lol damlurker is alpha as fuk, he doesn't even care about his situationOriginally Posted by Spartacus777
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11-13-2011, 06:54 PM #31Banned
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11-13-2011, 07:11 PM #32For Rome and the Republic
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Wait..... so after all that, you still didn't smash?.......Originally Posted by OTG
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lol jk, I fear the mad neg power.“I am ashamed to think how easily we capitulate to badges and names, to large societies and dead institutions.” -Emerson
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11-13-2011, 07:12 PM #33Registered User
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in on this thread also, lately and for a long time i just havent shown interest in chiks cause tbh i really dont care whether i have sex or not, always went out with girl mates, being a white knight for such a long time its only till recently ive been getting into approaches, cause i wanna show this chik ive known for ages that i dont like her anymore although she thinks im foreverinlove with her, annoys the **** outta me so im just gonna post in here and say my misses and pick ups of when i go out starting from last night.
Last night i went to the saint (for all the perth brahs) and this is my feedback.
1. when we got to the club nd was walking to the entrance walked past two birds, as always i wait for eye contact as its a good indicator as soon as she gave it to me, i was like h.... and before i could she was like HEY! but they were moving and i said hey my mate said nothing, it was only at the end of the night i thought **** me i could have saved going inside and just stopped the girls outside be like you came out empty handed? where u headin now? way too early to go home, if you live round the area we can give u some company, so at the end of the night i was pretty much kicking myself in the head... owell...
2. got in to the joint caught up with girl mates (my mate went there wid me cause he is white knight and trying to get this girl in the 'friendzone' group) i said hello to em and he was pretty attached i was like dude im gonna get a drink then walk around and find someone else to chill wid (at this point the girls are on the d floor thinking where the phuck are the guys?) so he decided to follow me cause im more confidant than he is and i told him about the approach log so he got excited thinking he will have more fun following me around.
3. I got to the bar it was pretty busy, out the corner of my eye while i was waiting i saw a girl eye ****ing me, i was like ill give it a minute just incase she is lookin at the guy next to me then say hello, funny enough the bar dude came to me before her and she had been there for ages, so she came and stood next to me, and again, before i could turn and say hello, she already said 'hey' i was like heyy i noticed you been here for a while but he served me, she was a friendly girl so i took no offence to what she said she then said "yeh your a **** bloke" i just laughed and said ahh well its good i get lucky here and not at the casino, small talk after but by this point i cut the convo cause my mate behind me met 2 girls he knew but i didnt so it was either go for the girl at the bar or 1 of the girls he was talking to, i decided to cut the convo short with the girl at the bar and just say 'have a good night'.
4. Turned around to see him talking to two girls which he knew cause they were his sisters mates (2 years younger) he was chatting to one and the other was a 8-9/10 blonde bombshell, there was four of us and i was standing opposite her while my mate was talkin to the other girl, it was awkward silence for like 5 secs but i thought in my head NO time to CHANGE, so while they were talking i reached over and grabbed her arm and initiated conversation, she moved next to me and we started talking, turns out she is a girl that liked me cause she lives on the street of my best mate and i helped her dad fix his nissan skyline (cause ive owned about 4 of em so i know all the problems they get) according to her she was watching me through the window but i never saw her i only knew her dad, funny how out of all people i met her, so by this point i was like dayyumm, this can be good, we talk for about 10 mins but then i talk to the other girl and say who their with and if we could join em, this is where she points over to the corner and was like "well thats my boyfriend and the other guy is supposed to be my friends 'friend'" at this point im like fuarrrrk there go's my chance, they ended up going to the toilet and i said to my mate lets just go. i txtd my mate later on and told him i met her and to if he go's and see's her again to put in a word for me doubt anything will happen
5. I was walking through the crowd with my mate he got ahead of me then it looked like i was on my own, this girl outta no where to just comes and ring hugs me then looks me dead in the eye and starts moving closer, (obvs to hookup) she was a 5/10 at best so i just turned my head pushed her off and kept walking
6. Later caught up with the 5 girl mates that we were 'supposed' to be there for while dancing with them see 2 girls dancing next to us, they were mucking around with the out of order sign on the cig machine so they both had a sense of humour i thought perfect, tried to get my mate rallied up, but he wasnt having any of it cause he was there to try and get with this 'friendzone' and she was trying to pick up a dude when this guy hit on her walked away then she ran after him (by the end of the night i was saying to him he should let her go and move on) so without him being beaten 2 to 1 with girls i thought no chance cause if i talk to one the others gonna get bored and cut the convo so didnt approach, but wanted to.
That was my sunday night will post other approachs (dont do many unless on the wekeend as i work fulltime)
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11-13-2011, 07:15 PM #34Beastmode Engaged.
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Me: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: I would have kicked myself in the head if I didn't come over to talk to you.
Her: Aww. haha you're so sweet. *blushes*
Me: My name is Marzzz. Yours?
Her: Random stranger girl.
*small talk*
Me: I have to go but I'd like to take you out sometime.
Her: 713-272-381-823-8123 (not real number)
So simple yet so perfect!
One thing I'd add is to approach her from the side not straight on and the old adage about never DIRECTLY asking for the digits!310 Pounds down to 218 Pounds.
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11-13-2011, 07:17 PM #35For Rome and the Republic
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Dead on.Originally Posted by beertank23
“I am ashamed to think how easily we capitulate to badges and names, to large societies and dead institutions.” -Emerson
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11-13-2011, 07:21 PM #36Banned
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I go out often but never approach/ignore all girls, even at school lolOriginally Posted by Spartacus777
I'm probably not approachable to them at all either
don't know what to do
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11-13-2011, 07:29 PM #37Registered User
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Man, it happens to the best of us brah.Originally Posted by Spartacus777
Wait..... so after all that, you still didn't smash?.......
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lol jk, I fear the mad neg power.
Here is some tips for some of you brahs out there. Your in a bar or club. Bitches are attention whores around the camera and the spotlight. Take the pretty girl, pics are being taken, pull her in close. At the same time, I am picking up how she is reciprocating the entire time. Pics are done? No. Next pic, kiss her cheek, again seeing where this is going. Next pic, have her kiss your cheek. By now, you should be making out or getting slapped.
Bitches are grinding up on you like a whore? Don't just get a hard on. Start going up her dress and giving a bit of finger action. When she is grinding up on you, pull her away from her friends even a few feet. You need to remove friends from the equation and if she isn't doing it, you need to find a new chick. To pull away again, tell her to come up to the bar with you. Don't buy her drinks or food or anything. ONS her. When the going is good, assume something may very well and can come in your way and **** up your night. Don't let it. When in doubt, take her hand, tell her its time to go, and lead her to the exit like a small child.
**** reward favors the brave. Play to win.
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11-13-2011, 07:33 PM #38♠ Classy Brah ♠
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LOL wut? I thought it was implied I smashed???? By spending the night with her I meant I slept over, next morning we exchanged info and I haven't seen her since then. Maybe I should clarify in the other post... lol. Out of town girls, you don't have the luxury of time, you HAVE to close ASAP or you're never getting anything.Originally Posted by Spartacus777
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11-13-2011, 07:39 PM #39Registered User
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RespectOriginally Posted by OTG
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to OTG again.
After everyone of my walls of text, it should be implied romance explosion took place.
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11-13-2011, 07:41 PM #40♠ Classy Brah ♠
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Word bro! Wouldn't type all that **** out if it didn't have a happy ending!Originally Posted by jamestown0101
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to OTG again.
After everyone of my walls of text, it should be implied romance explosion took place.
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to jamestown0101 again. Reps 4 life brah!(\ /)
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11-13-2011, 07:59 PM #41Banned
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lol strong unaware..Originally Posted by JohnnyJenkins
Maori-Rap is King of Foreveralone.jpg and lord of all Misc. Virgins.. as is his right by being the oldest foreeveraloner and virgin still active on the misc!
Within a mere matter of months He will establish the 30yr+ Virgin crew and I will join it in another 42months! That is the Prophecy of Foreveralone!!
nah bro thats not me.. u confuse me with LongLurker, who is a much younger Koran-American bro who actually tried to get a girl, failed, and commited suicide..Originally Posted by Spartacus777
ironically he is Known by Jany in RL..
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11-13-2011, 08:06 PM #42Banned
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haha thats cos im starting to get pretty old here lolOriginally Posted by benzz
Back when I was young I'd let it affect me and alternatively rage and be depressed..
Older u get the less fuks overall are given..
I predict any of the FA crew (who are all pretty young) still stay FA/virgins when they are as old as me and Maori-Rap, they wouldnt care anymore either.
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11-13-2011, 08:32 PM #43Registered User
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So how would you ask for the number without being needlessly ambigous?Originally Posted by beertank23
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11-13-2011, 08:44 PM #44Banned
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I will not be in this crew when i am 26. Eventually people grow out of their shyness and become the person they want to be. Eventually people will figure **** out on their own if they keep trying. Even if it comes slow it will come if you put any effort into something.Originally Posted by damlurker
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11-13-2011, 11:13 PM #45Banned
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My very existence, as well as that of Maori-Rap stands to the contrary of that logic.Originally Posted by endofdays89
I too was once ur age..
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11-13-2011, 11:18 PM #46Banned
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**** it I'm actually in
ill start small, maybe just say hi to random girls and build up.
will see how it goes this week
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11-13-2011, 11:25 PM #47Banned
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You put yourself down too much because of your looks and use the race card too much. You could get a girl if you wanted because you at least have social proof and don't fear going out. You are not a bad looking guy and you like video games and anime there are plenty of girls like that. I have a buddy who is like you and he still has a gf and their friends are huge anime nerds.Originally Posted by damlurker
My very existence, as well as that of Maori-Rap stands to the contrary of that logic.
I too was once ur age..
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11-14-2011, 02:35 AM #48Beastmode Engaged.
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Good question, I would say something likeOriginally Posted by mcbrainlegend
"We should hang out sometime, how do i get in touch with you?"
Might sound lame, but it works, IMO.
Open for discussion!!310 Pounds down to 218 Pounds.
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11-14-2011, 06:48 AM #49Mens Physique
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never ask.. take complete control of your convo starring into her eyes not breaking eye contact.. what I do 90% of the time is hand the girl my phone, say put ur info in or, what's ur number...
only if the convo seems like there will be potential later on*ελευθερία ή θάνατος*
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11-14-2011, 09:00 AM #50Banned
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In on this crew. Too beta around women.
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11-14-2011, 09:19 AM #51Misc Electrician
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11-14-2011, 09:31 AM #52Registered User
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hey this might sound weird but i dont really have trouble approaching or getting the number but then im like "oh well i got the number who cares" and then i just forget about them and never do anything after i get the number :| srs
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11-14-2011, 11:04 AM #53Mens Physique
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sadly negative progress today...
I have every class with some girl I was seeing..
-she hangs out with the same people, I had to leave and hangout with others, couldn't bare seeing her
-stopped all contact a month ago
-I been doing pretty good, but some days when I'm tired/fatigued I look over, or hear her talking and well she's in my head for good.
-she looked so good today, I just couldn't deal with it, left class 10 minutes early drove home.. I'm so weak
second girl I only really dated, been a year since the last*ελευθερία ή θάνατος*
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You beat Nicky with fists he comes back with a bat. You beat him with a knife he comes back with a gun. And if you beat him with a gun you better kill him because he'll be coming back and back until one of you is dead..
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11-14-2011, 11:53 AM #54
Ok, let me say something here. I used to be a "foreveraloner" and I thought I could cure it by reading as much stuff on pick up artists, how to pick up girls, etc. I thought that if I knew all this stuff then someday the perfect situation would present itself to me where I could meet a really cool girl and get in a relationship. I read so much stuff that I probably know more about girls than a guy would ever learn in 5 lifetimes.
But it didn't do much. Yes, there were situations and I number closed girls at parties, classes, etc, but I wasn't off the hook with my game.
Once I started cold approaching I BECAME A CHANGED MAN. I have no fear of women now and my confidence is off the hook. START COLD APPROACHING!!! The first one I did I was nervous as fuark, but then i said eff it and walked straight up to her. The conversation went south after a couple minutes so I left. But it didn't matter...after that I was hooked. It is sooo easy to approach girls. They love it when you have the confidence to approach them.
Walk confidently, keep your back straight, smile, be a man, and you will realize how truly beta girls are. Honestly, I am never intimidated by a girl anymore. When you have confidence they really do see you as "alpha" and THEY get nervous, stroke their hair, laugh and submit to you (by giving you their number).
Get off POF and get off OKC. It's a waste of your damn time. PM me if you have any questions.
This is normal. I used to get this feeling a lot, and I still get it sometimes. The problem is that you are simply nervous to call them. You got the number so now you just want to kick back and rest on your laurels. It was scary to cold approach her and get her number so you're glad that you're done with it. But your job isn't done yet. You need to meet up with her.Originally Posted by mister12345
Unless you are getting numbers just for an ego boost. Then that's a different story.
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11-14-2011, 01:13 PM #55Katycel ðŸ¼ðŸ˜«ðŸ¼
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very motivating. REP.Originally Posted by Stankus
Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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11-14-2011, 03:23 PM #57Motivation. Inspiration.
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****ty progress today but whatever...
#1 random girl that walking from behind me.
Me: Can I ask you a question?
Her: Hmm sure.
Me: Why are you so beautiful?
Her: Haha hmm I don't know. *big smile*
Me: Ah come on, you don't know? Haha
Her: *some ramble*
Her: Nothing like a good compliment to start the day.
*small meaningless talk from here*
(Felt like she was feeling a little awkward from here so just let here go)
No number.
Approached like 3 other girls in my classes but nothing but small talk. Looking for a better day tomorrow.
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11-14-2011, 04:07 PM #58Registered User
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I have been doing this for a while and one thing I will say is do not get caught up with rules or lines. I used to go in with pre determined lines and all that jazz, then one day I tried just going cold, it worked just as well. The lines are not what get you the girl, it's just the way you deliver it. I have opened girls with the stupidest lines like "there is no spoon" and gotten great responses as I was confident in what I was doing.
In my opinion attraction is All above the shoulders, woman are not as superficial as we are, remember that. Them relying on looks does not serve any evolutionary advantage, so they look for confidence and decisiveness. If you can pull a girl into your reality without being reactive to her, attraction comes naturally. So all you guys thinking looks will make or break you are nuts and you guys are only hurting yourselves.
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11-14-2011, 04:10 PM #59♠ Classy Brah ♠
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This man knows what's up, rep this man. Quality post. The stronger pack leaders will throw **** tests at you to see if you being Alpha is just an act or if you're for real so don't lose that swag and keep trucking on!! It's just like poker, you gotta play the cards you're dealt with and it's perfectly okay to fold when the opportunity just ain't right. This way you can focus on next round/better opportunities to call, raise and even go all in.Originally Posted by Stankus
First of all, props on approaching and reporting back! IDK about that line bro... that's kinda "weak" and something you'd say starting out and realize **** like that doesn't work unless the girl is totally into you.Originally Posted by Marzzz
Would rather say something about the current situation *small talk*.
- or even if you wanna be direct, "Hey where's the closest (Insert whatever place)? *She says whatever*, Hah I don't really care about the ATM I just made that up so I could talk to you, I think you're pretty cute." Then you close and bounce. Hit her up later to meet up on a date which is the END GOAL. Most likely she'll be taken back, flattered etc...
Works better imo than calling a girl beautiful straight up. A girl friend of mine actually just brought that up couple days ago how if a guy just comes up and calls her beautiful she doesn't really believe him or thinks he just wants to get in her pants. Take that with a grain of salt. Especially the better looking the girl is the less I'd say something like that since they get it all the time. Heck if she has a cool looking phone I'd rather compliment that **** and ask about what phone is that, where she got it, you're looking to buy a new phone that looks cool etc.. etc. I'm personally super direct and it's been working well so I haven't switched it up. Only way I'd make small talk is if you're gonna be stuck with the girl for a while and wanna build repertoire (Works better, I personally don't have the patience lol).
Pay attention to detail, since you're obviously not scared to approach you don't have to jump right in to get over the nerves. Access the situation and think of couple things to say so you're not totally lost and let the convo flow from there. Once you get good you can come up with Closed ended questions and you'll already know the **** she could/would say to you in your head and you'll know how to reply to them. Then you just go with the flow, close and bounce.Last edited by OTG; 11-14-2011 at 04:56 PM.
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11-14-2011, 10:10 PM #60Banned
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Give an example of cold approaching? srs. How can I do it, when and where? I mainly need an example of what to say when cold approaching and how it works, no clue.
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