Guy at GF's work is texting her Non-Work stuff....... What Should I do???

[Squarex]

My wife was in the same situation. I told her the deal and she told him to stop texting her.

The guy knew my wife is married, but guys don't care. If she respects you, she'll make it clear that she isn't interested in him.

She shouldn't fear loosing her job as what her manager is doing could be considered sexual harrasment, which would cause him to lose his job, not your girlfriend.

Dont speak to the guy about it, if anything make it look like an accident when you both run into him and show him that you're more alpha than him in a subtle way (lat spread) .That non lifting ******* should get the hint that he's shouldn't try to go for your girl.

lmao

[J_A24]

So, she doesn't want you talking to him huh?


Hmmmm....

[JasonT305]

if you have this much time to be dealing with little petty **** about your sloot gf then you should probably reevaluate your life 'homie'

[bringingdjuice]

OP is clearly not realizing the position he's in.

1) You're in Cali

2) This manager was dumb enough to put his inappropriate advances in writing

3) Your chick is white

4) You're in the bay area

I had a client who was harassed with far less and she got a $250k sexual harassment lawsuit out of it.

Don't say a word to this fool and take the text messages down to some ambulance chasing attorney who will work on it pro-bono.

Also, you sound insecure as fuk and your chick is a straight up dog.

Just say'n

****ING OUTSTANDING DO THIS!!!!!......

[eight-pack]

My wife was in the same situation. I told her the deal and she told him to stop texting her.

The guy knew my wife is married, but guys don't care. If she respects you, she'll make it clear that she isn't interested in him.

She shouldn't fear loosing her job as what her manager is doing could be considered sexual harrasment, which would cause him to lose his job, not your girlfriend.

Dont speak to the guy about it, if anything make it look like an accident when you both run into him and show him that you're more alpha than him in a subtle way (lat spread) .That non lifting ******* should get the hint that he's shouldn't try to go for your girl.

this OP. THIS!

I've been in the exact same situation in the past and you're just wasting your time if you think you're gonna accomplish anything by seeing the **** and trying to "talk" it out with him. Guys don't care if a girl is taken man. If their dik is hard for them, they'll persist until they're inside or until the chick sets some legit boundaries. It's either your girl puts her foot down and tells him to keep it tucked between his ass cheeks or you leave her. Simple as that brah.

[drunkracoon252]

Had a similar situation happen to day op


Cliffs:
-GF left phone at my house
-I went through her messages and found some beta ***got trying to "snag lunch" with her lol
-Asked him to go to lunch through her phone.
-Told him to bring condoms and that I wanted to feck him in the taco bell bathroom
-This ***got drives forty-five minutes on the spot thinking he's gonna get some
-I told him it was me when he got there and he never said anything back




Felt so bad but I haven't had a good troll in a while and that really satisfied my craving. Good luck OP.

[ceaz]

urban of peace

[4ndrew]

She told me she doesnt want me speaking to him

Aaaaaaand there's your answer. Sorry bro, I've got sum bad newz

[Kingbuddy]

So for those who care......I did go today and talk to the guy


I got there and no one was there but him and a chick... but I played it cool... Girl asked if I wanted to sit at the bar... and Im like no.... Im actually looking for a Kevin.......he looks at me and walks over and is like hey.. Im Kevin.. and Im like Hey Kevin.....Im Buddy....Chelseys BF... and the look on his face was priceless


Asked him if we could go outside and talk for a second and he agreed.... I pretty much just told him. I dont appreciate him texting the stuff he has to my gf....and he accepted responsibility and apologized right there to me. He was visibly shaken but he took it like a man. He even thanked me for handling it the way I did and it felt genuine....so we will see what happens... however he was a scrawny piece of **** and thought I was going to wreck him......

I dont think I will be dealing with him again........


So for all you Beta *****s out there.... just man up and handle business... if another dude starts smelling,walking,pissing on your territory.... dont be afraid to say something about it....

[KR3W1]

lol

[CJ74U2NV]

Newds of girlfriend or bant.

[SkinnyAlex]

Glad to hear it was handled well now we just gotta wait on your gf's reaction. That being wether she misses his attention once he gives her the cold shoulder or if she couldn't care less that he quit hitting on her.

[alxwu4]

lol at only being secure about her not cheating just because the dude is not aesthetic. "come on man!"

[CJ_SPARTA]

What a stupid question bro.

you go and break his phucking legs. I wouldn't even think twice son. SRS.

then break up with your GF. I hear this crap way too often, and 9/10 it ends up a disaster.

[criminal4889]

Had a similar situation happen to day op


Cliffs:
-GF left phone at my house
-I went through her messages and found some beta ***got trying to "snag lunch" with her lol
-Asked him to go to lunch through her phone.
-Told him to bring condoms and that I wanted to feck him in the taco bell bathroom
-This ***got drives forty-five minutes on the spot thinking he's gonna get some
-I told him it was me when he got there and he never said anything back




Felt so bad but I haven't had a good troll in a while and that really satisfied my craving. Good luck OP.

lmao thats epic

[subrogue]

U can do better than that OP, leave her to the clown... unless u really think shes wife material, then 1st warn his ass, then if that doesnt work, proceed to give him a beat down or 1v1. ez.

[yolkedestbro]

Read op, saw SJ for location and lawl'd.

I'm thoroughly pleased with the outcome, way to many betas out there

[JD4R]

Brah, you can't hate on him for texting your gf and tryin to tap datass. Sloots gonna sloot. You know this. She was obviously loving the attention so she never mentioned you. Now you're an a-hole for confronting him, so if you ever get in a fight with your gf, they have a common enemy and she has a tall shoulder and slender ceck on which to cry. Better watch out your comments, bro.

[primetime32]

OP did you let GF know you were doing this beforehand? I know my wife would be furious if I went to her place of employment to confront a co-worker, especially if it showed that I didn't already trust her.

[Kingbuddy]

Glad to hear it was handled well now we just gotta wait on your gf's reaction. That being wether she misses his attention once he gives her the cold shoulder or if she couldn't care less that he quit hitting on her.

Only time will tell on this one.....

Read op, saw SJ for location and lawl'd.

I'm thoroughly pleased with the outcome, way to many betas out there

Appreciate it brah... repped

Brah, you can't hate on him for texting your gf and tryin to tap datass. Sloots gonna sloot. You know this. She was obviously loving the attention so she never mentioned you. Now you're an a-hole for confronting him, so if you ever get in a fight with your gf, they have a common enemy and she has a tall shoulder and slender ceck on which to cry. Better watch out your comments, bro.

Why dont you read before posting..... and no I dont hate on him for trying....I dont want to be with a girl thats undesirable...we have all liked a girl at one point or another that was taken by another guy.... however he knows of me.. but he crossed the line with his repeated text of wanting to hang out and get yucky

And I do hold my GF accountable because this could of all been avoided if she would of just told him to stop texting her that kind of stuff weeks ago... whether she likes the attention of a FA hitting her up... or whether she just didnt want to make things awkward by telling him to stop...idk... but I will keep an eye out for anymore red flags

OP did you let GF know you were doing this beforehand? I know my wife would be furious if I went to her place of employment to confront a co-worker, especially if it showed that I didn't already trust her.

Yes my GF knew I was going to see him...as she told me when he would be there. She wish it wouldnt of had to of come down to this, but she did support me 100% as long as I didnt make a scene and handled it in a calm manner which... I did....


He has since texted her 1x and apologized.... and he even commented on how cool I handled it... so we will see... they work together this weekend....

[Backus24]

Only time will tell on this one.....



Appreciate it brah... repped



Why dont you read before posting..... and no I dont hate on him for trying....I dont want to be with a girl thats undesirable...we have all liked a girl at one point or another that was taken by another guy.... however he knows of me.. but he crossed the line with his repeated text of wanting to hang out and get yucky

And I do hold my GF accountable because this could of all been avoided if she would of just told him to stop texting her that kind of stuff weeks ago... whether she likes the attention of a FA hitting her up... or whether she just didnt want to make things awkward by telling him to stop...idk... but I will keep an eye out for anymore red flags



Yes my GF knew I was going to see him...as she told me when he would be there. She wish it wouldnt of had to of come down to this, but she did support me 100% as long as I didnt make a scene and handled it in a calm manner which... I did....


He has since texted her 1x and apologized.... and he even commented on how cool I handled it... so we will see... they work together this weekend....

I don't think this is over bro

[KyleMQuinn]

You do nothing. Either she ignores him or she doesn't and if she doesn't that is on her. If she cheats then she cheats. Not worth concerning your time with it.

edit: just saw you handled it and you handled it well

[Monkeyboi8]

[QUOTE=Kingbuddy;997435123]Pretty much this....... There is this guy at my Gf's 2nd job who happens to be her Manager that has been texting her...... at first I didnt think anything of it, because we have a pretty good relationship.... however I had seen the other week that he was asking her if she was going to stay late after work and hang out with the staff.... she never responded..... I confronted her about this and she pretty much told me... that she can tell he likes her... but for me not to worry... He is tall...lanky.. and ugly....

So I say okay.... You better tell him the only text he needs to be sending you is work related stuff... no reason for anything else....


Fast forward to just about 2 hours ago......this ***** text her....asking if she wants to come over and watch some Netflix with him.......so I see this ****... and now Im irate....he KNOWS she has a BF.....and yet he going to straight up text her this **** about hanging out after-work and crap..

So I blow a gasket of course... 1. because she wasnt going to tell me... because she knew If i saw it I would get mad and go see him... and 2 telling her thats it..... Ive had it......I let that sh*t sly before..... but I cant just let him be this disrespectful..... so she works this weekend.. but she is leaving to go home Sunday morning......and he works Sunday Night...


She told me she doesnt want me speaking to him......but Im going to go in Sunday Evening and "Talk it Out" with him.......

Now I know I have to be delicate here...because she does work there... and I dont want to make **** weird for her.........but then again.... Im not just some guy who is going to sweep this under the rug and be okay with it.......



And Im from 07' I know the rules




No bro don't do anything. Your girl should just tell him she has a man simple as that. Don't get caught up in the nonsense.

It might backfire and your gf can be effected. Don't be so jelly makes you look insecure.

Let her handle it by saying she had a man. If that doesn't work then she can report him. Simple as that

[Monkeyboi8]

No bro don't do anything. Your girl should just tell him she has a man simple as that. Don't get caught up in the nonsense.

It might backfire and your gf can be effected. Don't be so jelly makes you look insecure.

Let her handle it by saying she had a man. If that doesn't work then she can report him. Simple as that

[levijay]

shes not worth it brah

[cmc0108]

OP, quite being an insecure douche. if you trust your GF then dont worry about it. You handling it with her boss directly is only going to make things weird for her at work.

When you date attractive girls, you have to get used to the fact that other people will want to bang/date them. get the fuk over it and man up and take care of your chick.

[big__chris]

you're an aesthetics dude srs you can do much better

GL brah

[Mr.Hat]

Never thought I'd say this....

OP you can do better than her, she looks like your mum for christ sake.