So I met this girl friday night at a party, when I was just walking around she tapped my shoulder and said "Do I know you?" so I said "Do I know YOU?" back. Then she goes "Nope, but I like your face". So later that night I saw her again and started dancing with her and whatever, and she says she has to go show her friend around who is in from out of town. I say alright, get her number, and she kisses me on the lips when she goes. So now it's monday and I texted her, just saying "Hey". She texted me back saying "Hi".
Now do I just ignore her? I was never a believer in this theory until my hot friend (who is a girl) told me that's what I should do if I like a girl. It just seems weird though, I've never really had TOO much trouble getting girls in the past not blowing them off, but I really like this one and I don't wanna **** it up. So do I just blow her off until she texts me again, or blow her off for a couple days and text her again? Ahhhhhhhhhhh
03-09-2009, 07:52 PM #1
The strategy of "blowing a girl off" to get her to want youNY Jets
03-09-2009, 07:55 PM #2
If you like someone, ignore them!?
Man, the games we all play.
If you like her, hook up with her. Call or text her and ask her out somewhere. Don't appear needy or desperate, that's the important thing. Be confident in you who are, and no prob.
She doesn't want you to ignore her, unless she doesn't like you.
03-09-2009, 08:00 PM #3
03-09-2009, 08:03 PM #4
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ughhhh the dreaded "hi" response back after greeting them. they make it sound like they have no interest in talking to you. i fuc.king hate when i get that response. at least they should say "hey" instead
edit: im going to make a thread about this because it deserves a discussion
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03-09-2009, 08:03 PM #5
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03-09-2009, 08:09 PM #6
yeah i really dont know. I've f**ked things up by contacted them too much and being 'friendzoned' then there's others iv f**ked up by not contacting them enough..
I hooked up with a girl i've known for a while on saturday night, i texted her sunday night cause i know she will write someone off for not showing enough interest. I just said hey an asked if she wanted to catch up one night this week when she's not busy. She said cool an i said let me know during the week and we'll work something out then.
Even though i want to im not going to text or call her again until she contacts me, we'll see how this goes, there all different
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03-09-2009, 08:09 PM #7
yes..end the conversation there, she will be dripping wet and at your door in ... 10 minutes
/retard PUA bull****
can you ****in just talkin to her and make plans...do yourself a favour, and do it NOW.anybody can heave-ho that -ish, but only a bodybuilder can make the muscle do the work
mass or GTFO
..:Tiny Calves Crew:..
03-09-2009, 08:29 PM #8
03-09-2009, 11:17 PM #9
There are stupid little games like that and yes it can work. The point is who do you think of more? Somebody who replied to your text or somebody who didn't? For example If I asked what are you doing? And she said sitting at home, well i know what shes doing now, but if she weren't to answer then You'd be checking your phone every once in a while to see if she replied to you yet on what she is doing. It's just the fact that you think of somebody more when they haven't replied to you. Either way stupid games.
And if you are going to be doing these little games then you can't just leave it at "hey." If somebody texts me hey, that's all I say back, if you wanna talk then talk don't just say hi. Have a little bit of a conversation going with her and when you think she is interested and she is questioning you on something then that would be the time to play the little game.
03-09-2009, 11:22 PM #10
03-10-2009, 12:06 AM #11