Worst, most beta things you have done after a break up?

[RG1992]

wrote a 2000 word essay for her. oh lawd so cringeworthy. everytime i think about it a little part of me dies. halfway through the essay i even said "my eyes are getting watery"

but i believe every man should go through the experience of a first heartbreak, because only then you can acquire the misc mentality of "all women are whores" good thing i encountered it in grade 10 and not during my first marriage.

Lyk dis if yu cry erytim

[Gibb1991]

I'm so ashamed of my behaviour over how I handled my first break up, we had dated 3.5 years. Called her crying, called and didn't get answers back until like 4 am and I knew she was out with a guy, but still kept trying. So pathetic. She has been telling me she still loves me for the whole year and a few months that has passed, and I bought it for a solid 4-6 months. Only one kill since then because I kept not wanting to hurt her...

Never again, back in the game and doing pretty decent now.

[Domstar104]

read whole thread

now bricking it that my girl is gonna dump me


thx misc

[Criollo]

recorded how i felt on my phone and would play them back to myself. luckily i never sent them to her

[fat2fit21]

Called her repeatedly, she hung up repeatedly, Finally got her on the line and burst out crying,

dem first serious relationship ending feels.

[Cheetah]

Cried outside of mall to prove I wasn't cheating. Had some leftover pics in my phone of a girl I was talking to (looked so much better than my ex). WORSE EVER

[dekg1400]

Oh lawd

I went online and bought 20 pink roses for 50 bucks and had them delivered to her workplace with a note saying sorry

her response?

a text saying "it was a sweet gesture but i dont really give a ****

i'm cringing at myself

[Hankster20]

Oh lawd

I went online and bought 20 pink roses for 50 bucks and had them delivered to her workplace with a note saying sorry

her response?

a text saying "it was a sweet gesture but i dont really give a ****

i'm cringing at myself

lol, Were all gonna make it bro

[Gainday]

Bump of the gods

[Steele304vs]

first ever official break up back when i was 17-18 after 2-3 yr relationship she came over when me and my mate were hanging out. she came over with her friend and gave me at letter (she was too pussy to give it to me solo) first thing i did was scrunch up the letter put it in the toilet and flushed it. did this in front of them all. she responded saying "i thought you might do that so i wrote a back up" uwotm8? still never seen the letter or know why she broke up with me. it bugs me till this day srs.

FYI had the od break up during the relationship and i did act hella beta.

[mols0n]

Lol sang her "someone like you" by Adele on my guitar. so many feels

fml

[toMMMMMMMMM]

oh f*ck you op I remember sending a love letter that was like 3 paragraphs and got an ok.jpg response

[ClarkGrizwold]

took a pic of me and my dog and put the caption "we miss you" on it and sent it to her on AIM lMFAO wth. she dumped me too

[ExtinctionOG]

when i was 16 i got dumped and cried a **** ton about the breakup in front of her asking her to take me back.

I know those feels brah. We all have to go through it sometime, or else risk the chance ending up as a WK seeing every girl as a harmless angel, because they've never been in a relationship with one, and are oblivious to what they're capable of.

[Dawlphinracer]

ask her to marry me






not srs

[CarsonPalmer]

OP I did the exact same thing with the essays. I was in the middle of writing a long and heartfelt letter and then realized this is fuking gay and deleted it. Still feltbadman at the time. Now feels awesomeasfukman

[ClarkGrizwold]

OP I did the exact same thing with the essays. I was in the middle of writing a long and heartfelt letter and then realized this is fuking gay and deleted it. Still feltbadman at the time. Now feels awesomeasfukman

i wrote a letter umad

[ClarkGrizwold]

Brb movies like the notebook teach guys to be beta ****otts and write lettters

brb we lstened and got stepped on

[bulkymelo]

- wouldn't talk to other girls, became very sad
- john mayer became all i listened to


was my jam


- unfollowed her on IG, twitter, defriended on ********
- one month later we jus stopped all communication and that was that. still kinda miss the bish

- ****ed her pledge sister and went to her formal and made out w the chick in front of her. i couldn't find her after lol
- that girl became obsessed w me tho so i just kinda like... said f off in a nice way so now that whole sorority thinks I suck

[BasedFlexin]

17 years old first gf first bang 1.5 years. called her a whole bunch of times upset and showed a really bitchy side of me that Ive learned to never access.
it taught me a lot about women though and how to be cool and not get attached.

[kbrown225]

in HS after class when gf said she needed a break I went to walmart accross the street and bought a ****gy card and flowers for her and I ran and gave it to her after lunch. then I wrote a page long paper on why im a bitch and why she should take me back lol.
then I drove by her house multiple times and tried to see if I saw a guy or if her car was parked there. thought about putting rose petals on her front door step, but caught myself before I did it and earned a restraining order

was bad times brah, but it definetely helped me grow.

[kbrown225]

took a pic of me and my dog and put the caption "we miss you" on it and sent it to her on AIM lMFAO wth. she dumped me too

lmao wtf brah.
iknow dem feels tho

[ClarkGrizwold]

lmao wtf brah.
iknow dem feels tho

i payed for a 10 dollar skype credit and called her using my gaming microphone LMAO cuz she was ignoring my calls

[CoastTrash]

Went full beta and went into a depression after she broke up with me (dating 2ish years first love etc...) and put on a lot of weight and never got it off. Now years later, still not to what I was when I dated her but working on it. We all learn from our mistakes and not go full potato when it happens.

[boston10927]

My first real break up was bad... friends take me out and got me **** faced and I don't remeber much except the videos my friends took! So where sitting there and I'm crying my face off with french frys hanging out of my mouth. They take me home house alarm going off and I'm so drunk I can't remember the password so the cops show up and I start crying to the cops and hug the cop. ( friends video taped this ****) and I wake up next morning clueless about what had happen. 2 years later I work for that department and not a day goes by I don't get **** for that... feelsbadman

[ddoozzaa]

LOL she was my first girlfriend and broke up with me through email (lol?) sent her back an email asking if she would still like a valentines day poem cause it was nearing valentines day, she didn't reply, feltbadman.

Second gf though I didn't care much about, it had been only a month and she sent me text breaking up with me, she asked if I was ok, sent a text back with "yeah no worries," no ****s were given, feelsgoodbrah

[theprince786]

Broke up with my first (and only) girlfriend like every other week for a year after a year of a steady relationship. So 1 year of stability then 1 year of hell. Eventually got tired of it and said **** it (because she ended things for good finally).. Was sad and very very very beta abt it for a few months then went back home for break, one of my friends came thru to chill for a few weeks, went clubbing for the first time, acquired sloots number but had to leave town for school before it went anywhere.. Around the same time I discovered the misc, and that helped a lot.. Went back to college, got a fwb (kinda regret, she was one of my boys ex.. He never found out but he was still jealous we talked) then suddenly my ex starts trying to talk to me again, getting all close and trying to be my friend. I'm pretty indifferent toward her and it's killing her.
Feelsgoodman. Jpg

[Reveen]

I broke up with a girl that I had been with for 2 years so I could be with another girl. Dated that girl for almost a year and then she broke up with me for a other dude (karma I guess). I was butthurt at first, calling a lot and trying to get her to get back with me, but my friends/mom pulled me out of it pretty quickly.


Jakes on him though because she's a sociopath (100% srs, this girl is phucked), he knocked her up, proposed to her (she agreed) and then she broke the engagement off. meanwhile he still lives with her and has to work 2 jobs to support the kunt and their kid. Would honestly consider offing myself if I was in his position. Worst girl I've ever known, no question.

[thornypop]

Got a funny story

Came back from holiday from Egypt with my Gf (now ex). We constantly argued the whole time on vacation, so on the flight home I decided that enough was enough.
Got home and let loos. Told her it was over, she's I secure and just a bitch etc.
She went crazy a started throwing stuff from her suitcase at me.. Hairbrushes, make up bag, straightners the lot. In amongst the mayhem I spotted one of her thongs that came out the suitcase... And ohhh lawd it was coverd in skiddys!!!
Kinda just stared at it and 180 it out the house

[Garydose]

Multiple paragraphs texts which all seem to have the theme "The pain reminds me that i'm alive and reminds me of all the time good times we spent together"

Bish cheats on me, lies to me and treats me like chit yet I still text her about the "good times"

Sheeeeeeeit, I needed my head checked. Looking back it definitely helps increase Alpha levels later in life.