I always meet girls and talk a bit but then idk how to escalate it into kissing or anything sexual. How do you do this?
11-06-2010, 08:48 AM #1
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11-06-2010, 09:57 AM #5
Isolation!!!! Isolating is the key to hooking up with a girl at a party. For example, if your just having a regular conversation with a girl for like 10 minutes or so, she has to be somewhat interested if she is still talking to you. If your in a large party, suggest a place where you can continue talking away from other people. At this point, start escalating and making the conversation more sexual and go in for the kiss.
11-06-2010, 09:59 AM #6
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11-06-2010, 02:04 PM #9
Be careful with this. Could work, but could work against you too. If you walk away, that's giving another guy the opportunity to move in. Your plan would work if there's not many guys there, but if there's competition, don't let her go. Got to just keep her interested, and like the other dude said, isolation. Get her to trust you, relate with her on some things, then try to get her out of there. If she won't be alone with you, then its hard to hook up. If you can get her alone, then you have to just go for it. I always like to go for the massage trick. Maybe cheesy, but works well. Joke about how good you are at massages. You have to be funny. If she shows interest, say, let me show you, and massage her shoulders. Once you are there, you can eventually wander your hands around. If she rejects you, its usually in a playful way, and you can play it off as an accident, or say she didn't specify boundries. If she doesn't stop you, slowly wander more and more. Eventually your feeling her up. If she's still good, turn her around and initiate kiss. No way will she reject you at this point. Good luck.
11-06-2010, 02:14 PM #10
Gossiping good or bad is great.
To add : Don't take rejection so emotionally. Just quickly move on to the next in a fun mannered demeanor.Cawk=Pussy. The only equation for a successful relationship.
Be honest. Lying takes too much effort to keep track of.
Make her feel da c**k.
11-06-2010, 02:21 PM #11
11-06-2010, 07:56 PM #12
1. Talk to her
2. Be openly flirty (lean into her, hold eye contact)
3. Gtfo (introduce yourself, make her laugh, then go!)
4. Come back, assess the situation (happy/sad to see you)
5. Grow some balls and kiss her
Edit: I forgot. You also need to break down the 'touch' barrier! Just touch her arm for example if she say's something silly and make a joke out of it.
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well first and foremost, you have to 'break the ice'
at a party that isn't too hard. play beer pong or something. anything that would put you in a competitive situation is great and makes it even easier for you.
and then like other people have said, after awhile of talking you can tell if shes interested. leave her for a little bit and she might even come find you after awhile. if not, go back to her, chat some more and suggest you go somewhere quieter so you can talk.
then the rest is cake.
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11-06-2010, 10:38 PM #16"Just lift it"
Staying consistent F'n works
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11-07-2010, 02:59 AM #21
im still drunk from coming back from a house party, an let me tell you. i made out with a HOT bitch who was trying to keep to her self but i let the alcohol just fuel my need to speak. i walked up and let game run itself. she was interested and before you know it we weree making out...full on against a wall abotu to **** making out..she tells me that she has not a lesbian bone in her body but likes kissing girls and sure enough kissed herfriend..i kissed them both and had a three way peck kiss..dude, no matter what YOU try and do it's always based on the level of involvement of the female. you can be in the midst of a team of librarians with your best suit and cologne on..nothing..or wearing a t-shirt aorond a bunch of horny whores who will do naughtty **** to you just because SHE Wants to ..be yourself bro it ALWAYS pays off rather than being some phonie posing up - girls smell that **** a mile away
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