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10-19-2012, 06:28 PM #1411
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10-19-2012, 06:28 PM #1412
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10-19-2012, 06:28 PM #1413
I'm Bengali, and I don't usually wear this, but it was during something traditional, but usually I just wear normal clothes.
FA here. 16 Years old.
Most of it is because i'm rather self-conscious and really low confidence. People say I look great but there are others who used to discriminate because I was Bengali. So my confidence was never really high.
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10-19-2012, 06:31 PM #1414
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10-19-2012, 06:35 PM #1415
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10-19-2012, 06:35 PM #1416
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10-19-2012, 06:41 PM #1421
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10-19-2012, 06:41 PM #1422
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10-19-2012, 06:43 PM #1423
Thanks for the feedback. I've always been told I look young, kind of annoying getting asked what grade you're in when youre in your last year of university. I guess it can work out well though because my parents are both older than 50 and look 40 or younger.
I'm 5'9.
I get about zero interest from girls, or at least none that I notice...
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10-19-2012, 06:45 PM #1424
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10-19-2012, 06:46 PM #1425
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10-19-2012, 06:46 PM #1426
The thing is brah, everybody my age also had a gf at least once in their lifetime (Although I have a couple of decent looking friends who are also FA). I haven't even gotten one yet, and I blame it all on my confidence in myself. Mostly cause of the "U A-RAB" "U INDIAN" "WTF IS BANGLADESH" comments sometimes.
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10-19-2012, 06:49 PM #1427
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Haha
I know alot of people like that too IRL. I always believed that some people can function on it and others can't. In college I wrote papers, took test, studied and took some exams high and I graduated with a 3.3 GPA. you don't think some people can still maintain while burning daily?Wanna get jacked
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10-19-2012, 06:49 PM #1428
the fact that you even think in those terms is a problem. love is not a statistics class...it's some intangible mixture of qualities that come together and mold with another person perfectly.
it's like synergy: the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. can't use an equation to figure out that sh!t.
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10-19-2012, 06:50 PM #1429
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From another thread...
You view yourself as a 4/10 so other women will see that in your presentation (I know I said it before). What's in your mind is what you will attract. If you think you're only 4/10, then that's all you'll get from other women. Expect more from yourself. You got height, muscle, strong jawline...Sell that. IDK about N. Carolina but in the bigger cities, there's a market for that.
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10-19-2012, 06:53 PM #1430
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10-19-2012, 06:58 PM #1431
I know all of these feels....brb what high school do you go to, or acting extremely shocked when i say im 20 and making me show them my ID. Its going to be so embarrassing when i turn 21 and have to go into liquor stores.
Don't worry about what anyone else is doing. I know when you're 16 you feel like you have to get a gf and get laid so you don't look like a ******* but trust me it is not that important at your age. Get over the indian insults, take pride in your culture as there is nothing u can do to change it.Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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10-19-2012, 07:02 PM #1432
when you first become legal, it's annoying to show your ID and you hope they don't ask. i'm canadian, so the legal age is 19, and 4 years later, i HOPE to be carded, because looking younger as you grow older is a GOOD thing.
people pay A LOT of money to look young, and you will cherish those genetics when you look youthful and everyone else around you starts to sag.
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10-19-2012, 08:17 PM #1433
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10-19-2012, 08:28 PM #1434
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thanks for the input. honestly, i already know the only reason for my FA virgin status is due to my social interactions with women, but i just dont even know how to change that :/ i dont really have any friends so meeting them that way is pretty much out of the question. i do go to a university with thousands of beautiful girls, but tbh its more depressing than inspiring. i dont really get any of them in my classes (math major), and the concept of just walking up to some random girl eating lunch or at the library or wherever is simply mind-boggling to me and seems very awkward and intrusive. idk i'm a very quiet and independent guy by nature, but not a day (read: hour) goes by that i dont think about how FA i am, and its really the only thing in my life that bothers me at all. i'm just at such a loss for how to meet women
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10-19-2012, 08:37 PM #1435
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10-19-2012, 08:43 PM #1436
Lol wtf you don't look THAT young...try growing out facial hair? Last time i hit on a girl she said i looked young and i was like how old and she said 14. I don't get how people think i look so young even though i have a little goatee or whatevr...i know it'll work in my favor when i get older, but it fukn sucks for now, everytime i talk to a girl i feel like she is just thinking about how young i look and how she probably thinks im just some teenager playing around.
Approaching girls is not hard at all srs just don't be scared. The awkward or rejection you experience will be forgotten eventually, you have nothing to lose when you go up to a girl and if she rejects you there are 1000000 others around.Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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10-19-2012, 09:01 PM #1437
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