Ahh man. I had about enough this woman. She constantly is bitching bout everything in bed. Having sex with her is impossible. Absolutely no life to her whatsoever, no enthusiam. Nothing. Like I said she bitches constantly during it. The other night I finally said wtf what do you like? Nothing no answer. She had absolutely no answer for me. Not trying to brag or nething like that but I never in my life had to ask a woman what the **** she liked so I could please her I just don't get it. I am actually going to give up on having sex with her it only pisses me off, I might as well just watch some internet porn, my left hand is more exciting then her.
The worst part of it all is I am a ****in sex addict. Naturally I resort to the occasional affair, I try not but god damn what else am I supposed to do. Watching porno and **** is okay every now and then but **** we all know the real thing is sooo much better.
I stay in the relationship because she is a great mother to our six year old girl and and my little baby has had a rough life with being born early fighting for her life, and fighting through everything doctors said she would not be able to accomplish. I do not want to put her through anymore ****, it tear her up not to have mommy and daddy together.
I guess I just needed to vent here for awhile.
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Thread: Cant Have Sex With My Wife!!!
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01-29-2009, 06:38 PM #1
Cant Have Sex With My Wife!!!
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sit down and talk with her about it maybe? obviously you have been with her for a while and you should be able to trust her.........maybe you need to change or she needs to change something to feel in the mood, some spontaneity or whatever............
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01-29-2009, 06:46 PM #5
**** man you do have a tough situation here. At first i would have just said go bang some other chick, but you have a kid so that complicates it...ahhh i dunno man...look up foods that make ppl horny and feed those to her and do everything possible to get her in the mood.
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I've been through that with my wife, it's usually something bothering her or women just get that way. I'm not one to step out on my wife, so I asked her what the problem was. She gave me a answer so I corrected some of my stupid behaviour. I told her some stuff that she did to piss me off also. Most of the issues are worked out.
Our sex life is better than it was then when we were dating 9 yrs ago. Just work through the problems and be patient. Women are alot different then men. Good luck.
The more I read this it sounds like a troll post, it can't be real.Last edited by beermanj; 01-29-2009 at 06:51 PM.
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01-29-2009, 06:55 PM #14
Thanks everyone for the feedback so, that was fast.
Resentment could be a factor, although to my knowledge she does not know of any of the side action going on.
The good thing is that we do not really fight any more than any other couples. The only time we have our issues is in the bedroom. I should also add that this has only been going on since this last year our relationship (been together for 8).
Someone mention foods for like a aphrodisiac or something like that. Any specific suggestions?
Another thing is she could be depressed she has always been heavier but has put on quite a bit of weight. I have never once said anything about this as I have put on some weight too (although I am chipping away at it) and to be honest I am attracted to all body types as long as they are pretty and take care of themselves. Just no unsightly fat hanging over ankles type **** LOL!Native warrior on the streets and in the sheets.
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Didn't the marriage vow say that you should love each other through good times and bad? Did you not know that she wasn't that into sex before marriage? Did you get married because you wanted to, or to prove to society that you could get married?
You sound like just another millionth man who picked some woman and randomly walked down the isle.
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