GF is leaving forever (srs), need perfect last date ideas before she moves away

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 10:11 PM

Originally Posted by debo9111

dude you sound really beta and your situation has beta written all over it. let me explain why

1. your 22 and she is going off to school? she 17 brah? splain dis.
2.you realize you cant trust the girl(smart) which means you probably think she will get dat dere first chance she gets.
3.your trying to make **** "memorable," and she hasnt said **** about the whole situation or told you she wanted to make it memorable or anything. sounds like your the one trying to make something special and she has already moved on.
4. dudes tell you there are cell phones and skype, and PLANE TICKETS yet you know this will not work out.

1-4= you know it wont work out, and shes not worth the trouble so then why are you acting all beta and trying to make **** unforgettable?

best advice brah, and totally serious. set up your place and record yourself fuking her brains out, straight up degrading the bitch. fuk her like she will never be fuked before. THIS is how its memorable, both for her because she got the best fuk she will ever get and for you because you fuked that bitch and moved on to many more.

she is changing schools for her degree

**frozenbarb** · 08-05-2012, 10:12 PM

Originally Posted by GavriloPrincip

Lot of truth in this post.

Why is ******* OP trying to make the day memorable when you're essentially broken up already?

So you can't have a good memorable day with someone you love?

**joecam18** · 08-05-2012, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by buddbrah

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 10:15 PM

Originally Posted by super_tactical

About the gayest thing I've ever heard.

this isnt the last date she needs, it is a date that she deserves

**GavriloPrincip** · 08-05-2012, 10:16 PM

Originally Posted by frozenbarb

So you can't have a good memorable day with someone you love?

Strong logic.

It's obviously not "love" if you can give up on it with the sole reason being her moving away for school.

**igohard90** · 08-05-2012, 10:17 PM

Originally Posted by GavriloPrincip

Strong logic.

It's obviously not "love" if you can give up on it with the sole reason being her moving away for school.

long distance ish is hard, man...extremely frustrating when you can't see,hold,touch the one you love.

**GavriloPrincip** · 08-05-2012, 10:19 PM

Originally Posted by igohard90

long distance ish is hard, man...extremely frustrating when you can't see,hold,touch the one you love.

I feel you but dude just stated "can't trust her, sloots gonna sloot".

Doesn't seem like a matter of love where it hurts so much to let her go and everything was attempted to save the relationship.

In B4 OP admits it was her who wants to break up because she always wanted to participate in massive orgies before settling down.

**Nomza** · 08-05-2012, 10:20 PM

this may sound a little weird but cut one of your fingers and give to her as a parting gift so she can finger herself with your finger. Technically all the orgasms she'll get in future using your finger, you'll be credited for them.

Seriously, do consider it.

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 10:20 PM

Originally Posted by igohard90

long distance ish is hard, man...extremely frustrating when you can't see,hold,touch the one you love.

x2.

**Neptune34** · 08-05-2012, 10:20 PM

i would do something reminiscent of your earlier dating days (perhaps a restaurant you liked to frequent), some other activity like a boat ride and then send her off with roses.

**debo9111** · 08-05-2012, 10:23 PM

Originally Posted by Num3n

she is changing schools for her degree

brah, the misc feels your pain. weve all been there. ****ty situation is ****ty. its how you handle it that shows who you are. This is real important brah, seems like this choice will determine how you act with future chix. you either be beta about it or be alpha about it. you might be leaning a certain way right now, but think about how your going to look back on this 5 years from now.

**marin3muscl3** · 08-05-2012, 10:23 PM

Originally Posted by Num3n

this isnt the last date she needs, it is a date that she deserves

Jesus dude....

**joecam18** · 08-05-2012, 10:24 PM

Originally Posted by igohard90

long distance ish is hard, man...extremely frustrating when you can't see,hold,touch the one you love.

Originally Posted by Num3n

x2.

doesnt mean its impossible.... its tough but if shes worth it then youll deal

**GymGroundsdotcm** · 08-05-2012, 10:30 PM

be sure to leave at least 2 hours for a last goodbye, it really does take that long.
trust me, been there done that

**2 HUGE** · 08-05-2012, 10:30 PM

Originally Posted by Num3n

good post. i do want to make it work and so does she but i guess we just realize the truth of the matter that it wont last. it's really rare from anecdotal evidence of course... that long distance relationships last.

if she's worth your time you make it work. that's the big question, is she worth it? also how long is it going to be long distance? you cannot have a permanent long distance relationship, no. but if it's temporary it can work. as long as you're both understanding. I've been through it. I work 60+ (sometimes 70) hrs a week + weekends occasionally + 20hrs a week of studying + a gym schedule. there isnt much time for a relationship in there, let alone a long distance one... but we made it work and it's worth it if she's worth it to you.

as long as you can trust her and she's understanding of the circumstances that's whats important. she has to want to make it work though.

**getbetter12** · 08-05-2012, 10:33 PM

I know that long distance feel...shiiit is the worst and im convinced it almost never works. People (I did too) are naive and think theirs is the one to work out but unless you have a seriously clear date for when you're back together in the same place, its pretty unrealistic to think it can work, especially at a young age, and especially if you're going to be long distance for 1yr+. Sucks brah

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 10:42 PM

Originally Posted by marin3muscl3

Jesus dude....

lmfao i hope u know i was trolling

u not see batman brah?

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 10:43 PM

Originally Posted by 2 HUGE

if she's worth your time you make it work. that's the big question, is she worth it? also how long is it going to be long distance? you cannot have a permanent long distance relationship, no. but if it's temporary it can work. as long as you're both understanding. I've been through it. I work 60+ (sometimes 70) hrs a week + weekends occasionally + 20hrs a week of studying + a gym schedule. there isnt much time for a relationship in there, let alone a long distance one... but we made it work and it's worth it if she's worth it to you.

as long as you can trust her and she's understanding of the circumstances that's whats important. she has to want to make it work though.

she does but we both recognize the futility of it. she still has a couple years left. and the only time we would be together at the best would be christmas and summer.

*edit- ANYWAYS, lets stop talking about why i am doing it and if i should be doing what im doing and more about what date ideas i could be doing

**skeIIyking** · 08-05-2012, 10:47 PM

lawls did this last year
sex, go out, sex, dinner, movie, sex, sex and moar sex

**Griggz** · 08-05-2012, 10:48 PM

Originally Posted by jujuB

buy a gun and shoot yourself in front of her.

she will remember that forever. srs

hahahahhahahahahahaha

hgahahahahahhahahahaha

**danow** · 08-05-2012, 10:50 PM

save your money.

**uniifirex** · 08-05-2012, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by whyYOUmadBRO

This thread just saddened me x100000000 no homo srs

this, feel so fukin bad for OP

**whatsupdawg** · 08-05-2012, 11:00 PM

had a half a year relationship with a girl from overseas. we're both students, and she has to return to where she came from. everything i wanted in a girl, we did so many things together. i was a total nerd, hardly got out of home, so in a large way, we were both exploring the places together.

the last week of our relationship was pretty damn tough for the fact that we spent half a year together, doing so many things, but in the end we both have to separate. more or less my mind told me she's the one, but the god damn distance means that we might only see each other quite some time later.

we spent the last day of our relationship cuddling in bed, crying, talking about our first date, how we met, holding on to each other tightly, hoping that she doesn't have to go back.

**Haterade~** · 08-05-2012, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by uniifirex

this, feel so fukin bad for OP

Urine idiot if you feel bad for the OP. He's a fuking adult. His GF is a fuking adult. If they "love" each other, they can make life decisions in accordance to that love. They clearly don't.

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 11:09 PM

Originally Posted by uniifirex

this, feel so fukin bad for OP

thanks brah

Originally Posted by whatsupdawg

had a half a year relationship with a girl from overseas. we're both students, and she has to return to where she came from. everything i wanted in a girl, we did so many things together. i was a total nerd, hardly got out of home, so in a large way, we were both exploring the places together.

the last week of our relationship was pretty damn tough for the fact that we spent half a year together, doing so many things, but in the end we both have to separate. more or less my mind told me she's the one, but the god damn distance means that we might only see each other quite some time later.

we spent the last day of our relationship cuddling in bed, crying, talking about our first date, how we met, holding on to each other tightly, hoping that she doesn't have to go back.

fuuarrrk ='(

**AugustFourth** · 08-05-2012, 11:30 PM

This is depressing but OP's idea is eally the best way to handle this type of situation. Long distance relationships are hard and his girl is going to be away for 8 months out of the year. It's better to break it off now before either you catch feelings for someone else or you two start questioning each other all the time.

Go with something simple but make sure you **** her good and record it for the misc.

**NeatBrah** · 08-05-2012, 11:50 PM

op, you are going to regret this, you will feel way worse after she leaves you tommorow. SRS.

**Num3n** · 08-05-2012, 11:56 PM

Originally Posted by NeatBrah

op, you are going to regret this, you will feel way worse after she leaves you tommorow. SRS.

already thought about it lots and no i wont.

Nature's first green is gold
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf's a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.

everything has a time limit brah.

'Death is their fate, the gift of Iluvatar, which as Time wears even the Powers shall envy'. ~tolkien

knowing that things will end makes you appreciate them far far more.

**BloodBaneZXY** · 08-06-2012, 12:10 AM

Breakfast at scoozi's on howe around 9:30. Stroll to coal harbour, buy her flowers on the way at the place by the rowing club. Rent bikes (maybe a tandem one you *******). Cruise through stanley park and to english bay. Couple drinks at cactus club there & maybe lunch...epic view (solid weather tomorrow too). Back to stanley park and play minigolf, then take her to a winebar (uvu on seymour is not bad) for a few drinks, then somewhere nice for dinner (salt? bishes usually like that joint). Or a nice patio in yaletown like society. Walk around the water in yaletown as the sun goes down..profit???

**mikevall** · 08-06-2012, 12:15 AM

numen brah who are u dating?

also strong rep power lols

i like the ending idea of dinner/movie/sex imo during the day u should do somthing fun together like go karting, but biking is nice i guess

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