Girlfriend

[SledgeBoy]

Do I have a right to be mad if my girlfriend doesn't wear makeup for me but then goes to party that I'm not at and wears a ton of makeup?

[txlftngrl]

No.

[Npeart]

No.

YES! What you have a right to be upset over is her getting sloppy and lazy and not looking her best for you. She's too comfortable. Squash that now!

[Swarovski]

Next time she does wear makeup with you, remind her how gorgeous she looks and she'll wear it more often. Subtle hints like that.

At the end of the day, wouldn't you rather have a woman who looks naturally pretty? If you don't like being with her without makeup, then you have serious issues in your relationship.

[SledgeBoy]

Next time she does wear makeup with you, remind her how gorgeous she looks and she'll wear it more often. Subtle hints like that.

At the end of the day, wouldn't you rather have a woman who looks naturally pretty? If you don't like being with her without makeup, then you have serious issues in your relationship.

I tell her how gorgeous she is every single day. Why would she want to look her best for everyone at a party but not for me, that just plain hurts my feelings.

[TeresaMalia]

eh. I don't wear a lot of makeup. Daily I just wear mascara, lip gloss and a powder. If I go out then I'll put more on but that wouldn't depend on if my (fictional) boyfriend was there or not.
I'd be a little worried but I'd just let her know that you wonder about it and ask her why she does it? I agree that it's most likely because she's comfortable around you.

[Swarovski]

oh dear.

Well you clearly don't make her feel self conscious about her appearance then. A lot of women cake on the makeup because they feel that people will think less of them in places like parties. But if you say she looks nice everyday, you make her feel comfortable.

[terribletriad]

If she wears as you say a TON of make-up at parties, let her. It will most likely scare most of the guys away.

The less make-up a woman wears, the better!

[Vitalshok44]

YES! What you have a right to be upset over is her getting sloppy and lazy and not looking her best for you. She's too comfortable. Squash that now!

+1^

If someone feels like they've got you and that it's okay for them to get a lazy now you really can't put up with that, it's just a downward spiral towards massive disrespectful behavior later on.

[dunkonu9]

You can be pissed does she give a **** that your pissed though that is the question. If she is doing it to piss you off that is just her game of making sure your still interested if she could care less well them maybe she is on the hunt and just keeping you around until she happens across something better.

[steph0823]

Do I have a right to be mad if my girlfriend doesn't wear makeup for me but then goes to party that I'm not at and wears a ton of makeup?

Well I dont wear makeup at all to work, when im around my husband on the weekends but if we go to a party or to the comedy club I will put some on but I hardly ever wear that stuff because I have natural beauty as it is..... lmao!

[dunkonu9]

Well I dont wear makeup at all to work, when im around my husband on the weekends but if we go to a party or to the comedy club I will put some on but I hardly ever wear that stuff because I have natural beauty as it is..... lmao!

yes you are

[Kymn]

oh dear.

Well you clearly don't make her feel self conscious about her appearance then. A lot of women cake on the makeup because they feel that people will think less of them in places like parties. But if you say she looks nice everyday, you make her feel comfortable.

I 2nd that one!

[thenewuser]

thats what my (ex) girlfriend did

personally i like natural better though so i didnt care

[Amanda76]

Do I have a right to be mad if my girlfriend doesn't wear makeup for me but then goes to party that I'm not at and wears a ton of makeup?

If YOU take her out somewhere special does she wear make up? Or are you pissed that she's not all dolled up while you're watching TV in your sweatpants? LOL If it's the latter, maybe you need to get all dressed up and take her out on the town. If it's the former, I'd be irked.

[amt34]

Do I have a right to be mad if my girlfriend doesn't wear makeup for me but then goes to party that I'm not at and wears a ton of makeup?

It is a comfort thing, and you should be happy that she is that comfortable with you, that means she knows you lover her, for her and not that make up. I don't agree with saying you have the RIGHT to be mad at her, but I can also see where you are coming from, but like all the other ladies have said, compliment her when she doeswear it, pick specific things, if she has nice eyelashes say, " you should wear your eyes like that more often, they look so good " or, " that color eye shadow, really makes your eyes look amazing " may sounds corny, but if she see you noticing the little things, she's going to want to do it more often.

use words, like sexy, amazing, wow, great..
they will make the compliment THAT much better

[babycakes90]

shes going out of course shes going to wear make up.

but you should be glad she doesn't wear it for you. it means shes comfortable around you and all that. make up is really a pain in the ass tho honestly, putting it on and removing it before bed, especially when your so tired.

just tell her you love it when she gets all dolled up for you, or tell her it turns you on. also like someone else said compliment her on how gorgeous she looks when she wearing it.

[erinlee01]

If YOU take her out somewhere special does she wear make up? Or are you pissed that she's not all dolled up while you're watching TV in your sweatpants? LOL If it's the latter, maybe you need to get all dressed up and take her out on the town. If it's the former, I'd be irked.

I wondered the same thing. If she doesn't wear makeup to go OUT with you, I'd wonder. But if you're talking about walking around the house, who does that?

[PLANETGETLOW]

Makeup before you wakeup

[bambifox]

Yes and No. IMO, it would depend on if she wears makeup with you when you all go out. Some woman (myself included) don't like to wear makeup unless going some place "special".

[Amanda76]

Makeup before you wakeup

brb--making PLANETGETLOW a sammich:

[Tiffany Wantsmore]

There's a fine line between being comfortable with someone and not bothering to make the effort any more. I agree with everyone else though, does she wear it if you take her out somewhere?

[SledgeBoy]

There's a fine line between being comfortable with someone and not bothering to make the effort any more. I agree with everyone else though, does she wear it if you take her out somewhere?

Yes, she wears it when we go out. She went to this party that I wasn't invited to and there was this guy there she use to like. Nothing happened but it still caused some drama for us and when she came back home I guess I noticed the makeup more because I was jealous and upset.

[Mighty Matt]

Well, this is not about the makeup. This is about the fact that she wants to look hot for other people.

[tryn2getstrong]

Yes, she wears it when we go out. She went to this party that I wasn't invited to and there was this guy there she use to like. Nothing happened but it still caused some drama for us and when she came back home I guess I noticed the makeup more because I was jealous and upset.

so you're saying that she wears makeup when she goes out, whether you're there or not. Hummmm, seems ........normal.

[SledgeBoy]

Well, this is not about the makeup. This is about the fact that she wants to look hot for other people.

BINGO. Wow, some of you other people are very slow.

[Amanda76]

Well, this is not about the makeup. This is about the fact that she wants to look hot for other people.

Probably has more to do with fitting into an environment where everyone else is looking their best. Not being the mousy, unkempt one of the group does not equal being out on the prowl.

[Amanda76]

BINGO. Wow, some of you other people are very slow.

Since she gets dressed up when you take her out, sounds like she likes to look good when she goes out, period. She prefers to be more natural and laid back when she's not doing much of anything. This is normal behavior for most people so you have to forgive our confusion over why someone would ask such a question.

[Npeart]

Since she gets dressed up when you take her out, sounds like she likes to look good when she goes out, period. She prefers to be more natural and laid back when she's not doing much of anything. This is normal behavior for most people so you have to forgive our confusion over why someone would ask such a question.

She should look good at all times, especially while fixing my sammich. . . .

LOL!!!

[morgansd12]

Do I have a right to be mad if my girlfriend doesn't wear makeup for me but then goes to party that I'm not at and wears a ton of makeup?

Hell yes!

Girl is feeling a little too safe in the relationship. You need to walk out son!