How many of my RH Brahs know this feel?

[otakutrevan]

"Heyyyy you !"
"Yo. Whats going on?"
"Nothing much. I had a question for you"
"Go for it"
"You're like really good with computers and cars right?"

[FAPhaggot]

"Hey! Are you FA *******?"

Yes...

"You look just like you do in the group chat picture! Hey, I have something to ask you..."

"Shoot" (wait for it, wait for it...)

"Do you know how to do problem 4 on the homework?"

[Giggul]

Literally never have this problem, you must have weak writtten all over you if girls feel they can use you like this

[DanielleGreen]

Leave em' on Read OP. I've had too many people use me for their own gain, fcuk em'.

[otakutrevan]

"Hey! Are you FA *******?"

Yes...

"You look just like you do in the group chat picture! Hey, I have something to ask you..."

"Shoot" (wait for it, wait for it...)

"Do you know how to do problem 4 on the homework?"

R I P

Literally never have this problem, you must have weak writtten all over you if girls feel they can use you like this

The good ole "this has never happened to me therefore you must be a weak beta *******" LOL. pls.

If they arent my friend or a girl I never speak to? I simply do not help them. I'm already a tax drone used to support. I'll pass on being the beta IT dork or Mechanic for a random

Leave em' on Read OP. I've had too many people use me for their own gain, fcuk em'.

I think it looks extremely read and rude. Normally I just say I'm too busy but I hope they find someone to help them out.

Lmao op had this experience a few times in my life because I was the smartest kid in my class. Girl from class matches with me on tinder in order to manipulate me into doing her project. Never answered and I heard she failed that class.

R I P

So what do you say apart from “Yeah pretty good, you any good at BJs?”

Good lord.

[FAPhaggot]

So what do you say apart from “Yeah pretty good, you any good at BJs?”

#MeToo

[Voidgaze]

I used to get that all of the time is HS from girls. But get this....it was only because I wore glasses....

-Me in geometry class barely maintaining a C.
-Sloot asks "Do you know how to do this?"
-I say "Nah I'm not to good at this actually..."
-Sloot says "Oh you just look like someone who would know all of this lol"

[NitrogenWidget]

the last woman who started mentioning how "overwhelmed" she felt over all the chit that needed fixing around her house..... I stopped responding to her texts. LOL!

I have women that sometimes ask me to do things around their house because I renovated mine.
However the women I actually do stuff for I do it because they text me "hey, i'll give you X amount of dollars to do X for me".
they don't beat around the bush or drop hints hoping i'll volunteer to fix it either.

I've learned to convey that i'm a busy guy and my time is valuable when it comes to women and very few try to waste my time attention whoring or try to get me to do chit for them for nothing.

[Maatkarah]

So what do you say apart from “Yeah pretty good, you any good at BJs?”

It is freaky how similarly our minds work sometimes rabbit, that is exactly what I was going to suggest he say lmfao.

The joke is with the right girl and the right delivery, that level of confidence & cockiness prob'ly would lead you to score.

[BohemianSlav]

Damn that must suck lol. What did you tell her?

[Brandan1997]

"Heyyyy you !"
"Yo. Whats going on?"
"Nothing much. I had a question for you"
"Go for it"
"You're like really good with computers and cars right?"

should have replied with “Yeah but im even better with anatomy 😏”

[FAPhaggot]

The joke is with the right girl and the right delivery, that level of confidence & cockiness prob'ly would lead you to score.

And what if it's not said to the right girl with the right delivery...

[FAPhaggot]

I used to get that all of the time is HS from girls. But get this....it was only because I wore glasses....

-Me in geometry class barely maintaining a C.
-Sloot asks "Do you know how to do this?"
-I say "Nah I'm not to good at this actually..."
-Sloot says "Oh you just look like someone who would know all of this lol"

Lmaoooo.

No glasses crew here, so at least I know it's all skillz.

[sword_]

Ha not yet.

[Maatkarah]

And what if it's not said to the right girl with the right delivery...

She tells everyone he's a creep.

But whatever .. if they know the story they'll still think he's a (somewhat vulgar) alpha.

[Zackad]

And what if it's not said to the right girl with the right delivery...

well you wouldn't ever say it to a coworker

but anyone else who isn't in a position to make your life hell, go for it. IE not your sister, mother, aunt, cousin, gf's family members, etc.

[SwimLiftRunGrl]

Just say no or you are busy. You don't need to help her if you don't want to. I've had girls and guys asked me for help in school (math, computers). Now I tell them to google it.

[BlackScorpio91]

Never had this problem with both men and women. When I was in school, I wasn't even the smartest person in my class nor do I care to be the smartest person.

Sucks to be you lol.

[iamdetermined]

Tfw ask girl out for drinks and she responds by asking for help on a study guide.

Strong sex life... I'm just glad I go to the gym, sports etc and do sht to stay busy. I'd go crazy if it weren't for that.

Literally never have this problem, you must have weak writtten all over you if girls feel they can use you like this

Idk about all that man. Some girls just try to use guys for school work and it is what it is. Maybe they just don't think you're smart enough to help.

[FU3L]

Just ignore them after you find out they're only talking to you for free labor. Not a fan of people who only hit you up when they need something.

[alltrapbrah]

In other news...

Last Sunday, I was taken back by my female doubles partner (at social tennis; had never met her before) when she asked me a few questions about my life with genuine interest.

Is anyone else surprised when a person genuinely makes an effort to get to know you? The fact I was startled by her curiosity is a testament to how rarely I encounter such things...

Side note: she wasn't especially attractive.

[zeronotyethero]

Unless they're immediate family, you don't owe anybody anything, not even a courteous response (especially if you don't know them very well). Even if you do know them, like nitrogenwidget said, they will more than likely be willing to pay you. For a person to try and get you to do something for them for free, they are either cheap or have no respect for your time. Most people know better than to ask if they're not that close to you, but some people will run with it if they know they can walk all over you.

[T-mac]

Unless they're immediate family, you don't owe anybody anything, not even a courteous response (especially if you don't know them very well). Even if you do know them, like nitrogenwidget said, they will more than likely be willing to pay you. For a person to try and get you to do something for them for free, they are either cheap or have no respect for your time. Most people know better than to ask if they're not that close to you, but some people will run with it if they know they can walk all over you.

In the real world owing people makes the world go round. When a politician receives a donation, It isn't out of the kindness that the donor is handing over the money. It's a for a favor that will be called in one day. never underestimate the power of having someone owe you.

[alphatan]

That’s non direct way of them wanting to hook up op don’t be stupid

I go ask girls for some type of help only if I’m interested

[zeronotyethero]

That’s non direct way of them wanting to hook up op don’t be stupid

I go ask girls for some type of help only if I’m interested

Lol, yeah right. If anything the girl would be offering to do things for you... not asking you to do things for her. But keep living in your delusional world where just because the girl asked you to do something for her, that means she's somehow interested in you.

[psychosylocibin]

"Heyyyy you !"
"Yo. Whats going on?"
"Nothing much. I had a question for you"
"Go for it"
"You're like really good with computers and cars right?"

yup. this. or they contact you when CHAD is making them feel bad.

Want to here a RAGE story...ready:

few year ago, was into this girl, obviously I got friendzoned and she gave me the "you are not just my type speech". she was actually cool though, would sometimes pay for my meals/etc and it was more of a genuine friendship. She commented how she is into "masculine men" and loved "beards" and "guys who get dirty" and how I was not that type and that is why she was not into me.

guess what, she starts dating this guy who works at a brewery pouring beers, and has one of those hipster beards and wears overalls and has "retro" tattoos. he also smokes piipes. she is commenting on how "edgy" this guy is how she is attracted to him because of this "masculine energy".

ONE DAY, I get a text from her that her light fixture is smoking and popping and that her Boyfriend can't figure it out doesnt want to go near electricity. So , I go ther place, turn off the breaker, and re-wire her phukking light while her and her boyfriend watch. I also changed the flat tire on her back up car in the garage and replaced her gunky air lifter as well. all the time, her "masculine" boyfriend is commenting "omg man, thanks, I never realized how simple all this stuff is". In the end, we all go out and they buy me dinner/drinks for helping.

This experience made me realize one thing: women don't care about what you can do, only about the image you portray. by "rugged" and "masculine" she meant having the "image" of someone like that. In the end, she would rather a pick a hipster who can't change a tire over a guy who can actually do that work, but doesn't have a "rugged" image.

most women today are like this, and are complete morons in the selecting their significant others.

stay safe

[Azrairc]

and the appropriate response is cash grass or ass

[DanielleGreen]

May I ask why you did all that for them if it rankles you so much...did it feel good to help? Was the friendship or dinner worth the effort you put in to you?

This^
After getting friendzoned I would've NC hard. I have learned the hard way, after a guy says chit like "ohhh I'm not looking for a relationship now" or "lets be friends" I'm running away real fast.

[psychosylocibin]

May I ask why you did all that for them if it rankles you so much...did it feel good to help? Was the friendship or dinner worth the effort you put in to you?

it was more like "lol I thought you liked masculine men" at the time - I'm always willing to helps friends. I also don't do things solely expecting things in return from friends.

of course it is bit frustrating - but you can't change what people are attracted too.


A lot of poeple don't want to be honest about what they are actually attracted too, because it woudl make them come across as shallow, to the point where they even try to convince themselves that they are attracted to someone for X reason and not Y reason (the shallow reason).

I have a lot of alternate beliefs - like the start of a lot of relationships has everything to do with completely stupid/meaningless/superficial things.

When someone says "I am with {so and so} because he is honest/hardworking/he is confident", what they don't realize is that they are with them because of what inititally caught their eye. if someone doesnt catch your eye, nothing else matters. often what catches their eyes are these stupid/meaningless/superficial things.


"I remember ordering a drink at the bar and there was this guy next to me, and he smelled nice. I asked him what he was wearing and he said it was blah blah blah. fast forward 5 years later and we are married with 3 kids"

"I was out and noticed a guy reading a book about mao zadong, the communist leader of china. I was taking a class where we just talked about him and had to ask him what he thought. we just had our honeymoon last week"

"I went to a party and immediately noticed this tall guy with the nicest kempt beard I've seen. I had to get to know him. i started chatting him, and he asked me out! today we celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary"

obviously, this is how meeting people should be - organically. you wouldn't go up to someone and go "I think you are attractive and I wanted to say hi", because 99 times out of 100 they would say "wtf?". maybe 1 time out of 100 it would work, but you end up being more of a creeper than anything.

most relationships I know started out from women noticing a guy and either outright hitting on him or putting herself in a position for him to notice her and start the conversation. thus, it is a falsehood that men are the initiators. women are the actual initiators. thats why a lot of good lookding, "hawt", "edgy" men succeed with women and tel you"its just confidence man" - its becuase the women position the conversation so the guy has something to work with. its easier to flirt suddenly. she WANTS him to flirt with him. she WANTS him to be her fantasy. she will push the convo so it becomes as such.

[psychosylocibin]

^^^i think that’s true

I’m surprised you feel it’s a revelation though

most men think dating is something within their control. a lot of times they find out it isn't.