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Thread: Marriage is pointless....
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04-03-2008, 07:30 AM #31
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04-03-2008, 07:31 AM #32
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04-03-2008, 07:32 AM #33
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04-03-2008, 07:33 AM #34
x315 ive always seen marriage as a way to keep people under control, just like religion, anyone who isn't brainwashed by society can see that
not being married dosen't mean you'll be alone either, in the end, you'll make more money, have less stress and probably meet more people
my ideal plan is to live my life till im 60, then if i choose to marry it will only be for the purpose of passing on my name and it would be to a foreign women since they are more reliable
but i just turned 19 so wtf do i know
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04-03-2008, 07:35 AM #35
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04-03-2008, 07:38 AM #36
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Avatar Pic was from Oct 2008. Then gained some weight as all I do is WORK!
Started the 2013 Summer Cut in Decemeber. Was at 201 lbs after some nice gains....
12/12/12: 201
1/4/13: 197
1/31/13: 192
2/15/13: 188
2/28/13: 185
3/15/13: 182
GOAL is 175 by 4/15/13....
"It never occurs to me that there are things that I can't do."
Failure is not defeat...Defeat is accepting failure as the final outcome...
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04-03-2008, 07:39 AM #37
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04-03-2008, 07:39 AM #38
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04-03-2008, 07:41 AM #39
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04-03-2008, 07:41 AM #40
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04-03-2008, 07:42 AM #41
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EACH one of those are faults of you own and not because of natural feelings and/or feeling or doings of another individual involved, except for driving and...well...those odds are low. Im giving you 50/50 odds at best (even less to be happily married) and it is not just you trying and being determined that will determine the success.Avatar Pic was from Oct 2008. Then gained some weight as all I do is WORK!
Started the 2013 Summer Cut in Decemeber. Was at 201 lbs after some nice gains....
12/12/12: 201
1/4/13: 197
1/31/13: 192
2/15/13: 188
2/28/13: 185
3/15/13: 182
GOAL is 175 by 4/15/13....
"It never occurs to me that there are things that I can't do."
Failure is not defeat...Defeat is accepting failure as the final outcome...
-Me
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04-03-2008, 07:42 AM #42
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04-03-2008, 07:43 AM #43
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04-03-2008, 07:44 AM #44
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04-03-2008, 07:44 AM #45
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hahah, but the ones at the parlour are the best! lol....seriously tho, you are correct, their are HAPPY endings in marriage. MY PARENTS have been HAPPILY married for 31 years now! They still hold hands in the mall for christ's sake and I am sooo happy for them. My dad is awesome and so is my mom, but I look at every, yes every (bar none) friend that they grew up with and not one is with the original person they married OR been faithful to that person.
Avatar Pic was from Oct 2008. Then gained some weight as all I do is WORK!
Started the 2013 Summer Cut in Decemeber. Was at 201 lbs after some nice gains....
12/12/12: 201
1/4/13: 197
1/31/13: 192
2/15/13: 188
2/28/13: 185
3/15/13: 182
GOAL is 175 by 4/15/13....
"It never occurs to me that there are things that I can't do."
Failure is not defeat...Defeat is accepting failure as the final outcome...
-Me
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04-03-2008, 07:44 AM #46
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04-03-2008, 07:46 AM #47
- Join Date: Jun 2006
- Location: Henrietta, New York, United States
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Avatar Pic was from Oct 2008. Then gained some weight as all I do is WORK!
Started the 2013 Summer Cut in Decemeber. Was at 201 lbs after some nice gains....
12/12/12: 201
1/4/13: 197
1/31/13: 192
2/15/13: 188
2/28/13: 185
3/15/13: 182
GOAL is 175 by 4/15/13....
"It never occurs to me that there are things that I can't do."
Failure is not defeat...Defeat is accepting failure as the final outcome...
-Me
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04-03-2008, 07:47 AM #48
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I refuse to be included in such statistics. I haven't lived my life, so how the hell can someone put statistics and odds on what I'm going to do. I can do whatever the hell I feel like doing.
It is a shield of passion and strong will. From this, I am the victor, instead of the kill.
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04-03-2008, 07:48 AM #49
Not really, I just think people need to be together longer than 2 years before getting married. Live together for 5 years and then see what you both want to do. I don't like odd's (in the way of sports betting for instance), because the only thing that matters is how you "play" at that time...that's it.
All you gotta do is find someone that makes you happy. Most of the time people say they are happy, but then you find out the back story and it's like they never even took a minute to look at all of the problems that eventually blew up in their face...For every egg yolk you don't eat, I'll eat three.
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04-03-2008, 07:50 AM #50
QFT.
What is with the fear of being independent? I realize there's a lot of societal pressure to be "married" and I understand the purpose of traditional families and such, but I just don't understand the marginal benefit of "marriage" beyond a committed, long term relationship between, besides the financial aspect.----------------------
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04-03-2008, 07:50 AM #51
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You aren't comprehending what 'statistics and odds' are. If I were to say the odds of my football team converting a forth and one is 40% and teams have converted 16 out of 40 this year, that doesnt mean I cant convert it. It doesnt take into account my O Line is way bigger than other teams and I have the best running back in the league, its just stating that those are the odds and statistics.
So maybe you beat the 'odds', but odds are, you dont...get it?Avatar Pic was from Oct 2008. Then gained some weight as all I do is WORK!
Started the 2013 Summer Cut in Decemeber. Was at 201 lbs after some nice gains....
12/12/12: 201
1/4/13: 197
1/31/13: 192
2/15/13: 188
2/28/13: 185
3/15/13: 182
GOAL is 175 by 4/15/13....
"It never occurs to me that there are things that I can't do."
Failure is not defeat...Defeat is accepting failure as the final outcome...
-Me
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04-03-2008, 07:51 AM #52
Only reason i could ever see getting married would be to better my lot in life. you people act like "love" is a real thing. Yes you can have strong obsessive feelings or emotions for someone, but remember, love is just a made up term to describe the irrational attraction so many of us have suffered. People think love is forever, but how often is it really? Have you ever fallin in and out of love? If so, what makes you think it is impossible for it to happen again? Especially when you factor in how much a situation or scenerio leads to "love" just as much as actualy compatibility. Ever had a friend who because of his current circumstance, you just knew he would fall in love with his next gf... no matter what? Now what happens when them circumstances change? what happens when you no longer have this hot 20 something pyt running around ****ing your brains out twice a day? Are you still gonna be in love with an obese 30 year old, with 4 kids, a mortgage payment that late, and 2 jobs?
think about it.
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04-03-2008, 07:53 AM #53
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04-03-2008, 07:54 AM #54
Okay, this has been bugging me
The stat that says most marriages fail is crap and here's why
Have your attention yet? I'll make this brief. Just engage your mind for a minute before quoting that stat again and think about it. If 2 people stay together forever, their marriage counts for 1 on the side of the scale for marriages that lasted and did NOT end in divorce. HOWEVER, how many of us know people who have been married 3, 4, even 5 times? Every one of that 1 person's failed marriages counts on the side of the scale of marriages that ended in divorce. That's not fair! Of course there's going to be an alarmingly high statistic for divorces...but that doesn't mean MOST people get divorced. In fact, since the stat is still close to 50/50, that means most people stay married forever! It's the people who have some "faithfulness defect" built into them that screws up the stats.
So please, stop quoting that fact as ANY reason to stay away from marriage because MOST people do NOT get divorced. The people that DO divorce end up having multiple marriages and that just messes things up when comparing the 2.Do everything in your power to be legendary.
-Shark-
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04-03-2008, 07:55 AM #55
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04-03-2008, 07:56 AM #56
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04-03-2008, 07:57 AM #57
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04-03-2008, 07:58 AM #58
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04-03-2008, 07:58 AM #59
- Join Date: Jun 2006
- Location: Henrietta, New York, United States
- Age: 45
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Avatar Pic was from Oct 2008. Then gained some weight as all I do is WORK!
Started the 2013 Summer Cut in Decemeber. Was at 201 lbs after some nice gains....
12/12/12: 201
1/4/13: 197
1/31/13: 192
2/15/13: 188
2/28/13: 185
3/15/13: 182
GOAL is 175 by 4/15/13....
"It never occurs to me that there are things that I can't do."
Failure is not defeat...Defeat is accepting failure as the final outcome...
-Me
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04-03-2008, 07:58 AM #60
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