Hire Hooker to lose Virginity?

[jrw93]

Ugh.. I can't believe I'm actually asking this but I am actually considering it.

So I'm 18, never kissed a girl/had a girlfriend/still a virgin and it seriously frustrates me. All my attempts have ended in failure. At this point, I've given up attempting to attract the opposite sex. As sad as it is, I've actually had guys ask me out after they learned that I had never had a relationship with a girl before.

Some background info on me - I just finished my first year at a top 30 university where I have a full ride scholarship to (mostly academic). I double major in Finance and Math, and obtained a 4.0 in my first year. I currently intern for Merrill Lynch (really hard to get after only freshman year) in their special situations group within the middle market proprietary credit investing desk. I hope to obtain a job in I-Banking at a bulge bracket firm upon graduation (Looking for Credit Suisse/UBS or Barcap). I also have officer positions in 2 student organizations and will be a RA for next year.

I'm just tired of getting rejected, over and over again. I also want to get at least SOME experience before I meet "the one" so she doesn't dump me because it was the best 15 seconds of my life. Is a prostitute a viability? I don't have any expenses for the next 4 years (scholarship covered tuition, room, food, etc) and my parents are very well off so I can hire a expensive call girl. What do you guys think?

Btw - I'm not fat or ugly haha. I'm 5'11 163 lbs and about 14% BF. I'm going to bulk until March and then start my cut for the summer. I'll get some pics up in a bit -- M-Lynch actually checks up on your FB to see if you do anything inappropriate so I removed most of my pics from online haha.

[InfinityThor]

Some background info on me - I just finished my first year at a top 30 university where I have a full ride scholarship to (mostly academic). I double major in Finance and Math, and obtained a 4.0 in my first year. I currently intern for Merrill Lynch (really hard to get after only freshman year) in their special situations group within the middle market proprietary credit investing desk. I hope to obtain a job in I-Banking at a bulge bracket firm upon graduation (Looking for Credit Suisse/UBS or Barcap). I also have officer positions in 2 student organizations and will be a RA for next year.

Not sure why you included this but it makes you sound like a tryhard.

before I meet "the one"

No such thing, there is an vast abundance of women that you can have an extremely strong connection with.

At 18, you're still very young and have plenty of time to work on improving yourself and losing your virginity, there's no reason to get a prostitute.

[FLChamp]

An internship at Merrill Lynch and you're only a freshman? That's good stuff! Excellent work. I love internships because they teach you so much more than what you'd learn within the confines of a classroom. Wish I'd gotten more of them throughout college.

[jrw93]

An internship at Merrill Lynch and you're only a freshman? That's good stuff! Excellent work. I love internships because they teach you so much more than what you'd learn within the confines of a classroom. Wish I'd gotten more of them throughout college.

Hahaha I got lucky, had a friend that already worked there so was able to get my foot in the door easier. The superday actually wasn't that bad, the case studies weren't that hard imo. Are you in the banking industry?

[jrw93]

Not sure why you included this but it makes you sound like a tryhard.

No such thing, there is an vast abundance of women that you can have an extremely strong connection with.

At 18, you're still very young and have plenty of time to work on improving yourself and losing your virginity, there's no reason to get a prostitute.

Sorry InfinityThor, didn't mean to sound like one haha. I just wanted to give a solid representation of myself. I spent alot of time studying and working really hard, so thats what I have to show :P

[JG18]

Yes if you want to but make sure you read reviews on her first and that you realize that if/when you have a gf/get married you can never tell them how you lost it. Also if you do this tell the escort up front that you still rock the v card so she can adapt ie maybe shed put you in and ride to start out etc cause you aren't gonna know what you're doing. Gl if you go this route bro.

Also book for at least 2 hours and ideally 3 so you can pop more than once and don't feel stressed/ rushed.

[jrw93]

Yes if you want to but make sure you read reviews on her first and that you realize that if/when you have a gf/get married you can never tell them how you lost it. Also if you do this tell the escort up front that you still rock the v card so she can adapt ie maybe shed put you in and ride to start out etc cause you aren't gonna know what you're doing. Gl if you go this route bro.

Also book for at least 2 hours and ideally 3 so you can pop more than once and don't feel stressed/ rushed.

Yeah that's really what I'm worried about - Not knowing what I am doing. I don't want the girl I really like in the future to have to put up with that. I don't want to be labeled as an "lousy lay".

[fofm]

bro... its overrated man. i lost mine at 16 due to PURE LUCK of a new girl moving/changing schools and feeling alonely (so we got into a relationship LOL and had sex everyday after school)

btw math + econ major here. obviously ur gonna get alot out of finance (already), but what classes (have u planned on) taking for math? obviously... calc1-3, differential equations, proofs, linear algebra... what classes will really help you out for banking/finance/quanfitiative analysts

also taking a few finance + stats classes

[FLChamp]

Hahaha I got lucky, had a friend that already worked there so was able to get my foot in the door easier. The superday actually wasn't that bad, the case studies weren't that hard imo. Are you in the banking industry?

No, but I know a few people who dabble in business and finance and the like. Besides, Merrill Lynch is basically a household name now. Our fields of study are vastly different, but the internship game remains the same through and through.

[Jebus22]

You'll regret it.

[jrw93]

bro... its overrated man. i lost mine at 16 due to PURE LUCK of a new girl moving/changing schools and feeling alonely (so we got into a relationship LOL and had sex everyday after school)

btw math + econ major here. obviously ur gonna get alot out of finance (already), but what classes (have u planned on) taking for math? obviously... calc1-3, differential equations, proofs, linear algebra... what classes will really help you out for banking/finance/quanfitiative analysts

also taking a few finance + stats classes

I'm actually looking into more theoretical route in math.. specifically number theory. The courses I'll definitely be taking is intro to number theory, math modeling, theory of pdes, principles of numerical analysis, and some applied linear algebra. I haven't decided what else I am taking, need to speak with my counselor soon haha. Most banks would like some kind of technical aspect to your person - My university doesn't allow double majors in engineering so math was my best option. Btw - Learn matrix theory and keep it well known haha. My friend is currently at deutsche bank and he was asked multiple questions about matrix theory during his superday.

Oh also forgot to add - I'm also going to be taking intro to actuarial science. Can't believe I missed that! Sorry haha.

[jrw93]

You'll regret it.

That's what I originally thought. But now...I honestly think I'll really become the 40 year old virgin. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

[InfinityThor]

That's what I originally thought. But now...I honestly think I'll really become the 40 year old virgin. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

You're only 18, if you apply yourself you will have no problem losing your virginity within 12 months and losing it at 19 is perfectly fine.

[jrw93]

You're only 18, if you apply yourself you will have no problem losing your virginity within 12 months and losing it at 19 is perfectly fine.

I hope so. Man.. I must be doing something wrong! I've probably attempted to ask out 50+ girls to no avail, I can only take so much rejection haha. My most memorable experience is when I gave a girl chocolate and flowers because she didn't have a valentine. She took the flowers, threw them on the floor, and ran them over with her car. She took my chocolates and ate them too

[JG18]

Yeah that's really what I'm worried about - Not knowing what I am doing. I don't want the girl I really like in the future to have to put up with that. I don't want to be labeled as an "lousy lay".

Dude you def don't want to marry the first girl you bang after she's had like 8 guys because you'll resent her for it. If you're that worried and have the cash then just get together with like 5 diff escorts. Ask each one to help you get better at kissing, oral and sex. I bet they'd love teaching a young guy the ways of the world.

[InfinityThor]

I can only take so much rejection haha.

Bollocks, I'm surprised that you haven't developed an immunity after 50+ rejections, that's a good number of attempts and already ahead of the vast large majority of guys.

My most memorable experience is when I gave a girl chocolate and flowers because she didn't have a valentine. She took the flowers, threw them on the floor, and ran them over with her car. She took my chocolates and ate them too

While doing mass approaches is a very important factor, you still need a game to go along with it, you won't be winning anyone over doing silly things like this.

Luckily improving your game is the easiest part, it's getting out there and doing the approaches/getting rejected that stops most people and you have already put yourself out there... looks like your game is holding you back.

You seem to be on the right track and definitely shouldn't be getting a hooker, any guy that is willing to get rejected 50+ is not a candidate for a prostitute.

[jrw93]

Dude you def don't want to marry the first girl you bang after she's had like 8 guys because you'll resent her for it. If you're that worried and have the cash then just get together with like 5 diff escorts. Ask each one to help you get better at kissing, oral and sex. I bet they'd love teaching a young guy the ways of the world.

I don't think I will necessary marry the first girl I bang haha, just don't want them to be turned off by the lack of inexperience. Maybe I should experiment first on escorts before a girl I really like..thanks for the advice!

[FeelTheFear]

If you are really so smart you should have no trouble. You said you're tired of failing. Have you even tried or do you mean you keep intending to try, but fail at trying? You need to actually try. And if you actually try, you will eventually succeed. So shut the **** up.

Edit: 50+? That's gotta be a troll. That's infinitely more than I've ever "asked out", lmao.

[shamsta]

Ugh.. I can't believe I'm actually asking this but I am actually considering it.

So I'm 18, never kissed a girl/had a girlfriend/still a virgin and it seriously frustrates me. All my attempts have ended in failure. At this point, I've given up attempting to attract the opposite sex. As sad as it is, I've actually had guys ask me out after they learned that I had never had a relationship with a girl before.

Some background info on me - I just finished my first year at a top 30 university where I have a full ride scholarship to (mostly academic). I double major in Finance and Math, and obtained a 4.0 in my first year. I currently intern for Merrill Lynch (really hard to get after only freshman year) in their special situations group within the middle market proprietary credit investing desk. I hope to obtain a job in I-Banking at a bulge bracket firm upon graduation (Looking for Credit Suisse/UBS or Barcap). I also have officer positions in 2 student organizations and will be a RA for next year.

I'm just tired of getting rejected, over and over again. I also want to get at least SOME experience before I meet "the one" so she doesn't dump me because it was the best 15 seconds of my life. Is a prostitute a viability? I don't have any expenses for the next 4 years (scholarship covered tuition, room, food, etc) and my parents are very well off so I can hire a expensive call girl. What do you guys think?

Btw - I'm not fat or ugly haha. I'm 5'11 163 lbs and about 14% BF. I'm going to bulk until March and then start my cut for the summer. I'll get some pics up in a bit -- M-Lynch actually checks up on your FB to see if you do anything inappropriate so I removed most of my pics from online haha.

Bang an escort.

Its hard to pick up girls for some guys, that are starting out new.

What works easily in the dating world is that the girl has to like you first, knowing that she can be your potential girlfriend.

I gotta admit they are girls out there that have high standrards, that goes as well us miscers having high standards with females.

[jrw93]

If you are really so smart you should have no trouble. You said you're tired of failing. Have you even tried or do you mean you keep intending to try, but fail at trying? You need to actually try. And if you actually try, you will eventually succeed. So shut the **** up.

Edit: 50+? That's gotta be a troll. That's infinitely more than I've ever "asked out", lmao.

No haha... 50+ is serious. Most of high school/college, I was the "go-to" guy for homework help LOL. I tried to use that to my advantage, and approach really attractive girls that were in the same class and asked them if they needed help. I would then schedule like a meeting place at a library or a starbucks to help her out. THEN, I would attempt to take it one step farther and ask them if they wanted to grab food or see a movie or something later. At this point.. I think they knew what I was trying to do and usually tell me that they were either dating someone (which they are lying, I'd do homework before attempting :P) or that we should "just stay friends."

[FeelTheFear]

No haha... 50+ is serious. Most of high school/college, I was the "go-to" guy for homework help LOL. I tried to use that to my advantage, and approach really attractive girls that were in the same class and asked them if they needed help. I would then schedule like a meeting place at a library or a starbucks to help her out. THEN, I would attempt to take it one step farther and ask them if they wanted to grab food or see a movie or something later. At this point.. I think they knew what I was trying to do and usually tell me that they were either dating someone (which they are lying, I'd do homework before attempting :P) or that we should "just stay friends."

Assuming you aren't a troll which you probably are, work on making yourself more attractive then. www.RSDNation.com.

[jrw93]

Bang an escort.

Its hard to pick up girls for some guys, that are starting out new.

What works easily in the dating world is that the girl has to like you first, knowing that she can be your potential girlfriend.

I gotta admit they are girls out there that have high standrards, that goes as well us miscers having high standards with females.

I agree man.. it's extremely difficult for me to pick up a girl! Man.. my diffeq final was so much easier than this freaking dating game. I wish girls were just a math equation I could just solve hahaha :P. Maybe I'll do my required thesis on that LOL.

[FeelTheFear]

I agree man.. it's extremely difficult for me to pick up a girl! Man.. my diffeq final was so much easier than this freaking dating game. I wish girls were just a math equation I could just solve hahaha :P. Maybe I'll do my required thesis on that LOL.

it's not that different really. It's all actually quite logical when you figure it out.

[jrw93]

Why do you say I'm a troll? I'm opening up to a forum where I respect the members and their advice, at least you can give me SOME respect and believe in what I am saying. I'm not like you, I can't pick up girls easily. I have no problem approaching them.. but I just can't seem to get any farther than that!

[JG18]

Assuming you aren't a troll which you probably are, work on making yourself more attractive then. www.RSDNation.com.

Great ****ing find on the site dude. Thanks. Repped.

[kneeonbelly]

no it's not that important.

save your vcard. believe it or not the longer you hold onto it the more interesting girls are in you - especially around the bar scene. if you said to a drunk bish you have a vcard, she'll not believe it - then she may want to be the one to take it becuase in a girls mind you never forget your first

[damlurker]

no it's not that important.

save your vcard. believe it or not the longer you hold onto it the more interesting girls are in you - especially around the bar scene. if you said to a drunk bish you have a vcard, she'll not believe it - then she may want to be the one to take it becuase in a girls mind you never forget your first

LOL'd HAARRD...

if that was true the the Foreveralone Crew and the 25yr+ Virgin Crew would be the most interesting people in the world..

[jrw93]

no it's not that important.

save your vcard. believe it or not the longer you hold onto it the more interesting girls are in you - especially around the bar scene. if you said to a drunk bish you have a vcard, she'll not believe it - then she may want to be the one to take it becuase in a girls mind you never forget your first

Really? I would think most girls would get the impression that this guy is a sore loser and there is absolutely something wrong with him. Maybe I'm wrong? If any girls would want to chime in.. it would be appreciated.

[Mr Beer]

No reason why not, it will probably help you realise it's not such a huge deal and help you relax a bit in picking up women. Just wrap it up well. Don't do anything silly like licking her pussy or even kiss her with tongues - I understand they don't go for that anyway but if by chance she does, don't do it. Just fukk her, if you've paid for time you will probably fukk her twice. Don't worry about being "good in bed" because she does not care, in fact if you nutted immediately that would be ideal for her. Don't worry about being ugly or unsexy or laughable in any way being you are younger, better looking, more hygenic and basically less unpleasant in every way than the majority of her clients.

I imagine you are smart enough not to just pick up some crack whore off the street, but generally speaking, stay safe bro.

EDIT

People are saying losing your virginity is not important, well they are right in a way, it's not that important however it's obviously important to YOU and having this voice inside your head going "gotta lose it! gotta lose it!" everytime you talk to a woman is likely not helping.

[jrw93]

No reason why not, it will probably help you realise it's not such a huge deal and help you relax a bit in picking up women. Just wrap it up well. Don't do anything silly like licking her pussy or even kiss her with tongues - I understand they don't go for that anyway but if by chance she does, don't do it. Just fukk her, if you've paid for time you will probably fukk her twice. Don't worry about being "good in bed" because she does not care, in fact if you nutted immediately that would be ideal for her. Don't worry about being ugly or unsexy or laughable in any way being you are younger, better looking, more hygenic and basically less unpleasant in every way than the majority of her clients.

I imagine you are smart enough not to just pick up some crack whore off the street, but generally speaking, stay safe bro.

EDIT

People are saying losing your virginity is not important, well they are right in a way, it's not that important however it's obviously important to YOU and having this voice inside your head going "gotta lose it! gotta lose it!" everytime you talk to a woman is likely not helping.

Thanks for the advice man.. I gotta go figure out how to put on a condom now LOL.