Girlfriend has guy friend texting constantly

[puremichigan1]

So long story short, before me and my girlfriend started dating she was friends with this guy. Then he started to like her but she started dating me because I had a friend who introduced us and we've been dating for two years now. Then he didn't talk to her since he was furious we were dating..then during the summer (about 7 months later he texted her) and they became best of friends again. I told her that she shouldn't be texting sone guy that used to like him, but she didn't care much. He said he was having problems with his girlfriend. As time went on he kept asking to hangout with her by themselves and I didn't want her going. But I'm not sure if she had been listening to me. Last weekend I saw a text saying that he wanted to hangout but made an excuse up because I was there. What should I do?

Clif
-guy liked her, stopped talking to each other after we start dating
-guy texts her later with girlfriend problems
-they become best friends
-she ignores me.. not wanting her to not talk to him, her excuse being they were friends for a long time
-guy keeps asking to hangout when he has a girlfriend who doesn't like them talking so much either

[Krolczyk]

I was in a situation like this and her "friend" was just a fuk buddy that she had before we dated I found out about it and dumped her
Now she's my fb8)

[puremichigan1]

I was in a situation like this and her "friend" was just a fuk buddy that she had before we dated I found out about it and dumped her
Now she's my fb8)

Hmm should I dump her and try to forget everything? In the text it looks like he tries to flirt with her and she said she likes "pushing his buttons"

[Rethon]

If your girlfriend was real have her set him up to chill with her thinking its gonna be her by herself and surprise him and be like "whatsup mannn heard you been talking to my girl, whatsup lil *****?" ya dig?

If she ain't real, dump her cuz hes probably ****ing her behind your back man, hate to break it to ya.

[Sustain]

Hmm should I dump her and try to forget everything? In the text it looks like he tries to flirt with her and she said she likes "pushing his buttons"

yes

[jjwattt]

Op I agree with what there saying, it's time to cut ties with her if she and h start to hangout

[James24WR]

Dump her and beat the **** outta him.

[NattyPeanuts]

Dump her and beat the **** outta him.

With his own dick.

[Achieving]

Just confront her about it and say you don't like her talking to him as frequently she does due to the seriousness of your relationship, and that he might hinder it

[puremichigan1]

Just confront her about it and say you don't like her talking to him as frequently she does due to the seriousness of your relationship, and that he might hinder it

I've done this several times and she still continues to talk to him daily.. Something similar happened when someone messaged her on ********. I saw the first thing he sent her and started flirting...again I said I knew what this guy was after. She then talked to him after I said not to and she said she wouldn't. Then to my amazement I see that they were texting a few days after that. Again told her to stop and she said would, only to see she was still texting him a week later. I haven't seen her text the guy from ******** since..

[puremichigan1]

With his own dick.

Seems like the only logical option at this point :/

[James24WR]

I've done this several times and she still continues to talk to him daily.. Something similar happened when someone messaged her on ********. I saw the first thing he sent her and started flirting...again I said I knew what this guy was after. She then talked to him after I said not to and she said she wouldn't. Then to my amazement I see that they were texting a few days after that. Again told her to stop and she said would, only to see she was still texting him a week later. I haven't seen her text the guy from ******** since..

Definitly dump her

[Rethon]

it seems like you're girl is a class a thot man, sorry to break it to ya...

[puremichigan1]

it seems like you're girl is a class a thot man, sorry to break it to ya...

Definitly dump her

How should I end this relationship?

[AlexxVann]

I've done this several times and she still continues to talk to him daily.. Something similar happened when someone messaged her on ********. I saw the first thing he sent her and started flirting...again I said I knew what this guy was after. She then talked to him after I said not to and she said she wouldn't. Then to my amazement I see that they were texting a few days after that. Again told her to stop and she said would, only to see she was still texting him a week later. I haven't seen her text the guy from ******** since..

Even if she's not slooting around with these guys, here are the red flags;

She's talking to other guys you've asked her not to, even lied about it <-- Shows disrespect for you
She's probably seeking validation from other guys so she's probably not ready to be in a relationship.

[jjwattt]

Just end it, and op if she honestly still has interest in you she will try to talk to you and discuss whats happening.

[James24WR]

How should I end this relationship?

Tell her you asked her over and over and said it would complicate the relationship. Them say it's over because you obviously can't do a simple thing to keep our relationship. Tell her you can't trust her and it's over.




Then beat the snot out of the guy.

[AlexxVann]

How should I end this relationship?

Just arrange to speak to meet her at a public place or at her house, somewhere where you have an easy get away (definately not at your house)

Just say if you keep speaking to other guys then you've obviously not ready for a relationship, you're sorry but it's over.

Then go no contact because she'll probably start blowing your phone up. Leopard doesn't change it's spots overnight bro, don't fall for it.

[Nicholass1]

The question is ... Do you trust her? .. if no, you know what you have to do. If you can trust her.. you are going to either endure that or ... best idea would be to become friend with her friend. You keep your enemies close but your ''friends'' closer.. so just be mr. Niceguy for now until you have any kind of proof that she is actually cheating on you OP.

hope that helps

[Staliyo_Lycan]

only reason for a guy to constantly talk to a girl is because he wants to smash unless obvious reasons ( gay )

edit:

just read more, if shes lying to you then dump her. not much you can do if youve already told her how you feel in that situation

[AlexxVann]

The question is ... Do you trust her? .. if no, you know what you have to do. If you can trust her.. you are going to either endure that or ... best idea would be to become friend with her friend. You keep your enemies close but your ''friends'' closer.. so just be mr. Niceguy for now until you have any kind of proof that she is actually cheating on you OP.

hope that helps

The fact that she shows enough disrespect towards OP to continue messaging her male friends in flirtacious ways after he's asked her not to do it is grounds to break up with her.
Not to mention the fact that she lied about it lol.

No brainer.

[backmarker]

Use her phone to setup a meet. Act like you're her, then sleep with him....



Not srs. Sorry brosef dump her

[puremichigan1]

Just end it, and op if she honestly still has interest in you she will try to talk to you and discuss whats happening.

She tries but she wants to talk to the guy about not talking to each other. She hasn't been talking to him for like two days ( so she tells me anyway) and he called her and she picked up and wants to talk about what's going on.

Just arrange to speak to meet her at a public place or at her house, somewhere where you have an easy get away (definately not at your house)

Just say if you keep speaking to other guys then you've obviously not ready for a relationship, you're sorry but it's over.

Then go no contact because she'll probably start blowing your phone up. Leopard doesn't change it's spots overnight bro, don't fall for it.

She even told me she doesn't want to stop talking to this guy.







Then beat the snot out of the guy.[/QUOTE]

The question is ... Do you trust her? .. if no, you know what you have to do. If you can trust her.. you are going to either endure that or ... best idea would be to become friend with her friend. You keep your enemies close but your ''friends'' closer.. so just be mr. Niceguy for now until you have any kind of proof that she is actually cheating on you OP.

hope that helps

I don't really know if i can really trust her after lying about not talking to a guy she met on ********..one of her past relationships even started from talking on ******** and that was the first guy she has ever banged

only reason for a guy to constantly talk to a girl is because he wants to smash unless obvious reasons ( gay )

edit:

just read more, if shes lying to you then dump her. not much you can do if youve already told her how you feel in that situation

I've told her how I feel and she says I shouldn't get mad over this because they're just friends when I think she has hungout in the past with him. He texted her saying "it's that time again" and she goes "what?" then he goes on to say he wants to hangout

[Staliyo_Lycan]

just dump her ffs

r u looking for some validation to not dump her?

[puremichigan1]

just dump her ffs

r u looking for some validation to not dump her?

about to dump her now

[AlexxVann]

Disregard the guys she's talking too, not worth even touching/talking to them.
Stop contimplating the situation and break up with her.

She's lied to you
Keeps speaking to guys + a random guy off ******** <-- lol wtf


Can't believe you're still talking about this.

[Rethon]

OP if you don't dump her by the time I finish making this protein shake you are a *******

[elrino15]

So long story short, before me and my girlfriend started dating she was friends with this guy. Then he started to like her but she started dating me because I had a friend who introduced us and we've been dating for two years now. Then he didn't talk to her since he was furious we were dating..then during the summer (about 7 months later he texted her) and they became best of friends again. I told her that she shouldn't be texting sone guy that used to like him, but she didn't care much. He said he was having problems with his girlfriend. As time went on he kept asking to hangout with her by themselves and I didn't want her going. But I'm not sure if she had been listening to me. Last weekend I saw a text saying that he wanted to hangout but made an excuse up because I was there. What should I do?

Clif
-guy liked her, stopped talking to each other after we start dating
-guy texts her later with girlfriend problems
-they become best friends
-she ignores me.. not wanting her to not talk to him, her excuse being they were friends for a long time
-guy keeps asking to hangout when he has a girlfriend who doesn't like them talking so much either

stop being beta OP

[AlexxVann]

stop being beta OP

Posts like this doesn't help at all;

If you're the alpha male you seem to think you are, how about helping out a younger bro and give some advice?

[NattyPeanuts]

Seems like the only logical option at this point :/

Hehe you're so nice how could anyone not like you.