Dirty South Crew- Suck My Banana, Dick__Guzzler

[danap3681]

well its official

if all goes well (God willing)

I will be a grandma by October

Awesome news!!!

[dougefresh93]

well its official

if all goes well (God willing)

I will be a grandma by October

congrats latebloominggrandmom... da lbgm

[latebloomingmom]

thank you...had weirdest feeling turning 45 was gonna be year of big changes..



on unrelated note

ex husband is getting married this saturday
oldest son is standing up as groomsman
youngest son told dad "no thanks"




went to pick youngest up yesterday and walked into
ex in kitchen cooking dinner with his fiancee helping...


it was an odd feeling
they are honeymooning in mexico
and then he is moving all his stuff into her house
we have only been divorced a year

[Kezzyukbrah]

Happy Monday!!!!!

Said nobody.........ever

congrats lbm .

[latebloomingmom]

alright here is the third issue



and ya'll need to let me know if I over-reacted on this one

valentines day
I reserved a hotel room
bought tickets to ballet
got a card I wrote heart felt things in
box of chocolates

for this person I have been seeing since november

ok back history
I have this coat I have been wearing for years now
carhart jacket given to me by my ex husband 8 years ago
still in good shape
happens to have a picture of the boat my ex husband work on
on back of it

man I am dating has mentioned its kinda like wearing a varsity football jacket
after breaking up with quarterback
honestly all I thought is its still in good shape
why fork out dough for new one

so guess what he bought me on valentine's day?

got a card with just his name signed on it
and a coat ...

I went ballistic

[Bando]

Decided to try something new and put a twist on a classic and instead of simply arriving with flowers, showed up to the door with flowers that were fully wrapped and used an unopened tub of protein as the vase. (just poked the steams through the seal)

Greatest reaction I've ever seen

Nice!

[enexi0688]

Nice!

That's Bando quality romance right there.

[doughnutgut]

well its official

if all goes well (God willing)

I will be a grandma by October

I don't charge for the use of DNG as the name.


Just sayin.

Congrats. Happy days.

[dougefresh93]

alright here is the third issue



and ya'll need to let me know if I over-reacted on this one

valentines day
I reserved a hotel room
bought tickets to ballet
got a card I wrote heart felt things in
box of chocolates

for this person I have been seeing since november

ok back history
I have this coat I have been wearing for years now
carhart jacket given to me by my ex husband 8 years ago
still in good shape
happens to have a picture of the boat my ex husband work on
on back of it

man I am dating has mentioned its kinda like wearing a varsity football jacket
after breaking up with quarterback
honestly all I thought is its still in good shape
why fork out dough for new one

so guess what he bought me on valentine's day?

got a card with just his name signed on it
and a coat ...

I went ballistic

y? sounds like he likes you.

[penny0527]

alright here is the third issue



and ya'll need to let me know if I over-reacted on this one

valentines day
I reserved a hotel room
bought tickets to ballet
got a card I wrote heart felt things in
box of chocolates

for this person I have been seeing since november

ok back history
I have this coat I have been wearing for years now
carhart jacket given to me by my ex husband 8 years ago
still in good shape
happens to have a picture of the boat my ex husband work on
on back of it

man I am dating has mentioned its kinda like wearing a varsity football jacket
after breaking up with quarterback
honestly all I thought is its still in good shape
why fork out dough for new one

so guess what he bought me on valentine's day?

got a card with just his name signed on it
and a coat ...

I went ballistic

I can see your side. The reason I see his is because I was going to say (before I read he bought you a new one) that if he doesn't like the coat then he can replace it.

Maybe your actions convey that you haven't really moved on (in his eyes) and the coat is another reminder?

Congratulations on becoming a grandmother.

[Tannerus4]

alright here is the third issue



and ya'll need to let me know if I over-reacted on this one

valentines day
I reserved a hotel room
bought tickets to ballet
got a card I wrote heart felt things in
box of chocolates

for this person I have been seeing since november

ok back history
I have this coat I have been wearing for years now
carhart jacket given to me by my ex husband 8 years ago
still in good shape
happens to have a picture of the boat my ex husband work on
on back of it

man I am dating has mentioned its kinda like wearing a varsity football jacket
after breaking up with quarterback
honestly all I thought is its still in good shape
why fork out dough for new one

so guess what he bought me on valentine's day?

got a card with just his name signed on it
and a coat ...

I went ballistic

would have pissed me off

[danap3681]

Thinking of heading to Memphis May 15-17 for the World Championship Barbeque Contest. Part of Memphis in May. Saw it yesterday on Adam Richman's Fandamonium. Over 250 teams competing. Oh yeah... imagine all that awesome BBQ!! Who is coming with me???

http://www.travelchannel.com/tv-show...ctures?page=14

[enexi0688]

Thinking of heading to Memphis May 15-17 for the World Championship Barbeque Contest. Part of Memphis in May. Saw it yesterday on Adam Richman's Fandamonium. Over 250 teams competing. Oh yeah... imagine all that awesome BBQ!! Who is coming with me???

http://www.travelchannel.com/tv-show...ctures?page=14

Would be tasty. It's about a 7.5 hour drive for me.

[Bigdumogre]

would have pissed me off

Would piss me off your still wearing exs coat

I can see his side

[IronCharles]

Thoughts on Intermittent Fapping? I have heard good and bad things.

I'm more a fan of regular and daily, myself.

[InItForFitness]

Such protonz....much gainz...

[TJB85]

Thinking of heading to Memphis May 15-17 for the World Championship Barbeque Contest. Part of Memphis in May. Saw it yesterday on Adam Richman's Fandamonium. Over 250 teams competing. Oh yeah... imagine all that awesome BBQ!! Who is coming with me???

http://www.travelchannel.com/tv-show...ctures?page=14

That would be amazing I love BBQ. Now I may have to tell peach!

[danap3681]

^^^^ Damn what a stash!!!


Lando... sucks we are so far away! Would be cool as shyt to meet up at something like that!

[danap3681]

That would be amazing I love BBQ. Now I may have to tell peach!

I know the people from The Shed in Ocean Springs, MS go there every year to compete. They have a show on tv. Not sure what channel though.

Found it... Food Network.

I have been to Memphis a couple of times and both times I ate...


you guessed it... BBQ! LOL!

[Tannerus4]

Thinking of heading to Memphis May 15-17 for the World Championship Barbeque Contest. Part of Memphis in May. Saw it yesterday on Adam Richman's Fandamonium. Over 250 teams competing. Oh yeah... imagine all that awesome BBQ!! Who is coming with me???

http://www.travelchannel.com/tv-show...ctures?page=14

Ive wanted to go to this for YEARS

[InItForFitness]

^^^^ Damn what a stash!!!

Who needs a tax return right?

They've had some great deals on the store lately so I capitalized while I could.

The 3 tubs of SciVation were won through promotion so that was nice, and the Intensity Recover was part of my rep comp.

[DivaJana]

Thoughts on Intermittent Fasting? I have heard good and bad things.

Just another eating schedule that may or may not fit your life style. Nothing special at all.

I have done it multiple times, didn't notice much pros or cons except for the fact that it was convenient for my life style at the times i used it.

well its official

if all goes well (God willing)

I will be a grandma by October

Congratulations!

[Miked1978]

Thoughts on Intermittent Fasting? I have heard good and bad things.

I've been doing it for about 1.5 years now. Love it. If i could just eat better altogether i'd be a lot more cut then i am now. Its really more of a lifestyle change then anything. At least for me. The first 3 weeks i did IF i dropped like 20 lbs and just been maintaining ever since. Didn't lose any strength and now i eat just about whatever i want as long i stick to the basic principles and not go overboard.

If you are great at dieting to begin with i don't see any point in IF for you unless you just want to give it a try. It just helps me limit my calories as when i was doing 4-5 meals a day they always ended up being big meals instead of small.

[latebloomingmom]

thanks on being a grandma I am excited



ugh..ya know I bounced this whole got me a coat fiasco off my 21 year old son
and logically I can see his side of this
but what pissed me off is if I wanted a new coat I would have bought one

now I offered the jacket to both my sons since it belongs to their dad
and my youngest son took it

not like I am still wearing my wedding ring...
I hocked that sucker a long time ago


our arguement kinda went like this
" I am my own person cot damn it all
capable of buying my own clothes
if I want a coat then I will buy one
the coat is not worn out and still usable
and I really never gave it a thought or gave a rat's azz
what it had printed on it...its my f*kin coat
you think I wanna go from having a ring on my finger he bought
and a coat he bought right into this ...now I gotta wear a coat you bought"

his response:
" I bought you the coat because I want you to be your own person
to finally step away from any remenents or reminders of your past
and to be you
I thought of you and that you would be wearing in around campus
and I did the best I could picking it out
buying clothing for a woman is tricky business
too big and you are in dog house
too small...same thing
I am not trying to put my stamp of belonging on you
did I buy you a coat with my name and business sewn on it??"

relationships are lots of fun

[penny0527]

thanks on being a grandma I am excited



ugh..ya know I bounced this whole got me a coat fiasco off my 21 year old son
and logically I can see his side of this
but what pissed me off is if I wanted a new coat I would have bought one

now I offered the jacket to both my sons since it belongs to their dad
and my youngest son took it

not like I am still wearing my wedding ring...
I hocked that sucker a long time ago


our arguement kinda went like this
" I am my own person cot damn it all
capable of buying my own clothes
if I want a coat then I will buy one
the coat is not worn out and still usable
and I really never gave it a thought or gave a rat's azz
what it had printed on it...its my f*kin coat
you think I wanna go from having a ring on my finger he bought
and a coat he bought right into this ...now I gotta wear a coat you bought"

his response:
" I bought you the coat because I want you to be your own person
to finally step away from any remenents or reminders of your past
and to be you
I thought of you and that you would be wearing in around campus
and I did the best I could picking it out
buying clothing for a woman is tricky business
too big and you are in dog house
too small...same thing
I am not trying to put my stamp of belonging on you
did I buy you a coat with my name and business sewn on it??"

He sounds like a logical fellow.

I know that isn't what you want to hear but he sure sounds level headed and not at all possessive.

If you aren't ready for a relationship you aren't ready. Are you ready? You seem to balk at anything that goes into commited relationship territory. Men buy gifts to show affection. The fact that he went into the women's clothing section.....well that's brave right there.

[Vexidi]

thanks on being a grandma I am excited



ugh..ya know I bounced this whole got me a coat fiasco off my 21 year old son
and logically I can see his side of this
but what pissed me off is if I wanted a new coat I would have bought one

now I offered the jacket to both my sons since it belongs to their dad
and my youngest son took it

not like I am still wearing my wedding ring...
I hocked that sucker a long time ago


our arguement kinda went like this
" I am my own person cot damn it all
capable of buying my own clothes
if I want a coat then I will buy one
the coat is not worn out and still usable
and I really never gave it a thought or gave a rat's azz
what it had printed on it...its my f*kin coat
you think I wanna go from having a ring on my finger he bought
and a coat he bought right into this ...now I gotta wear a coat you bought"

his response:
" I bought you the coat because I want you to be your own person
to finally step away from any remenents or reminders of your past
and to be you
I thought of you and that you would be wearing in around campus
and I did the best I could picking it out
buying clothing for a woman is tricky business
too big and you are in dog house
too small...same thing
I am not trying to put my stamp of belonging on you
did I buy you a coat with my name and business sewn on it??"

relationships are lots of fun

If it's just a coat and you don't give a rats ass you wouldn't have made a big deal out of the dude buying you a coat. You obviously do give a rats ass because you expended energy arguing over something trivial instead of saying thanks for the gift.

[latebloomingmom]

mmmmm....see had to fight hard for my freedom
from a controller
this makes me mmmmm overly sensitive at times
I think..

its what my son said too
"ma all he did was give you a present and you flew off handle"
I have thought about it and since apologized and said thank you
and yes I think there is merit in the possiblity that I was still
holding onto a little bit of my past and not sure yet if I was ready to let it go
even though I was the one who filed for divorce and walked away


am I ready for a committed relationship? sh*t who knows..

my oldest son reminded me that I hated that coat eight years ago
when my now ex husband gave it to me
and hated he expected me to where it anytime we went out
but that over the years I did it to keep him happy
and just got used to it
and that this man took the time to think about what you like
and what might make you happy
and did not give you something
with his name on it
marking his territory to wear around for all to see

thanks for input everyone
sometimes my first reaction is anger
not always the right one

[penny0527]

yes I think there is merit in the possiblity that I was still
holding onto a little bit of my past and not sure yet if I was ready to let it go
even though I was the one who filed for divorce and walked away

And I'm sure he sees this

[Vexidi]

Well the question is what does the new coat look like? Frankly I can't take the suspense.



???

[Tannerus4]

mmmmm....see had to fight hard for my freedom
from a controller
this makes me mmmmm overly sensitive at times
I think..

its what my son said too
"ma all he did was give you a present and you flew off handle"
I have thought about it and since apologized and said thank you
and yes I think there is merit in the possiblity that I was still
holding onto a little bit of my past and not sure yet if I was ready to let it go
even though I was the one who filed for divorce and walked away


am I ready for a committed relationship? sh*t who knows..

my oldest son reminded me that I hated that coat eight years ago
when my now ex husband gave it to me
and hated he expected me to where it anytime we went out
but that over the years I did it to keep him happy
and just got used to it
and that this man took the time to think about what you like
and what might make you happy
and did not give you something
with his name on it
marking his territory to wear around for all to see

thanks for input everyone
sometimes my first reaction is anger
not always the right one

good that you realize these things...
I admire you. for many reasons...the biggest one being you had the balls to file and walk away. I'm not there yet. Scared to death that I can't make it on my own, scared to be MORE lonely than I am right now. scared to be a failure...so I commend you for being able to do something many can't. I do want out. I don't know how I'd survive.