former nice guys, how did you change

[wingsbrah]

have any of you successfully made the transition into hard jaded arsehole cynical kunt

if so how did you do it (other than lifting). i'm talking behavior/personality

[Admos]

i was never nice, fuck you bro

[STLJones]

get shredded bro, makes it easier when you can back up what you say



































































and by bro I mean never my fcking bro

[iamxclusive]

just be yourself..don't try and be someone your not

[TLTrooper]

I started miscing. Srs. This place will fk u up lol.

[Tye15]

I started miscing. Srs. This place will fk u up lol.

This, Joined the misc & forever changed my brain

[blackcontrarian]

I started out as the shy, timid guy who tried to please everyone. **** that. But you don't want to be the jaded cynical kunt either. Nowadays, I'm more aloof. Just don't let people walk over you. If you feel like you need to call someone out then don't hold back.

You can change by using positive thinking and self talk. It will take weeks and months to see any progress. Rome wasn't built in a day, my friend.

[Distreser]

Girlfriends can really show you to man the phuck up. Gotta learn that you call the shots now.

Dear diary

[anonymous]

Just say what you think bro

That is the only difference.

And don't go out of your way for anyone that isn't family.

[raggytime]

Basically you evaluate all your past experiences (failures) and then you live by the motto "Do what you want and not what you should" that way you end up happy (yes you'll be on dat dere regret time" but it's not your responsibility to make everyone happy (appease them and solve their issues) phuck dat man, you live for yourself.

Now get the phuck out there and spend money on yourself, don't cheapen yourself but splurge lavishly on friends and hot sl00ts. Don't do that to yourself man, also phuck everyone you know you're better than them, so believe it, exude it and do whatever the phuck you want.

Use your bitterness and failures as fuel (strong movitivation)

also miscin' ya phuckin' *******.

[autrefois]

reading The G manifesto

[Megafast13]

-Lifting
-Misc
-Getting hard broken enough times (felt beta just typing that)

Just have to give zero fuarks. It takes time to understand what women really are, and want...

[thegiraffe22g]

I started miscing. Srs. This place will fk u up lol.

preach

[nl33]

used to be the nicest guy in high school but couldn't get any girls. somehow ended up getting a girl, but she broke my heart. became an ******* for a few years but eventually balanced myself between the ******* and nice guy. now i give no fuks and can get any girl i want.

[winjones]

-After I found out how superficial people were. (went from 150 pound skinny kids to 9% bodyfat at 210 pounds)
-After I found out that all women were whores
-After I found out that hard work =/= success
-After I found the misc (very srs... after being a male stripper AND finding this forum I no longer trust women at all)

Ironically the MOMENT i stopped giving a **** what people thought and started saying WHATEVER i wanted was the moment I started hooking up with girls.

[Magnumtripod]

get a GF who won't stop playing games and giving you sh*t. after a while, you get sick of playing games and taking sh*t, so you stop giving a fuk about females and the games they play. you become a hard kunt and not giving a sh*t carries over into other areas of your life.

[morris_kg]

Hell, I don't even know if it's giving your 2 cents or not. Just don't give a chit bout chicks. Show em they aren't the finest piece of @ss to grace the world with their presence and they ARE just like EVERY OTHER Bish, lol. I hate it when they say they ain't.

Plus, don't let people take advantage of you. Have an opinion and stick with it. People don't like or respect the guy who just agrees with everything they say or do. They get run over

[D3th 2 Aw3]

Ex gf cheated. Sums it up. Basically keep getting jacked and not give a single fuk about anyone else. It's not all it's cracked up to be. Lost friends, distanced family because of it.

[GoodGolly]

i took creatine - never been the same since

[bigwolfman007]

Being too nice is the worst thing u can do OP. If you don't like somthing u let them nigas kno. LET THEM NIGAS KNO

[TypeZero]

Why...you want to be a cynic?


That's like asking for a ticket to hell.

[zeddo]

If you were always a nice guy, don't try to be an *******. Theres alot of research on this in the pickup community, it just doesn't work. Either you're naturally an ******* and can get girls that way, or you're not.

Rather, a nice guy seeking to improve himself needs to realise that
-he doesn't need to impress other people and pander to their wants,
-not to make himself too available in the hopes that he'll be liked and
-how to assert himself and his personality.

That doesn't mean being an *******.

[HIITLife]

joined misc, had some trailer trash try start a fight on the bus, noticed feminism, realised govt is phukked, realised no one is worth trusting or working hard for except yourself.

[Beararms]

Like most guys on here got my heart broken a few times because I was nice and let **** slide. I just found other stuff to do and stopped making women a priority. Drives my gf nuts that there are times I rather go lift, sit at home and do other things than be around her 24-7 lol

[lidding]

just be slightly more of a kunt then you regularly are
then let it consume you

[fuaxhawk]

Why don't you want to be nice anymore... seems pretty ****ing stupid to me.

just stand your fkn ground & dont let anyone push you the **** around...

Let bishes know whos boss

You cann do all of this & still be considered nice

[isildurrr]

be nice dude.much better way to live life.you meet someone new for the first time and you act aloof he/she probably won't bother if they're of decent quality

don't be too nice though.

[tmertz]

I started speaking my mind even if it rustled the jimmies of whom ever I was talking to.

[H1imhzq]

10th grade, september

was fed up with this bull****.

punched bathroom stall (was friendzoned like chit and hated seeing other guys with her (srs))

looked online did research etc...came across giant long thread on misc


thus the douchebag "h1imhzq" was born

[Brandon0212]

used to be the nicest guy in high school but couldn't get any girls. somehow ended up getting a girl, but she broke my heart. became an ******* for a few years but eventually balanced myself between the ******* and nice guy. now i give no fuks and can get any girl i want.

This. I dated a girl for 2 years and I loved her more than anything. Thought we might get married one day. She phucked me over and to this day not a single phuck is given.