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    I wasn't showing her enough attention and like I cared so it eventually drove her away. We live about an hour from each other. We have very many things in common, laugh a lot, love each other's families, but she claims she lost attraction. I can own some of this because in hindsight I can recognize that I wasn't romantic enough and didn't make her feel very special like a girlfriend. This could be because I thought we were just so comfortable and got a long so well I thought she might hint it towards me (she claims she did and I didn't pick up on it). This was a very emotional year for her dealing with the death of a family member. She is clinical bipolar disorder and suffers from addiction and eating disorder. So she can be very inconsistent when all the factors in this equation combine.

    Nonetheless, I love her and I want to spend my life with her. We talked about moving in together and having a family. She broke up with me right before Christmas. We haven't gone longer than 4 days without talking. I've tried to go no contact and she always get's really angry and somehow manipulates me into contacting her. It has been a lot of back and forth so I'm pretty certain that the No Contact play is the best and really only play because I have read a lot about it. I just can't seem to trust it fully. Can someone just advise me that this is the right play to make and that it should help us reconcile.

    I can fix all the things I wasn't doing earlier in the relationship. Awareness was what I needed. I have the means to support her and us and a family so I just need to be a more compassionate and caring. (which I can do). I've just been really obsessing and I really hope things work out between us. I am in love with her
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    Originally Posted by bogey1121 View Post
    32/m and 29/f

    I wasn't showing her enough attention and like I cared so it eventually drove her away. We live about an hour from each other. We have very many things in common, laugh a lot, love each other's families, but she claims she lost attraction. I can own some of this because in hindsight I can recognize that I wasn't romantic enough and didn't make her feel very special like a girlfriend. This could be because I thought we were just so comfortable and got a long so well I thought she might hint it towards me (she claims she did and I didn't pick up on it). This was a very emotional year for her dealing with the death of a family member. She is clinical bipolar disorder and suffers from addiction and eating disorder. So she can be very inconsistent when all the factors in this equation combine.

    Nonetheless, I love her and I want to spend my life with her. We talked about moving in together and having a family. She broke up with me right before Christmas. We haven't gone longer than 4 days without talking. I've tried to go no contact and she always get's really angry and somehow manipulates me into contacting her. It has been a lot of back and forth so I'm pretty certain that the No Contact play is the best and really only play because I have read a lot about it. I just can't seem to trust it fully. Can someone just advise me that this is the right play to make and that it should help us reconcile.

    I can fix all the things I wasn't doing earlier in the relationship. Awareness was what I needed. I have the means to support her and us and a family so I just need to be a more compassionate and caring. (which I can do). I've just been really obsessing and I really hope things work out between us. I am in love with her
    Your chick is:
    - Bipolar
    - Addictive personality
    - Has eating disorder
    - Manipulative
    - She also broke up with you just before a major family holiday (guaranteed to ruin it for you!)
    - She says she lost attraction to you

    I dunno... she's sounds perfect.

    LOL.

    j/k. Run, don't walk, run away from this sloot. Don't go planning your life around that basket of problems. She needs fixing, you can't do it, stop playing captain save-a-hoe.

    Book a flight to North Carolina and find a new girl there.
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    Wish I read this before sending, Idk, 10 paragraph long texts to my Japanese ex. U_U

    Lesson learned.
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    Originally Posted by skanzer View Post
    Wish I read this before sending, Idk, 10 paragraph long texts to my Japanese ex. U_U

    Lesson learned.
    The one who expected you to pay for everything and stole from you?

    You need to re-evaluate your situation in life mate. If you don't respect yourself how can you expect anyone else too?

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    At day 30 of NC she called to tell me to cancel the magazine subscription I got her. Wish I didn't pick up cuz she could've just texted me that. She was giggling the whole time. Won't respond next time. She's been posting lonely raunchy pictures on instagram since the breakup.
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    Originally Posted by idno View Post
    At day 30 of NC she called to tell me to cancel the magazine subscription I got her. Wish I didn't pick up cuz she could've just texted me that. She was giggling the whole time. Won't respond next time. She's been posting lonely raunchy pictures on instagram since the breakup.
    Why do u still stalk her insta ?
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    Originally Posted by CeBKa View Post
    Why do u still stalk her insta ?
    Lmao this. Enjoy seeing pictures of her with the multiple guys she's banging soon.
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    Originally Posted by CeBKa View Post
    Why do u still stalk her insta ?
    idk curious.
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    So after 4 years cheating sloot ex sends me a friend request on Facebook but then immediately retracts it. Most likely an accident methinks but could have done without the reminder. Would be weird if it wasn't accidental considering most recent news I heard through the grapevine is her life's going pretty well - just bought a house with her BF (of like a year and a bit apparently), but she probably is cray enough to self sabotage so who knows.

    Nice when a cheating ex is doing better than you at lief huh?
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    Originally Posted by BZA85 View Post
    So after 4 years cheating sloot ex sends me a friend request on Facebook but then immediately retracts it. Most likely an accident methinks but could have done without the reminder. Would be weird if it wasn't accidental considering most recent news I heard through the grapevine is her life's going pretty well - just bought a house with her BF (of like a year and a bit apparently), but she probably is cray enough to self sabotage so who knows.

    Nice when a cheating ex is doing better than you at lief huh?
    Social media doesn’t actually portray what happens in reality. I broke up with my ex about two weeks ago and she will inherit over 6 million from her family. Sounds nice huh?

    Too bad she lives in the middle of no where and when we first started talking she was self harming herself, depressed, anxiety and had suicidal thoughts (all of which I pulled her out of) because of the turmoil her family puts her through. They just don’t care. She is moving back to be with them. Yeah she won’t be fine down the road I’d be shocked if she turns around.
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    Man up guys and forget them. I’ve tried my hardest to sleep w one of my ex’s & it did work after tough hard time. Not even worth that chit and ur dignity gets fked over. Nothing is BETTER THAN KNOWING YOUR WORTH.

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    Lol well mine of 14 months is all over yelp less than a month after us breaking up writing like a total psycho acting like her and her current guy have been married for 5 years or something. Everything was wrong the last two months. No sex until marriage anymore bc she wants to be married and have kids and God will get her there but she can still do blow. Random blow offs saying her gay boss wanted to go out for his last night in town, saying she was going to another state to see her bff when her yelp review said she was at the bar with some friends. Dumped me claiming my family didn't like her and I would never marry her as a result (lol wtf does that matter?)

    So under the circumstances not a word even though and I don't expect to hear anything until this rebound crashes. Staying NC too. Cheaters/Monkey branchers were never truly in love. I've read all her texts to exes in the past. She always goes back to exes for emotional comfort when she's single. She has an extreme void left by an absent father in her childhood that she has to fill with a man. Can't be single. Hell no to being the next ex who gives her any of that when this current relationship crashes. Thank Christ I didn't marry her. I want to break NC to demand my $1450 back that she owes me but I'll just let it be.
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    Well my ex that monkey branched from me is right on schedule. She broke up with me over the phone on 1/23. Almost hit 90 days, but just got the lame ass “Hey” text and hour ago. 30 minutes go by “How are you?”

    Yeah definitely not responding. Things must be wonderful with the new guy. He can have her. No monkey branching back allowed. I kind of want to screen shot a pic of her yelp page with her and the new guy traveling on vacation less than 3 weeks after she dumped me. She’s probably texting 3-4 others right now if things are going bad with this guy. She doesn’t deserve the satisfaction from me. I’ll let her sit there in silence.
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    Wow this manipulative hoe. 3 hours later comes the typical "I miss you" text. After her earlier texts to me this evening she's out on a date with her new guy and posting it on yelp. Texting me this afterwards. Poor guy is being used to get over me, and she's trying to manipulate me and keep me around on the sides. No thank you.
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    me and my now ex gf brokeup like a 5 weeks ago. We dated for a year and honestly it was awesome and I know she enjoyed it too. But she brokeup w me cause she said she is transfering to a uni a few hours away and needs to focus on her last year of school. I expected this to happen sooner or later so I just let her go, no opposition what so ever. 15 minutes after that I was hitting the weights and still am to this day. Also haven’t spoken a word to her since we broke up even though she insisted on staying a part of my life. Post my gains all over snap and insta as well as me turning up w guy & girl friends. Not sure if I will ever hear from her again but don’t really care. But I am curious to what y’all think she’ll do lol. Almost all girls I’ve dated or messed with at least check up on me for attention or whatever, but my last girl was a just a little different. Though she was always attracted more to me I felt like, she did a lot of the chasing.

    I have my eyes on this cutie @ the gym so that’s now my girl focus, ex’s can stay left on read.
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    Broke up with girl I’ve been seeing for 3 months. She said she needs space because she has a lot of stuff going on in her life (grandad dying, just came out of a long term relationship before me etc). I feel really **** about it and today I went crazy and started messaging her loads asking her why she wants space, she’s probably seeing someone else that sort of thing ffs it was quite embarrassing and made me look quite desperate probably. Is no contact the best thing to do even though she says she wants space anyway?
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    Originally Posted by MiscInformed View Post
    Your chick is:
    - Bipolar
    - Addictive personality
    - Has eating disorder
    - Manipulative
    - She also broke up with you just before a major family holiday (guaranteed to ruin it for you!)
    - She says she lost attraction to you

    I dunno... she's sounds perfect.

    LOL.

    j/k. Run, don't walk, run away from this sloot. Don't go planning your life around that basket of problems. She needs fixing, you can't do it, stop playing captain save-a-hoe.

    Book a flight to North Carolina and find a new girl there.
    ^ Run. Never go into a relationship trying to repair/fix/help someone. You always end up fking yourself up and need help yourself after. Do you actually miss her or miss the companionship and being in a relationship, huge difference. Save yourself, you ALWAYS come first bruh.
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    Lads wish I knew this. Things were going great with a girl a few years back, she broke things off and I went NC no problem. But we would catch up again every now and then and I did a bad job of being too available. Getting women since her was E-Z. Developing feelings towards one was hard

    Still don’t know if she was testing me, genuinely interested, just wanting to know if I was still hooked, and I had many sleepless nights figuring it all out in my head. At this point I just don’t care but chalked it up to a learning opportunity


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    Originally Posted by Chucktraceless View Post
    me and my now ex gf brokeup like a 5 weeks ago. We dated for a year and honestly it was awesome and I know she enjoyed it too. But she brokeup w me cause she said she is transfering to a uni a few hours away and needs to focus on her last year of school. I expected this to happen sooner or later so I just let her go, no opposition what so ever. 15 minutes after that I was hitting the weights and still am to this day. Also haven’t spoken a word to her since we broke up even though she insisted on staying a part of my life. Post my gains all over snap and insta as well as me turning up w guy & girl friends. Not sure if I will ever hear from her again but don’t really care. But I am curious to what y’all think she’ll do lol. Almost all girls I’ve dated or messed with at least check up on me for attention or whatever, but my last girl was a just a little different. Though she was always attracted more to me I felt like, she did a lot of the chasing.

    I have my eyes on this cutie @ the gym so that’s now my girl focus, ex’s can stay left on read.
    Hello. I'm new. Just happened upon this thread and am responding like so:

    If you genuinely didn't care you wouldn't be thinking about her or "what she'll do" let alone posting about it online. It also sounds like the social media posts and eyeing other women are smokescreens and coping mechanisms.

    You're hurt. Just deal with it properly by first acknowledging your pain, and then move forward from there. Strong people don't hide from their pain by "shutting it off." They work through it.

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    Ex leaves cause grass is greener on the other side/new interests in life

    Ex comes back because she has wounded pride(chad only pumped n dumped,couldn't find prince charming)

    Ex only wants validation, rehabilitation for her pride. Once you build her back up, she will cut you off and dissapear again.

    If a woman tells you to get lost, then you need to get lost! Don't ever come back. No woman worth living life with would ever cut you off.
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    Originally Posted by orderoutofchaos View Post
    Ex leaves cause grass is greener on the other side/new interests in life

    Ex comes back because she has wounded pride(chad only pumped n dumped,couldn't find prince charming)

    Ex only wants validation, rehabilitation for her pride. Once you build her back up, she will cut you off and dissapear again.

    If a woman tells you to get lost, then you need to get lost! Don't ever come back. No woman worth living life with would ever cut you off.
    This a 100%. Even if an ex ''comes back'', it's not because she suddenly realized your worth and fell in love with you all over. It's only because you're either her current best option after she got dumped or because she needs an emotional tampon before dumping you all over again once she feels better.

    My ex tries to contact me all the time for months on end. Ignored her on everything while having her blocked on everything as well. Not taking those breadcrumbs bait. Good riddance.
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    it's been 2.5 years and she never came back.

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    Wondering if mine will come back after breakup #2. Last time she monkeybranched and left all my pics up on instagram and kept me on linkedin. This go around we both ghosted back in November right before 2 years together, and she seemed like she was friend zoning me over the next few weeks. She has no real friends in my state, so a boyfriend rejecting her friendship apparently cuts deep.

    Got accused of a crazy email right before Christmas that was sent to me and she tried to tie me and a former coworker to it. She won’t reason, and prob sent it herself. She removed me from linkedin, deleted our pics on insta, and is on Bumble. Man the only problem was my living situation and how it proved yes or no if I was making the steps to marry her. She last reached out in middle of January to tell me she loved me and I was always on her mind, and then a week later to try and retroll this email nonsense and tell me she still loved me but I had messed her up with something I didn’t even do.

    I reached out 2x to try and give her what she wanted but I got a generic answer and blown off left on read on the second text. Lol see you in 3 months maybe I guess is my attitude. That and there’s cool and beautiful women all over the place. Meeting them and having a real connection is the hard part. Always know women have the same problem awaiting is my advice. They can **** somebody whenever they want. That doesn’t mean they love, care, have friendship at the core, and like the person physically, mentally, spiritually, etc
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