If you guys don't cold approach girls, well most of you should (GUIDE for beginners)

[snowyowl]

I said most, because you need to be realisitic. You have to be at least 7/10 facial aesthetics to pull this off. If you are a 6/10 and have a very good body language it might work too. But I know this is a bodybuilding forum so there is a good amount of people with nice aesthetics so that's not a problem.

I know you guys are afraid of rejection but most of the times she won't reject you at all. The worst you can get is a ''no, i'm not interested for whatever reason''.

Here are some tips (my examples fits perfectly cold approach in the bus):

First of all, you need to find the right girl. Don't look for a girl that is busy, either reading, talking to friends or texting for long. Look for a girl who looks a bit bored or maybe that one with who you had a nice eyes contact.

When you have found her, sit next to her and simply introduce yourself and ask her name (nothing more, you don't want to kill the pace). You can also tell her quickly in what you are studying or your job. This part shouldn't last more than like 10-15 seconds or you'll start lose her attention. So don't start explaning your life from A to B and why you are in physics or whatever you study.

The rhythm of your conversation is the most essential thing. It has to be fluid and fast. If she actually has the time to ask you why you are talking to her, then you're doing it wrong. You must keep her interested and surprised. Use her own curiosity so she asks herself: ''Why is this hot guy talking to me, he thinks I worth it, etc.''
In fact it's a good ego boost for her, but a biggest for us when we are successful.

Now that she knows who you are, it's time to get her hooked. I usually invite them to really good parties my friends are throwing or things like this. You want to show her that you have an active social life. Remember, she doesn't know who you are yet but if she thinks you are a very sociable guy (you are), it will put her in the mood. Basically you are telling her ''Hey I'm a fun guy, I do fun stuff with my fun friends, are you in?''. So don't invite her at your home (not yet) or at a café (boring).

Now three things can happen:

1. She says yes and looks genuinely interested. Well, the hardest is done. From now, you know you'll smash, it's only a matter of time.
2. She is hesitant but finally accept. She might not come or even call you. She wanted to say no, but didn't no how.
3. She says no, because of X reason (boyfriend, work, etc.) You can always try to get her number, but don't force too much on it. Truth is, she is probably not interested and she is embarassed by your offer.

Now, a last tip, if you aren't very confident for your first time, don't do it at a place you go often and where you might meet this girl again.

This said, the rest is up to you guys. May you guys get laid and be happy.

[p0werlifter]

I'm not a sociable guy so how the fuk am I supposed to invite her to a party that doesn't exist? lol

[imzeus]

: -(

[supersystem3]

You have to be at least 7/10 facial aesthetics to pull this off.

Stopped reading right there. This is like writing a guide to passing your driving test for a license, but written only for those who are already professional Formula 1 drivers.

[snowyowl]

I'm not a sociable guy so how the fuk am I supposed to invite her to a party that doesn't exist? lol

Then get back to the basic things. Get a social life. See you after that!

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Stopped reading right there. This is like writing a guide to passing your driving test for a license, but written only for those who are already professional Formula 1 drivers.

Sorry bro. Less attractive guys can still get laid, but it's harder and cold approach isn't a great idea.

[i666]

but im too shy bruh.

[p0werlifter]

but im too shy bruh.

I thought that shy men didn't exist and that I was not legally male because of my shyness.

[snowyowl]

but im too shy bruh.

Everybody is shy, just do it.

[supersystem3]

Sorry bro. Less attractive guys can still get laid, but it's harder and cold approach isn't a great idea.

I get it. I'm not FA by any means, I've been with my gf for 5 years now. But I will say this, if you are 3/10 facial aesthetics like me, you will only ever have success with a 'long game'. The few women that have been interested in me I knew for at least a year as a friend before they showed interest. I've accepted my fate in life, and hey, we play the hand we are dealt. I may be ugly, but I'm at least educated and have a decent sense of humor.

[hailux]

if you guys are really that desperate ask your friends of friends if they have any single friends for fcks sake....

cold approaches are only for the experienced...

[i666]

Everybody is shy, just do it.

i might today actually cause there's this cute girl who goes to my gym, we used to say hi and bye then we stopped talking, shes a huge sloot though. so i might just try making her a fk buddy at least. ill pm you what went down if i see her tonight.

[snowyowl]

if you guys are really that desperate ask your friends of friends if they have any single friends for fcks sake....

cold approaches are only for the experienced...

What is really nice with cold approaches is that you don't have to make any commitment. It's perfect for one night stand or f*ck buddy.

[hailux]

What is really nice with cold approaches is that you don't have to make any commitment. It's perfect for one night stand or f*ck buddy.

these shy brahs can't even stand talking to a girl how the fck are they just gonna fck and chuck them?

[snowyowl]

i might today actually cause there's this cute girl who goes to my gym, we used to say hi and bye then we stopped talking, shes a huge sloot though. so i might just try making her a fk buddy at least. ill pm you what went down if i see her tonight.

good!

these shy brahs can't even stand talking to a girl how the fck are they just gonna fck and chuck them?

Kinda agree, but I don't know for you but I started very shy too and quickly became confident.

[Kaybee93]

Sorry bro. Less attractive guys can still get laid, but it's harder and cold approach isn't a great idea.

I consider myself less attractive and I have no issues getting laid cold approaching. You just need some balls and some game.

[Mav3535]

I'm not a sociable guy so how the fuk am I supposed to invite her to a party that doesn't exist? lol

Holy fuk strong this, that was my first thought too

[hailux]

good!



Kinda agree, but I don't know for you but I started very shy too and quickly became confident.

yeah, its alot to handle for shy guys...

me? i was a short chubby kid in high school still hooked up with ton of chicks (personality, charm)
+ myspace was just taking off at that time..

had a growth spur in my late teens... still kept my *personality, charm* and acquired more wisdom = pussy slayer haha

[snowyowl]

Holy fuk strong this, that was my first thought too

6'3'' bro, you have God's potential. If there is no party, well invite her to a rock concert or whatever. Just not something boring.

[iBundy]

Maybe if it worked out Californication style where you meet and bang on the same day, but negro pls, I'm not gonna jump through the hoops of cold approach to text game to first date to potentially more dates just for 10 minutes of debauchery. And god damn son, that's ignoring the humiliation of the 20-30 rejections preceding it.

[Doober4]

Are you a rapist

[snowyowl]

Maybe if it worked out Californication style where you meet and bang on the same day, but negro pls, I'm not gonna jump through the hoops of cold approach to text game to first date to potentially more dates just for 10 minutes of debauchery. And god damn son, that's ignoring the humiliation of the 20-30 rejections preceding it.

When you get the trick, your success rate will be around 70 to 80%. Remember you can't please everyone (obviously some girls won't be interested in you) and some girls are just too shy to be cold approached.

[supersystem3]

me? i was a short chubby kid in high school still hooked up with ton of chicks (personality, charm)
+ myspace was just taking off at that time..

Facial aesthetics > everything

[snowyowl]

yeah, its alot to handle for shy guys...

me? i was a short chubby kid in high school still hooked up with ton of chicks (personality, charm)
+ myspace was just taking off at that time..

had a growth spur in my late teens... still kept my *personality, charm* and acquired more wisdom = pussy slayer haha

Haha nice. In high school I was shy and strangely not that interested in girls. I had other passions, hockey, friends, etc.

Are you a rapist

I'll be what you want me to be

[Mav3535]

6'3'' bro, you have God's potential. If there is no party, well invite her to a rock concert or whatever. Just not something boring.

I'm prob a 6/10, maybe a little higher on the scale. I sometimes get girls checking me out at the gym (hopefully not because I'm doing anything dumb lol). What's the best way to cold approach in this situation since some of these chicks are 8/10.

[keanhe]

It can't be that hard guys.... working in a party city and getting hit on by women and men (no homo) at least nightly, they're thirsty for the d, don't think otherwise. Just dont sound like a fuarking idiot when you speak.

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[momo5]

I said most, because you need to be realisitic. You have to be at least 7/10 facial aesthetics to pull this off. If you are a 6/10 and have a very good body language it might work too. But I know this is a bodybuilding forum so there is a good amount of people with nice aesthetics so that's not a problem.

I know you guys are afraid of rejection but most of the times she won't reject you at all. The worst you can get is a ''no, i'm not interested for whatever reason''.

Here are some tips (my examples fits perfectly cold approach in the bus):

First of all, you need to find the right girl. Don't look for a girl that is busy, either reading, talking to friends or texting for long. Look for a girl who looks a bit bored or maybe that one with who you had a nice eyes contact.

When you have found her, sit next to her and simply introduce yourself and ask her name (nothing more, you don't want to kill the pace). You can also tell her quickly in what you are studying or your job. This part shouldn't last more than like 10-15 seconds or you'll start lose her attention. So don't start explaning your life from A to B and why you are in physics or whatever you study.

The rhythm of your conversation is the most essential thing. It has to be fluid and fast. If she actually has the time to ask you why you are talking to her, then you're doing it wrong. You must keep her interested and surprised. Use her own curiosity so she asks herself: ''Why is this hot guy talking to me, he thinks I worth it, etc.''
In fact it's a good ego boost for her, but a biggest for us when we are successful.

Now that she knows who you are, it's time to get her hooked. I usually invite them to really good parties my friends are throwing or things like this. You want to show her that you have an active social life. Remember, she doesn't know who you are yet but if she thinks you are a very sociable guy (you are), it will put her in the mood. Basically you are telling her ''Hey I'm a fun guy, I do fun stuff with my fun friends, are you in?''. So don't invite her at your home (not yet) or at a café (boring).

Now three things can happen:

1. She says yes and looks genuinely interested. Well, the hardest is done. From now, you know you'll smash, it's only a matter of time.
2. She is hesitant but finally accept. She might not come or even call you. She wanted to say no, but didn't no how.
3. She says no, because of X reason (boyfriend, work, etc.) You can always try to get her number, but don't force too much on it. Truth is, she is probably not interested and she is embarassed by your offer.

Now, a last tip, if you aren't very confident for your first time, don't do it at a place you go often and where you might meet this girl again.

This said, the rest is up to you guys. May you guys get laid and be happy.

asking girls to coffee works just as fine ya dumb fck not everything is about partying.

[SwaggerMcdaniel]

cold approach for me

be winter time
make eye contact
look away and walk the other direction

[Rayzor84]

What will happen is she goes to the party with u and finds someone better looking, latches on them, and they bang while u look stupid.

[hostessfactory]

Then get back to the basic things. Get a social life. See you after that!

In4 thread on basic things

[752]

Help OP she's threatening to call her lawyer now
Wutdo???