281 OKC adventures/experience

[niosh]

Tons more cougars on match bro, intelligent career types too instead of the over the hill useless ex-party girls prevalent on POF.

Who cares if your coworker's friend finds out, you'll be too busy getting your D sucked...

[281IAGUY]

Tons more cougars on match bro, intelligent career types too instead of the over the hill useless ex-party girls prevalent on POF.

Who cares if your coworker's friend finds out, you'll be too busy getting your D sucked...

this may be true but my image is very important to me...especially where i work/area i live, you have to understand this I am not the kind of guy that likes the limelight on me when it comes to my personal life.

[niosh]

Up to you broseph. Its just a dating site not a site for freaky alternative sex -_-

Your face up there means nothing other than you are currently dating. Tons of professionals with no time for a social life are already doing it.

[281IAGUY]

Up to you broseph. Its just a dating site not a site for freaky alternative sex -_-

Your face up there means nothing other than you are currently dating. Tons of professionals with no time for a social life are already doing it.

yeah i know, this online thing is still a process for me and still putting myself out their in plain view

[p5165]

Fun read, but a severe lack of pictures. Those are some random girls, you don't gf any, why not just snap a picture out of the profile and share it for a better experience? You can also upload it to imageshack or what else so nobody can trace it back to the profile through a URL if you are too concerned... But anyway, thanks.

[281IAGUY]

Fun read, but a severe lack of pictures. Those are some random girls, you don't gf any, why not just snap a picture out of the profile and share it for a better experience? You can also upload it to imageshack or what else so nobody can trace it back to the profile through a URL if you are too concerned... But anyway, thanks.

I'll consider it...

[281IAGUY]

Is thier some secret ro making out in the first date? Do you guys just go for it without warning or do you do something like cup her face ...look in eyea then go for it?

[AbootDatAss]

POF has the most fukked up women, OKC has some nutbars and mostly low quality women and don't think Match is much better because when the women have to pay to find a man they expect a 6'1" Brad Pitt and will settle for nothing less when they don't have much to offer.

Just check the reviews online if you don't believe me.

[281IAGUY]

bump looking for answers on my orginal questions.... Is thier some secret ro making out in the first date? Do you guys just go for it without warning or do you do something like cup her face ...look in eyea then go for it?

[blinky99]

you just go for it, usually it's a 6th sense thing and you can sense they are either down or not. when it's 50/50 i go for it anyway. check my okc log

[281IAGUY]

you just go for it, usually it's a 6th sense thing and you can sense they are either down or not. when it's 50/50 i go for it anyway. check my okc log

dammit i was hoping you would not say that..guess its an intinct thing...i have been reading your blog..well first 2 pages at least and you pretty much alreayd got your dick wet by then GJDM, from your avi you got a good body (no homo) must make things easier for you.

anways

update on 30 year old single mom

first told me that she was not ready for a night out of dancing and if we could do something more midway (the place was midway so idk wtf she was talking about) so i spent a good 30-40mins trying to find something else to do like a decent bar...but towards the end i'm like...this is not going to be fun...and almost didn't want to do anything...after a few minutes of that though she cancelled and asked if we could reschedule our next time together...pretty much told her yeah but i don't know when i will be available next time. she called me later in the night around 10'ish to talk to me before she went to bed.

pretty ****ty friday night because i wanted to get the physical aspect of dancing in...so I do not know what i want to do for 2nd date...I am thinking drinks but i want to get into deeper feelings with her...even told her that. Reason being i was reading Blinky's rapport thread and my god thats how somewhat my first date went with this girl....so any advice on 2nd date boys? i am getting tired of drinks at the bar

[281IAGUY]

went back on PoF so far no numbers yet...but have 1-2 potential ones...20 year old and 25 yeawr old...kind of want to go back to the younger girls see how that goes

[microsuede]

....so any advice on 2nd date boys? i am getting tired of drinks at the bar

Had a fun 2nd date the other night playing pool at a bar, we ate some food then played pool and dranked till we left. Lots of flirting during the pool game, she even won a bet and I had to give her a massage, which she loved. Perhaps find a bar that has pool or other games like darts... be flirtatious.

[281IAGUY]

Had a fun 2nd date the other night playing pool at a bar, we ate some food then played pool and dranked till we left. Lots of flirting during the pool game, she even won a bet and I had to give her a massage, which she loved. Perhaps find a bar that has pool or other games like darts... be flirtatious.

Thats what i was aiming for last night but no fuking pool halls half way between us...she would have to come towards my end of town

[momo5]

i deleted my account from OKC after that horrible one night stand with fatty....long story short condom broke and i busted in her ...she said she was on the IUE mirena (implant) and did not want to take a pregnancy test after i had her take plan B in front of me....so that experience kind of did it for me...still worried about it but i do not how to go about having her do it....she was a single mom to with 1 kid. basically told me she is not getting pregnant and if she did she would have an abortion. Thought about hiring a private investigator to get that information out of her but idk what i'm going to do yet...she hasn't contacted me back or anything since that day but it still worries me since its a thought in the back of my head everyday

[TheJizzler]

Thats what i was aiming for last night but no fuking pool halls half way between us...she would have to come towards my end of town

Problem? She'll come

[281IAGUY]

Problem? She'll come

Idk...would not even meet me half way to go to the club...ill try again and see...lives good 20-25 miles away

[281IAGUY]

Dont laugh brah one of the worst days i ever had

[281IAGUY]

And plentyoffish officially sucks ass i swear most woman on their must think super highly of themselves...i was getting some good looking babes on OKC -_- last 2time girls i talked to have pretty much stopped respnding....cant even get a number out of them....even the 5-6's acting all to good to acquire their digits....oh well time to delete pof waste of 2a days

[TheJizzler]

Idk...would not even meet me half way to go to the club...ill try again and see...lives good 20-25 miles away

Dafuq? Send her the 'know what you are - a bish' copypasta if she says no

And plentyoffish officially sucks ass i swear most woman on their must think super highly of themselves...i was getting some good looking babes on OKC -_- last 2time girls i talked to have pretty much stopped respnding....cant even get a number out of them....even the 5-6's acting all to good to acquire their digits....oh well time to delete pof waste of 2a days

Only girls with no future inhabit POF. The cruder and more forward you are on there, the better. Especially if you can pull off the shirtless profile pic (deadsrs)

[281IAGUY]

Dafuq? Send her the 'know what you are - a bish' copypasta if she says no



Only girls with no future inhabit POF. The cruder and more forward you are on there, the better. Especially if you can pull off the shirtless profile pic (deadsrs)

Never seen dafuq copy pasta send it my way....had to things in mind for 2ndyou date...either pool hall and beers or cooking together at her house...i live with parents until condo ready at end of yeear

Single mom ive been talking to has pretty much died twxting wise she sends me a hi and i do the same and she stops lol i cant really till with her anymore. Yes to dating chatty woman...first ine thats pretty reserved like me

Au pair girl update:
Her best friend lives with her so only way i am seeing her if she tags along....not sure how i want to play this yet...was thinking pool hall with her or taking her out dancing since for first date

[281IAGUY]

AU pair girl update:

went out on a one on one date with her few hours ago...really cute seems genuinley happy, did the whole kino thing and didn't really get much back in return...talked for about 1h 30mins and could till she was getting tired/bored so i ended it...tried to go for the kiss but end up kissing her forehead cuz she backed away a little..regardless i think it went well...but we will see how the 2nd date goes..I'll be out of the country next week so i won't be seeing her until afterwards...

On the nice guy subject...if you guys remember i was PISSED at this girl for canceling 30mins before our first date plan...and i made sure she knew that at the time..when we were talking about it she said she would of probably would of felt the same but said she didn't mind how i reacted

when i girl crosses the line with you you let her know immediately...i ****ed up with the single mom when she said she didn't want to go out dancing and if we could of changed plans...what i should of done was show her that, that was retarded and nothing fun to do other then that tonight and left angry. but instead of her feeling bad she probably lost interest...but we'll see though

[blinky99]

dammit i was hoping you would not say that..guess its an intinct thing...i have been reading your blog..well first 2 pages at least and you pretty much alreayd got your dick wet by then GJDM, from your avi you got a good body (no homo) must make things easier for you.

anways

update on 30 year old single mom

first told me that she was not ready for a night out of dancing and if we could do something more midway (the place was midway so idk wtf she was talking about) so i spent a good 30-40mins trying to find something else to do like a decent bar...but towards the end i'm like...this is not going to be fun...and almost didn't want to do anything...after a few minutes of that though she cancelled and asked if we could reschedule our next time together...pretty much told her yeah but i don't know when i will be available next time. she called me later in the night around 10'ish to talk to me before she went to bed.

thanks appreciated, and i've been shot down flaked more times than you can count in that thread. wanna get ahead and learn a sht ton, read it all. srs

dancing = more intimate touchy feely, drinky drinking. i think club is great, but you cant bring the idea up. it's a once youve had a few drinks, hey lets go dance at club x blah blah

when i girl crosses the line with you you let her know immediately...i ****ed up with the single mom when she said she didn't want to go out dancing and if we could of changed plans...what i should of done was show her that, that was retarded and nothing fun to do other then that tonight and left angry. but instead of her feeling bad she probably lost interest...but we'll see though

when a girl "crosses" the line you show disinterest, its harder said than done, until it becomes habbit. don't go off on them and waste emotional energy or try to logic things out. see my thread for some examples of me trying to do it and how useless it is.

[281IAGUY]

thanks appreciated, and i've been shot down flaked more times than you can count in that thread. wanna get ahead and learn a sht ton, read it all. srs

dancing = more intimate touchy feely, drinky drinking. i think club is great, but you cant bring the idea up. it's a once youve had a few drinks, hey lets go dance at club x blah blah




when a girl "crosses" the line you show disinterest, its harder said than done, until it becomes habbit. don't go off on them and waste emotional energy or try to logic things out. see my thread for some examples of me trying to do it and how useless it is.

i see i'll keep the disintrest thing in mind... from what i have seen...outside of dating...when you show people your agigitated they feel bad and want to make it up to you...then go back to being nice type of thing. honestly i think with your body blinky you can do that and have the desired effect...girls think i'm handsome and good looking, so the disintrest thing works only if they are really into you...at least in my view

I'm going to have t dedicate an evening to reading all post in your thread hahaha

[281IAGUY]

So i have date #2 with single mom this saturday for brunch...not sure i want to play this...I am trying to get past the the stupid formalities..and get into deeper conversation wants and desire and escalate.. any advice?

[281IAGUY]

bump

[281IAGUY]

got this girls number...she's 5'11..talked to her on phone idk tarp possible?





what I like about her is she has a lot of time on her hands and i told her i like attention...possible winner here

[microsuede]

got this girls number...she's 5'11..talked to her on phone idk tarp possible?

What are you asking? Yea I'd hit that. Also regarding the date with the single mom, why do you want deep conversations? Are you trying to get laid or being her emotional blanket? Keep your dates fun and preferably at night. I hope the brunch place you 2 r going to involves alcohol being served. I hope you are picking her up as well. Try to set up the date with the other girl near her place or yours at a place that has pool or darts. Report back after you meet one of those chicks.

[281IAGUY]

What are you asking? Yea I'd hit that. Also regarding the date with the single mom, why do you want deep conversations? Are you trying to get laid or being her emotional blanket? Keep your dates fun and preferably at night. I hope the brunch place you 2 r going to involves alcohol being served. I hope you are picking her up as well. Try to set up the date with the other girl near her place or yours at a place that has pool or darts. Report back after you meet one of those chicks.

lol idk i do not think the brunch gig is going to happen...things have really tapered off with her and well its just been awkward since the first date with texts and calls...thats why i asked

[microsuede]

lol idk i do not think the brunch gig is going to happen...things have really tapered off with her and well its just been awkward since the first date with texts and calls...thats why i asked

Also always have a plan when u call these women. Sounds like u called the last one but didn't set up a date with her. If your going to call have a plan, meaning a date to invite her out on after 5 minutes of chit chat.