Bish just walked away after a date without saying anything

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

This is exactly my reasoning. She's ****ing 30. Not a child. If she were 18 I would be much less surprised.

Truth

I disagree, simply because if she's willing to act so childishly and does, then she's not going to care what your opinion of it is either.

If anything, it will just provide a laugh between her and her other immature girlfriends.

A lot of people tend to get away with things, or, feel like their actions are okay because others are afraid to voice their displeasure. She's not above being called out for her sh**. Doesn't make OP butthurt to say something about it.

[Bignate65]

m8, she's 30 and single. She has more baggage then the fucing Malaysian Airlines. I'm sure in her world she excepted u to chase after her and beg her for her attention so she could have an ego boost and remind herself that even though that ******* Steve left her; she still has it.

[purekarbolyn]

go full contact

This. double or maybe even triple text her tonight OP.

[invain]

Boyfriend is the difference again. They all want you to pay first date or two. Even when they make some half assed offer it is a chit test. I think dating is fukked like that, but I am telling you that is almost def the reason why a seemingly good date ended with your date ditching you without a word.

I had a girl tell me once before the bill even came that she always pays her half. Everybody is different.

[UofI210066]

Who gives a chit? Hit the gym, go for a run, and get back out there. Her loss. There's mean people all over the world, be glad you saw this side right away, and not wasted months with her.

And I've had plenty of girls pay for the bill or split the bill. In terms of getting laid, it did not matter. I got laid with a girl that bought my drinks and with many girls that split the bill. Second date, I pay for it all.
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[BlackHeart.au]

You *******s bitch and moan about gold digging sloots and then you bash me for splitting the bill? Lmfao. She offered when I whipped out my card out fuk if I'm going to say no. I have tons of respect for girls that want to split the bill. I don't expect it all the time and of course I'm going to pay for dinner and chit, but it shows that you have some independence and aren't some leech whore. I know plenty of good women that split/pay for **** with their boyfriends all the time.

On the first 3 dates I paid for all 3. After a month my girl would literally spoil me with gifts and pay for ****. Men have to put in the effort first before she starts to gain trust.

[HandsomeAryan]

You *******s bitch and moan about gold digging sloots and then you bash me for splitting the bill? Lmfao. She offered when I whipped out my card out fuk if I'm going to say no. I have tons of respect for girls that want to split the bill. I don't expect it all the time and of course I'm going to pay for dinner and chit, but it shows that you have some independence and aren't some leech whore. I know plenty of good women that split/pay for **** with their boyfriends all the time.

You're not her boyfriend. You made a terrible first impression by not paying and came off as cheap. Girls expect the man to pay. How do you not know this already? At least pretend like you have money to spend.

[usethejitz]

I had a girl tell me once before the bill even came that she always pays her half. Everybody is different.

My GF split the bill up until we decided to be officially dating. going 3 years now. feels good man

[invain]

A lot of people tend to get away with things, or, feel like their actions are okay because others are afraid to voice their displeasure. She's not above being called out for her sh**. Doesn't make OP butthurt to say something about it.

Black Jesus I'm curious what your opinion is with the bill splitting. I've paid for plenty of first dates and kindly told a couple "No, but I appreciate it" when they offer, but it's usually much younger chicks still in college. I had a 21 year old almost get pissed when I wouldn't let her pay once, so you'd think it wouldn't be a big deal to somebody that's 30 and makes decent money.

[LiftHeavy85]

This is why bishes do what they do, beta cuckhold *******s too afraid to call them out on their ****.


gj OP, let her know what a kunt she is and has no manners.

[UofI210066]

My GF split the bill up until we decided to be officially dating. going 3 years now. feels good man

Now that's a good person. Girl 'm seeing now is the same way, down to earth, and isn't a bish.

[usethejitz]

On the first 3 dates I paid for all 3. After a month my girl would literally spoil me with gifts and pay for ****. Men have to put in the effort first before she starts to gain trust.

Yes, but not everyone gets what they want out of paying for the women first time or two. They could have just wasted their money. This is why I think cheaper first dates like coffee and a walk are 20x better.

[usethejitz]

Now that's a good person. Girl 'm seeing now is the same way, down to earth, and isn't a bish.

lets rejoice in our fortune brah

[UofI210066]

Black Jesus I'm curious what your opinion is with the bill splitting. I've payed for plenty of first dates and kindly told a couple "No, but I appreciate it" when they offer, but it's usually much younger chicks still in college. I had a 21 year old almost get pissed when I wouldn't let her pay once, so you'd think it wouldn't be a big deal to somebody that's 30 and makes decent money.

Not black jesus, but younger girls are more liberal and therefore are less into traditional gender roles. If they're smart they want to be seen as equals and humans, not a woman.

Older ladies may be just more traditional in nature, who knows

[Cinderblock]

Black Jesus I'm curious what your opinion is with the bill splitting. I've paid for plenty of first dates and kindly told a couple "No, but I appreciate it" when they offer, but it's usually much younger chicks still in college. I had a 21 year old almost get pissed when I wouldn't let her pay once, so you'd think it wouldn't be a big deal to somebody that's 30 and makes decent money.

How come you're 5'9" 230 and not fat?

[Beauuu]

I said "Damn not even a good bye". That's it, I definitely don't plan on trying to see her again. Just want her to know that was a kunt move.

As far as the drinks go, she's 30 years old and has a job. We had like 2 drinks each. If I like the girl and take her out to dinner of course I'm going to buy, but first time meeting, and a couple drinks, c'mon. I've had other girls insist on splitting the tab and they get pissed when I say I want to pay. My sister is the same way, she used to pay for her boyfriends all the time.

Smfh, you learn nothing from misc?

[invain]

Smfh, you learn nothing from misc?

You guys constantly suck Black Jesus' dick when it comes to talking to women and even he agrees with me on saying something to her.

[AJ7123]

Are you sure she saw you there? Maybe she thought you left??

Did you meet her online?

[HandsomeAryan]

You guys constantly suck Black Jesus' dick when it comes to talking to women and even he agrees with me on saying something to her.

I'm guessing she hasn't responded to your text and isn't going to. So there was no point in doing that.

[kingskipper]

did she text you back?

[xavengedx23]

Would not waste a second of time talking to her again.

" Black jesus"and OP are both in the wrong.

[Petorius12]

her friend probably came along from the start. at the end of the date, she went over to see if her friend approved of you. she said no, so...

[Kaduceus]

I've split the bill with 9/10's IRL standards on plenty of dates before and never had any problems

This woman is just a kunt deep down in her soul... that's all

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

Black Jesus I'm curious what your opinion is with the bill splitting. I've paid for plenty of first dates and kindly told a couple "No, but I appreciate it" when they offer, but it's usually much younger chicks still in college. I had a 21 year old almost get pissed when I wouldn't let her pay once, so you'd think it wouldn't be a big deal to somebody that's 30 and makes decent money.

I definitely agree with the Dutch principle. Until something has been established, it keeps both parties from "owing" one another something. It doesn't make a man less of a man for not paying. You can still accomplish your goal and get somewhere by setting ground rules in the beginning.

[invain]

Are you sure she saw you there? Maybe she thought you left??

Did you meet her online?

Yes online. She didn't even look around for me I was standing like 15 feet from the door. She walked right out with the girl she was talking to and down the street in the opposite direction from me.

[Kaduceus]

I definitely agree with the Dutch principle. Until something has been established, it keeps both parties from "owing" one another something. It doesn't make a man less of a man for not paying. You can still accomplish your goal and get somewhere by setting ground rules in the beginning.

This

anyone saying otherwise, who worries about coming off as a tight wad on the first date, really needs to understand how to set the tone you aren't a doormat and you don't need to pay for her attention and affection

[weightgainnow1]

I think it was the bill too. Girls who are older EXPECT the man to pay first date. Not because they are traditional because thats what they are used to. She prob thought 26 yo guy (younger than me) + couldnt foot the bill of 2 drinks = cheap/doesnt have his **** together.

I dont like to pay but for some reason I always pay first dates. I don't go on that many tho so its ok.

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

Would not waste a second of time talking to her again.

" Black jesus"and OP are both in the wrong.

Explain.

We're just talking as men, so please, if this will turn in arguing, let's not do it. (Not you personally, in general)

[invain]

I'm going to bed brahs I'll bump this if she responds in the morning.

[LordBroski]

Maybe she wanted nothing to do with you after, and luckily found her friend and used her as a scapegoat. Chicks are harsh and flaky these days.

Either way, she's disrespectful and socially retarded, so go no contact.