Help misc, caught gf of 4 years cheating. SRS

[inb4Alpha]

So you won't post pics because of detectives?

Negged.

[Acal83]

Don't be surprised if you don't get one. When my ex left, I tried to contact the husband of the "woman" he was messing around with through ********. Never got a response. Doesn't matter, you did your part...at least you have a clean conscious regarding that.

Actually felt worse for that guy then myself...they were married 4 years and have a two year old daughter. To be such a piece of sh*t to break up a family...glad my ex is her problem now. I'm sure a relationship built on deceiving others will end well.

This. Also he might have her password as well, he could have found it and deleted it.

[puzzyslaya]

Well said. They're both POS.

She texted last night saying "we need to talk about this..."

LOL yeah okay...more like "i need to talk about this to justify my actions"

GTFO whore

Thanks man, she was even pressing me for marriage and kids...if my dads laptop didnt have her account saved I wouldve never have known...scary chit

Not much to update. She got her ******** back but ive got the screenshots so I don't care. Still no reply from the wife.
Went out with a buddy for drinks last night, she tried calling me six times that night plus left a message and a text. We took a shot everytime she called, then i gave him my phone to keep for the night.

Finally was able to pass out after being up for 36 hours, went to the gym had some breakfast and still feeling like chit...gotta work at 5 so hopefully being around some people will help. Might go in early, im bored at home and thinking too much...

i love how you're so conveniently dodging all the pics or gtfo questions. you sir are a fraud

[brbbowflex]

Did OP ever deliver?

[CalebRM]

You better get your **** together and not talk to that bish EVER again man. It will only be tough for a few weeks then you will forget about her.

[low blow]

i love how you're so conveniently dodging all the pics or gtfo questions. you sir are a fraud

There was once a time when a thread could be posted without pics.

then you ***gots invaded

stfu and negged

[bigmane123]

pics pics pics

are there any ?

where the pics at brah

[Pokarface]

Post pics. You'll never see her again. Heck post pics of the guy too at /b/ and make their lives misserable

[AussieBrand]

Did OP ever deliver?

no bro, we still roasting in this roll bread

[Blacryan]

I do feel bad for you man, nothing but time and lots of random sloots can heal your wounds.

But on that note, I will say if you use paint and just hide the name/pics, you could post pics so we could see the conversations. Just food for thought.

[Lb54TG]

Sigh I have now come to accept this was a troll thread

[tetraktys13]

Now im all alone at 5am and I'm dying over here...

Sorry guys deardiary/10

lol

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Why did you confront her? You had all of the evidence you needed to break up with her without telling her.

^^^Next time do that, her jimmies= rustled eternally

[PressForSuccess]

They never respond dude. Only alphas would want to know, the betas and the women would rather live in ignorance. I got with a chick two years ago, then found out she had a bf then awared her bf on fb and he just told me to go f myself and blocked me. I believe they're still together.

I caught my gf cheating last month and dumped her, then tried messaging a couple of her friends to find out how long it had been going on, and to inform them that literally her entire life that she told to everyone was completely made up. No one wanted to know, no one responded. I was only left wondering what I should do with all the sex vids I have of us, which she doesn't know about.

LOL winner. I lol'd.

[MN88]

lol

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Why did you confront her? You had all of the evidence you needed to break up with her without telling her.

^^^Next time do that, her jimmies= rustled eternally

For sure, but it all happened so quickly there was very little time for rational though on how to make the perfect break. I was literally shaking uncontrollably while I read it and then she called back...i made it short and sweet.

I called my phone provider and got her number blocked today, blocked her from ******** and email too.

[Tomohawk92]

Focus on a new hobby, hit the gym harder than ever. Do you brah. Become everything you wanted to be. Next thing you know she'll look back at you expecting a shell of a man, sadly she'll be mistaken. She'll wonder why she left you in the first place. Then she'll try to talk to you, try to mend your relationship with her.

this, but..

at bold:
f*cking what? no you cockjuggling thunderc*nt

[Beastman09]

[Arathor]

Confront her ass and kick her to the curb

She lived with you? Did you own the apartment/house? (just curious)

Also, how much did she beg for you not to break up with her and kick her out, or did she just accept what happened and leave?

[moviebrah]

In on united MISCers getting cheated on alliance. BRB know all too well what you are going through OP. Months of my life have been nothing but a struggle but I have continued to persevere and have never given up. It is going to be hard for a long time OP but one day you will wake up and you will move on with your life. I can't imagine what that must be like after 4 years. Mine was only a couple of months but I fell hard. Really really hurt me and not a lot of people could truly grasp the gravity of pain I was feeling. We're all gonna make it brah. Don't let this sloot ruin your life. Not for a minute. You keep pushing forward OP!!! Fuk anyone who wants to destroy your happiness. She will get hers in time. Karma is a bitch.

[trufflepigg]

[AJaybrah]

this, but..

at bold:
f*cking what? no you cockjuggling thunderc*nt

Meant it as SHE WILL TRY. Not that OP should try to. Why would I say that if the rest of my post is exactly opposite of what you think I meant. Guess I worded that wrong.

[elterrible987]

So many emotions and thoughts all at once...

Cliffs:

-Me and gf know eachothers passwords, no care nothing to hide
-Discover she changed her password for ******** and email
-Luckily her gmail account was saved on my laptop, it auto logs in and see emails from some dude
-Very overly friendly, wink faces over 9000
-Red flags come up, wait till tomorrow to talk about it
-She calls me and I ask her about the ******** account
-she acts confused about it, I say ill help her fix it
-Get gmail to text her a temp password, shes stalling big time, obviously trying to cover her tracks
-Eventually gives in and i get into her gmail, all emails are wiped
-I get ******** to email a temp password to her gmail that im in
-Log on to her ******** and see her chat logs with the dude
-He's recently (like a week) married, they "love" eachother and are planning to end both of their relationships
one day to be together forever...
-I hang up to read all of the convo, she calls back
-Confront her ass and kick her to the curb

Now im all alone at 5am and I'm dying over here...

Sorry guys deardiary/10

Forward that **** to the married guys wife. The wife will do all your dirty work for you.

How many times do you get to make a crazy bitch with female logic work IN your favor?

WIN

[WrongSideof40]

Just a few thoughts from one who's been there ....

If you ever consider taking her back please first change your legal name to doormat. Because she will continue to cheat, guaranteed. You see, in her mind she's done nothing wrong. Cheating is Never a solution to problems ... Because you know you couldn't do anything to hurt them worse.

A bonfire with bros can be very satisfying .... Pictures, clothes, whatever reminds you of her. Adds closure for some reason.

Hit the gym, don't talk, text, email, or have any contact with her ... The pain starts all over again once you talk to her.

Lean on your friends.

Get out of the house and do stuff, be around large groups of people.

You are better off to find out now before she could screw up your's and your kids lives too.

[MN88]

She lived with you? Did you own the apartment/house? (just curious)

Also, how much did she beg for you not to break up with her and kick her out, or did she just accept what happened and leave?

Sorta but not really, i paid the rent and she stayed over most of the time. This happened over the phone, she's in mexico right now. When I told her I found out about her and that guy and to go F*ck herself the last thing i heard before i hung up on her was a defeated/oh chit moment "what..."

[MN88]

Just a few thoughts from one who's been there ....

If you ever consider taking her back please first change your legal name to doormat. Because she will continue to cheat, guaranteed. You see, in her mind she's done nothing wrong. Cheating is Never a solution to problems ... Because you know you couldn't do anything to hurt them worse.

A bonfire with bros can be very satisfying .... Pictures, clothes, whatever reminds you of her. Adds closure for some reason.

Hit the gym, don't talk, text, email, or have any contact with her ... The pain starts all over again once you talk to her.

Lean on your friends.

Get out of the house and do stuff, be around large groups of people.

You are better off to find out now before she could screw up your's and your kids lives too.

I hear ya man, I know there's only one outcome from this and it's us never being together ever again. It hurts so bad.

Im on day 3 now since everything has happened and I havent talked to her since I ended it. She was calling me and texting me alot so I called my provider and had her cell and the resort shes staying at in mexico blocked as well as her email/******** all that stuff.

Today was probably the hardest day i've had because tonight she called into our work (yeah thats right, we fukking work together too) and she was basically asking our manager who shes friends with to talk to me for her.

And what she said pretty much made me feel like my heart was broken all over again. Said that she never meant to hurt me and that she never really loved the dude. Which basically just made me rage even harder but what hurt me the most was she said that it had been going on since her brother in laws bday party...which was on december 15th. From the chat logs I had only thought it was going on for maybe a month...and I already had a hard enough time thinking of how all month the times she potentially lied and was with the guy...now add TWO more months to it. I broke down and left work early I was in no condition to work.

We've been together for four years and it was only during those three months we had our toughest times, but always from before we would work it out, we would fix things. But this is one thing I can't fix and I feel really fukking helpless. Theres no going back from this and it kills me. Her true colors have shown and i'll never take her back, but because of how long we've been together and how fresh this all is I still care for her. I'm in a really really chitty state right now.

The worst part is that we work together and eventually we will run into eachother. I've already talked to my GM and he switched our schedules so our shifts are pretty much opposite but eventually its going to happen. I can't cut contact completely from her and thats what I need the most. I don't know what i'm going to do when the day comes that we do work together or even if she waits around to try to talk to me.

[koolsuppy]

I hear ya man, I know there's only one outcome from this and it's us never being together ever again. It hurts so bad.

Im on day 3 now since everything has happened and I havent talked to her since I ended it. She was calling me and texting me alot so I called my provider and had her cell and the resort shes staying at in mexico blocked as well as her email/******** all that stuff.

Today was probably the hardest day i've had because tonight she called into our work (yeah thats right, we fukking work together too) and she was basically asking our manager who shes friends with to talk to me for her.

And what she said pretty much made me feel like my heart was broken all over again. Said that she never meant to hurt me and that she never really loved the dude. Which basically just made me rage even harder but what hurt me the most was she said that it had been going on since her brother in laws bday party...which was on december 15th. From the chat logs I had only thought it was going on for maybe a month...and I already had a hard enough time thinking of how all month the times she potentially lied and was with the guy...now add TWO more months to it. I broke down and left work early I was in no condition to work.

We've been together for four years and it was only during those three months we had our toughest times, but always from before we would work it out, we would fix things. But this is one thing I can't fix and I feel really fukking helpless. Theres no going back from this and it kills me. Her true colors have shown and i'll never take her back, but because of how long we've been together and how fresh this all is I still care for her. I'm in a really really chitty state right now.

Im sorry to hear that dude but at least the truth is out and its finally over.... only good things from here on out

[HeliBrah]

No pics of FB chat? I am disappoint ...

Who started the chat on FB and who took it down the road of sexytimes?

[WrongSideof40]

The little switch in your head needs to move from hurt to stone cold. You trusted her, she pissed all over you and that trust, now she's sorry? Grieve, that's natural .... But you have to just say, no thanks, I only think of you as a friend now (same **** they always say to us).

Be prepared, she's going to try to sleep with you, get you alone, get your friends, family, coworkers, etc to talk to you .... Why? Who freakin knows, but I've lived it and seen it dozens of times. If you're not begging her to come back, ignoring her, etc. it screws with their head. No action on your part it actually the sweetest revenge because they aren't getting any of the attention they crave ..... And it seriously funks them up. The less of a a-hole you are to her the worse she'll feel .... So when it comes to her ... Push delete on your memories .... Erase her from your emotions, she's not worth you feeling this way over her, cheating tramp that she was. Start referring to her only in past tense, she was with someone awesome, she had a great thing, she's history in your personal life.

And if she's that messed up over you, then you must be something pretty awesome .... Time to start the hunt for her replacement ....

By the way .... Is her Mom or sister into you at all?

[redliner9]

I hear ya man, I know there's only one outcome from this and it's us never being together ever again. It hurts so bad.

Im on day 3 now since everything has happened and I havent talked to her since I ended it. She was calling me and texting me alot so I called my provider and had her cell and the resort shes staying at in mexico blocked as well as her email/******** all that stuff.

Today was probably the hardest day i've had because tonight she called into our work (yeah thats right, we fukking work together too) and she was basically asking our manager who shes friends with to talk to me for her.

And what she said pretty much made me feel like my heart was broken all over again. Said that she never meant to hurt me and that she never really loved the dude. Which basically just made me rage even harder but what hurt me the most was she said that it had been going on since her brother in laws bday party...which was on december 15th. From the chat logs I had only thought it was going on for maybe a month...and I already had a hard enough time thinking of how all month the times she potentially lied and was with the guy...now add TWO more months to it. I broke down and left work early I was in no condition to work.

We've been together for four years and it was only during those three months we had our toughest times, but always from before we would work it out, we would fix things. But this is one thing I can't fix and I feel really fukking helpless. Theres no going back from this and it kills me. Her true colors have shown and i'll never take her back, but because of how long we've been together and how fresh this all is I still care for her. I'm in a really really chitty state right now.

The worst part is that we work together and eventually we will run into eachother. I've already talked to my GM and he switched our schedules so our shifts are pretty much opposite but eventually its going to happen. I can't cut contact completely from her and thats what I need the most. I don't know what i'm going to do when the day comes that we do work together or even if she waits around to try to talk to me.

Dam, working together has to make the situation 10x worse, OP.

Having been there as well, it gets me wondering.

Why is always 3 months?

Whenever I was cheated on, it had always been going on for 3 months before realizing what was going on. I see it on here too.

Is it that we are to blind to see the signs and follow our gut or do they just got sloppy and tired of hiding it?

[WrongSideof40]

It's hard to live a lie ... It always catches up with you.

[Charuto222]

*E-hug*

So sorry bro. I can tell you really loved her

Right now your heart is shattered but it will rebuild, it always does. You'll be ok. It may be hard to see that now, as dark times have a way of making brighter days seem out of reach, but plenty of people before you and after you have/will recover from this and moved on, and you're going to do the same.

You've been given all the advice you need already and seem like you know what to do so I'll spare you that, just offering encouragement and a listening ear if you need one.

The little switch in your head needs to move from hurt to stone cold. You trusted her, she pissed all over you and that trust, now she's sorry? Grieve, that's natural .... But you have to just say, no thanks, I only think of you as a friend now (same **** they always say to us).

Be prepared, she's going to try to sleep with you, get you alone, get your friends, family, coworkers, etc to talk to you .... Why? Who freakin knows, but I've lived it and seen it dozens of times. If you're not begging her to come back, ignoring her, etc. it screws with their head. No action on your part it actually the sweetest revenge because they aren't getting any of the attention they crave ..... And it seriously funks them up. The less of a a-hole you are to her the worse she'll feel .... So when it comes to her ... Push delete on your memories .... Erase her from your emotions, she's not worth you feeling this way over her, cheating tramp that she was. Start referring to her only in past tense, she was with someone awesome, she had a great thing, she's history in your personal life.

And if she's that messed up over you, then you must be something pretty awesome .... Time to start the hunt for her replacement ....

By the way .... Is her Mom or sister into you at all?

cosign,

OP listen to this man