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08-31-2011, 06:51 AM #91
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08-31-2011, 10:47 AM #92
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08-31-2011, 01:06 PM #96
What I like to do is hit Bishes with Stage One as hard as I can and bash. Before I get to Stage 2 I call them and say that, because they lapped up Stage 1 so hard, they haven't the emotional/intellectual stamina or capacity to be worthy of being treated rightly and dump them.
Try it, as their tiny little brains go into overdrive they'll look at you as if you've asked them the hardest riddle of all time. It also makes Bishes learn the lesson the hard way whilst you come out shining like a f*cking diamond. On the other hand, if you want to continue a proper relationship with this Chick, then saying this to her will also expose her to her faulty mind and she'll see the light.
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08-31-2011, 06:07 PM #97
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09-01-2011, 07:34 AM #98
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12-17-2012, 03:02 AM #103
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12-17-2012, 09:03 AM #104
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12-17-2012, 11:18 AM #105
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Psalm 64:1-6
Hear my voice, O God, in my prayer: preserve my life from fear of the enemy. Hide me from the secret counsel of evildoers, From the tumult of those who do iniquity, Who have sharpened their tongue like a sword. They aimed bitter speech as their arrow, To shoot from.
MFC: They hate us because of our freedom.
I carry a .40S&W because i couldn't make up my mind.
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12-17-2012, 12:00 PM #106
Almost lost my girl b.c I portrayed the "idgaf where this relationship goes" image for too long.
I wasn't trying too, but that is how she percieved it. Now I am trying to get her back and she is only allowing it BECAUSE I finally let her know how I really feel about her. Some women do appreciate the extra affection.
edit: We broke up after I moved to FL, btw, not relationship problems. I am going back to VA for job oppurtunities and we are talking again.
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12-17-2012, 12:57 PM #107
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12-17-2012, 01:09 PM #108
too much real life itt
Think you of the fact that a deaf person cannot hear. Then what deafness may we not all possess? ~ Dune
We need a new ideology with the core values of reason, honesty, science and secular progress over the older traditions of religion, superstition and dogmatic faith that have long defined humanity. We will never be free to progress and advance until the last stone from the last church is cast down onto the last priest. And every equivalent.
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12-17-2012, 01:19 PM #109
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12-17-2012, 05:24 PM #110
fuuk brah, i love spending time with my girl (wednesdays and all weekend) and we talk on the phone every night. i act the same around her since the day i met her the typical douche and she eats it up we've only been dating 3 months and we show each other a lot of affection, do you think i should draw back on giving her all the attention i give her? i usually bail on my friends just to hang out with her, not because i dont want her to get pissed but because i rather hangout with her
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12-17-2012, 06:32 PM #111
I think most relationships end up being co-dependent which is why they fail. People lose their sense of self and rely on "the relationship" for fulfilment. In a healthy relationship both parties should have their own interests and goals, as well as interest and goals that they share with their partner (it's true for women as well as men).
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12-17-2012, 06:33 PM #112
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12-17-2012, 06:50 PM #113
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12-17-2012, 07:44 PM #114
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Strong 2 year bump. I appreciate the feedback fellas.
It's not a game brother. If you put yourself first in your life, then you are much less likely to run into problems with your relationship. If you live for yourself, you won't have to make a conscious effort to follow these steps. It won't all seem like a "game". It will just be the natural way of things.
Every girl is different with their level of demand for affection/attention. From what you described, it sounds like your relationship is at a good balance right now. But here's the thing - and some of this is a little speculation. You said it's only been 3 months which leads me to believe that you are still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. This takes place in the first few months in which your feelings for each other are the strongest. Chances are, in the upcoming months, you're relationship will transition from the honeymoon phase to the comfort phase. This is where those passionate/butterfly feelings you've been feeling for her will start to decline. As a result, you might start spending a little less time with her and showing her a little less attention. That's when she will start to feel the loss and demand more from you. Stage 2 begins.Last edited by Wife Beater; 12-17-2012 at 11:11 PM.
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12-17-2012, 11:02 PM #115
lucky :'( wish i got a second chance
EDIT: Also what's got me wondering is that I've noticed and its quite obvious to everyone and surely you all know, is that why is it so hard for both sexes (depending who is more attached) have a difficult time in giving in the effort to sit down and work out any problems that arise in a relationship. Instead they decide to just leave it be and assume that its impossible for things to work out...
Sorry if I don't make sense, its mindphucking me just trying to explain it. Because at one point both parties fell in love, yet one will always end up not bothering in putting any effort into the relationship anymore.
I'm young and very confused why relationships are always so imbalanced and when things do get rough, one person will always give up... Even when things are easily fixable.
Any relationship can go through hardship if only both parties are willing to try.
donotknowwhatthephuckimtalkingboutanymore/10Last edited by reyreyy; 12-17-2012 at 11:11 PM.
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12-18-2012, 01:50 AM #116
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End well, this will not..
IMO ditching your friends to hang out with her is the worst thing you can do. Your friends will eventually say **** you, you'll get tired of being around her 24-7. Eventually you're stuck. I did the same thing as you and got bored very fast. Stop spending so much time with her.
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12-18-2012, 02:48 PM #117
Oh man this whole post is on point. In my relationship I had ENORMOUS control because I kept brushing the girl off, but giving her the time of her life when I saw her. HOWEVER i over did it. Not on purpose, but she decided I didnt want anything serious and found some douche that she saw for a few months. After she came back I still had control, but lost it quickly. The fear of losing someone makes the scale tip VERY quickly. All of a sudden you don't see them for a few days, and thats it you keep asking them to hang out. You don't want to tell them you're busy right after because you fear losing them, so thats it you're stuck.
I honestly wish I was emotionless, life would be a lot easier.++ Positive Crew ++
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12-18-2012, 03:38 PM #118
Stage 1:
Wildly attracted to one another...the honeymoon
Stage 2:
Get to know one another, accept each other for what you are and the goodness you bring to the relationship. Learn how to disagree while still respecting one another. Work through the hard times. Don't assign blame, focus on resolution.
Stage 3:
Understand and appreciate this SO, value them above all others. Make your way through life utilizing all the lessons learned in #2 above. Continue to evolve and change with each other. Maintain respect, loyalty and honor.
Stage 4:
Not sure...living it right now and in the Spring we will celebrate 30 years of marriage.
This is so simple in concept but most bail in #2 because being right/in control is more important than being together....thats what I see.
Carry on.
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12-18-2012, 06:13 PM #119
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