RH Chat 19: Our fallen empire will RISE once again!! Hehe

[Apollo151]

Merry Christmas guys, hope everyone's doing well. Had a pretty awesome christmas then got this text from the chick I've been seeing who's visiting her family:

Getting your text today was an unexpected and absolutely perfect Christmas gift. Do you understand how much your words mean to me??? So much, I can't explain. Today was a wonderful day where I did an amazing job taking really good care of my little sister and dad. I think about you everyday and how there is so much here I wish I could share/experience with you.

Your lover,
Serena

I thought we were keeping things casual as I don't want a relationship. How do I let her down gently so I can keep smashing?

[OhioStateBucki]

Merry Christmas guys, hope everyone's doing well. Had a pretty awesome christmas then got this text from the chick I've been seeing who's visiting her family:




I thought we were keeping things casual as I don't want a relationship. How do I let her down gently so I can keep smashing?

You gtfo and reunite with your hand again

[RandomMisc]

Merry Christmas, RH!

[nvrstopworking]

Merry Christmas, RH!

Bah Humbug!



@ poundfive.... sweet pics from massive LA Misc meetup. LOL'd hard at passedout pic of you.

[Apollo151]

You can see her heart break at 2:05-2:30....

[Botika]

Happy Holidays

Happy holidays right back at ya!

Employers look at this chit. Stuff like fb gets people fired all the time. People need to be more like a modern day batman up in this bitch!

@ botika: you plan your Ibiza trip yet?

Don't you all have private profiles on FB?

I haven't planned my trip yet but I have been thinking about it..... Hmmmmmmmm.

I thought we were keeping things casual as I don't want a relationship. How do I let her down gently so I can keep smashing?

Isn't going to happen. If she's fallen for you then you guys can never be casual again.

Merry Christmas, RH!

Merry Xmas RM!!

[Apollo151]

Isn't going to happen. If she's fallen for you then you guys can never be casual again.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

In UK terms, "lover" is simply someone you're sleeping with. It doesn't imply actual emotions of the same name.

[HeBrewHammah]

Employers look at this chit. Stuff like fb gets people fired all the time. People need to be more like a modern day batman up in this bitch!

This. I can attest to this as my Aunt puts some big wigs in jobs over here in the Boston Area for the medical field. First thing she told me was NO ONE gets the higher up positions that has enough time to mess around with FB all day. Very Srs.


Plus - let's face it. Think about all the hours you waste checking it? Uploading nonsense, liking stupid crap, and reading everyone's drama. Very glad I dumped that habit, chit's garbage. Best move I made in 2012. lol

^IDK about all of you - but I look forward to using all that time elsewhere instead of messing around with it.

[Colombia11]

This. I can attest to this as my Aunt puts some big wigs in jobs over here in the Boston Area for the medical field. First thing she told me was NO ONE gets the higher up positions that has enough time to mess around with FB all day. Very Srs.


Plus - let's face it. Think about all the hours you waste checking it? Uploading nonsense, liking stupid crap, and reading everyone's drama. Very glad I dumped that habit, chit's garbage. Best move I made in 2012. lol

^IDK about all of you - but I look forward to using all that time elsewhere instead of messing around with it.

I made that move mid-2011. Feelsgoodman.

Morning all. I'm off work until the 7th....mirin?

Apollo - breh, shes a goner. RIP smashing Serena casually. Moment of silence for Apollo everyone.......................

[HeBrewHammah]

I made that move mid-2011. Feelsgoodman.

Morning all. I'm off work until the 7th....mirin?

Apollo - breh, shes a goner. RIP smashing Serena casually. Moment of silence for Apollo everyone.......................

It does. Everyone looks at me like I have ten heads when I say I don't have it anymore. I deactivated mine, but was just recently told that there is in fact a Delete option now - not sure.



Moment of Silence held.....

[nvrstopworking]

It does. Everyone looks at me like I have ten heads when I say I don't have it anymore. I deactivated mine, but was just recently told that there is in fact a Delete option now - not sure.

Huh... deactivated mine back in October.... on the fence about bringing it back. Only reason I'm considering it is because I have some friends and extended family who I keep up with on there (and vice versa).

Think I might just scale it back heavily. Minimal pics, no wall and go with that. Never spent a whole lot of time on it anyway.

Belated Merry Christmas *******!

[HeBrewHammah]

Huh... deactivated mine back in October.... on the fence about bringing it back. Only reason I'm considering it is because I have some friends and extended family who I keep up with on there (and vice versa).

Think I might just scale it back heavily. Minimal pics, no wall and go with that. Never spent a whole lot of time on it anyway.

Belated Merry Christmas *******!

acquire email addresses, keep FB inactive. That's what I did to a lot of my boys all over the country from the service.


You also, you big 25" headed *******. hahaha

[Apollo151]

In UK terms, "lover" is simply someone you're sleeping with. It doesn't imply actual emotions of the same name.

Is this a euro thing, she's from france.

Morning all. I'm off work until the 7th....mirin?

Apollo - breh, shes a goner. RIP smashing Serena casually. Moment of silence for Apollo everyone.......................

7th here too, repped on r/c.

Agreed, I knew I had to cut her out when she wanted to spend the night.

[HeBrewHammah]

Agreed, I knew I had to cut her out when she wanted to spend the night.

How do you guys feel about the number of initial dates/sleeping together correlation? Do you think there is a set amount that distinguishes worthwhile pursuit vs a pretender (someone who claims they're a good catch)?

[Apollo151]

How do you guys feel about the number of initial dates/sleeping together correlation? Do you think there is a set amount that distinguishes worthwhile pursuit vs a pretender (someone who claims they're a good catch)?

In the dating phase, I rarely put all my eggs in one basket, would rather cast a wide net of 2-4 girls and pick the most compatible.

After the 3rd date, if we haven't had sex then I'd cut her out. It's confusing though, can't say if there's a correlation. I'd rather judge a woman to see if we'll be codependent or interdependent, found this to be the best indicator of a serious relationship.

[nvrstopworking]

In the dating phase, I rarely put all my eggs in one basket, would rather cast a wide net of 2-4 girls and pick the most compatible.

After the 3rd date, if we haven't had sex then I'd cut her out. It's confusing though, can't say if there's a correlation. I'd rather judge a woman to see if we'll be codependent or interdependent, found this to be the best indicator of a serious relationship.

Look at the big brain on THIS guy!

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

Seriously, three dates is your maximum? Seems a bit arbitrary. I don't know if I'd personally feel comfortable with sex that soon.

[HeBrewHammah]

In the dating phase, I rarely put all my eggs in one basket, would rather cast a wide net of 2-4 girls and pick the most compatible.

After the 3rd date, if we haven't had sex then I'd cut her out. It's confusing though, can't say if there's a correlation. I'd rather judge a woman to see if we'll be codependent or interdependent, found this to be the best indicator of a serious relationship.

Do you ever feel like once you smash, you lose interest? Or some part of it.

[Colombia11]

How do you guys feel about the number of initial dates/sleeping together correlation? Do you think there is a set amount that distinguishes worthwhile pursuit vs a pretender (someone who claims they're a good catch)?

If i understand your question correctly there is no number breh. Real talk! if she puts out on the first date or second I'm doing it right. I can't blame her for giving it up if my game is tight. I've always been a believer of its how you make them feel at the moment and being non judgmental (to smash on the first night or < 3 dates). They will rationalize some **** later in their heads. The ones who claim to be a good catch are the ones you want to watch out for IMO. You'll get a good feel if she's a pretender through stories she tells, friends she keeps, her actions etc. Might sound contradictory but I screen for potential AFTER I smash.

My longest and my most loyal gf (to my knowledge) smashed on our first "real date" we had gone out before but only with a group of friends. never on our own.


Apollo - how do you screen for which one she is?

[Apollo151]

Look at the big brain on THIS guy!

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Dat feel when you fukc a therapist at 20 and learn a lot from her.

Seriously, three dates is your maximum? Seems a bit arbitrary. I don't know if I'd personally feel comfortable with sex that soon.

I'd rather just jerk off.

Seriously though, that is my max; if I'm single then I'm probably dating multiple women - or maybe I'm spoiled. I don't know lol.

If i understand your question correctly there is no number breh. Real talk! if she puts out on the first date I'm doing it right.

My longest and my most loyal gf (to my knowledge) smashed on our first "real date" we had gone out before but only with a group of friends. never on our own.

This. Still confuses me at 27, women how do you work?

Do you ever feel like once you smash, you lose interest? Or some part of it.

Surprisingly no, the only thing that makes me lose interest in a woman is her mind. If we can't laugh, be vulnerable with each other and talk, I just use her for sex.

My best ex was pretty (7-8/10) but had an amazing mind and sexually compatible, some of my worst relationships were with airheads who were hotter. A woman's mind is a sexy thing.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

I'd rather just jerk off.

Seriously though, that is my max; if I'm single then I'm probably dating multiple women - or maybe I'm spoiled. I don't know lol.

Aware but if you're dating multiple women, why would they want to sleep with you? I wouldn't be jumping into a bed with a guy who I know isn't taking me seriously and I'm just one of many.

[HeBrewHammah]

My longest and my most loyal gf (to my knowledge) smashed on our first "real date" we had gone out before but only with a group of friends. never on our own.

Interesting. Was out with new chick sunday - we watched football and drank. Pretty sweet date if you ask me, just having a hard time getting passed this part and I don't know why. It's happen on numerous occasions, I don't typically post what I do in my free time with chicks up here, but we smashed. As far as the last year has been on a few occasions, for whatever reason I start to become slightly disinterested partly, was just curious if anyone else had experienced anything of that sort. I can't figure out why, she's nice and fun.

edit: It's also something I would consider continuing also, hanging out with her and doing whatever to see where it heads.

[Apollo151]

Aware but if you're dating multiple women, why would they want to sleep with you? I wouldn't be jumping into a bed with a guy who I know isn't taking me seriously and I'm just one of many.

I have no obligation to tell them I'm seeing other women.

Apollo - how do you screen for which one she is?

Codependence vs Interdependence. Also prefer a woman who can communicate with me before/after sex.

Interesting. Was out with new chick sunday - we watched football and drank. Pretty sweet date if you ask me, just having a hard time getting passed this part and I don't know why. It's happen on numerous occasions, I don't typically post what I do in my free time with chicks up here, but we smashed. As far as the last year has been on a few occasions, for whatever reason I start to become slightly disinterested partly, was just curious if anyone else had experienced anything of that sort. I can't figure out why, she's nice and fun.

edit: It's also something I would consider continuing also, hanging out with her and doing whatever to see where it heads.

Does it bother you she put out early?

666 reps, I have reached the BEAST.

[nvrstopworking]

Aware but if you're dating multiple women, why would they want to sleep with you? I wouldn't be jumping into a bed with a guy who I know isn't taking me seriously and I'm just one of many.

You sure about that?

Interesting. Was out with new chick sunday - we watched football and drank. Pretty sweet date if you ask me, just having a hard time getting passed this part and I don't know why. It's happen on numerous occasions, I don't typically post what I do in my free time with chicks up here, but we smashed. As far as the last year has been on a few occasions, for whatever reason I start to become slightly disinterested partly, was just curious if anyone else had experienced anything of that sort. I can't figure out why, she's nice and fun.

edit: It's also something I would consider continuing also, hanging out with her and doing whatever to see where it heads.

I recall you talking about a chick who just "blew you away" with how awesome she seemed to be... was this her?

[Colombia11]

Interesting. Was out with new chick sunday - we watched football and drank. Pretty sweet date if you ask me, just having a hard time getting passed this part and I don't know why. It's happen on numerous occasions, I don't typically post what I do in my free time with chicks up here, but we smashed. As far as the last year has been on a few occasions, for whatever reason I start to become slightly disinterested partly, was just curious if anyone else had experienced anything of that sort. I can't figure out why, she's nice and fun.

edit: It's also something I would consider continuing also, hanging out with her and doing whatever to see where it heads.

Seems like too much emphasis on the smashing part. Smashing should be a 'given' so to speak. Then you see what else she has to offer etc.

[HeBrewHammah]

Does it bother you she put out early?

It bothers me when any woman does. lol. I sometimes wonder when someone is going to actually provide me with a challenge. Nomsaying?

I've been struggling with this the whole year. Since I've been single - what I've really wanted is a challenge. Thought I had one here, I'm not the type to give myself too much credit and say I'm just that good - lol, because I'm sure there are things to improve on, there always are. I find it annoying in a sense. The thrill of the chase is fun for me and there's nothing more rewarding to me as a person than attaining what I want by putting in the effort.


edit: NVR - it is her.


someone fix Apollo's rep power please, I can't stand looking at it. lol.

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

You sure about that?

Touche

[Apollo151]

Seems like too much emphasis on the smashing part. Smashing should be a 'given' so to speak. Then you see what else she has to offer etc.

It bothers me when any woman does. lol. I sometimes wonder when someone is going to actually provide me with a challenge. Nomsaying?

I've been struggling with this the whole year. Since I've been single - what I've really wanted is a challenge. Thought I had one here, I'm not the type to give myself too much credit and say I'm just that good - lol, because I'm sure there are things to improve on, there always are. I find it annoying in a sense. The thrill of the chase is fun for me and there's nothing more rewarding to me as a person than attaining what I want by putting in the effort.

It used to bother me too, then I stopped worrying about it and started focusing on how compatible we are. The thrill of the chase is pretty damn fun though, can't hate - it's really enjoyable when a chick keeps you on your toes.

I'm newly single so it's pretty sweet how loving/caring single women can be + the lust stage.

someone fix Apollo's rep power please, I can't stand looking at it. lol.

dis gun b gud







My reps!

[HeBrewHammah]

It used to bother me too, then I stopped worrying about it and started focusing on how compatible we are. The thrill of the chase is pretty damn fun though, can't hate - it's really enjoyable when a chick keeps you on your toes.

I'm newly single so it's pretty sweet how loving/caring single women can be + the lust stage.

The chase is where it's at. That's just the best thing on the face of the planet, then once you get all the work done and get it in.....makes it sooooooooo much better honestly, makes me feel more content. Not sure why. IDK, she's not a bad girl/person, perhaps it's just time to accept that's how things go today. lol