How much sex in a healthy relationship?

[secretlifter3]

If you're an atheist, why are you with a girl who believes in a religious institution?

11/10 wife material/good family/odds of cheating are 10000x less than any other wife material girl I've met/she's an 8.5 at worst and 9 at best

My problem is that I'm going to spend my prime sex years having an occasional hook up at best, and not banging frequently like mentioned in this thread. Like damn people arguing over doing it 3x a week vs. 5x a week? fuk i'd take 3x a month right now.

[sword_]

How about co-habiting couples and marrieds? How much are you fuarking now versus when everything was new and rosy?

This.

[rssnrocket9]

you're ****ing up by letting her set the standards for sex in your relationship so early. trust me

there's no "asking" her anything, the fact that your showing that the issue it preoccupying you is showing insecurities which is in turn unattractive and giving her the upper hand

you want sex more? you need to set the standards by taking it - not by rape, by turning her on even when she comes home late and tired. girls need you to be assertive and take it, if you arent then theyre content with ****ing you when they feel like it until someone assertive comes along

This x1000000

reading all these beta comments makes me cringe, you're getting laid once a month bc you're a ******* and your girl WILL find someone who can take control and f**k her right

[Dave1958]

Ive been married 27 years so I feel qualified to talk about frequency. Sometimes we do daily, more than once daily is vacation. There has been times we go a week or more without. Stress, family issues, period days, dont feel well. Most times its 2-4 times weekly. Up til kids came along it was daily.

BTW, when you marry do mnot allow the wife to put the baby in the bed with you- it will kill her libido and your sex life

[rackpullxtreme]

Ive been married 27 years so I feel qualified to talk about frequency. Sometimes we do daily, more than once daily is vacation. There has been times we go a week or more without. Stress, family issues, period days, dont feel well. Most times its 2-4 times weekly. Up til kids came along it was daily.

BTW, when you marry do mnot allow the wife to put the baby in the bed with you- it will kill her libido and your sex life

You're definitely in the minority.

Most married couples I know do it a few times a year.

[mydawgs]

Ive been married 27 years so I feel qualified to talk about frequency. Sometimes we do daily, more than once daily is vacation. There has been times we go a week or more without. Stress, family issues, period days, dont feel well. Most times its 2-4 times weekly. Up til kids came along it was daily.

BTW, when you marry do mnot allow the wife to put the baby in the bed with you- it will kill her libido and your sex life

Dave is spot on...no kids in bed...ever! I think the best way to gauge a healthy sex life is when both people in the relationship are getting their needs met. So how ever many times a week that is, it is critical. Sex is a bonding agent in an LTR and it solidifies a couple. I think the best advice I could give anyone is, NEVER be silent about an unhealthy sex life....if it's "broke" it needs to be fixed.

[secretlifter3]

You're definitely in the minority.

Most married couples I know do it a few times a year.

lol this, I would think it goes well until the first few years... then its bye bye sex life. hello cheating sex life.

[aussie_iron86]

girlfriend and i are at least 2-3 times a day, can be more if its the weekend and we arent doing anything, then i would say 4-5, its pretty sweet

[daitrong]

BTW, when you marry do mnot allow the wife to put the baby in the bed with you- it will kill her libido and your sex life

You're never suppose to sleep with your baby in bed; high risk for sudden infant death syndrome.

[kel_varnsen]

post honeymoon phase i'd say 4-5 times a week if both have full time jobs and a life of their own (hobbies, interests, friends etc).

[eltoro24]

I wish I got 10% of what people ITT get. brb gf is a "wait for marriage" type, and doesnt even give bjs. (dated her for a long time now, so I never got to experience frequent sex, just a few one time hook ups)

Oh well back to cheating I guess, but since I don't want to risk getting caught, 95% of cheating opportunities are a big no-no.

sex life sucks ass. Age 19 too, what a fail.

What if she's like a Starfish brah? What if you go out for 5 years then break up. No Boom boom for you? Don't think I could do it to be honest.

[secretlifter3]

What if she's like a Starfish brah? What if you go out for 5 years then break up. No Boom boom for you? Don't think I could do it to be honest.

what u mean by starfish?

and i mentioned im still chasing poon.. lolz... just makes it a lot harder.
But yes I do wish I had some chance to experience sex in a more romantic way (typical relationships) cause one nighters = banging a human sex toy. And by the time I do marry this chick, the lustful love (if u know what I mean) will be gone.

[makebelieve68]

Anything less than 5 times a week and i get mad. And that's on top of masturbating everyday.

[eltoro24]

what u mean by starfish?

and i mentioned im still chasing poon.. lolz... just makes it a lot harder.
But yes I do wish I had some chance to experience sex in a more romantic way (typical relationships) cause one nighters = banging a human sex toy. And by the time I do marry this chick, the lustful love (if u know what I mean) will be gone.

Starfish as in, Not good in the sac. Lays their like a starfish.

[secretlifter3]

Starfish as in, Not good in the sac. Lays their like a starfish.

dunno... could happen, but like I said, im not in it for the sex (or else I'd have left before I started).

[Trem24]

In a healthy relationship there should be a decent amount. In my last relationship, which was about 3 years long, I never lived with her but hung out pretty much everyday. We would have sex probably 90% of the time we hung, and like I said we hung out almost everyday. That was probably the only thing that kept our relationship going thou.

[Sach]

honestly, if you're both working pretty rough schedules no less than once a week or everyday on the weekends.

[jamestown0101]

coolidge effect brah:
- when ****ing a new girl; you'll smash 3-8x a day and skip meals
- after you tire of her body (usually after 2-3 months) you'll want it 1-2x a day

reps!

[jamestown0101]

After menopause, a lot of women don't have sex at all because the vagina doesn't lubricate properly anymore.

That is also why men go to whores, wait wut?

[rackpullxtreme]

That is also why men go to whores, wait wut?

How would Candees know about vaginas not lubricating after menopause?

They have lubrication out there for that issue.

[Candees]

How would Candees know about vaginas not lubricating after menopause?

They have lubrication out there for that issue.

My ex told me that. I believe him.

100% fake lube is not the same as some natural lubricant being present.

He also said the vagina shrinks in a bad way, so it's not responsive in the same way when they were younger and it also causes discomfort and lack of sensation for both parties.

[Candees]

That is also why men go to whores, wait wut?

Providing you don't have erections issues by then.

[Angra_Mainyu]

for every day we're together as long as I can get off one way or another (variety is fine) 3 times. 2 times after a year or two together

[GetMuscled]

With ex gf of 10 months it was 1-2 a day, everyday, she also didn't have problems getting me off while she was on her period what so ever.

With my other ex'es (shorter relationships) it ranged from 1 to 3 times a day when we would see eachother, which was normally like 2-5 times a week.

Current GF is about 3-7 times a week, it fluctuates a lot. Sometimes we **** everyday for a week and sometimes only 3 times in a week. We've been together for 2 years and live together. I deffo get annoyed if we don't have sex enough.

[SimonSaid]

atleast 10x a week and atleast 2 of them 10x with your girlfriend......

anything less and your doing it wrong.

[secretlifter3]

lol @ talking about banging post meno.

brb gross body and everythings saggy
brb having $$$ and getting young chicks on the side

[TheStiffmeister]

a lot of these quoted amounts change drastically the more years you stay together and more busy life gets.

[picartman]

Omega-tier bump. She cheated on me LOL.

Found a new gf about a year after the breakup tho, love of my life, wouldn't trade her for anyone, she's a 10/10 and looking back at my posts is just so sad and cringe worthy on the **** I put up with.

[yondy12]

Pretty much every time you see her if you aren't living together. Some couples only see each other on the weekends, some see each other every single day after work / school etc.

I imagine it would actually go down if you lived together.

[DustinTheHuss]

Strong bump!

Omega-tier bump. She cheated on me LOL.

Found a new gf about a year after the breakup tho, love of my life, wouldn't trade her for anyone, she's a 10/10 and looking back at my posts is just so sad and cringe worthy on the **** I put up with.

Wow.

Pretty much every time you see her if you aren't living together. Some couples only see each other on the weekends, some see each other every single day after work / school etc.

I imagine it would actually go down if you lived together.

You've obviously never been in a LTR or marriage, lol!