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04-04-2013, 08:36 PM #31
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04-04-2013, 08:40 PM #32
Yes, after a life of never even having kissed or been on a date by 22 other than with escorts, I have every right to be obsessed with wanting to increase my looks as high as possible before I even think about women. I was invisible to hot women and only got noticed by average girls with bad noses or flaws. Most attractive women don't give a **** about confidence that isn't backed up with high looks or hard cash.
My weight loss was mostly cardio and 1300-1500 calorie diets, I actually lost most of that weight in 5-6 months. At this time I doubt I will lose 2 lbs a week at my current macros nor do I intend to. 1-1.25/week is fine. I am still worried my wide waist will be an issue, I think the only solution is to build a wide upper body when the time comes.
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04-04-2013, 08:42 PM #33
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04-04-2013, 08:43 PM #34
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04-04-2013, 08:46 PM #35
Yes, most people are average and don't care about models or top bodybuilders. However, hot women (outside of high school where they are young and relatively innocent) mostly date guys who are handsome or exceptionally wealthy. The only difference is that in the western world, looks are more important than money, and in poorer countries, money is more important.
I see guys with my body or worse dating fat women and average fuggos, but is that really satisfying? I wouldn't go near a woman unless I have at least maxed out my looks or money, likely both need to be in check.
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04-04-2013, 08:46 PM #36
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I had sex without having to pay for it with girls who shouldn't have given me the time of day if we are talking solely about looks...I mean I was told I was a cute fat guy but still bro I was the size of a baby hippo. I'm telling you...it's not about looks. It's your attitude and the way you carry yourself.
^^Former 400+lb Crew^^
August 23rd 2011 - 469.8lbs
August 23rd 2012 - 201.4lbs
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04-04-2013, 08:47 PM #37
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04-04-2013, 08:49 PM #38
OP it sounds like getting in shape is not your issue, self esteem is. Getting in shape can help improve that, but its not going to fix everything, you need to fix your bleak outlook on life if you're ever going to get anywhere.
Your goal shouldn't be to look like this guy or that guy, it should be to improve yourself, period, whatever that may be.
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04-04-2013, 08:51 PM #39
That's because you look alright. Every average guy gets an above-average girl or two during his youth if he is in the right social circles and kisses enough ass. For me the latter was/is unthinkable, so my only way out is years of bodybuilding and cash.
Here's something interesting for you to consider:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mbaztPIIfuw
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04-04-2013, 08:52 PM #40
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04-04-2013, 08:53 PM #41
Well, self esteem is a result of your position in the world. Success breeds confidence. A fat guy with an average face and height with no friends or girls to **** without paying would have no reason to be confident. Confidence comes from external validation, plain and simple, that's why I'm working on looks and money, so that I have some chance of being taken seriously in this world.
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04-04-2013, 08:54 PM #42
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04-04-2013, 09:02 PM #43
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04-04-2013, 09:04 PM #44
There is some truth to the idea that people if equal attractiveness tend to mate. What you seem to be missing is that what is attractive to women is the whole package. Smart, good looking, good personality, career etc... All go into the equation. You can be average in any of those as long as you stand out in the rest. Your putting far too much faith in a good body.....
You also seem dead set on a super model looking girl? Why would she date you right now? You don't seem to understand the game much exemplify any of the qualities you need to win it.My Reverse Diet Log
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=153750981&p=1077733831#post1077733831
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04-04-2013, 09:06 PM #45
lol he didn't make it up, you are referring to him:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Briffault
some good materials here:
http://www.youtube.com/user/Stardusk?feature=watch
Yeah he's not happy, reality is a painful drug. He is a sadkunt.
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04-04-2013, 09:09 PM #46
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04-04-2013, 09:11 PM #47
Yes, some hot girls date the "whole package" handsome guy, but many will casually **** an idiot with high looks who has no education/etc.
I have good education and was always a top student for the most part. My job prospects are also well above average for my age.
A super model looking girl would never date me, that's not what any of this is about. I want to look as good as possible and if I still can't get attractive women, I will retire to escorts for life, that is the only way you can have sex with hot 8+ girls in a huge variety (blonde, brunette, etc, blue or green eyes, tall, short, anything you want) on a regular basis.
Just look at this video. A few months ago, I thought zyzz was just another buffoon on steroids, but after thinking about it for a while, I realized that his views on life were correct. It's all about looks these days. Do whatever you have to do to increase your looks, bodybuilding, plastic surgery, expensive clothes, whatever it takes. If that fails, **** it just focus on money. Most of us have ran out of time.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnu2Z0nrdxELast edited by mm4038; 04-04-2013 at 09:16 PM.
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04-04-2013, 09:11 PM #48
https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/i...erxdGZN0dF-bcQ
http://i51.tinypic.com/axclyu.jpg
Because he has a great personality
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04-04-2013, 09:12 PM #49
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04-04-2013, 09:20 PM #50
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04-04-2013, 09:20 PM #51
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04-04-2013, 09:22 PM #52
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04-04-2013, 09:25 PM #53
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04-04-2013, 09:26 PM #54
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Couple of news flashes for you bro...
#1. There are certain substances we aren't allowed to discuss on these forums...I think that's pretty self explanatory.
#2. Zyzz isn't worth looking up to...dude got in over his head and paid the ultimate price. I don't care how many brainless sluts he banged....I wouldn't trade the time I will get to spend with my girl and kids for any amount of money or pu$$y in the world. My girl doesn't love me for my looks...she could have any guy she wanted if that's what mattered to her. She damn sure isn't after me for my money either because I'm not near rich. She loves me because I make her laugh and I'm good to her.
Your priorities are all wrong my man.^^Former 400+lb Crew^^
August 23rd 2011 - 469.8lbs
August 23rd 2012 - 201.4lbs
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04-04-2013, 09:28 PM #55
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04-04-2013, 09:32 PM #56
My priorities are a function of my strict upbringing and acute social isolation. It is only natural for me to want to **** 100s of hot sluts, whether that be through looks or money, it doesn't matter.
zyzz is legit, and I realized he had a similar past, although he started way earlier than me and had 3" in height on me. His eyebrows are also nice and low which I don't have (high and arched). I won't ever reach anything close to that since he was on substances and I can't risk being bald.
Most men aren't in good "relationships", it's all about ****ing young and thin ****sluts in your teens and 20s. Every guy post-college secretly dreams of being able to **** 1000s of hot blonde sluts but knows it will never happen, and most are too stupid to use escorts. You are lucky to be in a relationship that isn't based on money.
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04-04-2013, 09:36 PM #57
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04-04-2013, 09:41 PM #58
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Zyzz is not legit...he is dead...pushing up daisies...he is no more...he ceases to exist. And I happen to know quite a bit about "substances" and for everything he took, he should have been way more impressive. Everything he achieved could have been done naturally albeit with a decade of hard work most likely.
^^Former 400+lb Crew^^
August 23rd 2011 - 469.8lbs
August 23rd 2012 - 201.4lbs
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04-04-2013, 09:46 PM #59
Yeah, I don't think he was that special either, but think about it, in a decade he would have been like 30 and automatically a freak to young girls due to age alone. He would have wasted his prime in the gym and have to settle for milfs or some average fuggos by then. It's all about enjoying your youth (<30). If you haven't enjoyed it, you're ****ed. I am getting pretty close to 30 and I fear it strongly.
He is legit, his life experience with women >>>>> 10000s of average guys lives. He got much more satisfaction out of his short-lived time than 10000000000s of average guys ever will. The only way to experience close to what he did, at a young age, without substances or god tier genetics, is high end escorts that cost $200-250/hr, you can **** 100/year for about $2k a month.
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04-04-2013, 09:52 PM #60
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