ITT: I tell you why WOMEN FANTASIZE about RAPE..

[Styrkur]

Bear with me..

It was around 1:00 am, I was lying on bed with a woman. She is a really cool chick. Down to earth, easy to talk to, has aspirations, really smart (she's on full scholarship majoring in a technical subject), she is good to be with. The kind of woman you'd introduce to your friends and family. I met her at the start of the Fall semester. This conversation came up:

Styrkur: I know you women, you guys want the same thing, I know all your fantasies.

Girl: Oh really? Well tell me, what do we fantasize about?

Styrkur: Hah.. okay.. are you ready?... You've fantasized about rape.

Instantly she got a big smile on her face while looking shocked at the same time.

Girl: Hahaha.. omg.. this is embarrassing. How did you know this? I'm so guilty.. blah blah blah.. *women speak*

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She was not the first woman I've been with that had these thoughts. Most of the woman I have been connected with, either romantically or just a platonic friendship, had admitted fantasizing about rape.


It is what women want.. Well NO! Not the crime itself! BUT the fantasy of it..

Women are extremely attracted to the leader, powerful, dominant, alpha, etc. type of men. Women want men who are capable of making them submit. This fantasy of rape is very fulfilling for them. They imagine a strong bad guy who wants to dominate them, the woman will put up a fight, but since the guy is so eager and dominant the woman will gladly (subconsciously) submit.

Of course, in real life, a rape is nothing but a guy she is NOT attracted to who forces his way in.

But in their fantasy, it is about this man, who they ARE attracted to, that want to dominate them in bed.

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She was laughing and smiling.

I took control of her wrists, pinned them down, stared at her eyes, and had my way with her. She was so warm. Maybe I'll introduce her to my friends.

[alissaxvanity]

Bear with me..

It was around 1:00 am, I was lying on bed with a woman. She is a really cool chick. Down to earth, easy to talk to, has aspirations, really smart (she's on full scholarship majoring in a technical subject), she is good to be with. The kind of woman you'd introduce to your friends and family. I met her at the start of the Fall semester. This conversation came up:

Styrkur: I know you women, you guys want the same thing, I know all your fantasies.

Girl: Oh really? Well tell me, what do we fantasize about?

Styrkur: Hah.. okay.. are you ready?... You've fantasized about rape.

Instantly she got a big smile on her face while looking shocked at the same time.

Girl: Hahaha.. omg.. this is embarrassing. How did you know this? I'm so guilty.. blah blah blah.. *women speak*

__________________________________________________ ______________________________________

She was not the first woman I've been with that had these thoughts. Most of the woman I have been connected with, either romantically or just a platonic friendship, had admitted fantasizing about rape.


It is what women want.. Well NO! Not the crime itself! BUT the fantasy of it..

Women are extremely attracted to the leader, powerful, dominant, alpha, etc. type of men. Women want men who are capable of making them submit. This fantasy of rape is very fulfilling for them. They imagine a strong bad guy who wants to dominate them, the woman will put up a fight, but since the guy is so eager and dominant the woman will gladly (subconsciously) submit.

Of course, in real life, a rape is nothing but a guy she is NOT attracted to who forces his way in.

But in their fantasy, it is about this man, who they ARE attracted to, that want to dominate them in bed.

__________________________________________________ _______________________________________

She was laughing and smiling.

I took control of her wrists, pinned them down, stared at her eyes, and had my way with her. She was so warm. Maybe I'll introduce her to my friends.

Actually the leading theory is rape fantasies is that it releases the woman from guilt, since female sexuality is often shamed in our society.
Also, there is a difference between a fantasy, and a desire. Some things women fantasize about they don't ever actually want to happen in real life.

[Candees]

Actually the leading theory is rape fantasies is that it releases the woman from guilt, since female sexuality is often shamed in our society.
Also, there is a difference between a fantasy, and a desire. Some things women fantasize about they don't ever actually want to happen in real life.

Thread busted by first response. Fail.

[StrongMeat]

Actually the leading theory is rape fantasies is that it releases the woman from guilt, since female sexuality is often shamed in our society.
Also, there is a difference between a fantasy, and a desire. Some things women fantasize about they don't ever actually want to happen in real life.

i have a cat of nine tails, ball gag, and twine

girls most definitely like being treated like human garbage here and there

just need to play the role good and most of them will play along

-StrongMeat-

[wavybaby86]

I see cuckolding in your future

there will come a time when she wont view you as the desirable dominant provider of dat der rape. she will want variety.

[xOdin]

Only the girls worth keeping want to be dominated

[Lottabody]

I know for a fact that men fantasize about rape. A couple have told me that they do.

[Lottabody]

I know for a fact that men fantasize about rape. A couple have told me that they do.

I meant that they fantasize about being raped not raping. LoL.

[StrongMeat]

I meant that they fantasize about being raped not raping. LoL.

you mean some Fleece Johnson Booty Warrior shyt?



-StrongMeat-

[Styrkur]

Actually the leading theory is rape fantasies is that it releases the woman from guilt, since female sexuality is often shamed in our society.
Also, there is a difference between a fantasy, and a desire. Some things women fantasize about they don't ever actually want to happen in real life.

Agreed. I don't see how this makes my post invalid..

[Alphacide]

IDK about rape, but last gf (and pretty much most girls I know) like things like handcuffs and rope and stuff.

[Lottabody]

you mean some Fleece Johnson Booty Warrior shyt?



-StrongMeat-

No, they want a woman (or women) to rape them. Idk wtf that's about. You tell me.

[WatchTheThrone]

No, they want a woman (or women) to rape them. Idk wtf that's about. You tell me.

Cant say I have... :/

[Ecnewyx]

I know for a fact that men fantasize about rape. A couple have told me that they do.

No ****, Sherlock.

I meant that they fantasize about being raped not raping. LoL.

Uh, nevermind.

[KDotLamar]

you mean some Fleece Johnson Booty Warrior shyt?



-StrongMeat-

I died when I saw the Boxden smiley. LOL

OP, I've known this. I have a friend who was reading her Women's History textbook and the subect of rape came up. She told me she fantasized about it but never actually wanted it to happen.

[John$Galt]

I know for a fact that men fantasize about rape. A couple have told me that they do.

you are a stupid *******

[Lottabody]

you are a stupid *******

Ya maw

[MajorKobraK]

No, they want a woman (or women) to rape them. Idk wtf that's about. You tell me.

wat?

[Lottabody]

wat?

I'm just going by what I've been told. Don't ask me.

[revolutionbrah]

No, they want a woman (or women) to rape them. Idk wtf that's about. You tell me.

hopefully when I lose my virginity it can be done this way

[rusvik]

I'm just going by what I've been told. Don't ask me.

Maybe you're dating a certain kind of emasculated male.

Most women definitely enjoy being submissive, those that don't have issues in my experience. It's natures way of telling us how gender roles should be. It must be such a mindfukk to be a modern, beautiful independendent woman and still yearn to get dominated face down ass up. I can understand why you lot are so fukked up. You would probably be much happier if you just accepted a calm submissive state.

Same goes for men, we can only be truly happy if we lead and take control. Not taking control is akin to asking Mommy for help which won't turn on a girl that's for sure.

[Lottabody]

Maybe you're dating a certain kind of emasculated male.

Most women definitely enjoy being submissive, those that don't have issues in my experience. It's natures way of telling us how gender roles should be. It must be such a mindfukk to be a modern, beautiful independendent woman and still yearn to get dominated face down ass up. I can understand why you lot are so fukked up. You would probably be much happier if you just accepted a calm submissive state.

Same goes for men, we can only be truly happy if we lead and take control. Not taking control is akin to asking Mommy for help which won't turn on a girl that's for sure.

You're looking to deeply into this. It's not a strange or uncommon fantasy at all.

[MajorKobraK]

I'm just going by what I've been told. Don't ask me.

No you said woman or woman. You mean "woman" as in a fudge packer?

[Lottabody]

No you said woman or woman. You mean "woman" as in a fudge packer?

Woman or women. Single vs plural. One guy told me he had a fantasy of being tied up and raped by a group of women.

[sincity88]

Women are extremely attracted to the leader, powerful, dominant, alpha, etc. type of men. Women want men who are capable of making them submit. This fantasy of rape is very fulfilling for them. They imagine a strong bad guy who wants to dominate them, the woman will put up a fight, but since the guy is so eager and dominant the woman will gladly (subconsciously) submit.

[MajorKobraK]

Woman or women. Single vs plural. One guy told me he had a fantasy of being tied up and raped by a group of women.

Oooookay

[StrongMeat]

Woman or women. Single vs plural. One guy told me he had a fantasy of being tied up and raped by a group of women.

years back, these girls from GSU blindfolded me and handcuffed me to a chair

while one was blowing me, the other was pouring hot candle wax on me and making me smell her vag(crotchless panties)

they took turns riding me while i was in the chair

was ok i guess, between not seeing anything and the awful baby condom they made me wear that was hella tight i cant say id do it again

-StrongMeat-

[GermanBeech]

Actually the leading theory is rape fantasies is that it releases the woman from guilt, since female sexuality is often shamed in our society.
Also, there is a difference between a fantasy, and a desire. Some things women fantasize about they don't ever actually want to happen in real life.

It's called the Blame Avoidance Theory and current research actually indicates otherwise...http://digital.library.unt.edu/ark:/...ssertation.pdf check p.113ff

Cliffs:
- "Women who were highly erotophobic had lower frequency rape fantasies than less erotophobic women,..." p.114f

- "...nearly all the women who had rape fantasies also had consensual sexual fantasies, and the women who had rape fantasies had consensual sexual fantasies more frequently than women who did not have rape fantasies." p.115

- "Also in contrast to blame avoidance theory, rape fantasy frequency was significantly correlated with all of the items on the sexual fantasy checklist, and it was moderately correlated with the item “being a slut.”" p.115

[splitmind]

I always imagined the kick for women was about being lusted over. Rape = rapist desires his object so much he can't resist = strooooooooong want, like, etc. = proof that a person desires them physically (which is such an issue for fems because they're all eternally/helplessly low self-esteem'd sluts when it comes to their body image.... so being ABSOLUTELY PROVEN OTHERWISE in a way that is undeniable = WIN! for them.).

[alissaxvanity]

Agreed. I don't see how this makes my post invalid..

Well, you draw the conclusion that because women have these fantasies, it means that it somehow spills over to real life. You stated that these fantasies mean women like alpha males and whatnot, when in fact, these fantasies are only for the bedroom, and she may not even want any of that to happen in her sex life. I was informing you that the reason for these fantasies isn't women wanting to be dominated, but it's rather about receiving guilt free pleasure, and being wanted so badly by someone that they'd just have to have you right there and then. It's not even really about domination at all.
In the fantasy, she is "forced" into it (but actually wants it), so she can't help but feel the pleasure therefore nobody can judge her on that. And the root of that guilt is shaming of female sexuality.