GF just called me drunk asking for an open relationship.

[SydneyJunkie]

feels pretty bad. about 1.5 years. long distance about 3.5 hours. we have been working it out, and we had rough patches also.

she just called saying you know I get texts every weekend and I delete them for me. I said you know I get numbers every weekends and throw them away. she says I know but I wouldnt be mad at all if you hooked up with a chick because I know you love me. She then said if she cuddles or kisses another guy she wishes I would never get mad about it. I said I wouldnt get mad, if we werent together, but if we are, yea. then she opted for an open relationship. I said I cant do it, you know my family, I cant have you visiting here around my family as basically a fukbuddy. If I knew you for a couple weeks yea but 1.5 years I cant do that. Too much invested. I gave her the option to take a break or mutually split, then I wouldnt give a rats ass what she does but I wouldnt hate her. she says no not possible, she cant lose me, she needs me. but she can have me emotionally on the phone but not physically. she needs a physical presence also. I said I do to but somehow Im happy with us seeing frequently on weekends. I again gave her the option of a mutual split. she said never she cant lose me.

btw I was just with her this past weekend, and 99% sure she has been faithful. but its bound to happen. my stomach is in knots right now

[AgentSquish]

You know what to do OP.

[mixednutz]

OP i've got sum bad newz

[ME55I]

let her go for now brah.

if it was meant to be then she will come back

i <3 u op

godspeed

[STFUandTRAIN]

feels pretty bad. about 1.5 years. long distance about 3.5 hours. we have been working it out, and we had rough patches also.

she just called saying you know I get texts every weekend and I delete them for me. I said you know I get numbers every weekends and throw them away. she says I know but I wouldnt be mad at all if you hooked up with a chick because I know you love me. She then said if she cuddles or kisses another guy she wishes I would never get mad about it. I said I wouldnt get mad, if we werent together, but if we are, yea. then she opted for an open relationship. I said I cant do it, you know my family, I cant have you visiting here around my family as basically a fukbuddy. If I knew you for a couple weeks yea but 1.5 years I cant do that. Too much invested. I gave her the option to take a break or mutually split, then I wouldnt give a rats ass what she does but I wouldnt hate her. she says no not possible, she cant lose me, she needs me. but she can have me emotionally on the phone but not physically. she needs a physical presence also. I said I do to but somehow Im happy with us seeing frequently on weekends. I again gave her the option of a mutual split. she said never she cant lose me.

btw I was just with her this past weekend, and 99% sure she has been faithful. but its bound to happen. my stomach is in knots right now

I have sum bad newz, op...

EDIT: ^^ fuarkin' wizard lol

[blu51994]

I'm sorry bro, but i think its time to move on

[Dreamer889]

Guess misc doesn't do the pic thing anymore?

[HandstandPushup]

Drunk words are sober thoughts

[p7nk]

she's already taking dick

[novawildcat25]

im sorry to hear that OP

[makovex33]

she thinks your bingle shwoo is enough

just kidding

no homo bro but srs, what yo dink stats is?

after 1.5 years i want to know what kind of lust for slooting the LORD God has ordained this woman's heart to be cursed by





but block/delete #/destroy everything, it's phucking OVER holmez-dawg-brah-bruh-bray-coolio-OG-loco-vato-ese-chulo-cat-mane-m8-friend-amigo

if you have dated ideas on "not coming off as butt-hurt ermahgerd muh feewingz"

then just send her a message saying

"hey, you & i were an old phase of my life & im moving on now, no hard feelings, but, blocking & deleting/destroying all artifacts of 'us'..."

"just a tip, try not perverting ideas of want & need -- understand the value of monogamy & a family unit -- future interests shouldnt have to deal with baggage about your ex"

"no 8th chance, i know what you've been craving, & it hasnt been me"

[wickedman]

You know.

[Brahsohard]

Who is this

[AnthonyDefosse]

She been takin alottt of other gregs OP

wake up

[hostelmaniac]

Yep, she has probably already cheated on you if she is sayin chit like that.



move on op.

[godownfighting]

sucks brah dump that worthles whore trash she is not good enough for you

[NEBinAK]

But who was Skype?

You can have fun with each other on Skype but I guess it's not the same

Open relationship is a huge deal breaker

Sorry op

[Slamt]

jamaal and tyrone strikes again

[illbleed]

rip OP

[T-Money]

If she asked, she's definitely already done something. Next her bro.

[MaxKnuckles]

dude op you are dumb if you dont think she hasent sucked a dink yet that aint yours


dude this is the biggest red flag i have ever seen, thank god it was obvious man, RUN RUN RUN RUN man the **** up and keep your dignity brah

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[zhzz]

feels pretty bad. about 1.5 years. long distance about 3.5 hours. we have been working it out, and we had rough patches also.

she just called saying you know I get texts every weekend and I delete them for me. I said you know I get numbers every weekends and throw them away. she says I know but I wouldnt be mad at all if you hooked up with a chick because I know you love me. She then said if she cuddles or kisses another guy she wishes I would never get mad about it. I said I wouldnt get mad, if we werent together, but if we are, yea. then she opted for an open relationship. I said I cant do it, you know my family, I cant have you visiting here around my family as basically a fukbuddy. If I knew you for a couple weeks yea but 1.5 years I cant do that. Too much invested. I gave her the option to take a break or mutually split, then I wouldnt give a rats ass what she does but I wouldnt hate her. she says no not possible, she cant lose me, she needs me. but she can have me emotionally on the phone but not physically. she needs a physical presence also. I said I do to but somehow Im happy with us seeing frequently on weekends. I again gave her the option of a mutual split. she said never she cant lose me.

btw I was just with her this past weekend, and 99% sure she has been faithful. but its bound to happen. my stomach is in knots right now

1. she already did that.
2. where's the 1%? -> look 1.

you know what do do OP.

[ZahL]

^^ this.
Let go. No contact. Move on.

[HughMyroin]

sucks brah,hit that no contact right now. not sure bout your schedule but with christmas break comin up here pretty soon you should take yourself a weeklong vacation somewhere m8 and get yucky, go to bars, clubs etc after you return you wont give a single fukk

[Dec4y]

100% chance she's stepped out on you - even if it's 'only' cuddling and kissing. Gotta rip this off like a bandaid son...

[OtterManlet]

She then said if she cuddles or kisses another guy she wishes I would never get mad about it.

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cut this hoe off brah

[Krushkrushkrush]

Agree with everyone else.
Got sum bad news for ya OP:
She's already cheated on you or has a guy lined up shes flirting with waiting for the ok.
She aint faithful brah let it go.

[HomerJThompson]

She then said if she cuddles or kisses another guy she wishes I would never get mad about it.

btw I was just with her this past weekend, and 99% sure she has been faithful. but its bound to happen. my stomach is in knots right now

Sorry OP, it hurts like chit I know, but I am 99% sure she cheated on you, after a sentence like that where she is talking about cuddling with other guys, come on man. I know it hurts, but by asking for an open relationship, she basically has given up on you. Don't stay with a girl that gives up on you.

[BenD4Me]

maybe its just me, but 3.5hrs away doesnt seem that far. But ya sounds like its over.

[makovex33]

dude op you are dumb if you dont think she hasent sucked a dink yet that aint yours


dude this is the biggest red flag i have ever seen, thank god it was obvious man, RUN RUN RUN RUN man the **** up and keep your dignity brah

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hasnt*

how the PHUCK does this sh17 get misspelled...

Sorry OP, it hurts like chit I know, but I am 99% sure she cheated on you, after a sentence like that where she is talking about cuddling with other guys, come on man. I know it hurts, but by asking for an open relationship, she basically has given up on you. Don't stay with a girl that gives up on you.

and seriously

WHAT THE PHUCKING >>>PHUCK<<<

LOL

a girl talking about wanting TO KISS AND CUDDLE OTHER GUYS

MEANS SHE IS CRUSHING HARD FOR A BRAH, OR SOME BRAHS, & IS DESPERATELY >>CRAVING<< NEW DINX IN & AROUND HER ORIFICES

SHE HAS BEEN SOLD TO THE EVIL ONE

IT IS SAD, INDEED!

LET US LAMENT

look at this sh17 as a bad joke man, cause this is phucking gone-zo...dunzo...outie...not inney...uppity...oomphity