rudyrude you post this chit all the time brah, i laugh tho because it seems not a single phuck is given ever with you
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12-09-2012, 07:19 PM #31
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12-09-2012, 07:19 PM #32
It depends on the situation dude.
I can tell right now from your posts that you need to relax a little bit. You value your opinion highly, let others have some value and try to find some positives to it. It will come across a lot less harshly
I'm certain females are noticing this in some way or fashion.
Game is just another word for charm
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12-09-2012, 07:20 PM #33
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This is false and has proven false countless times. Yes, facial aesthetics play a role but they are not everything and being confident is probably the most important thing. Now, get over it!
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12-09-2012, 07:25 PM #34
Whatever helps you sleep at night jeff.
doesnt take a fool to know when a chicks into you or not.
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12-09-2012, 07:26 PM #35
Here is why **** ain't black an white OP.
Being "aesthetic" is not a binary thing. If you're a 7, any girl who is a 9/10 or 10/10 is gonna think you're dirt, but girls who are 5-6/10 may find you very attractive (unless they have unrealistic standards, which is very common in men as well).
Not the problem is, if you are around their level and HAVE NO GAME or CHARM, you are fukked. You are just another fking *******. Being cool and different sets you apart from the other 7/10 *******s, and may even allow you to "date up" say a 7.532/10 or 8/10 if you're lucky.
So just "having game" won't allow you to date bishes who are on the cover of Sports Illustrated... but why would you ever expect that? Are you on the cover of Sports Illustrated?
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12-09-2012, 07:29 PM #36
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12-09-2012, 07:32 PM #37
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12-09-2012, 07:32 PM #38
Sorry OP but you're stupid as fuk.
You're a 10/10 male. Best looking guy on earth. You walk up to a girl on the street and ask her to come with you and fuk at your place. Will she come with you? No. How come?
Attraction is necessary, but not sufficient. Ted Bundy was attractive. Distrust of people is a survival instinct. Regardless of how much attraction exists, if there is no trust you'll get nowhere because the other person has no idea that you're not a serial killer. And one factor that builds trust, regardless of how good your game is, is time. Unless you're hanging out with the president and he vouches for you, it takes at least some time to build sufficient trust.
That's the purpose of game. That's why most people go on at least one date. That's why social skills matter. That's why dressing nice matters. It conveys that you're an active member of society, that you have social skills, that you have friends, you have money thus have a job (are employable)...and so on.
Attraction + Trust is what matters. Game, confidence, charm all work towards trust.
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12-09-2012, 07:35 PM #39
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12-09-2012, 07:36 PM #40
OP is right. its the same as it is for guys. no matter how cool or nice a girl is you wont do anything with her if shes ugly unless you are super desperate. same with girls. you can be cool and have game, but if physical shes not feeling it, wont happen buddy sorry. as an ugly manlet, trust me I know
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12-09-2012, 07:37 PM #41
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12-09-2012, 07:39 PM #42
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12-09-2012, 07:57 PM #43
What? What guy do you know who wants to date a girl who he perceives is not attractive?
Also I'm a strong believer that 70% of what makes you "good looking" is teeth, skin, hair, body, clothes, etc, **** you have control over. Ok, 70% is some made up bull**** percentage, but you know what I mean. Don't believe me? Watch those "make over" TV shows.
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12-09-2012, 07:58 PM #44
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12-09-2012, 08:03 PM #45
Can't believe anyone has not said this yet...IT DEPENDS ON THE GIRL...some girl no matter how funny and charismatic you are will not give it up but other girls look at personality more than looks...I know this bish who's 7.5/10 that had a crush and went out on a date with this male whale 2/10 (srs) because he's a musical guy and shes into musical guys...I also know this guy who is legit 5/10 anorexic brah with a 7/10 gf but he's funny and charismatic as furaaak...basically your personality (game) can + or - 2 points to you!
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12-09-2012, 08:06 PM #46
Op is 100% right, but two things i would like to clarify
1. op no one takes you seriously because you fap to pics of male models all day
2. If a girl does not find you attractive there is nothing that you can say or do to make her find you attractive "That guy is ugly, but because he said the right words, because he has a nice personality i want to **** him." No girl has ever said/thought/felt this way. If she does not like you there is nothing you can do
A common rebuttle is what about pua, well pua is simply a numbers game and if you "cold apporach" (lol at pathetic pua terms) 1000 women eventually 1 will say yes. Pua's rarely show how many times they get turned down. Then a common response to this is "everyone gets turned down *******, but you gotta keep trying and be confident" I acknowledge that everyone gets turned out, but it should not take you 1000 girls till one wants to date/**** if it does you are ugly.
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12-09-2012, 08:10 PM #47
Well not exactly, we are talking about non-platonic relationships, i completely acknowledge that you can say something to make a girl run from you and no longer like you, but there is NOTHING you can say to make her phuck you without her finding you attractive already.
I completely agree that in platonic relationships however (male or female) what you say can make someone like or dislike you.
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12-09-2012, 08:10 PM #48
no offense op, but ive seen your threads and your clearly insecure and beta so how are you preaching about anything to do with how girls are? and how are so many people fuking agreeing??
its not rocket science, this isnt even debatable. if your a good looking guy, your going to get laid as long as you dont have anything seriously wrong in your head. but a good looking guy WITH game, is going to unlock a whole nother niche of sloots and will get laid a lot more. just because your attractive doesnt mean you can be socially awkward and expect the same results, but yes you can still expect some results. but its the difference between slaying another 50+ girls in your life just because your socially inadequate which is what you fail to point out ITT. i have bros who are seriously 6/7's at best no homo that get laid more than anyone i know because of just simply how they talk the talk. game is not an illusion, its real life. you can choose to believe what you want op, but since your an ugly kunt you should probably start a new belief system and try bettering yourself, learning about talking some talk instead of posting on the misc all day crying to other men about not getting girls unless your a 10. this is all seriously pathetic, and i hope you take this as a wake up call rather than me talking chit.
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12-09-2012, 08:10 PM #49
There are plenty of foreveralone guys, some of which arent even bad looking. those guys get desperate and start going for uglies/whales(fact), which leaves actually ugly brahs with nothing.
also, lol at the 70% thing. you do know that this has been scientifically studied, and facial aesthetics mostly depends on the structure of your face, like symmetry and sh*it. cant fix true ugly, besides surgery
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12-09-2012, 08:12 PM #50
maybe because he's right? you're looking at it the wrong way. OP is saying that, game cannot cancel out the fact that someone is ugly. It is not the magical miracle worker that delusional misc makes it out to be, if you are ugly. However, I think OP does agree that game + looks is better than just looks.
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12-09-2012, 08:14 PM #51
lol dude your so delusional. ive had many average looking friends talk to the pants off girls. its all about carrying yourself well and being able to talk. yes the uglier you are, the less likely to succeed, but that doesnt mean your not going to succeed. typical FA pov, brb i might get turned down so might as well not try. grow a pair of fukin balls you sackless virgins and wake up and smell the fresh air of real fuking life.
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12-09-2012, 08:17 PM #52
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12-09-2012, 08:25 PM #53
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12-09-2012, 08:26 PM #55
op said clear as day, game and charm are myths. please let me know if my 2nd grade reading skills are not up to par. why i dont understand people are agreeing is because hes not right. hes focusing on the unimportant things in life he cannot control. focus on what you can change. and really hes making it sound so one way or another. in reality its like your playing you percentages..personally ill take the best % possible in any situation in life because im not a loser, but if you want to agree and accept this loser mind set go ahead. its like a good looking guy w/ game= 75% chance at success. a good looking guy with no game= 60% chance at success. ugly brah with game=45% chance at success, ugly brah with no game= 5% chance at success.
dont sit here and argue the %'s with me because i just pulled them out my ass and know their retarded, point it its not one way or another. you need to start playing life at whatever option gives you the best % chance at success. game does matter a lot. or you can just give up i guess.
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12-09-2012, 08:27 PM #56
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12-09-2012, 08:32 PM #58
see my post above about %'s, its not so one way or another. not saying his point is false, saying to ignore the chance to improve your odds is a pathetic way to live.
but to answer your ridiculous question, no, generally not. but your using an example that cant apply to most of us in here. how many people do you see and are like damn your hideous 1/10??, a lot more average looking people in this world hence why they call it average. and even average is subjective due to peoples taste differentiates. so one girl might call a guy a 4 where her best friend thinks hes a 6.
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