Bro in regards to you're real life with hitting it off and things seeming to go well at a bar or whatever, then the next day no answer/blown off...there is a method to fix that. you might want to pickup something called Stealth Attraction...it's one of those PUA (pickup artist) videos, but it may help. What it says is when you're out and things go well, you get a girls number and may have even made out with her, it's easy to kiss girls and get numbers leave a girl on a sexual high point and that's her interaction with her, you re-engage with her the next day by phone text when she's not drinking, it's the day time, she's not feeling sexual, she's likely not going to see you again. you need to do is back build up a memory of a conversation that connects from something called future dates. ask questions and make plans that night, it'll put plans in her head (may not be applicable in your situation, but the idea is...).....questions like
you: When I was younger I liked to go to the park and feed the ducks..i was there today
her: oh i loved doing that haven't done that in ages!
you: ya i'll tell you what, next day when it's sunny we'll go to the park and feed the ducks how does that sound?
her: that'd be awesome!
this is a *******ry example, but the idea is to do that...talk about food places, places for drinks, etc...say you both are gonna go there. set it up as a plan immediately. you do this like 5-10 times, and if you've done it successfully, you've created a relationship in her head
you don't actually have to do this stuff, but she's thinking about this stuff and imaging it that night..it's done casually and putting it in her head...creating something that's gonna last. you said you texted the girls to make plans, but the plans should have already been made and agreed by her. you said "I'll text you tomorrow about plans"...you should've said "I'm picking you up at 7" That will increase your chances of the future date...
Cliffs:
Make plans and have them agreed to immediately instead of figuring it out later. Be direct.
In regards to your texts, I noticed she doesn't ask you sht about your day. and you even bragged about a tv you got. Leaves nothing to the imagination. A dude bought her a car, so you are already just friends with her. Forget this chick...best advice is use her to get other girls if you can.
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