Official T-Misc Girl Help Thread

[BuckToothGoat]

I def need help with girls. I'm a junior about to be a senior, and I used to go to an all boys school so I transferred to a public school my sophomore year. Thing is, I haven't really talked to any girls during my time here cause I just don't know how. I used to go to a co-ed school in middle school and I had a girlfriend there, but now I just can't seem to talk to girls. Almost all of the attractive ones are "popular" and I'm still kind of the new guy so its not like I can get them or anything. Plus most of the time a girl has to come up and talk to me first, that's how bad I am. Even when that happens I end up doing some stupid **** and they walk away (this one girl asked me a question and I just looked away a nodded or some **** I don't know I panicked). Any advice? I can't just walk up to a girl in high school and pick them up, cause that's just weird and I'll look desperate. Any advice?

[deivukx]

This still alive? I have some questions, but first is for those who were average looking and went in to great shape, did treatment from girls changed at work, school etc.? YKWIM

[ahibbs99]

So my situation is a bit weird. About 8 months ago when I was a senior in HS I had a girlfriend and we had been together for about 16 months. I was very close with one of my teachers at the time bc she coached my sister in lacrosse. The teacher's daughter was very attractive and would accompany her mom (the teacher) to all of my football games even when her school was an hour away. I realized the only reason she came to the games is bc she knew me and now I want to start talking to this girl bc me and my ex broke up. How can I start talking to this girl? I know its a bit complex and convoluted but If you can make it out and give advice it would be much appreciated.

[Droxdave2002]

Strong thread.

Lets start it off with the first qn:
How do you talk to a girl?

This is straightforward. They are human beings after all like us, to start a conversation with a girl, show that you're confident and give off that positive vibe. Ask how she is and if she asks you back, thats a green flag. If not, don't panic because most girls are crap at holding conversations that aren't about gossip. Then talk about anything small like the weather and ask open ended questions since girls like talking about themselves. Also, if shes not interested, don't take it personally and move on.

[Droxdave2002]

I def need help with girls. I'm a junior about to be a senior, and I used to go to an all boys school so I transferred to a public school my sophomore year. Thing is, I haven't really talked to any girls during my time here cause I just don't know how. I used to go to a co-ed school in middle school and I had a girlfriend there, but now I just can't seem to talk to girls. Almost all of the attractive ones are "popular" and I'm still kind of the new guy so its not like I can get them or anything. Plus most of the time a girl has to come up and talk to me first, that's how bad I am. Even when that happens I end up doing some stupid **** and they walk away (this one girl asked me a question and I just looked away a nodded or some **** I don't know I panicked). Any advice? I can't just walk up to a girl in high school and pick them up, cause that's just weird and I'll look desperate. Any advice?

remember girls are humans and are the same like us.
I got rid of this approach anxiety by talking to more people like classmates and acquaintances or even strangers. The more you talk, the more comfortable you feel in conversational atmospheres with a girl.
I focused on myself first tho like getting into shape, improving looks and not being a freak.

[Droxdave2002]

My problem isn't getting women, because they usually initiate with me. My problem is finding one that isn't a sloot and likes white guys. IKR im foreveralone, pretty much expected this fact oh wel $>Everything.

bad mindset with that "foreveralone"
first of all, get rid of your limiting beliefs like the ethnicity part and demolish those insecurities
secondly, focus on yourself and make yourself happy because if you cant make yourself happy and better, then how can you make others feel the same way?

[Droxdave2002]

Ok fix my problem, how do I know if I'm good looking? I've had numerous girls call me hot to my face, but I really don't see it. Also I have a really high sex drive and a strong love for estrogen, I could use zero to no sex drive/attraction to the opposite sex. How would I go about achieving that?

if numerous girls say you're hot to your face, then take it as a compliment and make a move. What the F man? if i had compliments like that, i would make so many moves and initiate conversations. Also if they say you're hot, then they like you of course!

the sex drive issue, you can't do anything but maybe keep your mind off it

[BushMeat]

So my situation is a bit weird. About 8 months ago when I was a senior in HS I had a girlfriend and we had been together for about 16 months. I was very close with one of my teachers at the time bc she coached my sister in lacrosse. The teacher's daughter was very attractive and would accompany her mom (the teacher) to all of my football games even when her school was an hour away. I realized the only reason she came to the games is bc she knew me and now I want to start talking to this girl bc me and my ex broke up. How can I start talking to this girl? I know its a bit complex and convoluted but If you can make it out and give advice it would be much appreciated.

Try to find a way to meet her naturally (e.g. don't be too direct if you haven't spoken for a long time), and start talking ( how are you, how have you been etc. ). Make sure to talk to her AFTER a workout to get those god tier confidence levels.




Also, give her one and only one compliment on her looks (e.g. I really like your hair btw) and say it while making complete eye contact and with a straight face, no smiling or anything, and then follow up with a joke (I wish my hair was like that) a few seconds later and allow a tiny smile to show. Then just act how you normally do. Also feel free to omit any of the second part of my answer because I'm 17 and I don't live in the US, but make the encounter natural so it doesn't seem like you were pursuing her too much or else she might be creeped out or might play hard to get

[wideband]

sup brahs
I'm in a little bit of a jam here

I'm just gonna keep this short and simple and say that I hit on this freshman (I'm a sophomore) and it didn't go that great. I haven't talked to her since. I heard from one of the boys that she didn't dislike me, but was shy and felt intimidated. Can I salvage this or should I cut my losses?

It's worth mentioning that she really is smoking hot, so take that into consideration.

[youngcurlbro]

Sup misc

Going to have lose my virginity next week with a girl that agreed to be friends with benefits with me. Any tips for a first time brahs?

[Enjoythis5]

Such a great idea,agree with you

[anayatyagi]

Nice...answer

[eveeeli]

i thot this was a thread fr girls :P

[mikey09120]

Sup misc

Going to have lose my virginity next week with a girl that agreed to be friends with benefits with me. Any tips for a first time brahs?

Relax and have fun.