I was just thinking the other day and I realized that girls don't even care about how smart a guy is and that a lot of FAs on this site and IRL are actually pretty smart guys. I mean sure girls always say its an added bonus. But its not the same as being aesthetic or having game. A girl will sleep with a guy just because he has a nice body, or just because he has money. But i have never seen a girl like a guy just for being smart alone. There was this day in class last semester where i got almost every question right and everyone knew but nobody really cared and girls didn't try any harder to talk to me. But if it was something different like me pulling up to school in a ferrari or something girls would try to talk to me. And at my job the guys who talked to the most girls were the ones who weren't in college or dropped out. Why don't girls like if a guy is smart, i mean in todays world being smart usually would lead to more security and income in the future, so why do girls disregard intelligence?
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12-04-2012, 11:05 AM #1
Why don't girls like smart/intelligent guys (srs) (not a complain thread)
Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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12-04-2012, 11:15 AM #2
first of all, FAs on this site are not smart. FAs, who are real just average miscers by extension, have retarded logic.
BRB I want to f ck all the sloots. BRB hate women who are sloots.
second of all, to your question about intelligence. I think you are referring to academic/non social intelligence. Hang around guys who get laid alot. Look at them, they are all socially intelligent. They are fun to be around and have great conversations. Girls want to be around guys who are fun and by that definition, girls want to be around guys who are socially intelligent.
Why don't girls favor academic intelligence instead of social intelligence? I don't know, perhaps in this society, academic intelligence is not needed anymore. We all have full bellies. We all have enough to sleep in. Therefore, today's focus is entertainment.
Why do actors/singers make so much more than your average doctor or engineer? Entertainment is the drive of today's society.
Edit: just look at the post of the person below me. Do you consider that an intellectual?
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12-04-2012, 11:17 AM #3
because intelligence = boredom to them. they're dumb h0es. they want fun when they're young. they can always settle for that nerd when they're like 35+, expired, and need to get married (or support their kids that they had when they were teenagers, etc). those nerds will always be there. beta nerds gonna beta.
and dont give me that BS about how those nerds are gonna be getting bunch of young 10s when they've made enough money. "enough money" aint gonna get you models if you're a nerdy beta. you need fuktons of money for that. and only a few people make fuktons.
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12-04-2012, 11:18 AM #4
If you're smart, you'll figure out how to attract women and what you need to change about yourself to do it with ease and regularity.
I'm smart because I take care of my body, because health is important. I'm smart because I'm financially independent and am building my wealth every month, because I don't want to work til I die.
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12-04-2012, 11:19 AM #5
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12-04-2012, 11:49 AM #9
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Women are attracted to confidence, success, ambition, power/responsibility. All of these things are more easily attained with intelligence, but don't get that confused with the fact that girls should find intelligence attractive.
Being intelligent in no way guarantees you'll be successful in life. I have a friend who is probably smarter than I am, but he is an alcoholic with 3 DUI's, no license, and mows lawns for a living. He's 29 years old.
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12-04-2012, 11:52 AM #10
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12-04-2012, 11:55 AM #13
Being 'smart' in the sense that you are good at passing exams is abstract and really there is no reason anyone should highly value that ability in a partner. Things associated with high intelligence like for example having a prestigious job or engaging in intellectually stimulating and witty conversations are something plenty of women do value, although their definition of 'interesting' will obviously vary depending on the girl.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
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12-04-2012, 11:59 AM #14
lmao, you can't be serious, so you are saying pursuing a career as a doctor or engineer is pathetic in today's society? lol goodluck with your minimum wage goals of forever, and in case you didn't know the odds of becoming a famous actor or celebrity are very low.
Let me guess your probably one of those ignorant pieces of trash who thinks he can get a good job just by being social, without a college degree or a useless one.
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12-04-2012, 12:02 PM #15
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12-04-2012, 12:02 PM #16
Every girl says this, few actually act this way. I see way more girls with jerks and thugs than "nerds". And what is a mackfresco?
Well most of the time i talk to girls its hardly anything intellectually stimulating. As a matter of fact i don;t think ive ever seen a girl having a conversation liek that. Its always about some trivial bullsht. And everytime i try to lead into a deeper conversation they seem to want to bring it back to some stupid flirting game. Girls do like wittiness, but im not so sure about them liking intellectual conversations.Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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12-04-2012, 12:04 PM #17
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12-04-2012, 12:06 PM #19
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You completely missed the point of his post. He was referring to the degree of semi-hero worship lavished on movie stars/celebrities, as well as the value placed by people on social intelligence. He never made any mention of the value of social intelligence in a professional setting, only in a social one.
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12-04-2012, 12:06 PM #20
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Mother of God, you entirely misconstrued the intention of his example.
He is suggesting that in today's society, there is a shift in what is considered "in demand". You are correct in that the group of "top" entertainers is a small one, but they get paid significantly more than any socially vital career, and for what? To entertain us.
He's drawing the parallel to the fact that the importance of intelligence and contributing to society have decreased, thus the desire of said merits in society have also decreased. Perhaps not a perfect example, but you should be able to discern his conveyance.
Or you could babble on and call him an "ignorant piece of trash".
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12-04-2012, 12:08 PM #21
Not sure what kind of dumb girls you all attract but the best relationships I've had were with exes who could debate for hours. Step your game up ****s, lots of intelligent women who're hot and don't focus on ********/twitter/clubbin.
Damn, just saw some bish in a skirt walk by in a tight skirt - late 30's. Not a fan of older women but hnnnnnngg, would drag my balls through the arctic to bust a nut in her infertile womb.
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12-04-2012, 12:10 PM #22
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12-04-2012, 12:12 PM #23
lol why are you putting words in my mouth?
Where in my post did I say that pursuing to become a doctor or engineer is pathetic? I am saying that while being a doctor or engineer is considered great, they are however, miniscule compared to the popularity of a professional or even nonprofessional athlete.
If you want to get girls, be popular and fun.
If you want to get a good future and life, get a career.
lol at not even reading what I posted.
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12-04-2012, 12:12 PM #24
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12-04-2012, 12:17 PM #25
Where to find girls like this IRL? If i could find one girl who doesn't have instagram/twitter/or ******** i would do anything it takes...
Book and street smart? Do you mean street smart as in denzel washington in training day street smart?...And yeah you say the nerdier the better but you probably wouldn't like him for intelligence alone.Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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12-04-2012, 12:20 PM #26
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12-04-2012, 12:21 PM #27
i like a man that i can hold an intelligent conversation with. that doesn't mean he has to be book smart, just confident, street smart, and knows how to maintain eye contact.
my ex had the ideal male body and had his PhD, NEITHER of those things impress me in men. if you're able to make me laugh, enjoy myself, let me be myself, and be totally comfortable in who YOU are, then i'd be into you
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12-04-2012, 12:24 PM #28
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12-04-2012, 12:26 PM #29
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I mean common sense, knows how to handle and defend himself in bad situations, knows how to interact with different types of people, etc.
As for the second sentence, lawd just shut up. You got a comment for everything lol. Negative nancy bish.
The virgin's jimmies are rustled once more. I was raised in the suburbs of NJ, it's really not that hard to believe.
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12-04-2012, 12:26 PM #30
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