New Gay Thread - Part 5

[bhujerban]

I can't speak for his motivation. But Alaska Thunderf*ck is a strain of marijuana. I would imagine that in his case it is consistent with the themes of his individual house given their point of view on drag. I would bet his house is an independent and not attached to either of the drag system so his names has a lot of freedom. I, personally, like drag names to be offensive. To me it is disappointing because it isn't offensive enough. I understand that his complete name is Alaska Thunderf*ck 5000. I would bet the 5000 is probably related to Rob Zombie but that is a just a guess. I, personally, do not want them to appeal to all groups and I want them to have some level of vulgarity to them. I would like the house fraus and pearl clutchers to be disturbed.

I was just trying to be funny, but your explanation really clears up the need for my joke. Thanks!

[chochua]

I love San Diego. I used to fly down a couple time a year to play. My last time down there--I ended up in Mexico. My interpretor was joking sellng us as sex workers. It was a unique experience to say the least. But lots of fun--a little scary but it sorted itself out.. Oh the memories.

LOL! I go down to Tijuana all the time, I lived there for 2 years. Did you end up on Revolution St?

[mntbikedude]

Oh my brothers it is hard out there is the straight mans world. I still hate the fact that I feel that I have to inform people of my sexual orientation or it is considered that I have been frauding them. That just gets old very old.

[atticus_a]

LOL! I go down to Tijuana all the time, I lived there for 2 years. Did you end up on Revolution St?

I did love T-town. I don't actually remember the st? Is that the one with the male strip club? Where we bribed some big guy to watch our car. I spent a lot of time there and Rick's (I think that is the name). Back at those times, I had a primary case of drinking way too much and too often. It is amazing I even have a brain cell left.

Oh my brothers it is hard out there is the straight mans world. I still hate the fact that I feel that I have to inform people of my sexual orientation or it is considered that I have been frauding them. That just gets old very old.

It does. If you led with it, they complain that you are shoving your sexual orientation down there throat. If you, wait, they feel betrayed. It is a trap. For you, it might be a little bit more difficult with the whole previous family makes people assume if it walks like duck, quacks like a duck, odds are its a duck. Also, I wonder about UTAH. For some reason in my mind, I always think of it as a place where people wouid say stuff "like a real live homosexual". Don't know why but totally think it that way.

[MenStraight]

Happy May Day !!

[bhujerban]

Happy May Day !!

Oh, it ARE a happy May day. These bloomed beneath my bedroom window this morning.

[justglen192]

whats up guys? hmu on skype justglen192

[eac1005]

What up mah **** brahs?

[DoesntSquatUmad]

Not gay, but I am very feminine.

[armyrugby88]

What's up guys

[bhujerban]

Today I should find out whether my group will perform at Pride this year. Keep your fingers (but not your legs) crossed! Hopefully I bring back good news.

[MiamiSpartan]

Off for a weekend. Rare.
Should get two good workouts in...
Planning our June cruise....possibly on the Oasis OTS finally...!!!

[LoL Rick]

Today I should find out whether my group will perform at Pride this year. Keep your fingers (but not your legs) crossed! Hopefully I bring back good news.

Good luck hun. And the tulips were gorgeous. Wish they would grow here but it's too hot. Also, I have a couple pointers for you about the topic we discussed. I may call later today.

Off for a weekend. Rare.
Should get two good workouts in...
Planning our June cruise....possibly on the Oasis OTS finally...!!!

Enjoy the rare weekend. Hope you don't get the overcast drizzly crap we've had the last 3 days. Oasis is sounding great right now. We don't have anything booked until next Feb. on Celebrity w/ Atlantis.

We're celebrating Cinco de Mayo both today & tomorrow. Then we start gearing up for the Mothers Day extravaganza at our house next weekend.

[bhujerban]

Well, still no word. Maybe today? I don't like losing another day of planning and rehearsals, but I'm concerned that if I keep annoying them about it, they'll get frustrated and say 'no' just to get me out of their hair. So I do what I've always done - sit by a phone that doesn't ring.

Today is an extraordinarily busy day. I got asked to fill in for a sick soloist and have to learn a bunch of music by tomorrow afternoon. Not fun, but I do get paid for singing. Which is always good. Call me after 4pm CST.

[Strong_1rd_Post]

sup guys. got a question. lets say i know someone who is gay. BUT: that person's parents and family are legit 100% religious, conservative, people. i'm talking hard core conservative. i know this person is gay (he has no idea that i know). i'm not gonna call him out, nothing like that at all. i'm not telling anyone.

but i'm concerned.

if this guy goes off and ends up marrying a woman (just to please his family) should i step up, and approach him, and tell him that he's making the wrong move?

how many gay people can still manage to hide their gay feelings, be okay with it, and grow up having a family and kids (with a wife)?

[TrueBLOOD1]

sup guys. got a question. lets say i know someone who is gay. BUT: that person's parents and family are legit 100% religious, conservative, people. i'm talking hard core conservative. i know this person is gay (he has no idea that i know). i'm not gonna call him out, nothing like that at all. i'm not telling anyone.

but i'm concerned.

if this guy goes off and ends up marrying a woman (just to please his family) should i step up, and approach him, and tell him that he's making the wrong move?

how many gay people can still manage to hide their gay feelings, be okay with it, and grow up having a family and kids (with a wife)?

How do you know he's gay? This is a touchy subject. If it were me, I wouldn't get involved. This is a decision he has to make and if he is gay, he doesn't feel comfortable enough to come out to you or seek your advice.

[Rizing42]

Soooo I think I'm finally ready to make it official. I've been seeing this guy lately and every time we've been together it's been good. I've been able to go to him with my problems and lay them out on the table. he tells me how sexy I look, puts a good amount of pressure on me and he does me so good, I have a hard time being able to walk straight for a while. so I want to say I love my boyfriend, the Weight Room so much and I'm going to remain committed to him and only him for the rest of my life.



(clearly, I've snapped but my leg workout was so good today, I've been feeling sexy and the gym is the only one I got to thank)

[Strong_1rd_Post]

How do you know he's gay? This is a touchy subject. If it were me, I wouldn't get involved. This is a decision he has to make and if he is gay, he doesn't feel comfortable enough to come out to you or seek your advice.

how do i know? because he used my laptop to chat with someone else online, they were sending pics and text back and forth, he forgot to x out the window, i opened it, could not believe it. was in absolute shock. i'm not saying anything, except i know his family very well, and he's a good friend of mine. i thought he would have been comfortable enough to tell me he's gay though, i guess not. but i always thought he might have been for obvious reasons. when it was confirmed, that's when reality hit.

i guess ur right, it's none of my business. but i'd hate to see him ruin his own life, and some other persons life, just for him to live in complete fear for the rest of his life. maybe he has a game plan to buy some time, have a successful career, and all that stuff. i don't know. just that he's a good friend, and now i sort of know why he acts depresssd soemtimes.

[pf008]

Any other guys in Wichita who work out regularly? I could use a work out partner / trainer

[bhujerban]

Soooo I think I'm finally ready to make it official. I've been seeing this guy lately and every time we've been together it's been good. I've been able to go to him with my problems and lay them out on the table. he tells me how sexy I look, puts a good amount of pressure on me and he does me so good, I have a hard time being able to walk straight for a while. so I want to say I love my boyfriend, the Weight Room so much and I'm going to remain committed to him and only him for the rest of my life.

Whoa, surprise ending! I see what you did there.
Do be careful. You might end up marrying the Iron Bitch, and nobody likes her. Just like Rosie Palmer, you don't want 'em to become your very best friend. (Or *do* you? )

[broad.stance]

how do i know? because he used my laptop to chat with someone else online, they were sending pics and text back and forth, he forgot to x out the window, i opened it, could not believe it. was in absolute shock. i'm not saying anything, except i know his family very well, and he's a good friend of mine. i thought he would have been comfortable enough to tell me he's gay though, i guess not. but i always thought he might have been for obvious reasons. when it was confirmed, that's when reality hit.

i guess ur right, it's none of my business. but i'd hate to see him ruin his own life, and some other persons life, just for him to live in complete fear for the rest of his life. maybe he has a game plan to buy some time, have a successful career, and all that stuff. i don't know. just that he's a good friend, and now i sort of know why he acts depresssd soemtimes.

You're close, but you're not close. If your good friend is compartmentalizing, then you know only the aspect of himself he is comfortable sharing with you. It may be a very big part, but at the same time you may not be privy to such things as romantic relationships or interests, the true nature of emotional attachments with family members/friends, or specific situations and thoughts your heterosexual privilege allows you to not consider. Your friend is closeted which means he is hiding everything that intersects with his sexuality. Because of the bolded, your friend will likely come out to you around the time he is ready to come out to his family. Until then you can undermine the relationships he is attempting to preserve; with family as well as you and other close friends.

As for the other stuff, you shouldn't worry about it unless he displays behaviors telling you of this intent.

[atticus_a]

how do i know? because he used my laptop to chat with someone else online, they were sending pics and text back and forth, he forgot to x out the window, i opened it, could not believe it. was in absolute shock. i'm not saying anything, except i know his family very well, and he's a good friend of mine. i thought he would have been comfortable enough to tell me he's gay though, i guess not. but i always thought he might have been for obvious reasons. when it was confirmed, that's when reality hit.

i guess ur right, it's none of my business. but i'd hate to see him ruin his own life, and some other persons life, just for him to live in complete fear for the rest of his life. maybe he has a game plan to buy some time, have a successful career, and all that stuff. i don't know. just that he's a good friend, and now i sort of know why he acts depresssd soemtimes.

Well, that is a pickle. I really hate when people are so careless with their secrets because now you are in on his secret. As boardie went to it, it can be a fairly complex situation. It is difficult for us or anyone to advise much of anything because there are lots of variables in play. I can't tell you the best tactic because what would be the best for me wouldn't necessarily be the best for you or for him.

Coming out is a very personal thing. Given his religious background it might be a challenge to even label himself as such. he might be willing to fcuk, suck, etc but that actually labeling part might be the part he has a hard time swallowing (pun intended). He might have evolved so he is comfortable with homosexual behavior but that doesn't necessarily mean he is comfortable with the identity itself. And trust me, after interacting with lots of homos in my life those are different things. But anyway, if you feel the need to talk to him, tell him, using "I" statement why you think they why you do and assure him that you will never say anything to anyone about it.

If he is going to join a relationship to please his family and you feel the need to intervene (which again I am not necessarily for or against), Make sure you say something like, "I noticed that you used my computer to have a discussion with Blah. I also noticed that you are dating jenny from the block. I haven't ever told anyone about the computer thing and I will never tell anyone about that, this conversation, or anything I learn from it but could you tell me what is up with the conversation and still dating jenny from the block. I just want understand what is going on so I can be the best friend I can be to you?"

But my gut feeling right now, since there isn't a girl in the picture, to let sleeping dogs lie and be his friend with the understanding that he thinks he is keeping a secret. You are under no obligation to tell him you know.

[bhujerban]

Some pics of a hot guy buzzing his hair. I like the mohawk best.

http://www.gay.net/underwear-expert/...trims-he-swims

[Misti]

And Drag Race has a winner! WHOOP!!!!

[bhujerban]

GOOD NEWS!

My opera group has been selected to participate in the local Pride! WOOHOO!

Now the work begins... only three weeks to make a show. Can we do it? Let's hope so.

[atticus_a]

And Drag Race has a winner! WHOOP!!!!

lol. I was in Seattle during the Crowning. I wanted Roxxxy to win just so they would riot. But sadly, it didn't go in my favor despite it being my bday.

[broad.stance]

lol. I was in Seattle during the Crowning. I wanted Roxxxy to win just so they would riot. But sadly, it didn't go in my favor despite it being my bday.

[BTI]

Just wanted to say hi to everyone here. Don't know why I've never posted ITT.

[Misti]

GOOD NEWS!

My opera group has been selected to participate in the local Pride! WOOHOO!

Now the work begins... only three weeks to make a show. Can we do it? Let's hope so.

Congr8s

[Misti]

lol. I was in Seattle during the Crowning. I wanted Roxxxy to win just so they would riot. But sadly, it didn't go in my favor despite it being my bday.

A Drag riot would be fabulous. Well theres alot of pics of Drag Queens in the stonewall riots - which wasnt fabulous, but my imagination is prettier than history so tear gas defying mascara and dildos for truncheons it is.