Yaar that's terrible and I hope your friend does get some help. That's not easy at all for those around him either and I hope you and your family/friends are coping okay right now.
Great to see you posting tandpr and that you've had some success's over the last little while. Last weekend I was left alone, no family and I forced myself into bed early, put a movie on and refused to get out. Good job man!!
Congratulations on 97 days (hopefully a couple more now). For me, I threw myself into lifting and learning about (not always following) nutrition. The gym has become my safe haven. My big lifts progressed a bit and then I went just nuts on hitting up the gym nearly every single day just for the simple sake of doing something and being involved. It helped me a lot.
Good to hear that you're still on board with making positive changes. My older brother has 37 years sober and it helped me a lot early on to talk with somebody I know and trust. You two could really be a positive force for each other.
QFT
Good post.
QFT
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07-31-2014, 07:41 AM #7171
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07-31-2014, 10:02 AM #7172
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07-31-2014, 10:03 AM #7173
Thanks everyone. I went to a meeting yesterday and a lady my age shared about how her son died. She got 4 years and almost killed herself. With the help of AA she made it. Put things into perspective. My kids are alive, I got a roof over my head, everyone is ok, I am sober. Life is just one moment and its now, as long as I am sober now, I am ok
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07-31-2014, 10:08 AM #7174
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07-31-2014, 12:25 PM #7175
It is all relative. When your brain dries out you will feel emotions that you never felt and they will hit you harder than they ever had. It is like lifting though. Your emotional and spiritual selves are weak due to the alcohol. Those selves will get stronger as you allow yourself to actually deal with and process the emotions.
This goes for the pleasant emotions as well. Which is good and bad.
As always, just play the tape all the way through with alcohol and emotion.
My favorite thing about sober me is the moment I take to think before I speak/hit/yell/throw. I never had that before. Let me tell you, I am a master at fixing drywall but I no longer have to use that skill. I like my emotions now. I like to feel them. I did not feel this way during the first or even the second year.
I am sorry if this is a babble. Things get better all the time. This is a lifelong journey and there is much to learn. Put in the time, one day at a time and watch the promises become reality.▪██─────██▪ Ivanko Barbell Crew #68 ▪██─────██▪
Current plan:
Very organized. Well-coached.
Goal - be strong and not fat
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07-31-2014, 07:00 PM #7176
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08-01-2014, 06:08 AM #7177
Went and saw my friend that went into the hospital yesterday.
Even though he's better friends with my wife and her friend, though it would be better if I went. Last thing you need when you're in a bad spot is to have people you like see you in a bad spot, so I went in just to make sure he was all right so I could convey this back without them having to see him like this.
In short, he looks terrible. I understand he's in a hospital, but he looks like he's in a hospital. He didn't look like that a couple weeks ago.
His 72 hour observation was up, he's at a VA facility now. I guess he woke up with DT's even after the three days. He is staying there voluntarily, and he's trying to see what kind of treatment program the VA can put him in, whichever are his options he wants to take the longest one possible.
He also thinks they can help him with some sort of vocation and housing towards the end of his stay. Told him I'd come check in on him once a week and when it he felt up to it we'd have some other people come visit.Don't listen to me, I'm in terrible shape.
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08-01-2014, 05:31 PM #7178
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08-02-2014, 05:06 AM #7179
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08-02-2014, 07:00 AM #7180
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08-02-2014, 02:58 PM #7181
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08-02-2014, 05:00 PM #7182
Day 4 here, giving this sober thing another go. While I may not be drinking beer, I can't stop drinking ****ing liquid. Litres of water plus cokes, gatorades. Just in the habit of guzzling I guess. Should I try to stop this?
Anyone here had any serious liver problems from their boozing? I've been starting to wonder if I've done myself any permanent damage.
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08-02-2014, 06:14 PM #7183
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OK, I checked in to the hospital with a .474 BAC in April. Liver enzymes were off the charts. After a month of sobriety + a ton of water / exercise, my levels were back to normal. Had an unltrasound and got away with a little bit of fatty liver, nothing else. How the hell I pulled that off I have no idea. Grace of god I guess. The liver is pretty f-ing amazing because I really gave it hell for a long time. To me "giving it another go" as you say is to set yourself up for failure. You're 4 days in, 5 tomorrow. Positive attitude here is a must. Oh, and drop the coke and gatorade!
Pain is weakness leaving the body. U.S. Marine 90-95
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08-02-2014, 08:19 PM #7184
The liver is the only organ that can regenerate after serious damage. If its taken too far, it will develop scar tissue (cirrhosis), at this point it is non-functional tissue. That being said, it can take some serious abuse (with no outstanding disease such as hepatitis C etc)
I agree that you are setting yourself up for failure if you "are giving this thing another go", this is a serious life destroying disease in which you either stop completely and indefinitely, or let it eat you alive. Sorry if you just chose your words poorly, but this is life or death for mostly all of us here.
Best of luck to you, keep posting!
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08-03-2014, 01:02 AM #7185
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08-03-2014, 05:37 AM #7186
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08-03-2014, 09:29 AM #7187
Good plan but remember eating like crap is better than drinking at all. Stand back while I science. Alcohol, in addition to messing with your mind, metabolizes to sugar. You generally will have a sugar addiction on top of the alcohol addiction. Having a stash of candy can help quell physical cravings. Science over - great job, I am pulling for you!
Great job! I am pulling for you!▪██─────██▪ Ivanko Barbell Crew #68 ▪██─────██▪
Current plan:
Very organized. Well-coached.
Goal - be strong and not fat
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08-03-2014, 09:42 AM #7188
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08-03-2014, 11:58 AM #7189
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08-03-2014, 11:59 AM #7190
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08-03-2014, 12:28 PM #7191
Whoo whooo to the both of you.
Troof^ I also found it helpful to stock up on drinks I like. Hot tea, cold tea, crystal light (or any of those new things that are out now), and soda for when I just had to have something carbonated.http://legendsofbodybuilding.blogspot.ca/2012/04/2000-arnold-classic-this-years-line-up.html
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08-03-2014, 01:24 PM #7192
Stayed out till around 5am last night. Made bad decisions. To make it better I got the bottle of 101 out for breakfast. And lunch. And still going waiting to call it dinner. Go back a and forth from crying to singing and dancing. Want so bad to say I don't give a **** but I know I am going to be angry at myself. Eyes move sluggish and I find it challenging to talk. Must mean relaxation is right around the corner
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08-03-2014, 01:29 PM #7193
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08-03-2014, 01:34 PM #7194
Went to wall mart earlier. Hard to drive six sped with glass of Turkey. Anyone ever been asked to leave this thread? I bet I get there. I wear out my welcome everywhere I go lolo . Not gonna make it. Nope nope. When I got the turkey this morning I looked at my 357 mag. I thought......you know these two things proly have the same end result. One just faster. So why do I choose the slow painful way? Does not conpute
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08-03-2014, 01:37 PM #7195
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08-03-2014, 04:03 PM #7196
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08-03-2014, 04:26 PM #7198
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If your on about DUI then yeah. No problem. Just make sure you live with the guilt if anything happens.
Anyone ever been asked to leave this thread? I bet I get there. I wear out my welcome everywhere I go lolo .
The thing about your post is that it brings back memories of my interwebz time when on the sauce. Cringeworthy at times. But one day you can look back and see for yourself what you posted.
I was a DEEP ASS shade of red after going full potato in this forum when I first started. All due to drunken antics.
Not gonna make it. Nope nope. When I got the turkey this morning I looked at my 357 mag. I thought......you know these two things proly have the same end result. One just faster. So why do I choose the slow painful way? Does not conpute
You are full of potential my friend. Plough your energy into something positive. My PM box is always open dude. Also always online at some point most of the day.Ride it like you just stole it.
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