misc, my ex who dumped me started texting me again, what do? (updates) (poll)

[carnage1985]

I remember original thread and what you have done/doing is perfect.

Do not see her.
She fukked up and wants you back.
Fukk her that ain't wife material.

Disregard and move on.

[pleasehelpmelun]

Dude fukin women with their emotional bull**** like ''Do you still love me'' i ****ing hate them

strong username to post content

[Pakoe]

Gjdm, you handled well. The plan to throw her **** on her porch and changing numbers is what the next step should be.
Stay safe OP.

[arkskier]

yes stay as cold as ice until she fukin crawls back to you
sorry i just got out of a relationship and i expect something exactly like this to happen, and when it does. ice cold

what happened with your ex? Don't expect her to text bra, you'll just be overthinking. Date others?

frankly, given the way she broke up with you, did the whole rub in your face thing, then does this texting game, she just doesn't seem mature enough to invest more of yourself into.

playing the text game is not something a really serious partner would do. at best, she's on the fence about getting back with you. at worst, she's just lonely using you as a resource.

lol at her being lonely when there's a new guy. someone's not doing it right.

OP i remember when you first made your "gf cheated on me" thread. You did a good job cutting her off but don't fuk up now. Drop her shiit off and ignore her. For a girl who you dated for 3 years to leave you like she did is just disgusting and a good depiction of her true self. Fuk that hoe, don't go back.

thanks for remembering that there thrad. good thing i didnt marry her. wouldve been a disaster. i sort of feel bad when i hear stories about married girls slutting around. My first thought would be, how come the guy wasn't able to guess that the girl was a slut in the first place? Girls are good at hiding it, it turns out. I'm warning other miscers to watch our; goody-goody girls can be sluts too.

Stay strong OP, you're handling the situation well. My ex only texts me when she wants something or wants attention, I don't respond.

your ex is shiitty for doing that to you.

[Crammage]

You need to enter Iceman mode asap op.

Do not respond, things are not going well with the new dude and she is having second thoughts. She still bailed on you after kissing another fool and no bish is EVER worth going back to once they show this trait.

As already mentioned, drop her stuff off in a way she won't be able to see you.

She will be going crazy inside but this is your opportunity for some payback for her treating you bad.

If at some later point you want to go through her like a bad mexican meal then do so but ensure its a strictly no strings attached plough designed purely to let off some steam and to reinforce in her head you have moved on in life and control everything.

Look at yourself in the mirror after all this and dust off your broad shoulder op. Smile and congratulate yourself for being the man. Good luck.

[bodynyc]

she wants to know if ur interestd in a 3sum with her boyfriend

[marcFE]

Ex'es always do this when they realize the grass isn't always greener/they want attention. If it's a short term fling I think playing them is fine since you have complete control over the situation with remotely decent game. If it's a long term relationship like in your example the "feelings" or shes "changed" belief will never fully diminish no matter how much you think you are over her. Every time you respond/let her inch into your life you are playing with fire since you are one step closer to hanging out to catch up as "friends" and returning to square one of emotional hell.



Just remember this girl unsympathetically ripped your heart out and probably left you a shell of your former self for weeks or even months. Get her stuff back to her and completely cut off contact. Three years followed by a breakup due to cheating through a text barely deserves that luxury.

[JERSEYJIM]

Same situation..

Block ********/Phone

My ex emails me daily about my stuff, how she wants to ****, how she dosent want her image in my mind spoiled, and how our dog is depressed..

I have yet to respond, and dont plan on it...

feels good meng

[arkskier]

Every time you respond/let her inch into your life you are playing with fire since you are one step closer to hanging out to catch up as "friends" and returning to square one of emotional hell.

Just remember this girl unsympathetically ripped your heart out and probably left you a shell of your former self for weeks or even months. Get her stuff back to her and completely cut off contact. Three years followed by a breakup due to cheating through a text barely deserves that luxury.

You need to enter Iceman mode asap op.
Do not respond, things are not going well with the new dude and she is having second thoughts. She still bailed on you after kissing another fool and no bish is EVER worth going back to once they show this trait.

She will be going crazy inside but this is your opportunity for some payback for her treating you bad.

If at some later point you want to go through her like a bad mexican meal then do so but ensure its a strictly no strings attached plough designed purely to let off some steam and to reinforce in her head you have moved on in life and control everything.
Look at yourself in the mirror after all this and dust off your broad shoulder op. Smile and congratulate yourself for being the man. Good luck.

wise misc is wise. captures my sentiments exactly. will rep on recharge. do not agree on banging her just for the hell of it though; that would complicate things.

Same situation..

Block ********/Phone

My ex emails me daily about my stuff, how she wants to ****, how she dosent want her image in my mind spoiled, and how our dog is depressed..

I have yet to respond, and dont plan on it...

feels good meng

knowthatfeel.jpeg. did she cheat?

[arkskier]

she wants to know if ur interestd in a 3sum with her boyfriend

wouldsmash/3.5

[Jeremyn87]

Not going back to her again, bra. I just miss being intimate with someone. I'm dating some girls and had teh sexy time wth two; it's fun and all but not the same.

Stay strong brah.

[arkskier]

Poll Results from the female misc:

she realized she had it better with me, so she wants to get back together 14.29%
she's trying to be nice so she can get her stuff back 0%
she wants to use me as a **** buddy or safety net, cheating on her present boyfriend 71.43%
she wants to see me so she can compare her feelings for me vs. her feelings for her new boyfriend 28.57%

interdasting

[arkskier]

Same situation..

Block ********/Phone

My ex emails me daily about my stuff, how she wants to ****, how she dosent want her image in my mind spoiled, and how our dog is depressed..

I have yet to respond, and dont plan on it...

feels good meng

she cheated but she doesnt want her image in your mind spoiled? wtf

[arkskier]

Update: It's been like 2 years, and my ex added me in linkedin. SO I got an email saying she wanted me to be connected to her linkedin. why would she do this? Any ideas?

[joezer3003]

She just wants to add you on LinkedIn brah. Also it might have been a mass email sent out to all her contacts so don't look into it too much

[arkskier]

She just wants to add you on LinkedIn brah. Also it might have been a mass email sent out to all her contacts so don't look into it too much

yea I thought of that too, might just be a mass email. but i dont have linkedin so I don't know about these things.

[Wallabym8]

don't let one girl make you feel a certain way, find another one. you could even post pics of your new gf on fb proving you don't care about her or her childish games

[drFEEL]

don't let one girl make you feel a certain way, find another one. you could even post pics of your new gf on fb proving you don't care about her or her childish games

this op.

she sounds like a dumb whore always looking for attention. dont give in. go out and socialize enough and you will find a better girl.

[Verstatik]

y do u still have questions, dis is a no brainer disregard completely for the rest of your life

[pechorin]

strong bump LoL

[arkskier]

don't let one girl make you feel a certain way, find another one. you could even post pics of your new gf on fb proving you don't care about her or her childish games

this op.

she sounds like a dumb whore always looking for attention. dont give in. go out and socialize enough and you will find a better girl.

y do u still have questions, dis is a no brainer disregard completely for the rest of your life

strong bump LoL

look at the update on post #105? any thoughts?

[imjp]

OP, disregard her man.
Block her number, throw her **** away.

My ****ing ex did the same kind of ****. Next thing i know, she has a new bf (1 week later).

Women are seriously retarded. It's like they can't help it.

[Flexthetics]

Can you fill us in on what happened since the time you didn't reply to her second blank text? Did you just dump her stuff off or what

[brrealtea]

Where is the option of her being a fukking attention sloot whore that you need to slap back into place? Where the phuck is that option, huh? You fukking stupid kunt.

[arkskier]

Can you fill us in on what happened since the time you didn't reply to her second blank text? Did you just dump her stuff off or what

I got very busy at work, and forgot all about her stuff. It's been two years and her stuff is in a box at my place. I thought of throwing it out or donating it, but my parents advised me not to.

OP, disregard her man.
Block her number, throw her **** away.

My ****ing ex did the same kind of ****. Next thing i know, she has a new bf (1 week later).

Women are seriously retarded. It's like they can't help it.

wtf. sloots. they seem to replace us quickly.