This is pretty much my story, except my dad only used to drive trucks. Now he is an unemployed slob leeching off of his gem of a girlfriend and pretending that the 20 years apart had nothing to do with him choosing a life of womanizing and coccaine over having a happy family. OP's situation sounds much more promising though. I can say that, although I never initiate contact with my father, I have grown and learned alot through the experience and do not regret it. If he turns out to be someone from whom you can gain nothing, remember that you do not owe him any part in your life.
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01-08-2011, 11:53 PM #122
what happened bro? you meet him yet?
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01-08-2011, 11:56 PM #123
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01-09-2011, 12:55 PM #124
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01-09-2011, 12:57 PM #125
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01-09-2011, 12:58 PM #126
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01-09-2011, 01:00 PM #127
Similar situation OP. Haven't seen my dad since I was 5, he lived in Australia and now Indonesia. Found him on ******** along with 2 of my step brothers and sisters, 2 of which I've never seen in my life.
Now its like... do I make a move and initiate a conversation with him?
Awkward situation man... would be awkward as fawk.
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01-09-2011, 01:04 PM #128
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01-09-2011, 01:08 PM #129
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01-09-2011, 01:14 PM #130
- Join Date: Jun 2010
- Location: Canberra, Australia
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In the same kind of situation. Haven't seen my father since i was 6.
Had a half sister call me when i turned 18. I was out when she called back and my mother cut absolutely loose on her. Never heard back.
Found out i have about 10 half sisters/brothers.
No idea how to get in contact with them. Don't know if i want to really. I tend to think the worst of everybody.
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01-09-2011, 01:23 PM #131
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