious you're tall from your pics.