Most men in this forum don't understand what makes women tick

[demoniclizard]

They don’t understand the forces that rage inside of every woman.



-She has one force that is her desire to be desired. This craving is insatiable, it’s like a tidal wave that rushes through her psyche and her body all the time. She longs to be looked at, to be noticed, to be wanted, to be so sexy that men can’t resist her, and other women can’t resist hating her. This is the main reason girls both love to get naked, and/or show off their bodies in as many ways as they can(always of course while protesting to the contrary). There’s no such thing as too much attention, as long as it’s not always coming from the same source.



-She has her ever present lust to obtain resources. This is rooted in her hypergamous need to seek out the strongest seed, and to trade up whenever possible to get the best deal. Provision, protection, status, she will take as much as she can get, by official or unofficial whoredom, with no apologies and no regrets. If you could literally give a woman the moon, she would soon ask you if you could relocate to a new Earth that had two moons, so she could have that second one too.



-It’s her third desirous force that seems to present the biggest head scratching conundrum for males, because it oft manifests itself in behavior that would seem to indicate the opposite. It’s rooted in the fact that Adam both named Eve and called her a woman. She longs to be dominated and conquered by a man stronger than she is; a man so powerful that he can plant his flag over her first two desires and bring her under control. She longs to be whatever you call her; she longs to be defined by the strength and the naming of her man. And, whatever you call her will imprint on her mind. If you think she’s attractive, and say so, she will think so; if you call her fat, she’ll see that when she looks in the mirror.

Now you can see why girls crave their father’s everything, and why women that are 10s are so shocked by men that ignore them. When a woman is a 10 she’s gotten used to men falling all over her with gifts and compliments, as men have been doing so since she was 13 years old. So a man that doesn't is a mystery and an anomaly to her mind. She must know why this man is seemingly immune to her charms, as all the other men seem not to be. It’s also the quiet but nagging insecurity trip of every pretty girl. Her mind is always saying, “Yah but…am I really pretty? And…for how long?”

By understanding these three internal forces, you ought to be able to see where much of human behavior comes from. Women that keep trying to prove that they are “strong” and “independent” are actively trying to reject their third desire, and acquire resources on their own. To literally not be defined by a man, as they’ve been told that that part of femininity is weak and needs to be categorically rejected. And when they do, they wake up in midlife in Spinsterville having never been married, childless, and often suicidally lonely.

http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/...ladies/308654/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/ar...n-like-me.html

And why? Because as much as they claim they don’t want to belong to a man, their deepest yearning is just the opposite. They want their life full of the smell of his strength and status(and last name), and they want their belly continually full of his babies. The more they can put an apron on you and tell you to get in the kitchen and fix them a sandwich, the more sexual attraction is running out of them like a car with a hole in the gas tank. And God help you if you are one of those men that has taken his wife’s last name. Ugh. She was cheating on you at the wedding. Go rewatch the footage.



Women that are constantly shrieking about how “they don’t need a man” are fighting themselves, consciously or not, and that’s the source of the outwardly manifested turmoil and turpitude. This is also why men that acquiesce, and give them whatever they want without conquering them or defining them produce that sense of “something’s missing.” Whenever a woman has to talk herself into gratitude, i.e., “I’ve got a man that’s good to me and loves me, why aren’t I haaaapy?” it’s because he hasn’t been strong enough to define her. Put her in her place. Conquer her. Name her. Make her his. TINGLES, motherfoogers. That’s what she yearns for more than anything.

The secret that women will never tell you is that these swirling forces inside of them tend to really overwhelm them. Sometimes they hate themselves for what they’ve done, and would do, just to achieve validation. Oh what a girl will do just to feel wanted, even if it’s only temporary. It’s why girls have a Walk of Shame, and guys really don’t (unless it’s seriously ugly chicks). It’s why girls love to do what Jamie Foxx said and blame it on the alcohol(which doesn’t turn you into someone you’re not, it just lowers your inhibitions). Because they don’t really want to admit the truth out loud, that they are constantly craving male attention, validation, definition, and domination, and they’ll sleep with many a guy just to try and drown out that unsilenceable siren blaring in their souls. Their hypergamy combined with their attention whoring is what has been unleashed without restraint through feminism, and now you should be able to see why feminists fight so hard against the third desire for domination. Why do you think women want to be spanked, tied up, pounded senseless sexually, and have rape fantasies? Let’s examine Amazon’s description of Fifty Shades of Grey, shall we?

When literature student Anastasia Steele goes to interview young entrepreneur Christian Grey, she encounters a man who is beautiful, brilliant, and intimidating. The unworldly, innocent Ana is startled to realize she wants this man and, despite his enigmatic reserve, finds she is desperate to get close to him. Unable to resist Ana’s quiet beauty, wit, and independent spirit, Grey admits he wants her, too—but on his own terms.

Shocked yet thrilled by Grey’s singular erotic tastes, Ana hesitates. For all the trappings of success—his multinational businesses, his vast wealth, his loving family—Grey is a man tormented by demons and consumed by the need to control. When the couple embarks on a daring, passionately physical affair, Ana discovers Christian Grey’s secrets and explores her own dark desires.

Erotic, amusing, and deeply moving, the Fifty Shades Trilogy is a tale that will obsess you, possess you, and stay with you forever.

This book is intended for mature audiences.

Didja catch all that? Why do you think women have responded to this work by the millions, just like Twilight before it? Because it speaks to everything that they want. A beautiful but intimidating man sets his own terms for having her because he can’t resist her, and she, caught in his wake, has the rationalization she needs to let her own inner skank loose. Because without being taken and owned by a man, women still feel out of control about the first two of their desires, and still don’t have the real definition that they crave. This is why men without a lot of resources but with a lot of confidence can get very far. That longing to be named and defined by Adam is something that they cannot achieve on their own, no matter how hard they try.

If Fifty Shades of Grey isn't enough proof, look at the phenomenon of Twilight. People always bitch about Twilight online because Edward apparently stalked her in her sleep, he dictated what she should do, he was clearly better than her, he was much older, etc. Jacob was the nice guy who wanted to give Bella "freedom" and treated her like an equal or better. Who the phuck did she choose? Edward. Every time. She just "couldnt see Jacob as more than a close friend." This book sold millions and millions of copies to girls of all ages and they ATE IT UP. Men should have been buying it to use as a manual.



You ought to now be able to see why ugly, fat, feminists and plainjanes become enraged at all that is feminine and attack it, and do the same for all that is truly masculine. Ugly fat girls will never be the bathing beauty; they will never be the object of desire. They will never be longed for, so they have chosen to attack every single thing that makes a woman attractive to a man. And, have pledged to forever spew their femme-venom on all that is male, because they won’t be able to achieve their true desire from it.



Women, the arbiters of Herd Mentality, constantly measure their lives by other women; it’s never enough to be happy, they have to be happier than all the other girls. So if Fatty McButchHaircut isn’t happy no one else can be. Notice, if you will, that many of these feminists STILL have a man of their own, after all of their crying foul about patriarchy and the inherent evilness of the Male Imperative. Talk about Sleeping With the Enemy. Why in the world would they still want a man, I wonder? The answer being, because they still want his leadership, and they hate that they do. Most miserable are so many of these feminists, having to eventually acknowledge that they don’t feel complete without male attention, and never feel satisfied without male domination and definition. This is why women love weddings; it’s all of the things they crave together in one space at one time: attention, validation, desire, female jealousy, and being willingly owned by him in front of the whole world.



Can you now see why tingles are so important to a girl? Can you see why women can run through a man’s resources, especially beta orbiters, and then divorce them without even blinking? This is why men need to be taught to be men; not supplicaters. But conquerors. Leaders. This is the natural station of a man, but letting the feminists erode this, starting in our boyhood, just results in long term misery for everyone.

And the non-feminist womenz? They want you to just get all this without them having to tell you; if they have to tell you any of the above, you’re still doing what you’re told, which is a guaranteed tingle snuffer.

This is why women feel like they’re settling without an Alpha; and they treat the poor fools that kiss their asses like what they are, Plan Bs. No man need accept this position in life. It’s not about you impressing her; that is laughable. Why in the world should you even care about trying to impress someone whose every molecule longs to be conquered by you? It’s about stepping up, and taking your place in life. The women will always follow.

Giggling with girlish glee.




UPDATES: I've posted more responses throughout this thread, so rather then have it scattered throughout this thread, for the convenience of men on this forum I'll compile it starting on page 9, post 267

[Konrai]

Skimmed thread to achieve lols from the Batman picture.

[TheIronAsylum]

Speaking the truth

[InstantLoser]

And to finalize, since none of this stuff actually comes naturally to a large number of men (myself included), we fail to create the "tingle" as you so aptly put it. The fact that I'm even on here, attempting to learn this crap (which you yourself state "snuffs out the tingle") is in and of itself, pointless.

Basically, without necessarily meaning to, you've stated what I, and most of my similarly beta brethren have been saying all along:

If you aren't born knowing this stuff, ie "Born Alpha", there's nothing you can do about it. Even the attempt at becoming less beta is in and of itself, beta.

[googleccd]

I agree with most of the stuff here bro, good points.

[TheGainsBrah]

[InstantLoser]

Get the phuck out of my thread. This a thread that is meant to empower men, not listen to incessant whining from vagina trolls like you who were born without testicles and are incapable of self-improvement.

Don't post crap and then expect no response. I made some salient points which you didn't even bother to read I'm sure.

[otakutrevan]

What happens when you dont supplicate, dont tolerate their crap, act assertive, and they still deny your advances. What then op. I will await your response.

[tmax1995]

Just looked at pics.

[InstantLoser]

You clearly didn't bother to read the OP, why the phuck should I dignify your reply with anything?

Since I am bored at work, here you go:

I read the entire thing. I'm at work, also bored.

It doesn't come naturally because the third wave feminism has indoctrinated men to behave towards females in a certain way. When men realize what really makes women tick (as opposed to what they are told by women what makes them tick), they can learn to embrace a woman's natural tendencies and act accordingl

I have no real response to this, because anything I say you'll just dismiss as "whining" (which isn't accurate but wtf ever).

So what you mean to say is that, if you aren't born knowing chemistry, there is nothing you can do about it? Did you miss one of the very last sentences that I wrote? "It’s about stepping up, and taking your place in life. The women will always follow."

Maybe a better way of putting it is that it doesn't do any good to know it if you can't act upon it. I've spent roughly the last year since joining this site trying to better myself (mostly through weight loss, lifting, and reading this site and many many others, self help books [ie Hublife]), so contrary to your post, I HAVE, and AM trying to improve. At the end of the day however, all the changes have been superficial ones. I can't change who I am "at the core", and regrettably that person is a coward who can't approach or talk to women. I'm not making a choice to be this way. If I could wake up tomorrow and have the "balls" to do these things, don't you think I'd do them? Courage isn't something you can just wish for and suddenly acquire it.

__________________ <=== Insert snappy comeback where you tell me something clever about how I can do it, but I don't want it enough, or I'm not trying hard enough, or I need to improve my self esteem, or gain confidence.

I have taken my place in life, and not surprisingly, no women have followed.

[demoniclizard]

What happens when you dont supplicate, dont tolerate their crap, act assertive, and they still deny your advances. What then op. I will await your response.

You move on.

[otakutrevan]

You move on.

Dont you think that is delusional ?

[InstantLoser]

Dont you think that is delusional ?

I think he's referring to the whole "There's 3.5 billion womenz out there so just keep at dat dere numbers gaemz.". Of course, there aren't 3.5 billion womenz in the US (more like 150 million), of which X are of dating age, of which Y are straight, of which Z live in your area, of which 0 will date/sleep with you.

Hey, it really is a numbers game!

[demoniclizard]

I read the entire thing. I'm at work, also bored.




I have no real response to this, because anything I say you'll just dismiss as "whining" (which isn't accurate but wtf ever).




Maybe a better way of putting it is that it doesn't do any good to know it if you can't act upon it. I've spent roughly the last year since joining this site trying to better myself (mostly through weight loss, lifting, and reading this site and many many others, self help books [ie Hublife]), so contrary to your post, I HAVE, and AM trying to improve. At the end of the day however, all the changes have been superficial ones. I can't change who I am "at the core", and regrettably that person is a coward who can't approach or talk to women. I'm not making a choice to be this way. If I could wake up tomorrow and have the "balls" to do these things, don't you think I'd do them? Courage isn't something you can just wish for and suddenly acquire it.

__________________ <=== Insert snappy comeback where you tell me something clever about how I can do it, but I don't want it enough, or I'm not trying hard enough, or I need to improve my self esteem, or gain confidence.

I have taken my place in life, and not surprisingly, no women have followed.

People don't change their personality overnight. You can't undo an entire adolescence of lies about the nature of women in one year.

It's a process. And if you are such a vagina that you cannot persevere through hardship, well then that's natures way of telling you that you aren't worthy of passing your genes.

You know why women chit test men? Because its a test to see if a man is truly alpha at the core, or if hes just faking it. The fakers will fail the chit tests and won't be able to maintain a frame of confidence and dominance.

Being dominant and confident is not something you just pick up by reading a self help book and go to the gym for a year. I was a beta bitch when I was 18, and 10 years later I am still working on it. But to give you an example where I was, and where I am now:

Here is a chick in high school that DUMPED ME:



Here is a picture of the last girl I had sex with:



Now, I know she is nothing special, probably like 6/10 misc standards, but the point here is I went from getting dumped by 2/10s, to ****ing with 0 effort 6s and 7s. The guy on the left in the picture is her beta boyfriend by the way, who has to pay to take her on vacations to mexico where that picture was taken, meanwhile she is texting me talking about the dirty sex she wants to have with me when she gets back. The reason why her boyfriend doesn't satisfy her? "he isn't dominant like you are, I like how you just take control." I don't know if I could take her from her boyfriend because he makes a hell of a lot more money than I do (for the moment) but she is more than willing to **** me on the side. And I doubt I would want to anyway, because I know I can wife up higher value women than her. But it is more fun to **** easy 6s and 7s without dealing with the drama of relationships.

I know this got a little off topic, but the point is that self-improvement is a process. If you are going to be a whiny bitch who expects immediate results and gives up if there is no immediate gratification, then you don't deserve it. You think people who rose to the top in society did it effortlessly? If vagina was as easy as going to the gym for a year and reading some books, then you wouldn't have swarms of men complaining about women.

[demoniclizard]

Dont you think that is delusional ?

How is moving on delusional?

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

One of the most basic things about dating women is you need to accept that you aren't going to make every woman's vagina tingle.

[kickblake]

Sort version: ugly/fat chicks can't win at the game the sexes have been playing for thousands of years.........so they have to change the rules so they win without actually trying.

[Love Pirate]

I read the entire thing. I'm at work, also bored.




I have no real response to this, because anything I say you'll just dismiss as "whining" (which isn't accurate but wtf ever).




Maybe a better way of putting it is that it doesn't do any good to know it if you can't act upon it. I've spent roughly the last year since joining this site trying to better myself (mostly through weight loss, lifting, and reading this site and many many others, self help books [ie Hublife]), so contrary to your post, I HAVE, and AM trying to improve. At the end of the day however, all the changes have been superficial ones. I can't change who I am "at the core", and regrettably that person is a coward who can't approach or talk to women. I'm not making a choice to be this way. If I could wake up tomorrow and have the "balls" to do these things, don't you think I'd do them? Courage isn't something you can just wish for and suddenly acquire it.

__________________ <=== Insert snappy comeback where you tell me something clever about how I can do it, but I don't want it enough, or I'm not trying hard enough, or I need to improve my self esteem, or gain confidence.

I have taken my place in life, and not surprisingly, no women have followed.

Damn.. You're a US army vet, 33 years old and a virgin? Remember that learning about self improvement is useless without applying what you learn. And probably failing - at first. You can live however you want but you shouldn't be in here trying to com convince others that they can't make drastic improvements to themselves, because it is definitely possible.

[Ronceiro]

Skimmed thread to achieve lols from the Batman picture.

Was actually an entertaining read, it's worth the time IMO

[clammastak]

ITT new information

[otakutrevan]

How is moving on delusional?

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.

One of the most basic things about dating women is you need to accept that you aren't going to make every woman's vagina tingle.

What is "moving on" ? If a guy is never making any vaginas tingle what is he supposed to do then?

[kickblake]

InstantLoser, you're just creating buffers for yourself. There's a saying, that I believe comes form the military: perfect is the enemy of good.

You're trying to wait till you're aesthetic, wait till you're alpha, wait till you're perfect...and then start. Guess what? You can't do that. You don't walk into a gym and throw up 315 on bench. You start with the bar, and you work towards it. so start by having inanne chatter with cashiers and coworkers, and work your way up to 10/10s. They're not fuarking unicorns, they're just people. So start by being comfortable approaching less threatening people.

[InstantLoser]

Damn.. You're a US army vet, 33 years old and a virgin?

Why do people always latch onto this like some kind of mantra? What does the above have to with dating or women in general? Nothing.

Will be 34 on the 30th.

[otakutrevan]

He is supposed to go learn the English language and read what was written in this thread.

You don't seem to be catching on. I'm saying there are tons of men that have internalized being independent, sexually agressive, and etc yet still fair very poorly with women. What are THOSE MEN supposed to do when nothing in this thread works for them ?

[archaichoney]

The woman who takes pleasure in the erotic and takes pride in being a woman, is easily labeled lewd and dangerous. There is something threatening about the free woman who refuses to succumb to male dominance and control. - Nicholaj de Mattos Frisvold

[SwaggerMcdaniel]

id say this is true for 90 percent of them

[rayallenscalves]

The woman who takes pleasure in the erotic and takes pride in being a woman, is easily labeled lewd and dangerous. There is something threatening about the free woman who refuses to succumb to male dominance and control. - Nicholaj de Mattos Frisvold

It's Just Another Aspect Of The Illuminati Trying To Create Dysfunctional Relationships And Social Dynamics. That's Why Their Precious Entertainers Are So Important, So They Can Present These Ridiculous Ideologies To The Impresionable Youth, The Boys And Girls.

[Danakind]

People don't change their personality overnight. You can't undo an entire adolescence of lies about the nature of women in one year.

Personality is just undefined bullchit to make you feel inferior. The whole concept of personality puts women on a pedestal. Confidence and dominance are not character traits by definition, but rather personality traits, so they can be changed overnight.

It's a process. And if you are such a vagina that you cannot persevere through hardship, well then that's natures way of telling you that you aren't worthy of passing your genes.

Looks are the genetic indicators.

You know why women chit test men? Because its a test to see if a man is truly alpha at the core, or if hes just faking it. The fakers will fail the chit tests and won't be able to maintain a frame of confidence and dominance.

Women don't chit test guys they aren't interested in, nor guys who they are interested in.

[Rebel11]

excellent thread.

Rep this man, Misc.


In for female miscer's replies.

[Violator009]

If a guy is never making any vaginas tingle what is he supposed to do then?

go learn how to make vaginas tingle

[demoniclizard]

The woman who takes pleasure in the erotic and takes pride in being a woman, is easily labeled lewd and dangerous. There is something threatening about the free woman who refuses to succumb to male dominance and control. - Nicholaj de Mattos Frisvold

And yet, nobody can seem to really point out what that "threatening something" is. You know you are speaking the language of feel good bull**** when its full of ambiguous ideas without substance.