i've been seeing my girlfriend for two years now
one year ago she moved in with me
two months ago her mom got cancer and she moved 2 hours away to take care of her
for the last two months we have seen eachother about six times
two weeks ago she tells me that she is planning on staying out there to go to school over the summer and both semesters next year
we always knew she'd be going to school there for next year, the news was that she wouldn't be coming back before that.
she says she is getting a place with her cousin by the school. over the last week she started fixing it up and getting furniture.
i went out to visit it with her and she was going to get the upstairs. it is a tiny upstairs, one room on each side of the stairs leading up there, each room is connected to the other on each side by a short hallway.
last night she tells me that her ex from 4 years ago came by to help them move things in and that she thinks he's gonna move in with them and get the other tiny upstairs room.
the whole situation is bad enough, is that crossing the line?
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so if i tell her that i don't want him moving in there later today, what do i do supposing she goes with the "you don't trust me?"
Cliffs
-girlfriend of 2 years moved 2 hours away to care for sick mom
-decides to stay out there for 1.5-2 years for school
-starts moving in with her cousin
-decides it would be a good idea for her and her ex to share the upstairs
-what do i say?
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