Question about being a virgin

**enr33** · 05-09-2014, 10:09 PM

junior in hs checking in here (very good facial aesthetics, alright game), see this post for some backstory....

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=160952511

basicaly how can i stop worrying about still being a virgin in hs and that I probably wont be clapping dem cheekz until college? how bad is it to be going into college a virgin and is it easier to lose it in college than hs? this chit is on my mind 24 hours a day it seems and its starting to depress me a bit/drive me insane...

im seriously considering getting a high quality hooker at age 18 to get this chit out of the way. this chit is fuking with my head so much at times i feel like im gonna lose my mind.

i've been on a date before, i easily acquire numbers and have never been rejected, have kissed a girl on the cheek and hugged many and have made some intimate contact with several females but that's all).

wut do misc? am i gonna make it brahs?

**enr33** · 05-09-2014, 10:25 PM

bump of peace. please brahs give me some advice on how to stop worrying about this chit, i feel like im going insane (srs)

will rep for srs answers

**Glutamine1** · 05-09-2014, 10:33 PM

I lost it at 17, basically the summer of senior year, before starting college. I wouldn't waste losing your virginity on a hooker, f that noise. I had some friends that lost it during their college years. No biggie. You're guaranteed to get laid in college. The number of women, the number of clubs/organizations, it's literally impossible not to get laid during college. GL!

**Batarang** · 05-09-2014, 10:38 PM

"The problem is you're worrying about the things in life that don't matter..."

Listen brah. Your virginity doesn't make or break you. Get that thought out of your head. You can be good-looking, in shape, and lose your virginity at 18 to a HBB in college & live happily ever after (inb4 sloots gonna sloot) or an ugly guy who lost it to a whale in high school at some party in the laundry room & be done in 5 seconds while remaining foreveralone until you marry the only girl that'll accept you when you're 35.

Take it at your own pace. No one really cares about it besides you. And in addition, getting experience in the smash dept. comes after many times. Your best bet is to keep working on yourself, getting out there, improving your game, and letting things fall where they may.

Check out this thread I made a couple days if you need more advice on that: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=161783873

EDIT: Got it. You're 17. Edited that out because it's irrelevant to the advice I wanted to give ya.

**enr33** · 05-09-2014, 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by Glutamine1

I lost it at 17, basically the summer of senior year, before starting college. I wouldn't waste losing your virginity on a hooker, f that noise. I had some friends that lost it during their college years. No biggie. You're guaranteed to get laid in college. The number of women, the number of clubs/organizations, it's literally impossible not to get laid during college. GL!

then how i always you hear about these 21+ year old virgins who aren't virgins by choice? any tips for making sure it happens in college?

**Glutamine1** · 05-09-2014, 10:44 PM

Originally Posted by enr33

then how i always you hear about these 21+ year old virgins who aren't virgins by choice? any tips for making sure it happens in college?

i don't know. most of the ones which i did meet who are 21+ did it by choice. one of my brother's roommate didn't lose his virginity and wanted to wait until he got married to his gf.

**enr33** · 05-09-2014, 10:45 PM

if you brahs could also aware on my questions on pages 6 and 7 itt about talking to girls. i know its a long read but i'll rep anyone and everyone who can give me good advice on it.

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=160725861

**PeachFuzzJones** · 05-10-2014, 01:24 AM

focus on your positives instead of negatives and u'll lose your virginity in no time
i'm a freshman virgin in college, i just approach chicks like i'm not(college sloots are too easy). easiest way to get chix
i've just been chilling tho, could've lost it, just all the options i had to lose it didn't interest me.
be patient and stay true to your morals man, don't let pus$y make u

**ChangeOfStyle** · 05-10-2014, 01:30 AM

Chit brahs you actually take it as a status to prove your human? As the other peeps stated - go at it at your own pace. People act as if they're gunna die at age 18 if they don't lose their virginity lmfao. I'm not desperate tbh, I'm going at it with my own pace and I'm not going to go and hire some hooker just to lose my v-card for a ''status''. Fknn oath

**enr33** · 05-10-2014, 06:29 AM

thanks for all the advice brahs, i feel a hell of alot better about myself now....

**CrazyBlackPanda** · 05-10-2014, 06:33 AM

I lost my virginity when I was 16 in highschool that's because my ex is kinda slut... so yeah.

**PartyAndHockey** · 05-10-2014, 09:44 AM

You're not "guaranteed" to lose it in college, but things will get easier. To be honest, american colleges are filled with sloots, so I really don't know how you would have a hard time. Would be different elsewhere like here for example where education system is a bit different, but in the US, given that you will most likely have your own place (dorm) and go to school where it's filled with sluts. You shouldn't have a hard time... Continue lifting and you will make it/ I'm a virgin too.. but it's because I live with my freaking parents in the suburbs, and go to a lame "college" (pre-uni here) and since I've been lifting more seriously.. I can feel girls being more attracted, specially now (13-14% bf)

**TheJizzler** · 05-10-2014, 10:09 AM

Originally Posted by enr33

then how i always you hear about these 21+ year old virgins who aren't virgins by choice? any tips for making sure it happens in college?

They stay in their room fapping 24/7. It's only extreme cases.

**enr33** · 05-10-2014, 10:13 AM

also is there any need to be in a frat in college do get sloots/good parties? how do you hook up with/smash girls in the dorms and how does casual sex work in most colleges? is it a fuarking free for all? can you just invite chicks over to smash? (even at colleges in the south)

**PartyAndHockey** · 05-10-2014, 11:27 AM

Originally Posted by enr33

also is there any need to be in a frat in college do get sloots/good parties? how do you hook up with/smash girls in the dorms and how does casual sex work in most colleges? is it a fuarking free for all? can you just invite chicks over to smash? (even at colleges in the south)

lol? dude you still need to put in work, if you can't talk to women or escalate you better learn or before you know it you WILL turn into a 21yo virgin on the misc

**enr33** · 05-10-2014, 11:31 AM

Originally Posted by PartyAndHockey

lol? dude you still need to put in work, if you can't talk to women or escalate you better learn or before you know it you WILL turn into a 21yo virgin on the misc

i can talk to women and im always working on improving my game and escalation.

**PartyAndHockey** · 05-10-2014, 11:40 AM

Originally Posted by enr33

i can talk to women and im always working on improving my game and escalation.

Good, IMO you will make it if you actually do work on these things. I've never been to a college in the US, but I know a girl that goes to college in Hartford, Connecticut and apparently people drink all day every day and party all the time so it shouldn't be to hard for you. As long as girls are down to party, and alcohol is involve, AND you lift you will always have a chance. The rest is up to you

**TyGuy505** · 05-10-2014, 11:42 AM

Originally Posted by Glutamine1

You're guaranteed to get laid in college. The number of women, the number of clubs/organizations, it's literally impossible not to get laid during college. GL!

lmao that's not true at all

**PartyAndHockey** · 05-10-2014, 11:44 AM

Originally Posted by TheJizzler

They stay in their room fapping 24/7. It's only extreme cases.

A little true, but they're probably fapping all the time because they can't get laid, not the other way around

**enr33** · 05-10-2014, 09:20 PM

Am i gonna make it brahs?

**Mikebuff** · 05-10-2014, 10:00 PM

You're gonna make it brah. Just wait till you get out of HS. You'll be able to have a crap load more options in college and you can go to to clubs too. We're gonna make it together brah.

**enr33** · 05-11-2014, 09:06 AM

Can a girl tell if your a virgin (At times other than when your in bed with her)? I dont think the way I act portrays me as one (cause im no awkward and chit) but what do you brahs think?

**PartyAndHockey** · 05-11-2014, 09:13 AM

It doesn't really matter as long as you please her I guess, experience is a good thing, but knowledge is even better. If you know what girls, or your girl in general likes then you're pretty much set as long as you can pull it off.

EDIT: Oops thought you said WHEN you're in bed with her. Well, to be honest, not really. Girls can't tell if you had sex or not, as long as you're not socially awkward which is not the case of every guy. I've told a few girls that I'm a virgin and they where shocked, even at 15-16 girls wouldn't believe me.

**enr33** · 05-11-2014, 02:42 PM

Originally Posted by PartyAndHockey

It doesn't really matter as long as you please her I guess, experience is a good thing, but knowledge is even better. If you know what girls, or your girl in general likes then you're pretty much set as long as you can pull it off.

EDIT: Oops thought you said WHEN you're in bed with her. Well, to be honest, not really. Girls can't tell if you had sex or not, as long as you're not socially awkward which is not the case of every guy. I've told a few girls that I'm a virgin and they where shocked, even at 15-16 girls wouldn't believe me.

why do girls seem to be opposed against having casual sex with me without being my gf/fwb, just like a hookup or whatever? do only the slootiest of sloots do that?

**aoide12** · 05-11-2014, 02:56 PM

Unless US colleges are completely different to UK unis you aren't guaranteed to lose it, I'm finishing my second year and I'm in exactly the same position I was when I started. Now I'm not trying to be pessimistic but go into with a realistic viewpoint. There are more opportunities but you still need to be able to act on them.

**PartyAndHockey** · 05-11-2014, 03:03 PM

Originally Posted by aoide12

Unless US colleges are completely different to UK unis you aren't guaranteed to lose it, I'm finishing my second year and I'm in exactly the same position I was when I started. Now I'm not trying to be pessimistic but go into with a realistic viewpoint. There are more opportunities but you still need to be able to act on them.

This, keep it real. As long as you keep trying, things will get better, but there is no guarantees.

Originally Posted by enr33

why do girls seem to be opposed against having casual sex with me without being my gf/fwb, just like a hookup or whatever? do only the slootiest of sloots do that?

It seems like sloots like to f*ck 20% of the male population. Ever heard of the 20/80 rule, 20% of the guys f*ck 80% of the girls. It's pretty much been proven true, it's up to you to be special to them in a good way. Make them feel comfortable and you also need to look good and make em laugh. Looking good will give u the initial attraction, after that you need to escalate and make them feel comfortable at the same time. Some sloots do like to sleep around with guys, but they won't do it cus they don't want to be called a sl*t. You're not the only guy having trouble with this, you would be surprised to see how many dudes are virgins.

It's not hard, but if you lift and work on your social skills you will have golden opportunities. At your height I would say get to 200lbs then cut down to 8% bodyfat, if you still can't make it, it's probably your social skills. Then again in college with those stats and decent facial aesthetics you won't need to be a casanova as long as you don't act like a total retard, some girls would still let you hit it.

**enr33** · 05-11-2014, 05:28 PM

what's the easiest way to clap some cheekz in college? (non-virgins pls respond)

**xvicknumber7x** · 05-11-2014, 05:39 PM

fix your attitude first of all. you say you've never been rejected, but then go on to list "kissing a girl on the cheek" as a credential.

**enr33** · 05-11-2014, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by xvicknumber7x

fix your attitude first of all. you say you've never been rejected, but then go on to list "kissing a girl on the cheek" as a credential.

the kissing girls on the cheek was pure coincidence, it was pretty informal and with rather older women so idk if that even counts... it wasnt anything with girls my age.

**xvicknumber7x** · 05-11-2014, 05:45 PM

do your best to get involved at your college no matter how you can. be active. you can list things on your resume in the future and meet a ton of people. play rec sports, just make sure you get involved with a few activities on campus. if there is nothing youre interested in, then start something. don't be afraid of rejection. make plenty of friends with males and females. having hot female friends is going to be big. act aloof and above all else, make sure you fuucking keep your head in the books or I will personally come over and beat the fuuck out of you. you will have time for everything.

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