I've heard so called nice guys complaining about "finishing last" all the time, but I am wondering if they actual realize that they are not very nice.
For example, I found so called nice guys always have this "victim" mentality which I found to be very annoying.
I don't drink - but they have no problems complaining their girlfriend have a drinking problem. (turned out the girl only drinks socially)
I respect my parents - turn out they are still living with their parents and when girl asked the legitimate question, "when will you be independent" The dude immediately got defensive and accused of the girl of being "disrespectful"
I don't go out - turn out they are suffering from social phobia, have absolutely no abilities to social with anybody
Here is the ultimate:
ALl women want jerks, are shallow, are materialistic, like to be abused. It is all women's fault, not mine.
What are your thoughts?
06-08-2013, 08:43 PM #1
when "nice guys" aren't really nice guys
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when you actually lift a weight OP you will realize that when you get in good shape the more confident/the more you are yourself around women and women love confidence. sure there are the exception where some fat guys are ridiculously witty/confident/good with women but the number is slim.
guys that dont lift/beta phags like to hate on in shape guys and call them douchies when really they are just secretly jelly. you cant expect to bag hot, in shape girls when you are not in shape yourself
girls dont want fat out of shape guys, those guys finish last because they are beta and unconfident. the guys that you think are shallow and douchies you are really just envious of.
06-08-2013, 08:49 PM #10
It's obvious anyway, girls dont want the stereotypical nice guy, because those nice guys don't have aything going for them, so try to compensate by doing everything for her.
People who have things going for them and are confident wont drop everything for a girl, making them less available and therefore more desireable.
Also most "nice guys" flat out dont have any game and dont know how to be confident around women.
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