Skank cheated on me

[chrisapowers1]

Three years down the drain.

This bitch is going to go off and **** a cop (she's a dispatcher).

I turned it in to the major today. Now both will be terminated and forever banned from such work.

I dumped her, laughed in her face, and now I'm going to smash through all her slut friends (with a condom).

Profit

[EpicChestHair]

Sorry to hear about that.. was she wife material before this happened?

[jamestown0101]

Three years down the drain.

This bitch is going to go off and **** a cop (she's a dispatcher).

I turned it in to the major today. Now both will be terminated and forever banned from such work.

I dumped her, laughed in her face, and now I'm going to smash through all her slut friends (with a condom).

Profit

Skank cheated one me = stop committing to skanks no?

[courtneyybabee1]

Three years down the drain.

This bitch is going to go off and **** a cop (she's a dispatcher).

I turned it in to the major today. Now both will be terminated and forever banned from such work.

I dumped her, laughed in her face, and now I'm going to smash through all her slut friends (with a condom).

Profit

Repped.

[Tyr616]

Three years down the drain.

This bitch is going to go off and **** a cop (she's a dispatcher).

I turned it in to the major today. Now both will be terminated and forever banned from such work.

I dumped her, laughed in her face, and now I'm going to smash through all her slut friends (with a condom).

Profit

Lol dude that is probably the most legit revenge ever. You just showed him messages and he canned them both?

[TheAdlerian]

Repped.

Huh?

It's not "cheating" when you're in a dating relationship.

The purpose of dating is to spend time with a person to see if you want to commit. In the meantime, if you meet a person you like more, then you leave the other person and date them.

Cheating occurs in a committed married relationship, or the equivalent.

The OP is acting like a vindictive *******.

[wavybaby86]

how did you find out?

[xvicknumber7x]

Good job I guess, wouldn't have turned them in personally but can't fault you for it.

[SumblimeStyle]

Huh?

It's not "cheating" when you're in a dating relationship.

The purpose of dating is to spend time with a person to see if you want to commit. In the meantime, if you meet a person you like more, then you leave the other person and date them.

Cheating occurs in a committed married relationship, or the equivalent.

The OP is acting like a vindictive *******.

A 3 year relationship isn't just dating, it's pretty committed at that point. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3.5 years and it would absolutely be cheating if either of us hooked up with someone else. Hell, most people get engaged after 1-2 years of dating, 3 years is no joke.

[MrRIP]

Devil's advocate

Way to be a bitch and report it to their employer. About as petty as it can get.

If you held it down she probably wouldnt of cheated. You exhibit strong female characterstics op *shrugs*

i do understand your pain somewhat but still.....

[jamestown0101]

A 3 year relationship isn't just dating, it's pretty committed at that point. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3.5 years and it would absolutely be cheating if either of us hooked up with someone else. Hell, most people get engaged after 1-2 years of dating, 3 years is no joke.

Well put but, most people are ****ing dumb as bricks. I know someone who is on her way to marriage and we were fooling around at the same time she was in a relationship. I had no ****ing clue of it since, she acted the way a single girl would. Any way, not even the slightest bit shocked but, I do imagine he may have felt differently if he was aware.

[courtneyybabee1]

Huh?

It's not "cheating" when you're in a dating relationship.

The purpose of dating is to spend time with a person to see if you want to commit. In the meantime, if you meet a person you like more, then you leave the other person and date them.

Cheating occurs in a committed married relationship, or the equivalent.

The OP is acting like a vindictive *******.

3 years? That's not just dating. There's some kind of commitment there at that point.

[TheAdlerian]

A 3 year relationship isn't just dating, it's pretty committed at that point. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3.5 years and it would absolutely be cheating if either of us hooked up with someone else. Hell, most people get engaged after 1-2 years of dating, 3 years is no joke.

Bro, it's dating, if it's dating.

Seriously, you're 23 and what if some 16 year old told you his girlfriend of three years "cheated" on him, what would you think, she's a whore?

Most people would chalk that up to the whimsical nature of young dating habits. It's not cheating or being a whore to discover you like someone else.

It's sad though but it's "female" to call things what they aren't. People of my generation and before would say, "She doesn't like me anymore and we broke up," which is the truth.

Girls and *******s make up dramatic bullsh!t to cover their own problems and now heterosexual males are too?

Not good.

[TheAdlerian]

3 years? That's not just dating. There's some kind of commitment there at that point.

No.

Three years can pass doing very little. Plus, dating is dating.

[TheAdlerian]

Well put but, most people are ****ing dumb as bricks. I know someone who is on her way to marriage and we were fooling around at the same time she was in a relationship. I had no ****ing clue of it since, she acted the way a single girl would. Any way, not even the slightest bit shocked but, I do imagine he may have felt differently if he was aware.

This is fairly common and I can think of many people I've know like that.

There's lots of confusion around relationship, versus adventure, versus career, versus family/no family, versus social expectations and those of relatives. All of that stuff happens in your 20s and is nothing new. It tends not to happen to people who get married in their mid 30s who are dated out and have had their adventures.

[wickedman]

Not cheating? Yeah if she gives him the heads up before she goes and ****s the guy, what are the chances that happened?

I would be interested to see your reaction if you found out your girlfriend of 3 years was banging other dudes on the side while you were under the assumption you were exclusively seeing each other (which is pretty reasonable for a relationship of 3 years) or if your girlfriend came home and told you she just banged some co-worker because he was a pretty hot dude.

Insanity. Don't think you will find many people agreeing with your philosophy on this.

[nickh04]

why is everyone giving OP so much chit? he was cheated on by his gf of 3 years. give the bro a break.

gj OP repped.

[wavybaby86]

I'm not giving him chit I just simply asked how did he find out that she cheated (which is a good question imo)

I may not have agreed with his decision to snitch to her boss but that was entirely up to him

but the one dude that said cheating doesn't count after 3 years of dating, you're either an idiot or a liar trying to sound cool

[ArmstrongBrah]

Sux brah a while back 1 year down the drain when I called my gf one day and she was over at her ex's house. Worst part is I still fu*ked her after when she moved in with him, living with that is one of the worst thoughts ever.

[Errorist]

Huh?

It's not "cheating" when you're in a dating relationship.

The purpose of dating is to spend time with a person to see if you want to commit. In the meantime, if you meet a person you like more, then you leave the other person and date them.

Cheating occurs in a committed married relationship, or the equivalent.

The OP is acting like a vindictive *******.

It is cheating when both people have agreed to commit and continue dating under the notion of a mutually exclusive relationship.

Understand?

[RickyRousseau]

In my opinion, OP's actions are justified. I don't know if I'd tell on them however. The cop didn't deserve to lose his job. He probably had a family and kids to feed. Infact if he had a family, he did deserve it. The woman however is the one guilty and deserved whatever was coming to her because she went behind OP's back. The cop did what any man would. The girl made herself a available and the dude swept in. Both are in the wrong tho.

Good job op

[SpartanTraining]

cheating is cheating

that is all

would only tell on cop if cop knew about it and acted like a dousche, i dunno on that account

good luck tho op

[DERJEVPOO]

Bro, it's dating, if it's dating.

Seriously, you're 23 and what if some 16 year old told you his girlfriend of three years "cheated" on him, what would you think, she's a whore?

Most people would chalk that up to the whimsical nature of young dating habits. It's not cheating or being a whore to discover you like someone else.

It's sad though but it's "female" to call things what they aren't. People of my generation and before would say, "She doesn't like me anymore and we broke up," which is the truth.

Girls and *******s make up dramatic bullsh!t to cover their own problems and now heterosexual males are too?

Not good.

Are you retarded?

[deaderinred]

Huh?

It's not "cheating" when you're in a dating relationship.

The purpose of dating is to spend time with a person to see if you want to commit. In the meantime, if you meet a person you like more, then you leave the other person and date them.

Cheating occurs in a committed married relationship, or the equivalent.

The OP is acting like a vindictive *******.

You're a frikking moron. No offense.

[TheAdlerian]

Negs unless people are counter my valid points.

I especially hate insults without the ability to explain, it's shows poor intellect.

[DERJEVPOO]

Negs unless people are counter my valid points.

I especially hate insults without the ability to explain, it's shows poor intellect.

Your post shows poor intellect

The only difference between an exclusive rship and marriage is a celebration and a piece of paper. You don't cheat on someone once you've made a commitment. Monkeybranching is almost as bad but at least you've broken it off first

[TheAdlerian]

It is cheating when both people have agreed to commit and continue dating under the notion of a mutually exclusive relationship.

Understand?

Try thinking.

The process of "dating" is to "set dates on the calender" where you will get together as part of the "courtship" process.

Courtship:

Courtship is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage, or establishment of an agreed relationship of a more enduring kind. In courtship, a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement or other such agreement. A courtship may be an informal and private matter between two people or may be a public affair, or a formal arrangement with family approval. Traditionally, in the case of a formal engagement, it has been perceived that it is the role of a male to actively "court" or "woo" a female, thus encouraging her to understand him and her receptiveness to a proposal of marriage. Within many western societies, these distinct gender roles have lost some of their importance and rigidity. It is now common in younger generations for females to both initiate relationships and to propose marriage.

There is no "commitment" in the dating/courtship process because it's part of deciding whether one wants to commit. In addition, there is no time frame with this, like two years eleven months is okay, but three is not. When a person decides they don't want to proceed with the commitment, that's it.

No girl or guy can "cheat" in a dating relationship because breaking the courtship is PART of the process.

[TheAdlerian]

Your post shows poor intellect

The only difference between an exclusive rship and marriage is a celebration and a piece of paper. You don't cheat on someone once you've made a commitment. Monkeybranching is almost as bad but at least you've broken it off first

You're an idiot.

A commitment isn't the paper, but the decision to solidify the relationship through your actions. As I said in a previous post, it's marriage, or the equivalent. We all know what a marriage entails and that's joining money, home, and so on. When all the things you associate with a marriage come together that's what it is in spite of technicalities.

Trying thinking before you hand out insults that just make you look stupid.

[DERJEVPOO]

Try thinking.

The process of "dating" is to "set dates on the calender" where you will get together as part of the "courtship" process.

Courtship:



There is no "commitment" in the dating/courtship process because it's part of deciding whether one wants to commit. In addition, there is no time frame with this, like two years eleven months is okay, but three is not. When a person decides they don't want to proceed with the commitment, that's it.

No girl or guy can "cheat" in a dating relationship because breaking the courtship is PART of the process.

That seems a little outdated even for your old ass. So people have to get married? That's the only way to become exclusive?

Also the word "dating" is nowhere in the op

[wickedman]

I guess if you look at relationships like they are test tube experiments...