Admit it guys

[LovesMuscles]

lovesmuscles is cool with me. she funny. which makes me think she is prob a dude. ew.

you must be the owner of a vagina then

[no_strain_no_ga]

I dont love attention. I can handle, I might want it for awhile, but I dont need it. But chicks can easily win this one.

[YuMadThough]

Everyone likes positive attention but its the amount of effort that girls goto in order to get that attention that most guys dont like.
Most guys earn attention by having substance like dominating people around them or being the funniest coolest person in the group and the attention they recieve is a result of that whereas girls delibrately set out to get attention as their main goal by dressing in skimpy clothes and basicly holding a sign above their heads saying:-
"LOOK AT ME AND PAY ATTENTION TO ME BECAUSE IM FEMALE AND HAVE BREASTS SO I AUTOMATICLY DESERVE ATTENTION!!!!!!"

People who earn attention are looked upto and respected whereas people who delibrately set out for attention and then act like they are automaticly owed it are looked down on and disrespected.
Think of arnold schwarzenegger & paris hilton for example, one earns attention and is respected, the other thinks it is automaticly owed to her and is disrespected hence an attention whore.


Although i could just be talkin sht, its like 4am in the morning lol

[TheDukeUSMC]

Guys are always saying, "girls love attention" etc. as if they are past that and so much better than that, but I've come to the conclusion (a long time ago actually) that guys love attention just as much as girls do..am I right?

Yes

Also I'd like a hug.


Thanks/

[peng]

We all like positive attention. The difference is, men want it. Women NEED it.

It's like oxygen for their mental health. They need air to stay alive, and attention to stay mentally stable. (well, as mentally stable as a woman gets anyway)

[illbleed]

We love attention but we do not go out whoring for it. Well, on second thought...

[PowerBuilder08]

I love attention as much if not more than other people. I just don't go out of my way to get it. Meaning I won't start **** for the sake of attention, I just go about my day being the great guy I am

[Guardian]

Guys are always saying, "girls love attention" etc. as if they are past that and so much better than that, but I've come to the conclusion (a long time ago actually) that guys love attention just as much as girls do..am I right?

Imo the craving for attention stems from insecurity. Generally women tend to be alittle more insecure then men however in american society everyone seems to be insecure. Also, as we age mens insecurity tends to go down while womens tends to stay the same or even go up.

[Shadow666]

Guys are always saying, "girls love attention" etc. as if they are past that and so much better than that, but I've come to the conclusion (a long time ago actually) that guys love attention just as much as girls do..am I right?

wrong!

i hate attention, i rather just chill out and do my own thing.

[8282]

I couldn't be bothered reading the whole thread. But Ive always got attention from females ever since I can remember and I think Ive become somewhat dependant on it, its like an addiction. Ill admit its not a good attribute to have and Ive tried to change it but I cant. I like looking good, and I like it when girls look at me / check me out, it gives me a rush.

[ironman1964bc]

Men love attention too but are usually happy getting it off just their girl. Girls are never happy getting attention from just 1 man, no matter how much he gives her. Girls want attention from multiple guys.

Listen to the gossip around the water cooler on monday morning and you will always hear girls say "I had a good time saturday night, 12 different guys bought me drinks and 3 of them were cute".

A guy would say "I met this hot chick the other night and she was fine".

see the difference

[Lieb]

Seems like you are always whoring around in this section of the forum. More so, it seems like YOU are the one wanting the attention. Let alone, the stupid flirting that you did in one thread that I was reading. It was rather annoying. It's ****ty for you because it clearly shows that you cannot do it outside of the computer...not so social? Overall, I'm sure you're a nice chick, flirt all you want. I just want to make it clear that you are wanting the attention, so SHUT THE F*CK UP.

agree. from reading your posts you seem like a passive agressive attention whore (OP).

sidenote: you do have a sweet ass though, which further proves my point

[Jenflower2]

Thanks for the replies guys..love the honesty. Now don't turn this thread around to me and start calling me names. I never said I didn't like attention. I don't mind the attention but I don't need it. To prove it, see no avi. No big deal. It's the internet after all. It's fun to get some attention but not necessary.
But anyway I did enjoy reading the thread and have come to the same conslusion, that men need and love attention too but women in general may need a little more as a whole and I agree with Gaurdian, it may stem from insecurities and not getting enough as children OR conversely getting too much as children that we start to depend on it to feel good about ourselves.

[rampagefc77]

Like posting 30 threads a day with an avatar that resembles soft core porn flirting with guys and flaunting how much you like sex. I am not really complaining but you are desperately craving attention.

Anyways a lot of people on here a hypocrites anyways. Most of us actually work out and I love the attention I get from girls wanting to feel up my muscles and telling me how ripped I am.

x2 for the first part lol.

For the last- the reason i work out is NOT for attention. This is the only site i have a picture up without my shirt on (hence a bobybuilding forum). I would never flaunt my body, or use it as leverage for getting with a chick.

[Pad264]

Guys are always saying, "girls love attention" etc. as if they are past that and so much better than that, but I've come to the conclusion (a long time ago actually) that guys love attention just as much as girls do..am I right?

I'm coming in late to this thread, but I'd just like to say that for the most part I absolutely don't like attention. I love the solitude of being alone when I can. I think the majority of girls are far more social, and while it might not be that they crave attention, they certainly crave human company and conversation more than men (exceptions are obvious).

An easy example of my point is during a dinner with a girlfriend she has to recite every insignificant thing that happened to her during her day -- 99% of which I have no way of relating to as it concerns her job and people I have never met. I could just as easily respond in kind about my boring day, but what's the point? I just can't wrap my mind around why girls (in general) need to fill up every availible moment of silence with anything that pops in their head.

[Jenflower2]

x2 for the first part lol.

For the last- the reason i work out is NOT for attention. This is the only site i have a picture up without my shirt on (hence a bobybuilding forum). I would never flaunt my body, or use it as leverage for getting with a chick.

I don't overly flaunt my body IRL but I like wearing tight jeans and heels and looking nice. I work out so I can wear these things and look good. There is nothing wrong with flaunting what you got as long as you don't have a conceited attitude in addition.
I think women tend to flaunt their bodies more anyway, this is our way of attracting a mate.

[KennyK]

I don't overly flaunt my body IRL but I like wearing tight jeans and heels and looking nice. I work out so I can wear these things and look good. There is nothing wrong with flaunting what you got as long as you don't have a conceited attitude in addition.
I think women tend to flaunt their bodies more anyway, this is our way of attracting a mate.

why'd you take down your avi?

[JennaClaire]

why'd you take down your avi?

Maybe she's tired of being called out for spoon pics?

[KennyK]

Maybe she's tired of being called out for spoon pics?

she had a spoon pic

i thought she was tougher than that lol

[rampagefc77]

I don't overly flaunt my body IRL but I like wearing tight jeans and heels and looking nice. I work out so I can wear these things and look good. There is nothing wrong with flaunting what you got as long as you don't have a conceited attitude in addition.
I think women tend to flaunt their bodies more anyway, this is our way of attracting a mate.

and the most deceiving way of attracting a man, because as soon as we walk up and try to start a convo its all downhill. Most girls should spend more time in the classroom, less time getting drunk, taking pictures of themselves, etc.

I havent found an attractive + intelligent + good personality girl in a very long time....

[nedrud relyt]

bring back the hot avi

[Jenflower2]

why'd you take down your avi?

Just wanted to prove a point, that it's no biggie if I have it or not (it was initially intended to get the attention of just one person anyway) But if anyone wants to goggle over it, it's still on my main page.

[KennyK]

Just wanted to prove a point, that it's no biggie if I have it or not (it was initially intended to get the attention of just one person anyway) But if anyone wants to goggle over it, it's still on my main page.

it was dog20


wasn't it?

[rampagefc77]

Just wanted to prove a point, that it's no biggie if I have it or not (it was initially intended to get the attention of just one person anyway) But if anyone wants to goggle over it, it's still on my main page.

strong attention seeking tactics...

[user437490845hjge]

Guys don't say girls want attention from a stance of moral rectitude, they say it to explain their behavior. Everyone wants attention but girls do it through their looks because like it or not its how they are judged by both guys and girls.

[Ellimist]

Reading through the posts the past couple of days has really made me see the double standard this forum has in terms of gender.

The second a female posts in a thread, she will get at least 2-3 replies, and at least one of them will be the guy flirting with her. A lot of the times the comments will be derogatory or sexist.

But if a female flirts back, even if its with an innocent response, she is instantly an attention whore. God forbid she responds more than once.

As for a response to this thread: we all like good attention. Nobody likes bad attention. As I said before, we all want to be wanted.

[KennyK]

Reading through the posts the past couple of days has really made me see the double standard this forum has in terms of gender.

The second a female posts in a thread, she will get at least 2-3 replies, and at least one of them will be the guy flirting with her. A lot of the times the comments will be derogatory or sexist.

But if a female flirts back, even if its with an innocent response, she is instantly an attention whore. God forbid she responds more than once.

As for a response to this thread: we all like good attention. Nobody likes bad attention. As I said before, we all want to be wanted.

lol

x2

i.e the elle sunshine event.

constantly ask for nudes

finally get nudes

misc labels her a whore

wtf?

[Jenflower2]

and the most deceiving way of attracting a man, because as soon as we walk up and try to start a convo its all downhill. Most girls should spend more time in the classroom, less time getting drunk, taking pictures of themselves, etc.

I havent found an attractive + intelligent + good personality girl in a very long time....

People should do what makes them happy.

But I will agree that it's very difficult to find all those perfect qualities in a man too (but I think I may have found him...just maybe...and it's a really good feeling!)
If we were able to easily find the perfect package within everyone, just think of how many options we would have..way too many, that's for sure.

[BballBuilder]

Reading through the posts the past couple of days has really made me see the double standard this forum has in terms of gender.

The second a female posts in a thread, she will get at least 2-3 replies, and at least one of them will be the guy flirting with her. A lot of the times the comments will be derogatory or sexist.

But if a female flirts back, even if its with an innocent response, she is instantly an attention whore. God forbid she responds more than once.

As for a response to this thread: we all like good attention. Nobody likes bad attention. As I said before, we all want to be wanted.

Because it's cool to hate on women..... A lot of butthurt guys in here that have had their hearts broken and feel the need to lash out.

[nedrud relyt]

People should do what makes them happy.

But I will agree that it's very difficult to find all those perfect qualities in a man too (but I think I may have found him...just maybe...and it's a really good feeling!)
If we were able to easily find the perfect package within everyone, just think of how many options we would have..way too many, that's for sure.

x2.